>>34143691
What are your thoughts on American Beauty

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>>34143691

Query for girls:
- do you enjoy getting eaten out (cunnilingus)? If yes what do you like about or if not what you don't like about it?
- do you like kissing and/or being kissed on your body? If yes what do you like about or if not what you don't like about it?
- how important or unimportant is being penetrated during sex for you? Can you easily orgasm without any penetration whatsover or do you need to be stretched/filled? If yes, why?
- how important is skinship to you? Do you enjoy taking showers/baths with you significant other? Sleep naked with them?

For extra naughty girls:
- what the hell is the appeal of pegging a guy? It's just using a dildo on him with extra steps! Is it the hands-free feature, the pseudo-sodomy, the reversal of roles?
- if you consume homoerotica (male) of any kind is it because of the beefcake visuals or something else?

>>34144716
Query for girls:
>- do you enjoy getting eaten out (cunnilingus)? If yes what do you like about or if not what you don't like about it?
Never had it done on me. I’ve only ever been with two people sexually, and one had sexual trauma so he doesn’t go down on people. Other one was a short lived relationship so it just never happened. I’m fine with that, I honestly get a bit squigged out at the idea now of someone down there with their tongue.

>- do you like kissing and/or being kissed on your body? If yes what do you like about or if not what you don't like about it?
Totally! Kisses are so sweet, and extra fun when they’re sexual or leaning that way. I love kissing when I have a boyfriend, it’s so sweet, fun, and it makes both me and him happy. I’m told I’m a good kisser too! As for kisses elsewhere, oh you bet. I love down the neck or boobs, if he starts sucking on them while he’s at it? Even better.

>- how important or unimportant is being penetrated during sex for you? Can you easily orgasm without any penetration whatsover or do you need to be stretched/filled? If yes, why?
All I really know so yes, VERY important, but I don’t think I’ve ever orgasmed before.

>- how important is skinship to you? Do you enjoy taking showers/baths with you significant other? Sleep naked with them?
Never heard it called that but very. Touch is either my primary or secondary love language, I need it. I had an ex who was anti PDA, which was really hard for me. He’d scold me if I did anything more than handholding in public, not even hugs. Drove me nuts. Showers/baths with an SO are romantic and sensual, and sleeping together like that is great and almost guarantees sex will happen, before bed or in the morning after.

Hope that helps.

>>34145259
>and one had sexual trauma so he doesn’t go down on people
You experienced the most polite way to say that the pussy stinks.

>>34145283
sexual trauma is not a joke

>>34145283
No, definitely not the case. He went into detail about the nature of his trauma, which was later corroborated by a childhood friend of his, and he had told me about the trauma before we did anything sexual so I could be aware.

Nice try.

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>>34143691
Women what swimwear do you like to wear?

>>34147439
Even if I had a better bod, not a bikini. That’s just asking for trouble. One pieces are underrated, tankini and boy shorts work too.

>>34147439
None, I purposefully haven't gone swimming since puberty

>>34147439
sports bra and biker shorts

>>34147439
big tshirt and shorts

>>34144716
Touching my clit gets me off, penetration I can take it or leave it
I don't like being touched outside of sex
I don't like kissing at all
Pegging is hot because I like dominating guys, even better if he's hesitant

>women pretending to be dominant
lmao

>>34149146
You're just asking for my fist in your ass

>>34149153
You'd get folded in half immediately if you tried.

>>34149158
Not if you're roofied
I bet you never watch your drink around women

>>34149162
Wrong. And if you somehow did manage to do this you better kill me after you're done, because one of us is going to end up dead.

hey, if the girl from blue /atoga/ is here:
K1y4Qp4NBPnbNTjW22Pnsj6cSuRQlYp@proton.me

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Need to use this.

Femanon, pls post areola

Do women actually like sex or is it just a tool to get men to do what they want?

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>>34147859
>That’s just asking for trouble.
I live in California and 99% of women at the beach wear a bikini.
>>34147899
Why not?
>>34149043
>big tshirt
Ho do you swim in that?

>>34149974
yes

>>34149974
What if the women want sex and and use it to get what they want?

>>34143691
Is it normal for every guy you talk to to have an air of aloofness/disinterest and feeling confused by them? Does that just mean I'm really ugly and they don't really like me?

>>34150887
We have to do that. If we don't, we open ourselves up to being accused of being a creep.

>>34150981
What if I'm the creepy one

>>34150993
Women basically can't be creepy. Not saying it can never happen, but you have to try really hard. For most men though, that's just the default.

>>34151016
it was kind of a joke, but what if I want and like that energy from a guy?

>>34151025
No guy is ever going to believe that. Not for a second.

>>34151034
?!?! That's like, the only way I can know for certain a guy likes me.

>>34151036
Sorry lady. I don't make the rules.

>>34151071
Lame. I'm never dating again

>>34151076
Same.

>>34150372
So do I but I still don’t

>>34151016
I think I came close.
>See a cute guy recommended to me on Facebook back when I had it.
>Peruse his interests, he’s into TTRPGs and one of the systems I know.
>Check local Meetups for said system. >Jackpot
>Join Meetup
>Invited to Discord server
>Ask a few innocuous questions for a day
>Casually ask about said guy
>Say he hadn’t been active in a long time and point me to his username
>Fuck me
>Go back to Facebook
>Build up the courage to message him
>Next day
>Profile removed or blocked
>RIP

I think I’m the only woman I know who’s done this

>>34151432
Yeah you have me beat, I'm impressed

>>34151432
That's probably further than most women would go, but that's not even close to creepy. Unless he's an ex or he's rejected you in the past, this most likely would not have bothered him at all.

Not a gender-specific question, but do people actually work 40+ years without ending it all? I’m a year into the professional world - I have, quite frankly, a very easy job - and I want to kill myself at least 3/4 of the time I’m clocked in.
>>34143691
>do you enjoy getting eaten out?
Yeah. I almost exclusively get off on clitoral stimulation, so it’s nice to have that be the primary focus. I get overstimulated easily and something in my stupid animal brain is scared of cumming, but if I can chill the hell out it’s great.
>do you like kissing and/or being kissed on your body?
I hate anything more than pecks on the mouth. Tongues are gross and feel weird, I never know what I’m supposed to do. I do, however, like body kisses. I like being able to pull my partner close and give him a kiss on the shoulder or something. It feels like there’s no obligation, just saying that I love and appreciate them.
I also had a tendency to kiss my ex’s dick before head, which he thought was weird. :(
>how important or unimportant is being penetrated during sex for you?
I would love to be able to say I enjoy it - it’s something I like thinking and reading about - but every time I have attempted penetration with something wider in width than a sharpie, it has been agonizing. I’ve never cum from it. At this point I’m holding out for someone who is either asexual or has a micropenis.
>how important is skinship to you?
Extremely. Best part of being in a relationship, imo.
>what the hell is the appeal of pegging a guy?
I have crazy penis envy and getting to bend a cute guy over and make him whine on my “dick” helps.
I have a permanant tab open about some dude’s prosthetic cock research. God willing, I will fill a cute boy with my cum someday.
>if you consume homoerotica (male) of any kind is it because of the beefcake visuals or something else?
I like everything from bara to traps. Gay shit makes it easier to distance myself from the characters.

>>34154372
historically men had a reason to work. to provide and care for his family, a 'purpose'. because that's been denied to most men now they're mostly working "because I'm supposed to" which leads to the chronic depression widespread amongst younger males.

>>34154372
having a fulfilling job helps, one where ur directly helping ppl, also an infinite skill ceiling requiring lifelong learning keeps things busy. but at the end of the day it’s a job and it’s really stressful at times and id rather not have to work but I don’t want to be financially dependent on a man so i do what I gotta do and show up. i don’t love it but I don’t wanna kill myself over it (most days). If I was an uber driver or coal miner or something line that I’d prob off myself tho cause that shit is so tedious

she is gonna come back any minute now right?

>>34150887
In the post #MeToo era, you basically can't make any moves on a woman unless you've confirmed 100% without a shadow of a doubt that she likes you. Otherwise she might decide to accuse you of rape and fuck up your life.

>>34157667
sorry bro. she's probable gone forever.

>>34159327
many such cases in my sad chuddy life

>>34157667
Why not just message or add her back?

>>34159679
done all this, for all i know she could be dead

>>34158171
unless you're chad, then you can do anything you want. sexual harassment laws really only exist to shield women from sub-8 men.

>>34160375
Is /r9k/ leaking?

>>34149165
>thinks he can kill a woman while roofied
calm down chuddy, no need to try to cope.

>>34164663
I said after she's done. Not surprising that simps are also illiterate.

Question for femanons:

If you had a daughter and you found out she was doing slutty stuff, would you reprimand her? Or would you help her hide it from daddy?

36 m us here

>>34164742
worthless piss of trash of a wife if she did

Question for girls:
where the fuck do you expect to meet guys? I basically cannot find any place where women under 40 exist, can't even get rejected because there are no women in hobby groups or elsewhere. Except on dating apps, but I don't want to date a whore that's been with hundreds of men.

>>34151432
I'd be flattered if that happened to me, still not creepy because you are a woman (unless you are a 1-2/10 or something)

>>34165932
A woman like this wouldn't be posting on 4chan

>>34164736
I don't see why someone who went through the effort of drugging you would stay after they're done. so it's still a moot point. also nice further cope on the simp part, because some rando posting on a random fucking thread is totally doing it because women, right? yeah, sure buddy.

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>>34143691
Women, what sexual encounters have you had with another woman?

>>34167796
She's not gonna fuck you, bro. Not even if she's the one doing the fucking, as much as you might want that.

>>34154372
>do people actually work 40+ years without ending it all
seemingly so but I never stay in a job for longer than a few months for said reason

>>34168233
did she reject you or something? I'm not sure why you're projecting this hard unless it's personal. maybe want therapy if all you can think about is who wants to fuck who and how other people must feel that way. is it a cuck holding thing for you? I'
m sorry I can't relate to that type of mental illness to the point of thinking about simping for women the way you do.

