i think that everyone online has done a disservice to me by saying its ok to show emotion and be overly vulnerable. Deep down nobody respects a man who does
>>12837600i like the rabbit if anything
>>12837626what about the message
>>12837675i think it’s beautiful for anyone men and women to show emotion but im not going to combat his claim because it’s true that they are criticized for it more likely then notno one is completley safe from criticism whether what they are doing is right or wrong because everyone has differing opinions so there is no way to avoid prejudice pride and prejudice will kill us all 1000 times over
>>12837682but the same way i don't want someone to have prejudice against me, it always makes me feel superior and better when someone else shows vulnerability. Maybe I'm a narc, maybe it's part of being human
>>12837800that is also another part of the human conditionwe have a natural instinct to reign supreme, to dominate, and to win at everything when someone else is vulnerable you are naturally compelled to feel like you are stronger because you have strenght in something that they do not have strength in
It's perfectly okay to show your significant other vulnerability and express strong emotions like passion, but you can't be a little bitch and whine or cry. That doesn't mean you can't be vulnerable, but you have to use your words carefully
>>12837804You're right maybe my version of vulnerable is being a little bitch
>>12837804if there’s anyone you should be able to be a whiny bitch infront of it should be your significant other, because they are the person who is supposed to love you wholeheartedlyotherwise if you don’t believe you can do it infront of anyone then that sets the expectation that you can never do it at all to anyone which is unrealistic
>>12837809Maybe it's because you're a girl(?) but women get the pass to be allowed to literally whine and cry, men don't because it's unsightly whereas women are to be babied and pampered
>>12837815a crying man is beautiful and attractive also arent women meant to pamper men because they should be a womanly and motherly figure
>>12837815Before I always wanted to be strong and resilient. I realized though over time I started valuing being vulnerable instead, seeing that as the correct version of being strong. Now when I think of how a man is traditionally supposed to act, I can't even come to terms with it. If I never used the Internet so much I would e been better off I think
>>12837823>a crying man is beautiful and attractiveContext matters. Tears of happiness is beautiful, tears of empathy is attractive, tears because things aren't going your way or your man can't handle your crazy is a major ick. I guess both genders spoil each other depending on the relationship but it's women by far that get babied
>>12837858You have to pick and choose what you're vulnerable with and what it communicates. You can tell your girl that you miss her because you want her around. Being vulnerable about something like your girl interacting with another guy and getting jealous over it points to insecurity, which is what's actually unattractive. Really I think you need to reframe your mindset and instead of thinking "it's not okay to be vulnerable" you should think "it's not okay to be insecure" and work on the insecurities you do have
>>12837870You know that makes more sense than my epiphany
deep down nobody should care who respects youif humanity at large dislikes you it means you are doing something right
>>12837897heil hitler
>>12837861idk I don’t talk to conventional men or women and I don’t socialize with people outside of people who are losers like me or who understand what it’s like to be one so I don’t care to appeal to the conventions of how you should conduct yourself emotionally I only speak to those who can accept when someone is feeling hurt also I was referring to tears of all kinds including sadnessI understand what it’s like to speak with and the implications of being with a normal woman or man but I’m not enough of a masochist to ever subject myself to it, it would never make me happy and the only thing it would satisfy is just having a partner and someone who will love and sleep with you but what I need is having a partner who I love wholly
>>12837909>I’m not enough of a masochist to ever subject myself to it, it would never make me happyTrue, you kinda need that dawg in you in order to play the game of love. I see it like a beautiful dance where when done right, even though the two of you are throwing curve balls at each other and seeing how the other reacts, you don't even notice it if you both are on the same page; as if the two of you are in lockstep
>>12837909Nta, but I think you're idealizing outcasts as saints
>>12837915Damn you've got some wisdom
>>12837941I've had my heart broken and rebuilt many times
>>12837941the magic knight hime is also wise......................no?......................
>>12837905what's interesting is that's a pop idea nowso therefor you are doing something wrong
>>12837965no, you're just full of yourself
you BOTS talking about emotion like anything you do or show isn’t a vapid narcissistic appeal to your EGO disgusts me, if not that how can I DECEIVE you to get a reaction I-I-I WANTyou’re anything but GENUINE because you don’t want to be seen as UNDESIRABLE only a naive infantile immature little baby who cries about anything not going their way isn’t 2 faced
>>12837977nice dubs but you failed to make a coherent thought and I have no idea what you're trying to say, only that you're saying it angrily for some reason
>>12837969this reply seems like the poster is pretty full of himself
>>12838008bitch please
>>12837800dubs
>>12837897If you reach lolcow levels of hate because you're a total degenerate going against firmly established human conventions, I think you're definitely doing something wrong. I feel like it's acceptable to shake social conventions to a certain extent but not go too far.Your fortune: Average Luck