>>34170729
You don't think about things before you do them? Wow. Not very smart.

>>34170799
where did you even get that from? damn nigga you really are retarded.

>>34171247
>can't relate to thinking about simping (implying you've never done it)
>simp anyway
This is literally third grade reading comprehension and you still don't get it.

>>34171255
yeah because agreeing with an implied woman isn't simping. if you had common sense, someone claiming they are a woman means nothing because this board is filled with troons in the first place, so if that was my goal I certainly wouldn't be trying here. I think the person who doesn't think much is you. I commented because I thought you were a fucking moron, not because I cared what that other person thought, and this just proves that. I'm sorry you can't conceptualize anything beyond hypothetical female attention, but projecting that doesn't change the fact it's clearly the only thought going on in your head.

>>34172118
You were acting like the meme of the bartender. Absolutely begging for female attention. Simp.

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Femanons:
I was on a first date with a girl and we were holding hands on a park bench. She went to rest her head on my shoulder but then stopped herself. I wanted to make a cute comment that she could rest her head there but wasn't sure if it was like rude to point it out. If I had said "No, it's ok. You can put your head there." Would that have been ok? I want to preface this is less of "I'm overthinking about this girl" and more "I'm autistic and don't know if socially that is acceptable on a date."

As a gay man, I can't get over the idea that the thought of someone dating one of you sounds like it would be difficult. How do I get over the notion that all women are hysterical or ruled by their emotions? Don't get me wrong: gay men can be like that, but the chances of a woman being a crazy bitch vs a man being a crazy bitch (gay or straight) are a little skewed.

>>34144716
>- do you enjoy getting eaten out? If yes what do you like about or if not what you don't like about it?
Yes, but I hesitate sometimes because I get worried about how I taste even though I take my pussy probiotics and all that. I’ve never had any complaints though and most of the time it was my sexual partner’s idea.

>- do you like kissing and/or being kissed on your body? If yes what do you like about or if not what you don't like about it?
If I had to pick between kissing or cuddling, I would pick cuddling. Don’t get me wrong, I still like kissing. But touching or groping is just as effective on me.

>- how important or unimportant is being penetrated during sex for you? Can you easily orgasm without any penetration whatsover? If yes, why?
It certainly makes it more enjoyable but I have to rub my clit to orgasm anyways. So I don’t “need” it ig

>- how important is skinship to you? Do you enjoy taking showers/baths with you significant other? Sleep naked with them?
I like it. Taking showers together is fun but it always leads to sex at the end. Cuddling while sleeping, either naked or clothed is always awesome.

>For extra naughty girls:
okay I believe this applies to me
>- what the hell is the appeal of pegging a guy? It's just using a dildo on him with extra steps! Is it the hands-free feature, the pseudo-sodomy, the reversal of roles?
I haven’t gotten the chance to peg but I have plenty of rimming experience, and a finger in the ass during a blowjob never hurt anybody. I do enjoy the idea of being more dominant. So I guess power dynamics.

>- if you consume homoerotica (male) of any kind is it because of the beefcake visuals or something else?
I do sometimes, I consider myself bi/pan because I don’t really care about the genders or parts of people in the porn I watch. Good sex is good sex and that’s good enough for me. Not really into the beefcake visuals. I prefer softer looking men

Looking to chat with a cute cis female or femboy, trap, pre-op MtF trans

Not even necessarily looking for anything sexual we can just chill as friends then if more happens then cool but there's no pressure!

I'm tall, bearded, handsome (so I've been told), masculine, pretty built up yet not fat and can actually hold a conversation. I'm pretty chill and easy going with whatever.
If you're interested then add me

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>>34154372
>do people actually work 40+ years without ending it all?
Only if they're a financially illiterate NPC. If you can spare a weekend to learn basic bitch investing knowledge, and possess the discipline to set aside a couple hundred a month to invest, then you can be in a position to retire in 20 years or less, easily. Certainly no more than 30 years; the only reason to still be working after 30 years is because you find purpose, reward, and joy in your work.

>>34163695
He's not wrong, though.

>>34169969
Smart; no real reason to stay at a job more than two years.

M 22 here i just wanna know from that real femanons out there, what would u consider as a big white dick ;)

Please be honest and answer with more then just a number

Ty all for answering have a great day

>>34154372
>God willing, I will fill a cute boy with my cum someday.
Unironically pushed me over the edge and made me cum. This is gonna happen btw, some research into how anatomy emerges from individual cells makes me think actual girls with actual dicks will be possible this century.

t. Submissive failure daydreamer

>>34154372
Also funnily enough I don't like tongue kissing either and ideally I'd be the bottom 100% of the time (so no penetration). I really like physical closeness and cuddling too. Too bad I'm an ogre.

Why do females complain about the orgasm gap and men not knowing what a clitoris is, but then insist on the sort of sex that is way less likely to stimulate a clitoris effectively, and insist on going for the type of men who are far more likely to only care about getting themselves off?

Do females just not actually like sex at all and just pretend they care about it as a way to browbeat men?

>>34174734
Please help an autist out.

>>34174734
Dude yeah you definitely should've said something

>>34179242
This is obviously a pornbot but that pussy looks wretched. I thought it was a ballsack at first.

>>34179253
Agreed, even from just the thumbnail I could tell that thing looked like someone tried to carve a turkey with a power drill.

>>34178805
I guess I wasn't sure if it was rude to point it out or not

Do girls actually masturbate for pleasure or do they just do it on camera for money?

>>34149541
>Not a single femanon posted areola
:(

>>34147913
that hotter than lingerie

>>34151036
just ask him out. Tell him "its okay to say no but would you date me?" then don't make it weird if he says no.
definitely don't ask why if he says no.

Alternatively, you can just write your number down and hand it to him, tell him you're interested, then walk away. Put the ball in their court and don't hover

>>34181750
Not the thread for that

>>34182893
This thread exists specifically for people from /atoga/ to be able to post NSFW stuff.

Bump

>>34175915
I was with a guy who was 7 & 1/2 inches, that was pretty big. But he had a thick cock too and I think that makes a difference. Length isn’t everything. I prefer a more proportional penis

>>34178719
Every time I’ve had sex I’ve stimulated my clit until I cum. No complaints from either party there. If we’re having sex in a position that makes it hard for me to reach my clit, then I’ll enjoy the penetration as is and we’ll switch to another position later so I can cum. I do enjoy sex and I enjoy orgasming. If the dude gets to nut then I don’t see why I shouldn’t

>>34181415
I masturbate, on average, three times a day and I don’t have the time or energy to upload every single nut I bust onto the internet. Wish I did because maybe I wouldn’t be as broke

>>34184437
>Three times a day
Holy shit is this normal for women or are you just a turbogoonette?

>>34184451
When I’m depressed I masturbate more. I’m currently more depressed than usual so yes, 3x a day is pretty normal for me. Idk about other women but I would say a good majority probably masturbate more than you would think. My record is 15 times in one day but I was having a competition with my friend. I don’t recommend it

>>34184623
Relatable, especially when not stimulated via other means. Also I find that cumming more often over a period fo time ( say a week) increases the want to do it more. That being said, I find things have slowed down now that I'm in my eary thirties. Teens and twenties was a massacre. M btw

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Question for femanons and anons alike,
How far and how much humor is too much?

I’ve been single for almost a year now so I think I’m recovered from my previous relationship and ready to jump back into the dating pool, however, even with my advantage of being female, I am incredibly awkward and a bit spergy. I have often found myself accidentally pushing things too far humor wise. For example, the time I used my 9/11 truther pickup line got me blocked from the guy’s Facebook. Another time a guy on a dating app said “Ask me the crazy questions” so I asked him why Jedi aren’t naked in the afterlife and he immediately unmatched me. Tons of examples abound, but those two are off the top of my head.

I also have the issue of being very weird once I’m aware I like someone. I either avoid them completely while glancing at them secretly, do awkward things, or just outright confess, to mixed results.

I’m dreading getting back on the apps, because fuck me how else are you supposed to meet people? Anyways, any advice on how to help a long time 4chan female figure it out would be much appreciated. Thanks.

>>34184639
Yeah that makes sense! When I’m depressed I’m usually at home more often and I get bored easily. For me it’s just a way to pass time and get a quick dopamine rush. I have the advantage of being able to cum pretty quickly compared to a lot of women so it really doesn’t take a lot of time out of my day.

>>34184646
M here: Try to avoid opening with a joke. Then as you get to know the person and the conversation goes on, probe different levels of humour. Adjust how you talk to them depending on the reaction. Don't jump into 9/11 jokes, because even if they did find them funny, using that as an opener can be seen as weird.

Don't try too hard, just have a conversation. Same thing on your other issue. You become hyper-aware that you like someone and then it's like saying "you're now awre of your breathing" and then it becomes robotic. Just go with the flow. I know it's easier said than done, but that's the best course of action. As a girl you have many more options so no point in worrying about a fail state. You sound young, you'll feel more confident with experience and age.

>>34184656
I feel ya. Even when I've been in a relationship, sometimes you just wanna do it yourself. You're not feeling like having sex as much as the pure physical sensation and rush. As a guy, sex comes with stuff like aftercare for the other person etc and sometimes you just wanna cum lol. Plus, after the first few times there is less to clean up which is a plus.

>>34184667
Oh, didn’t jump right in with the 9/11 jokes, this was a guy I knew for a while albeit through friends who had a history of prancing him (which sometimes I participated in) possibly why he blocked me at that point.

Thanks for the tips, Anon, much obliged.

Femanons. We all know guys stare at women's boobs everyday. But do you ever look for a guy's buldge in public? At a store, walking down the street, whatever,

Do you ever look to see if he's packing?
Do you think you can tell if a guy is big or not just from glancing at his crotch?
If you are looking at crotches, does this mean you are interested/attracted to that man?
If you can see the outline of a dick through pants, does it turn you on?

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>>34143691
women thoughts on this music?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VU14KcypvV8

>>34184623
>>34184639
Is it just normal for women to masturbate multiple times in a day? As a guy whenever I nut I usually get so tired I have to sleep it off. And I think jerking off that much would rub my dick raw. I'd be a dermatological marvel

>>34175932
>>34175937
Happy to help, anon. If it's any consolation, last time I got rated (that I was aware of) I was a solid 2. Wishing you luck finding a sweet domme.
>>34156227
That makes sense. I have pretty good interactions with my customers, but I don't feel like I'm really doing anything for the world as a whole, and I'm not using my education whatsoever. May be time to look elsewhere - appreciate your insight.
>>34175618
Any recommendations for resources to get started? I have very low expenses at the moment, so I imagine now's the time to go wild.
>>34180743
I would have thought it was really cute. No chance of coming off as rude with it so long as your tone isn't demeaning.

>>34184756
do you live in the dominican republic? you really shouldn't be able to look at guys' dick bulges unless they're all gay and wearing skinny jeans

>>34185792
I don’t really have much of a refractory period. I think that’s true for a lot of women compared to men. When I was a teenager I used to masturbate 2 or 3 times in a row. Now I just do it 3x a day throughout the day. Although when I have sex it’s usually just one round. Because most of the sex I’ve had lasts 30 minutes or longer, then after we nut we’re both dead tired

>>34184756
Not really, not that often. Most of the time you can’t see it. I have a friend who often wears basketball shorts around me and I can see his dick print. Idk if he’s free balling or what. It doesn’t rabidly turn me on but I do like him, I’m pretty sure he likes me too but he has a girlfriend and I’m not a homewrecker. So I try not to look

>>34185792
I can't speak from firsthand (kek) experience regarding women, but seems so. As a guy myself, depending on mood, if I'm bored or not, life etc. I defo can and do go more than once a day. 2 would be fairly normal and 3 would be high. That being said I tend to go more rounds when having sex, especially when with someone new.

>>34187414
In my experience girls need just a bit of space after cumming, especially if the clit was the focus and are good to go fairly shortly after.
You sound interesting, wanna add me on Disc?

>>34143691
Anyone ever fuck a woman taller than them? Its so much fun, especially if you can fold them a little

>>34184667
>he can't rizz a girl with bionicles lore and holocaust jokes
ngmi

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Femanons:
Thoughts on someone who has a lot of physical media? I have a lot of blu-rays, comics (floppies and trades/omnibuses), books, video games, and action figures. Is that like, a turn off? They're all my interests, so I'm curious what the view on that was.

>>34184646
Your humor is excellent.
Ignore the horrid normies.

I want to hear your 9/11 pickup line

>>34184646
>>34184646
Fellow femanon here. Never change yourself for someone else. The right guy will appreciate and understand your sense of humor.

Also, sometimes I think men are intimidated by funny/smart women, and it sounds like you're both, and probably pretty too, on top of that. You always hear the cope of "women aren't funny" but that's just not possible with 4 billion women on earth, they just don't want women to be funnier or capable because that means they're less easier to control. Those men are doing you a favor by weeding themselves out after not being able to take a joke. You will find the right guy nona!

>>34175618
I'm finacialy illiterate, I'm saving/investing 1k a month. I don't have a house. I literaly get anxious when normies "talk" about money and what they say sounds insane and even less literate.

How do I get on track?

>>34178719
The shitty sex partners I've been with were both perfect gentlemen in the honeymoon phase, always making me come several times before even considering putting it in. It's 2-5 years in when the
>ugh, foreplay? again? i'm gonna roll my eyes the whole time. are you ready? can i put it in yet? how about now?
>what do you mean you haven't orgasmed in 4 months, is it really that important, can't we just fuck
starts.

>>34184756
I stare at people's boobs and crotches a lot because I'm a serial eye contact dodger. I occasionally see more volume there but it isn't arousing or attractive to me, what I usually feel is secondhand embarrassment over ill-fitting clothing.

>>34194002
it's a good thing. i collect cd's and lp's. and my crush apparently has a tape collection which i find attractive (good genre and many rares)

>>34184756
i don't think i've ever once in my life looked at a guy's crotch unless i'm actually already dating him. i think looking at genitals thru clothes is more of a male thing. but i don't like eye contact either lol

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Why do women hate my face and why have I never been able to even get a date

>>34194254
As a dude, I can tell you right now the whole "intimidated" schtick is complete and total rubbish. Y'all mistake annoyance with intimidation. Remember, you are not a man - maybe instead of imagining what a man SHOULD appreciate - ask us what we, in fact, DO appreciate. And listen! You might actually learn something. But what do I know about men? Only been one several decades. There are funny women - 3. Sorry, 2...one passed away. There are 2 funny women. They are being held in captivity to be studied.

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>>34184646
From a dude's perspective, you have a great sense of humor those two dudes were probably just clueless. Never change who you are when you're dating, always be yourself and you'll eventually find someone you can just BE yourself around. Never try and get with someone who makes you change what your normal personality is, it's one thing to act different on the first couple of dates but you should always feel comfortable around who you date. Honestly, you have to meet people by exploring communities in your hobby, or try fishing here like everyone else, you might find at least one person who isn't insufferable. Wishing you luck, you seem like a pretty cool person, so just keep trying!

>>34184646
This >>34194650 is likely the type of guy you had the misfortune of dating. Remember that some people unironically think like this and then make /you/ feel like the problem. It is always a favor when they leave you alone. Don't let it impact your self-worth.

>>34194646
>Brandon posting in the year 2025
holy shit

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Femanons:
How for real are you when you tell a guy about his performance in bed? Last year, I had a summer fling that I met up with a lot. We were talking like a week ago and she told me she missed me and the conversation got steamy. I asked her if I was one of the best she's had and she responded with yes and then "probably the best, ngl." I assume since it's been a year, she's being legit?

>>34195072
Why would more time make her more honest? Or more accurate?

>>34195072
>she told me she missed me and the conversation got steamy
you should have realized it here desu
t. male

>>34195105
I know, but like, idk, sometimes my anxiety makes me feel people are fucking with me.
>>34195076
Distance (she's from a different country and was just doing a summer program), and time away from each other, I guess.

>>34184646
>any advice on how to help a long time 4chan female figure it out would be much appreciated.
Date me

>>34194242
Oh hey, yeah, lol, I’ll drop it.
So the guy I was interested in kinda was the victim of trolling by his friends who enlisted me to do some very light trolling (like one time I made him a pie graph of everything he hates and gave it percentages). Anyways, I got to talking to him and ended up liking him but decided to be a sperg and just keep trolling him because I’m a retard. The final straw was when I posted on his Facebook wall on 9/11 and I said: “Jet fuel can’t melt steel beams, but you melt my heart.” So yeah, he blocked me and now avoids me like the plague the last few times I’ve seen him. :(

>>34194254
Thanks girl, I’m hoping I do. I know I’m awkward and weird, but so are other guys. I think Dr. Seus once said that people be mutually weird with each other and call it love, that’s stuck with me.

>>34194684
Fishing might be cool! Kind of in an area where water is scarce but I can try. Any you recommend? I already do need shit like TRRPGs, and some vidya a bit competitively, but need to branch out.

>>34195221
Nah, been burned already on here.

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>>34195296
Your 9/11 pickup line is great

>Nah
Ok no problem.
I genuinely appreciate getting an answer.
Better than being ghosted, thanks.
Good luck.

Query for guys: what was your record loads blown in 24 hours ? And how many times do you usually blow per day ? What was different that time

>>34195494
>what was your record loads blown in 24 hours?
6-8, don't really remember for sure
>And how many times do you usually blow per day?
1-22
>What was different that time
methamphetamine abuse

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>>34195494
>what was your record loads blown in 24 hours ?
I think I got up to 7. It gets hard after a while due to the chafing. Could probably do more with someone's mouth, instead of my hand.
>And how many times do you usually blow per day ?
Once.
>What was different that time
I decided to see how many times I could do it in a day for funsies.

>>34195514
>1-2, not 22
whewlad

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>>34143691
Gals, where can I find ladyfrens online?

My interests seem to create almost entirely male communities (techie DIY stuff, linux, game development, TTRPGs) all of these usually are hyper-masculine, with communities almost entirely made of dudes, and I would like to explore more femenine stuff, because I feel like I am missing out on a whole new world and people with differing views and interests. I am talking primarily in the context of discord, and being able to talk to new people. (i.e I like knitting but the knitting community online isn't a particularly cohesive or socialable one).
Doesn't have to be broad, I will gladly take pointers on specific games/fandoms/media.

>>34184646
>why aren't Jedi naked in the afterlife
...That's a really good question. My headcanon is that a force ghost's appearance is tied to it's self-concept. This is why, for me, I believe Anakin's force ghost at the end of RotJ being changed to Hayden was actually a good change; he manifested as his younger, uncharred self because to him, that is who Anakin is; everything that followed his betrayal of Mace and submission to Palpatine was Darth Vader; Sebastian Shaw in robes, happy and vibing was never how he saw himself, in the literal or metaphorical sense.

>>34194263
>How do I get on track?
You've got $1K a month that you're at the very least setting aside and not spending on dumb shit, I think you're doing OK. What does "on track" mean to you, what are your goals?

>>34194254
>I think men are intimidated by funny/smart women
More often we're put off by women who *think* they're funny and/or smart.
>You always hear the cope of "women aren't funny"
For me at least, the issue is most female comedians speak on things I don't understand, are irrelevant to my lived experience, and/or don't care about.
>they just don't want women to be funnier or capable because that means they're less easier to control
What do you base this claim on?
>Never change yourself for someone else
Nothing to add, just emphatically agree.

>>34195296
Nah, that pickup line was funny. Legit made me smile because of how corny/crosses the line twice it is. Dude was the problem, not you.

>>34194650
If a woman appreciates a man, she'll care what he appreciates, otherwise he can get fucked and literally doesn't register as a person to her. You should know this, you've been a man for several decades. Anyway, Taylor Tomlinson is/*was pretty fucking funny. I say *was because while her specials have all been super relatable and endearing, I saw her on her current tour and it wasn't so much a comedy act as much as an hour of blasphemy for it's own sake, LGBT talking points, and obligatory man-bashing. Hopefully she returns to form, but in my experience once they go down that path, there's no coming back.

>>34195711
I'm a guy but my experience meeting girls who have been into tech, game dev, and TTRPGs have come from unrelated activities.

One that has a tech job I found on reddit when I was reaching out for help and understanding the first time I got ghosted over a decade ago. The other one was playing World of Warships and was looking for more people to play with.

The one that's done some game dev came from really niche gaming for Dokapon.

All of the ones that are into TTRPGs I actually just asked if they wanted to try playing one and they said yes. Majority of them I sourced in League of Legends and Overwatch. But I see it more as every 20 mins or so you are in a match where you get to interact with 9-11 new people and on free days where I'm just gaming all day that could be 200+ maybe even 400+ new people where some of them might be a girl and down to make a new friend.

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>>34195494
I think max in one day was between 4-5 can't really say for sure.
Daily it's normally between 1-3 times, it really depends on what kind of day I'm having, if I have lube (am cut) etc.etc.
The only time I was able to blow over and over was when I was smoking weed and doing mushrooms so yeah I got a little degen

>>34195469
Hey man, thanks for the compliment and being cool. You’re not missing much anyways, still trying to recover from my last relationship and I’m actually old by e-girl standards. Happy to chat if you wanna drop a Discord, but nothing will come of it romantically, just a warning. Thanks again, hopefully I will find someone to appreciate my 9/11 truther pickup lines in the future.

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>>34195296
>TTRPG and competitive vidya
I actually know a couple who have been together for 3 years who met here on 4chan (on /v/ not /soc/) so genuinely if you keep meeting people in your special interest communities then you're bound to run into a guy who's into what you're into. Of course you do run into the problem of whether or not they're compatible with you, and unfortunately the communities we reside in can be full of unredeemable weirdos.

I would say continue looking around in the discords or forums of things you're into, and eventually I think you'll find a guy who's into what you are and isn't a total creep. The main thing is to keep trying, you're not always gonna catch a fish at the pond but you can't stop trying entirely.

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>>34195517
>someone's mouth, instead of my hand

>>34195976
Sorry anon, I'm straight.

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>>34195989
>he doesn't know about Steve Rambo

>>34195970
Possibly, they gotta be in my area though, I’ve sworn off LDRs after my last one. Branching out in the community a bit, plan to keep going to my local card and game store, just joined a new DnD group and playing a class I haven’t before, joined a few Meetup groups including a Halo LAN Party one, and intend to volunteer at a local arboretum when the volunteer class comes around again.

Thanks Anon, here’s hoping.

>>34195839
Yoooooo love Taylor! I actually saw her early in her comedy infancy, back when she was Christian (RIP). She was funny then and she’s hilarious now.

I hope she returns to the fold, but unlikely, probably overly optimistic of me to hope so, but I want the vast majority (mostly) to go to heaven.

Thank you Anon, I thought my graph was pretty funny too, along with my stupid as fuck theological questions I asked him since he was in the seminary. His friends continued to prank him and sometimes used me as bait, though I no longer directly trolled him.

>>34194646
The things I would do to you. You just need someone to take you under her wing and spoil the shit out of you.

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>>34195711
Ayyyy my man, hello from an avid TTRPG player. Given my experience, there are more female players than you think. I actually was in an LOTR campaign once that was entirely female (actual women, not trans). Was a blast while it lasted, but then I graduated. I’ve played DnD extensively, but have found World of Darkness is best for finding women. Oddly, WoD was my first game but it wasn’t Vampire (prime woman magnet) or Werewolf (also female magnet) but Changeling: The Lost. Hobby stores are your friend, possibly Adventurers League or Meetup also works. I will advise you, some women are skeptical or even hostile to men joining groups purely to meet women, so maybe keep it on the down low at first.

The fact that you knit is pretty neat, cool and useful hobby. Are you on dating apps? While they aren’t the greatest, you can sometimes find some cool folks, mind you I am well aware of the advantages women have when it comes to online dating and even IRL.

Game development is cool, maybe you could put out feelers on Reddit or whatever godforsaken site women flock to these days to get pointers on the female gaming experience and what they want. Fan fiction is a massive draw for women, but many are gay or read depraved shit (last fan fic faved on AO3 before the integer error was a One Direction one which invoked Tom caged and having cock and ball torture, no I am not kidding).

Hope that helps some, and good luck out there!

>>34195815
Fuck I forgot to respond to this. Similar theory but different in that I think it’s those who remember them dictate their appearance. Given the nature of the Force and how it connects all living creatures, Force ghosts are an intimate part of this and it wouldn’t surprise me if those who remember them see them. I guess there are issues with this given Obi Wan is dead when Anakin returns as a ghost, but eh. I do agree that the change of Anakin to his younger self as a ghost is more impactful than just some random dude who you don’t even recognize as him in the end there. Not sure how Force ghosts work entirely as I’ve only read a tad bit into the Thrawn trilogy, but maybe I can Google it. Thoughts?

>>34195951
control_illusion_78046

>>34195815
>what are your goals?
I gave up on goals. I'm too dull.
Just wanted to know what tracks there are.

>>34195072
You ready for a third male to respond to this, anon?

>>34196185
I've been following Taylor a long time as well. It's disappointing, because she's gone from someone whose material genuinely helped me become a more empathic and introspective person, to falling into the trap of "I've come out as queer, and that's now my entire personality and all I care to talk about." Which, you know what? If that's where she's at, fair, but it's not material that will hold my attention. Also, as a man who has supported her all gas, no brakes until this recent shift, her jumping on the "men are trash" bandwagon kind of hurts.

>>34196456
I think how others perceive them might play a factor as, like you said, the force connects all beings. Trying to find consistency in Star Wars lore, especially post mouse Star Wars lore, is a fool's errand, so I just try to enjoy the fun where I find it, and try to forget the Acolyte as best I can.

>>34196546
Reading The Simple Path to Wealth by JL Collins is a good start. I'm boring, what I do isn't particularly original or exciting. I believe in investing and reinvesting in securities that are proven winners, that have consistently appreciated in value and dividend yields. My goal is to get to the point where I'm making six figures a year from dividends, and then I'm never doing anything I don't want to do ever again.

>>34197082
Oh man, I feel you. The cheat code in Hollywood is to be queer but not too queer, lest you end up like Ellen Page (RIP). Her stuff can be hilarious, she is one of the best crowd workers I’ve seen in a comedian, which is rare it seems, especially today. May I ask how it made you more empathetic and understanding? That’s kind of a curious thing to say.

Kathleen Kennedy and her consequences have been a disaster for the Star Wars fandom. Nuff said. I don’t acknowledge the sequels, though I enjoyed Rogue One and am told Andor is actually amazing television, might watch it at some point.

Anyways, if you wanna chat more post your Discord and I’ll add you. If not, that’s okay, hope you do well, Anon.

>>34198274
Sorry, ID changed as I’m out and about, I’m 9/11 truther pick up line gal

>>34144716
Query for girls:
>- do you enjoy getting eaten out (cunnilingus)? If yes what do you like about or if not what you don't like about it?
Not a fan of it. I've had it a few times. Mouth on vagina is a gross sensory experience for me.
- do you like kissing and/or being kissed on your body? If yes what do you like about or if not what you don't like about it?
Yes I do! Some locations are not hot but still make me feel desired/loved.
- how important or unimportant is being penetrated during sex for you? Can you easily orgasm without any penetration whatsover or do you need to be stretched/filled? If yes, why?
Difficult for me to orgasm no matter what. I do like the stretching/filling feeling but can rarely orgasm from that alone.
- how important is skinship to you? Do you enjoy taking showers/baths with you significant other? Sleep naked with them?
I think this is nice on occasion but I like private time/cannot sleep with someone touching me.
For extra naughty girls:
- what the hell is the appeal of pegging a guy? It's just using a dildo on him with extra steps! Is it the hands-free feature, the pseudo-sodomy, the reversal of roles?
I would never push the issue with a partner but desu I like feminine and/or bisexual dudes and I think making them feel good in that way would be really hot.
- if you consume homoerotica (male) of any kind is it because of the beefcake visuals or something else?
See above. Also I have gender identity issue (am a female repper).

>>34147439
Love swimming. I wear a black 1 piece with a halter top tie. Depending on how I'm feeling I might also wear a pair of women's swim trunks or a rash guard but I generally prefer to go without those. It's just nice to have the option especially when I'm like at the pool with my nieces and nephews or at a waterpark or something where I need extra coverage to stay decent.

>>34186134
>last time I got rated (that I was aware of) I was a solid 2.
Impossible, all women who like pegging are hot. But thank you regardless. In my book you're an 11.

>>34185792
I'm a guy and I've been cooming like 2-5 times a day (when I'm not doing a lot of physical work) since I was a teenager. I had a fucked up childhood though, sexually and otherwise.

>>34194254
>Never change yourself for someone else
HAHAHHAHAHAHAAHHA

>>34147439
One piece swimsuits. My dream is to find bikinis which don't look ridiculous on my boobs, but everything seems to be triangle bikinis. My dream is to find those bikinis with bra sizing
>>34164742
Slutty stuff is a very broad definition. Prostitution and porn? I would reprimand her. Being sexually active with a boyfriend? No. I just would give advice to her about safe sex and if she took nudes, opsec. But that question is weird, why think on the sexual life of your hypothetical daughter?
>>34181415
Some do for money, some are exhibitionists and some like male attention.
>>34184756
I mostly don't pay attention at people when outside, but I will answer
>Do you ever look to see if he's packing?
No
>Do you think you can tell if a guy is big or not just from glancing at his crotch?
No, growers and showers are a thing
>If you are looking at crotches, does this mean you are interested/attracted to that man?
No, it means that my mind was wandering
>If you can see the outline of a dick through pants, does it turn you on?
Only if I find him hot
>>34185792
Yes, only when I am ovulating, we can orgasm multiple times

>>34201250
>But that question is weird, why think on the sexual life of your hypothetical daughter?
I'm 90% sure he has some fucked up incest thing and is trying to trick people into participating in it.

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talking to a femcel is a purgatory dimension of hell

>>34198274
>The cheat code in Hollywood is to be queer but not too queer
In hindsight, I feel like Kathy Griffin was the canary in the coal mine for all this shit.
>May I ask how it made you more empathetic and understanding?
So, I don't have to tell you we live in a society that fosters resentment, even antagonism between the sexes; it can be very easy to fall into the trap of falling into "us/them" thinking in regards to the opposite sex, I'm certainly guilty of having done so at times. With that in mind, it's extremely refreshing to hear a woman say things about mental health and relationships that I've said and thought myself. I struggle to think of a time I've felt more seen than when I watch Look At You; 90% of that special could've come right out my own mouth. Taylor's material has a way of making me walk away from it feeling like "they really do be just like us, huh?" I think that's why listening to her trash religion, rehash the usual suspects LGBT talking points, and shit on men for an hour felt so jarring. I still fuck with her, and hope I can chalk up her set from the Save Me tour (and the inevitable Netflix special featuring said set) as her just exploring new frontiers of her identity before returning to form, but time will tell.
>I don't acknowledge the sequels
To be fair, between the incoherent storytelling, blatant disregard for established lore, and unrelatable characters, they're pretty easy to disregard. There was a lesson for Disney to learn from all this, and that lesson is "maybe listen to Mark Hamill when he gives you feedback re: Luke Skywalker."
>am told Andor is actually amazing television
Andor is great, Obi-Wan is great, Mando is great until Lizzo and Jack Black show up, and even then it has it's enjoyable moments.
>post your Discord
I'll certainly consider it.

>>34203407
Hey Anon,
>Kathy Griffin canary in the coal mine
Explain this one?
>Taylor Tomlinson
Oh God, the antagonism between the sexes has existed since our very introduction into the world, but it seems to have reached a fever pitch recently with no end in sight. You are not alone, I have been antagonistic to both sides at times, I will fully admit I have contributed to the problem before. Haven’t seen Look At You but will be sure to do so at some point. Don’t get me wrong, I am supportive of the LGB (not the T), but there is a point where the flawed logic and insistence on victimhood is too much. Yeah, I adore Taylor, hopefully she sees the light.
>Star Wars Sequels
I didn’t bother with the last movie but upon hearing about the
“SoMeHOw PaLpATinE ReTuRNeD”
I had enough anger that you could power a major metropolis for 20 years on my anger alone. What a joke. They completely shafted Luke’s character, Harrison Ford obviously just wanted to be written out, Space Mom is now dead so no chance of ever fixing things, Rey has future fueled my hatred of “strong female characters” like you wouldn’t believe, the whole thing is a clusterfuck and due to the length of my rant on this I will cut myself off here. Definitely gonna watch Andor, I am dubious about Obi Wan given things I’ve heard but I’ll keep it in mind.
>Discord
Please do if you’re willing, I’ll post an alt if you’d feel more comfortable that way. Thanks for chatting on here, you’re one cool cat.

>>34203407
Posting alt: RobotnicRabbit

Guys what are the craziest thing(s) you’ve used to get off ?

what a miraculous thing it is to see a girl begging a guy for his discord because she was so impressed with his ability to nerd out. makes me feel like being a sperg on 4chan isn't a total waste.

>>34206265
I'm not sure I understand the question. My hand...?

>>34184646
>I’ve been single for almost a year now so I think I’m recovered from my previous relationship
Just curious, how long ago did the previous relationship end and what happened?

>>34201203
why is this funny?

>>34206254
Hi, I’m retarded, my alt is RobotnikRabbit (no c, a k)

>>34206629
Hey man, you know what they say, rizzem with the ‘tism

>>34143691
Women, do you ever play with your boobs?

>>34207353
God, a Sonic fan who seems pretty fun to talk to? I wish I was that anon, but alas. Good job to that anon.

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Need advice from both the guys and girls in this thread
>been thinking about reaching out to my ex for a while
>but I haven't actually done it
>don't want to get back together with her
>just want to talk about some things
>have had a message typed out and ready to send since December or January
>literally just need to hit send
>but I haven't
>have been mulling it over a little since then
>but it's like a every few months or so thought
>fast forward a few weeks ago
>have a dream about it
>it's ok and we're just talking and it seems to go well
>dream turns bad because we start kissing
>I don't want to get back together with her or even kiss her
>not sure why my subconscious threw this at me
Now it's bothering me more. I'm frustrated at my self for that dream, but also thinking I should reach out because maybe I'll finally feel better about everything and she can stop popping up so god damn much? I can finally get some answers? Am I retarded?

>>34207648
you're in denial and you wouldn't care about getting answers if you didn't still want her on some level

>>34207910
>if you didn't still want her on some level
But I really don't after what happened.

>>34207648
Leave her alone if you don't even like her

>>34208202
I still care about her on some level. I just don't want to ever be romantically involved with her again. But I don't hate her.

>>34208401
What would you even want to send her? Why did it end

>>34201250
>My dream is to find bikinis which don't look ridiculous on my boobs,
Im assuming that means yours are big

>>34207600
I’m cool if you add me, I’m in all likelihood a ln undiagnosed massive sperg, the fact that I loved Sonic enough to read the comics probably seals the deal. Not medically, but it probably will in the future.

>>34208419
I'm not gonna post what I wrote, but it's just saying I want to talk because I she some questions, but I don't want to get back together. It ended because she was cheating on me.

I liked hornyposting with femanons

>>34208436
I added you so we can talk about the Sonic comics. IDW or Archie, whichever is fine with me.

>>34208477
you're that faggot from the adv thread aren't you

Could I get advice of ways to please an obsessive guy?

I have a bf who I love athough I suffer from numbness. I want to make him more satisfied but also feed into it cause I’m selfish and like him being obsessed.

He is not bpd level or anything just more inexperienced anxious. He also has a mommy kink I play along with but what more can I do? How can I mess with his head

>>34208516
this is bait

>>34203481
>Explain this one?
Kathy Griffin used to have this show called "My Life on the D-List" where, basically, she was into all the identity politics nonsense waaay before it was cool.
>I am supportive of the LGB (not the T)
I'm glad people are finally thinking long enough to realize one of these things is not like the others, and ask the question "what does the T have to do with the LGB, anyway?" You can't really compare people not wanting to be hated for their sexual orientation to Lilly Contino.
>"SoMeHOw PaLpATinE ReTuRNeD"
Few things will send my give a fucks on vacation quicker than the trivialization of death; it's a big part of why I have such a hard time getting into capeshit. Anyway, you didn't miss anything; the fact that Mr. Plinkett didn't even give it the dignity of his contempt speaks volumes.
>"strong female characters"
What I hate most about this meme is how disingenuous it is; like we're supposed to pretend (just to name a few) Ellen Ripley, Sarah Connor, and Clarice Starling don't exist, and aren't some of the most compelling protagonists in fiction.
>dubious about Obi Wan
It has its highs and lows, but the scene when Kenobi finally faces Vader is worth it alone.
>Please do if you're willing
I'm not unwilling.

>>34207648
What do you want to talk to her about?

>>34208528
>”strong female character”
No, I absolutely agree with your point, Sarah Connor, Ellen Ripley, and Clarice Starling ARE strong female characters, and they are fucking GREAT characters. It is the modern iteration of “strong female character” that is fucking retarded and sends me into rage. Rey is the quintessential example of this, and I have a whole novel on this subject, but 4chan has a character limit and I’d rather converse than sperg into the ether.
>>34207353
That’s my alt, feel free to add me if you want but you will probably get an earful of me chimping out about modern “strong female characters” so if you don’t want that, I get it.

The other thing in your message I want to touch on is how it’s really weird how the T in LGBT suddenly managed to graft itself onto the sexual civil rights movement when gays and trannies used to fucking hate each other, even as recently as the 90s. Anyways, whole other issue. Thanks.

>>34208528
>What do you want to talk to her about?
My id has changed since I'm at work, but just ask some questions for clarity and just get a better understanding of some things now that I'm in a much better headspace than I was over a year ago

>>34208653
>feel free to add me if you want
I will, I'm literally just being lazy/procrastinating.
>gays and trannies used to fucking hate each other
Care to redpill me on this lore?

>>34209264
I struggle to think of a reason why you should give a single isolated fuck about your ex's rationalizations as to why she cheated on you. There isn't much to understand; she's selfish, immature, and couldn't afford you the bare minimum of respect and decency. Any reason she could give beyond that is inherently dishonest and masturbatory. Let her go, and move on.

>>34211419
>I struggle to think of a reason why you should give a single isolated fuck about your ex's rationalizations as to why she cheated on you.
I don't need that. But we talked a bit after the break up but I was in a bad headspace. So I said something I'm not proud of. Not even mean or an insult. Just an intrusive thought I should not have verbalized. She also said some stuff too, and I just want some clarity on it. If she meant it, and other things.

>>34212327
bro, you can't expect to have perfect closure on these things. what are you wanting her answer to be, deep down? it sure seems like you're hoping she's gonna tell you she didn't mean it and she wants to get back together. i have no idea if it's good or bad that you want that, but every post you've made reads like you're begging for someone to tell you that.

>>34212493
>it sure seems like you're hoping she's gonna tell you she didn't mean it and she wants to get back together
No. I don't want to get back with her and I'm sure of that. But there are things she said that were just out of character and it was just jarring. I know maybe it was how I was acting. But I just have so many things I want to know. Maybe it's not getting perfect closure that bothers me and I have to accept that. But with what happened, I dunno, I just have felt the urge to reach out more lately

>>34212519
if you're sure then you're in the best position to know. but if you do it then make sure you word it so there's no possibility in her mind that you're trying to get back with her, because otherwise she's going to be thinking the same thing i'm thinking.

discord: archer1104 for femanon in bluetoga

>>34212528
If I literally send the message "Hey, I want to talk with you about some things I have had on my mind, but I don't want to get back together with you." Would that work?

>>34212753
that sounds pretty brusque and uptight to put it that way but i don't know, i'd defer to a femanon's expertise in these matters.

>>34212760
I've had something typed out, that was just an example. But the first few lines are like "I know last time we talked went bad. I'm sorry for that and what I said. I really am. There are some things I want to talk about and I want to bring you clarity to the situation. I'm not trying to get back together. I'm really just trying to talk."

>>34208423
>large tits bursting out of an undersized top
simply scrumptious

>>34212753
>>34212785
Your lack of self-respect is concerning. Whether or not she responds to any hypothetical text you send has less to do with the minutiae of said text and more to do with how she feels about you, if she still feels anything at all. Infidelity is arguably the worst betrayal a woman can commit against a a man, so why on God's green Earth are you apologizing to her, for anything? Why would you care about anything she has to say? Why are you searching for some higher meaning in her actions beyond a profound selfishness and total lack of respect for you?

>>34184705
>non-wagie server
RIP I guess

>>34208516
This has to be b8 like other anon said, no woman would do this

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>>34199344
>am a female repper

nani

>>34214016
>Your lack of self-respect is concerning.
Can't tell if this is genuine worry or just telling me I'm stupid. I'm fine with either. Besides, I'm probably not gonna send it. Like I said, it's been written for 7 months and all I have to do is hit send, but I haven't. It's more what we talked about after the break up. I feel we both said things we didn't mean. I'm retarded anyways. I buried the lede here hard because I sent a handwritten letter in October just saying I wanted to talk and apologizing for the thing I said. I felt handwritten letter would show sincerety and effort in my apology. My only problem was I didn't outline what I wanted to write and forgot to say I didn't want to get back together. I guess I thought it was implied but I should have said it. I regret not writing that. I also regret writing the letter because I should have just texted and I also forgot to put a return address down so idk if she read it, but she didn't respond. You can roast me for this, btw. I deserve it

>>34143691
why are 80% of all women such narcisistic whores?

>>34150887
Yes. We don't play your ming and clues games. Just be direct instead of expecting others to be mind reading fairies. I think that's selfish. Not to mention men are beaten down constantly for trying to initiate so they lose interest in trying something that is very likely to fail. You can't make people lose all the time and still expect them to try.
>Does that just mean I'm really ugly and they don't really like me?
That too is possibility, but considering how awful is dating in general, it's not the only option and certainly relatively less likely than it was before.

>>34154372
If people liked to work, we wouldn't have to pay them. Thing is, as system became more centralized and reached for more control over more aspects of life, most work turned into mercenary work. You don't work for your own future, you seek employment to get money, but fruits of your work end up somewhere else and someone usually profits off them more than you do producing them. Yesterday I've spend like almost 9 hours straight removing rust and patching up my old car to learn how to do it so that in the future if rust popped up on my new car, I was able to nip it in the bud and avoid scraping another car due to rust and I didn't feel like shit despite this work being more taxing than my job. It's just that fruits weren't separated from labor, fruits were for me to consume and there were no stupid regulations and people controlling me throughout the proces.
But system won't change overnight so I live by rule that work should either pay good, or leave you with lots of free time, ideally both, but you can't always have that. I don't have to like the job. It only has to afford me entertainment I want in my free time or leave enough free time so I could enjoy stuff I like and organize my fun myself.
You at least as woman have more realistic option to become SAHM. Even I wouldn't mind suporting SAHM is we had 3+ children and I had good food and clean clothes and sheets.

>>34158171
this, but unironically. women have always made the first move historically (with war brides being the primary exception). the difference today is that the social consequences of being wrong are far higher and women need to hint less and be much more overt. this comes with its own issues tho, as coming on too strong feels like a setup and will put many guys off.

>>34187910
Yes. I specifically looked for girl taller than me to see how it is. Finding one was surprisingly hard even though I'm just like 176cm tall. Found one that is 181cm. Most positions are awkward with such difference because she has to hunch or you have to stand on your toes (which makes orgasms more intense for some reason btw, probably has something to do with legs/butt muscles being tense), but hugging was top tier. Also footjobs were nice with a bit bigger feet.
thh I wouldn't mind such height difference if she was fine with researching what works best with it.

>>34195494
Record was like 11 orgasms when I was like 17 but after like 6th time you don't even shoot any cum. My whole abdomen was hurting like hell. Like there was literal black hole sucking in my insides. Most of the time my marathons involve like 5-6 times. But that was fapping and fapping is always less taxing.
When it comes to sex, record was 4 times in 2 hours because I got relatively short refractory period and it takes me a bit to cum. Then after a hour or two I came once more from fap.
My regular is 0-3 faps/day or 2 times during sex. Lot depends on how much I work. If I come home late I often don't feel like fapping or fap just once. If it's normal day then it's often like 2-3 times. Over weekends when I've slept well, eat something etc I sometimes go for ~5 times edging marathons.
>What was different that time
I was just extremely horny for faps and for sex I got to free use girl in kind of public settings.

>>34206265
That is something I share only privately with people I trust.

>>34207648
>don't want to get back together with her
>just want to talk about some things
Sounds retarded. I assume you broke up for a reason. You don't need relationship for talking so why specifically her?

Men really like it when a woman tells him that she 'feels safe with him' because it appeals to the man's drive to protect, even if he doesn't realize it.
For women:
Is there a specific thing a man says or does specifically that is considered by all women to be attractive, or make the man seem more attractive? Specifically things that men might not already know, or you don't hear discussed often but your other friends would agree about it.

>>34216203
>I assume you broke up for a reason. You don't need relationship for talking so why specifically her?
Yes, I mentioned in one of my replies that she cheated. Because I have some things to ask and we both said some things I feel we didn't mean.

>>34154372
Holy shit F here and you sound a lot like me, esp the vaginismus. I want an asexual guy. Im so done trying.

>>34208423
Ah, yes, I hate the ridiculous look of breasts spilling out of tops, it's vulgar and somehow it looks worse on bikinis tops, maybe this spilling enticing men works with perky and implants boobs but not with mine, and it's not my intention so with one piece swimsuit I go

>>34206265
One time I came from fucking my ass with an olive oil covered carrot during phone sex (she was encouraging me) with my first girlfriend at 18 (we were both sexually abused as kids). I miss the mutual sex insanity sometimes. I don't miss the bpd and my random fits of anger being worse though.
>>34208516
I could tell you but I won't, eat shit lol
>>34215056
The nice ones are already happily married. Also evopsych. Men were filtered heavily by the last 200 years, women not at all until the last decade or so.
>>34150887
Depends on what you mean by "talk to". Most men have no interest in being "just friends" with women, 95% of the ones that say they do are lying, often to themselves. That's one of the few areas where we're really good at lying.

Where should I actually try to meet women? I'm always at work, out walking etc. Anytime I get flirted with I seem to realize too late, but it isn't too common. Women call me cute a lot and that, but I'm not sure it's good women find me cute, doesn't seem to be mists type of guy.To be fair though I'm not aggressive about flirting, I'm pretty shy. I just don't know I feel alone yet know the problem is with me.

Im about 80% sure a woman I like is also into me, however since I only see her at her job there's not really a good way I can think of to ask her out. (In short, her coworkers would all hear if I asked her out and it wouldn't be very polite. Since she just switched jobs to a new location too, it could give her new coworkers the wrong impression as well)

Are there any good conversation topics I can talk about next time I see her to get a better sense of if its mutual?

>>34208516
I’m not baiting im serious I want to know :(

>>34220811
give him little tasks that can keep him occupied so he feels like he's doing something for you when you're not around

>>34220578
Do not, under any circumstances, talk to women at work about non-work-related things.

>>34220578
bide your time and let conversation flow naturally. it's either there or it's not.

>>34220881
We already talk about non work related things. Like I said, I think we both like each other. I only see her once a month, but lately we've been talking about more personal stuff.

>>34220895
Im continuing to play it safe, I just now actively want to ask her out. Im possibly misinterpreting something, but at this point the issue isn't so much "does she like me", its more of a problem that I cant ask her out during an appointment

>>34216138
That’s a really insightful analysis, thank you! I definitely feel better about doing hard things that are more immediately relevant to my life than comparatively easy things that don’t - a couple summers ago, my dad and I spent the day building a shelf in stupidly hot weather, and even caked in sweat and with splinters everywhere, I ended the day thinking “holy shit, I wish I had gone into carpentry.” Felt better than a day at my office job, that’s for sure. I’m sure I’m just romanticizing the past, but it does sound awfully nice to be part of a community where everyone contributes to one goal - you raise the sheep and someone makes their wool into clothes for the winter and they’re paid in food by the farmers and if the roof gets leaky your carpenter buddy is just down the road… It would be nice to have work feel tangible instead of just fading into the ether.
I would love to be a SAHM, but I’ve got enough stupid shit going on with me that I would feel terrible about passing on my genes to some poor, unsuspecting little kid. (I’m also missing a husband, but that’s neither here nor there.)
>>34216809
I feel you. It feels so gauche to be all “hey, I’m really bad at sex, please don’t come into this expecting a porn star” but I really don’t know what to do at this point. I know sex is really important for a lot of people and I’d never hold that against anyone, but it’s still disheartening when it’s a dealbreaker.
I’m glad I’m in good company, at least. Hang in there.

I'll try to resume my situation:
>me m 29yo, wife f 30yo.
>I never slept with another person. (she did in a past relationship).
>she does not have libido.
>accepts to have sex, but because i ask for it, if i wait for her to ask i would die waiting.
>start having insecurities. plus im tired bc work and home chores she wont do often, plus raising our kids.
>im not in my 20s anymore maybe im less attractive?
>resort to watching porn. not really helping. i want her. maybe if i propose new things?
>I propose few things, went as low as to propose her to have sex with any guy she finds attractive.
>at this point i need to see her having sexual desire, no matter how.
>nothing works, she acts inhibited as always (despite she not being a saint).
>tried to talk thousands of times, it usually ends in a fight, because she aknowledges the situation but, "nothing come through her mind", then just start ignoring the whole thing until I get tired of talk.
>become super depressed, continue watching porn everyday. getting new fetishes.
>dont want to cheat on her. but im get worse everyday.
>fastforwrad start crossdresing, even wear a wig, look minimal femenine. enough to get aroused watching myself.
>discover /soc/ (sadly). ending whoring myself to randoms online. getting dopamine shots I lacked.
>cant stop
>start to think to meet guys irl. (women too but is more difficult)
>again, i dont want to cheat on her.
>i dont want to end the relationship, mainly because of our kids, and that she doesnt have any place to go.
>keep thinking of myself, im already lost. maybe do it and keep it secret. Im almost sure even if she found out, she would be mad but not about the sex.
>anyways she will be the same. Im getting older and tired, i provide for my family, is it that bad i want my wife to like me? to have her view away from his phone? to help me with the house? Its ok if i accept keeping things all the same, but search satisfaction anywhere else?
>I feel like shit anyways.

>>34221609
fuck it was very long, sorry. I'll understand any type of insult towards me. but if any female is reading, pls pretend to be my wife reading how im feeling, and tell me your response.
anyways it helped to vent at least

F18 here from Netherlands, just turned 18 speak english and Dutch was wondering if you guys could rate me, be honest and don't be rude plz thanks!! :3

My Kik: esmeegaatmee

>>34221314
>I ended the day thinking “holy shit, I wish I had gone into carpentry.” Felt better than a day at my office job, that’s for sure. I’m sure I’m just romanticizing the past
Well, it's not just romanticizing past there is also factor of novelty vs years of routine.
Still, it's hard because bureaucracy limits you and raises entry bars for lot of stuff, and we as humans are flawed too, with temptation to be lazy and just buy done product that will be better than whatever we'll produce for a long time ourselves. For example my rust removing adventure went like shit because I didn't have enough sandpaper to grind everything down so now there are visible irregularities under paint. It takes time to practice and you still aren't as good as machines mass producing shit with same, high quality standard. It's like dilemma between efficiency and wasting resources to maintain foundation. Same shit we have in job market with everyone requiring experience but no one willing to provide opportunity to gain it. Or offshoring industries because of efficiency and greed. It creates fragile systems which are fine as long as everything is working, but once something breaks, you suddenly lack foundation to fix or build it again. Machine breaks and suddenly you are at mercy of others because no one produces such machines in your place anymore, nor knows how process was done by hand in the past.
You should read/listen to Kaczynsky's Industrial Society. Part about technology is naive because those who don't advance technologically are simply conquered by those who do. Amish societies live really healthy life but only because no one tries to harm them. If someone wanted, they could easily do it with even XXth century tech. Also people wouldn't give it up due to simple convenience and comfort. But part about psychology with power process and oversocialization is on point.
>I’ve got enough stupid shit going on
Like what?

>>34149162
Yo chat why am I hard rn??

>>34221676
>Kik
Use something acceptable instead.

to women: is it wrong to ask if I can wrap an arm around your shoulder when taking pics? context is at anime cons. sometimes when I ask, they awkwardly say something like "Uhh okay..." as though I didn't need to ask

>>34222958
If you're taking pictures just do it, there's implied consent if they agree to take a picture with you

>>34221314
>I know sex is really important for a lot of people and I’d never hold that against anyone, but it’s still disheartening when it’s a dealbreaker.
I think my relationship is going to end because of this problem. I’m having suicidal ideation at this point.

My question for men. I like being treated real "gently" I'd call it when with a partner, especially after sex. For example, having someone play with my hair, hand me their jacket when they notice I'm cold, cuddling on the couch or after sex. However, I feel like I can't ask for those things without being seen as soft or weak (probably some trauma or something idk). Like the idea of asking makes me a bit nauseous with humility. What's the best way to bring up that I want that from a male partner? Also are there any good early indicators that a man wouldn't think I'm weak for wanting that stuff?
>>34207478
Yes, it's like a built in stress ball
>>34222958
I'd simply ask with something like "are you okay with me putting my arm around you?" Or "Can I get one posing with my arm around you?" Cosplay is all about consent.
>>34194002
I value physical media, so it wouldn't phase me. If you're type is more the average 4-chan woman, they'd probably think you're some kind of geek
>>34184756
I've literally never looked at a guy's crotch. It doesn't occur to me, even if I'm into him (unless I'm on my knees)

>>34223746
As a dude, I can tell you that if a woman asked me to do that after sex Id probably instantly get hard again. Emotional intimacy is pretty normal, or at least it should be, and even if it is "weak" to request it, part of a relationship is being weak around them because you trust them.

Im idealizing, but I dont think anyone worth being with would think less of you for wanting to depend on them a little.

>>34223746
>However, I feel like I can't ask for those things without being seen as soft or weak
This, in itself, is usually endearing anyway. I know women are told by various entities that acting like a man and being strong is desirable but to most of us it really is not.

That's not to say we are overjoyed to be surrogate fathers however. It gets complex. But relationships are about mutual vulnerability.

Also asking that probably won't change his opinion of you either way. Strength isn't exemplified by tropes.

>>34223588
I ended mine for that (and other reasons) recently and despite being 100% right to the pain just gets worse and worse

>>34224037
Can i add you somehow/give my contact? It’s chill if you want to stay anonymous, no pressure. I’m also F (obviously) so not a creep. Just feeling like shit about this. Otherwise i wish you well <3

>>34143691
Where should I ask if I want to cum tribute women (consentually)? I'm not interested in the implications but I don't want to be a creep/hurt women either.

Vaginismus isn’t real; you are, in fact, just terrible at sex.

>>34221788
Oh, for sure. I'm sure if I spent a year making shelves I'd be saying "damn, I should have gotten into e-mail marketing," but the point remains.
Absolutely - it's frustrating to spend hours on something and have it kind of suck. Everything feels scary and shitty and so close to toppling over.
I will, I appreciate the recommendation! I always get a bit intimidated by philosophical or political texts, but they feel rewarding to work through. Thank you :)
>stupid shit
I've got a genetic disorder that makes miscarriage & birth defects significantly more likely. I will also say that I'm suspect mental illness is *entirely* genetic, but I'd feel bad about passing mine on, especially when there are kids who already exist that need a loving home.
I also don't think I have a lifestyle worth looking up to at this point in my life. I spend most of my time on the computer, which is fine for me, but I'd rather raise kids who see adulthood as the time when they get to read big books or spend all day outside versus the time when they get to play GTA or something.
>>34223588
I ended mine for the same reason (plus some extra, but that's not relevant right now). I'm sorry, anon. I wish I had something to say that could make it better. If it's any consolation, I had very similar feelings, especially after ending my relationship. I'm rooting for you.
>>34222958
I think it's better to ask and be a little awkward than to avoid the question and create an uncomfortable situation. Maybe ask if there's a specific pose they'd like to do? Probably better for your One Pieces than your Grave of the Fireflies, but it could be a good option.

>>34143691
what's the best toy I can get for my boyfriend? preferably no more expensive than 300 AUD

>>34224382
Actually, how good of a choice is this one?

https://www.lovehoney.com.au/sex-toys/male-sex-toys/realistic-vaginas/p/thrust-pro-elite-alicia-realistic-vagina-ass-and-tits-masturbator-7.5kg/69974.html

if it's good enough I think I'll buy it

>>34223746
Just ask. I have no idea why you insist on playing those stupid mind games to create false images or compete for something when the other person probably doesn't even know there is competition going on and sees it as being irrational and annoying. Why women can't let go of some stupid idealized idea of life and comprehend idea of investment into your partner by giving feedback so you both knew what the other person likes and thus could reciprocate in a way that will be appreciated. It's forming each other to become perfectly matching pieces. Is it so hard to for example give a tip in bed to your man how you like your sex so all your future sex would be better instead of expecting them to read your mind and gamble whether it will ever be better, stay the same or become worse? Like, you have power to change things, steer them at least to some degree in prefered direction and you just throw it away for some naive hope and later disappointment. When I was getting to eat something that was tasty I started to compliment whoever made it and told them it's really tasty and guess what, they were making it more often than before. That's because people generally want to do well and to be appreciated. No one enters relationship or has kids with intention to ruin their lives from the start.
>being seen as soft or weak
There is chance you are already seen as such. It's assumed because you are biologically weaker and women often are more emotional and cry which makes them seem soft. And it's not bad because those differences between men and women are what defines feminine and masculine, and woman being feminine is desired more often than not. Men like it because they like being appreciated as saviors and problem solvers which you can rely on.
Bonus points if you do it in cute/adorable way like playful-childish-dramatic
>nuuuuuu, don't go, come back here
with reaching hands and just tell him you like his warm body after sex so you want to stay like that for a while.

>>34224392
One of those horse pussies off Etsy

>>34223746
>>34224709
Also to add one more thing: if you think it's silly and embarrasing, it's your own, secret sillyness. It's your own shared, private moment so it's not like others will know. It's your silly little fun which makes your relationship yours, because you don't show this side to anyone else. It's what makes it actually special. You are building your relationship for your own mutual use, not to cater to someone else.

>>34224313
>it's frustrating to spend hours on something and have it kind of suck
Well, that's the price of actually getting anywhere and maintenance of systems. Sadly less and less people are willing to bear the cost. Both when it comes to to others, and themselves.
As for having kids, those things are still a chance. It might be a bit bigger chance, but it's still just a chance. Sadly there is no cure in this world, you just have to keep trying. Just like with getting better. Life isn't RPG game where you pick your build optimized for playthrough you want. It's a poker game where you have to make the best out of hand you've been dealt. People worse than you, who just don't care, will breed anyway no matter whether you do or not, so you aren't making positive change by being some shining example. Just look at Africa or India. Those places have billions of people and when they move somewhere else, they often make the same mess they have in their birthplace. That means that if you have any ideas you think are worth preserving, it's up to you to make new generation that will care about it, because others won't. If you think world should be clean then having less people than people who don't care where they throw their trash and see cleaning as something beneath them is nothing more than fake virtue signaling or even hipocrisy. If you acknowledge you are not perfect then that's good start to know how to raise someone to avoid problems you had. It's the same process, getting better, but on intergenerational level, not just personal.

>>34224313
Also
>I also don't think I have a lifestyle worth looking up to at this point in my life. I spend most of my time on the computer, which is fine for me, but I'd rather raise kids who see adulthood as the time when they get to read big books or spend all day outside versus the time when they get to play GTA or something.
That's very naive way to look at quality of life and activities. I've told you that most of us live boring, structured lives with mercenary work. Pretending otherwise isn't going to change anything in any positive way because it's no different from people putting out fake lives on tiktok where they pretend to have life consisting of going from party to party, creating false points of reference, breeding disappointment and maybe even jealousy. And when you grow up, you actually have less time to enjoy those big books and spend time outside. I've read the most books and spent most time outside when I was kid. It's simply about balance. And it's silly judging activities by their form instead of content. One of pieces of media that had decent impact on my life was stupid waifu collector game with android girls because it brings topic of completely replacable bodies, making me think about what is core of human that makes specific person as opposed to someone else, what makes us, and what is actually valuable in life because our bodies too are going to get old, die and rot, just like theirs were destroyed over and over again in combat. It's like dismissing fairy tales despite their moral because they are just fairytales, or dismiss the same moral from cartoon based on a book while holding book in high regard.
Besides, you aren't running away from technology. Your kids will too spend some time in front of monitor playing games. It's all about balance and actually putting effort into making other things attractive too. I too spend most of time in front of computer, but when I get outside, I actually feel fine. I just need to do it more often.

>>34224382
>>34224392
I'm wondering why would you buy your bf rubber pussy to use instead of letting him use yours.
Anyway, hard to tell. Those big ones look fun but I don't have one so I don't know how much fun are they in actual use. I own small onahole with titties and I can tell you it's not as good as you imagine.
First of all, I don't know how sensitive your bf is. I'm not cut so my head is quite sensitive and even though I tried to buy toy with bigger canal so I could go balls deep, they are still quite small and tight which is simply overwhelming and you cum extremely fast in those. While I can fuck real pussy in one go for like 10-30 minutes, this thing can make me cum in couple strokes with sufficient lubrication. No idea how your bf likes it, but coming so fast is disappointing for me because I like to edge a bit. They are often harder andtighter than vag, making it feel closer to anal than vaginal sex.
Secondly, cleaning those is bothersome. I actually don't use mine that often because I know I'll have to clean it afterwards. It's not hard and doesn't take that much time, but after nutting enough times you simply lose interest in all things sexual and having to deal with it when you aren't horny anymore feels stupid. Also silicone tends to melt and become sticky after time from exposure to air so you have to cover it with baby powder after use to both protect it and give it natural skin texture instead of rubbery one. Cleaning small ones is just bother, but cleaning big ones is usually bigger hassle as you can't just flush it out and stick towel wrapped pen in to soak moisture, you have to carry it to shower because of its size. And bigger area means more powder use. Small ones can be put into small box or whatever, where are you going to keep big one to not spread that powder around?
So yeah, big ones are risky. I'm still considering getting one for aesthetics though.
I wonder if something with vibrations isn't better but I have no experience with those

Where the hell do I find women who aren’t looking to add me to their Oort cloud of cocks and expecting me to be simply adding them my assumed asteroid belt of pussy? I know perfectly well you find what you go looking for, if you look in a bar you get bar thots and if you look at concerts you get the same repackaged with more tattoos, but I don’t know where to look for what I want. I work too damn much and have no patience or energy for the kind of games the women who go to those places like to play.

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Question for men, do you guys think the majority of your type tend to be white women, or do they prefer white women above everyone else?

>>34225557
What?

>>34225557
Tbh I've only heard black men make comments about other races. Know I don't care and my friends don't. More about being a match and getting along

>>34224313
>I'm rooting for you.
Ily <3
>>34224247
Weak af bait, call us “broken” or something it will hurt more.

>>34224093
Sure if you still want, my discord is concord_gape

>>34225557
What

>>34224837
I’m buying it for him since I’m not always at home, but thank you

>>34225557
I mean I don't care about race personally, I guess a lot of guys prefer white women as a soft preference? probs not the majority though

>>34223746
>feel like I can't ask for those things without being seen as soft or weak
bruh aftercare is completely normal and sweet and anyone who disagrees is an ass

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I'm a guy, obviously. It's both a question and a bit of a rant to get it out of my system.
Can you have healthy relationship with gooning and how much is too much? I often have very rough periods in my daily life mentally and that resulted in me developing a little masturbation habit that's divided by video game porn and anon chat flirting/sexting. Not only as another way to distract myself from overthinking and co., but also to make sure I can actually talk to girls in that way because I'm a stay at home dork with weird quirks. At times I catch myself at an idea of me being a total degenerate who wastes his time on something stupid instead of doing slightly less stupid shit like scrolling social media and whatnot.
Still, not sure if going cold turkey is actually a way. Because some masturbation every now and then can be healthy. I think I can just completely isolate myself from this, but it's probably also as manageable to balance it out and I don't know which one is the better option. So if anyone has something to say (or even just make fun of me), I would appreciate it.

>>34225766
If what ales you can be treated with meditation or a sex therapist and a rebranded troon dilator kit it’s not a real problem. Do some kegels or something and stop leading that guy along if you find him so unattractive you can’t bring yourself to relax around him for even a second.

>>34227416
masturbation is healthy so you shouldnt just completely stop

>>34224313
>>34223746
Gotcha, that’s a fair point. Since more people have replied recommending to ask, I’ll make sure to continue gauging consent instead of assuming

>>34227416
as long as you moderate it and don't waste too much time, nothing wrong with a bit of gooning and sexting/flirting

how do i make my fwb wash his ass, it smells rank and he insists i like it. hes also fat. hes trying to read over my shoulder also

>>34229866
Anon, your bar cannot possibly be THIS low.

>>34229868
nvm he saw this post and said he would wash his ass

my nasty fwb keeps begging to be fucked on her period and now the hotel sheets are all bloody.. she also keeps telling me to wash my ass, what should i do

>>34229996
fuck you i didnt want it

>>34228174
I do think some sort of break could be in order because it's probably been a bit too regular, but should stick be open for it on the occasion.
>>34229122
Well, I'm certain I've been going of the deep end with this lately. Me being susceptible to fall into habit and following patterns (which is a problem on itself) coupled with being in bad space mentally, I think it does start to get to a point of unhealthy.
For what its worth, I suppose me being aware of it all the way does give me some chances. Just writing it down helped quite a bit and I think I'm it's starting to actually click.
Thank you, anons.

>>34229996
Make her give you a rimjob, win win
>>34227416
Probably not. I've been addicted to porn since I was a kid and I can't really moderate it long term. In my experience you can't just "scale back" addictions etc, you need to completely change the mental and neurological patterns that are engrained in you. It does suck really bad to look back and realize how much time you've wasted.

And yet I still lean on porn even knowing its bad for me lol. What a waste of a life.

>>34230493
>In my experience
Yeah, shit is all about one's experience. While one overcome whatever addiction they have, others (sometimes unfortunately, sometimes not) just can't stop no matter what. No reason to be so self-defeating. I'm going to be an optimistic prick who tells you that it'll get better if it didn't already. Although I would assume you're doing alright as is.
>And yet I still lean on porn even knowing its bad for me lol. What a waste of a life.
There's obviously a degree of regret on my end, but not fully. Sometimes I just needed that and I liked it, plain and simple.

Can guys experience fetishism or they just chalked it down as just attraction (ie you don’t care)

>>34232411
I've definitely been fetishized before. But fortunately I enjoyed it in both cases.

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should I leave 1mm of white part on my nails, or is that bs and should I just cut it all off?

>>34232549
If you are a man, no.
If you are a woman, that's the minimum.

>>34229998
>>34229996
No way this is real. kek

>>34232562
I'll cut it all off then, thanks

>>34215035
>Can't tell if this genuine worry or just telling me I'm stupid
Both. Nothing this girl has to say could possibly matter. It's normal for people to come and go from your life, this fixating on "closure" and whatever dumb ass shit she may have to say is painfully juvenile on your part. Life is far too short to waste what time you do have on the wrong people; move on, discover and embrace new people and experiences.

>>34215056
Because their egos don't get checked like ours do. Women collectively reinforce their joint delusions/deceptions (see: "every woman is beautiful") meanwhile, weak men are happy to go along with whatever they're told to go along with; they'll eat miles of shit if they think there's a chance they'll get a peek at where it came from.

>>34221609
What is your favorite kind of curry?

>>34223746
Men generally don't select against "weakness" in women, quite the contrary, actually. Just say you like being touched/cuddled/taken care of, and you should be good to go.

>>34225215
At church.

>>34225557
Can you rephrase the question?

>>34227416
This comes not from a place of judgment, but from a place of honesty and compassion: No. Stop consuming porn, and consider therapy.

>>34232411
Yes, it's fine 99% of the time (sometimes uncomfortable but still good, like when I met a girl with a fat fetish and I was fat and hated myself) but I was abused/"conditioned" as a kid and some of the psychological damage of that can be attractive to women. That always hurts a lot, even though it isn't anyone's fault.

The weird indignant horror at being fetishized/sexualized is 100% just a female thing.

>>34232549
Yes

To American women; why do you suck so much? After 9+ of working on myself, yet failing to meet anyone who's either interested or enthusiastic about doing the same, I've basically reached the conclusion that you're generally a bunch of materialistic, lazy, promiscuous children who're virtually incapable of taking accountability for yourselves in any sort of relationship.

>>34233246
Yeah basically

>>34233252
Is that it? Do you care to shed any insight as to why that is, or how this social phenomenon can be rectified to any extent, or are you satisfied knowing that this is a country populated by heartbroken men, and subsequent generations are going to die childless and alone because they can't face up to the consequences of their warped cultural values?

>>34233260
>how this social phenomenon can be rectified to any extent
just go anywhere else, yo. If you don't like the culture, find a better one