I don't like to post myself but I've been insecure lately and curious for the honest truth. I've gotten comments that I look/ sound "transgender" often enough that its starting to make me question how people actually see me. What does that mean though?I know I have baby face and look kind of gay, this current haircut isn't really helping that along with being very short and runty. I get mistaken as a woman sometimes at first glance.But what does "look transgender" mean? I've heard that I look mtf, ftm, heard that I sound ftm or gay.I always thought of myself to be very average except kinda runty and young looking.Maybe its the eyes.
This is when I had shorter hair and the picture was taken by someone else
>>34369629>>34369624nonny I think you just look like a cute faggot. I'm guessing ur ftm tho and being vague to see if ppl guess correctly
>>34369639No I'm male and confused at what reason people often think I'm transgender/ look transgender. What does looking transgender mean?
>>34369624You look cool, thumbs up. You just have effeminate features but I'd just lean into it since a lot of girls are enamoured with pretty guys. And guys if you're into that. If someone is saying you look transgender, they are either hazing you or trying to pinkpill you (a lot of trans mtfs to this).Also for the lack of better words, as you are now you look pretty and are above average? You do look runty in your older pic and it does make you look plain. Leaning into your features purposefully will make you look good though.
>>34369624Honest to god, you did a good job with however you styled yourself. You have doe eyes but you also have a slight aged/tired look to you, people will like that and think you're mysterious. Since you're skinny, pale, and short with dark features, people will think you're twinkish-- more femme if you're short. Unfortunate for you if you want to be seen as masculine but again, girls will probably like it. Keep wearing on black as it contrasts well with your dark hair, eyebrows, and eyes. Show some skin so the paleness is contrasted a lot with the dark colors. Your lips add a pop of color and you can probably accessorize with leather/sterling silver/stainless steel jewelry.I'd recommend some baggy pants, dark brown-- dark grey jeans in an athletic/slim cut will look good too. wearing on all black can be okay but don't do it always as it is a little boring on its own.
>>34369706Thank you for the insight, I should probably try to get into a workout routine to get a little more masculine in my build at least, can't do much about my face. But thank you
>>34369624could do:black tank top + brown baggy pants or black tank top + dark grey jeans orblack oversized t shirt + above pantstight black shirt + above pantsi don't like stripes but you can get a black shirt with striped arms, dark shirts with graphics or bands, etc. lean into the grunge-- the main color/contrast will mostly come from yourself.if you want to, you can expose even more skin by wearing on exercise shorts with compression thighs but you'll probably really be seen as femme-twinky, despite not wearing anything feminine.or you can render this all moot and try hiding your body with an oversized hoodie but I think you look attractive and can again lean into tired-but-pretty-dark soulremember to smile-- and you can always step away from darker colors, I just think you took a great picture and the contrast of your skin/features looks good and is appealing
>>34369729trust me, it's good to be pretty and you should embrace it.if you'd like to exercise and don't have equipment/not comfortable with going to the gym, calisthenics is a good place to start. also learn about macros-- get your protein in, etc. for calisthenics, I'd look into either:Tom Merrickor CaliMoveLeo Wang too, I forgot to mention but short people do amazingly well with achieving calisthenic skills. I'm 6' and pretty skinny so I don't think I can achieve a lot of those skills in a quick timeframe but you probably couldlearn macros and the concept of hypertrophy by reading the articles made by "Boney to Beastly"
>>34369755**Bony to Beastly, by Shane. good for skinny people, skinny fat people, anyone who is below the bmi and has a hard time gaining weight
>>34369743I usually just wear a black hoodie or open hoodie with super baggy cargo pants. I don't care too much about standing out in a good way, I just don't wanna stand out in a bad way.My face kinda squishes when I smile, here is the most normie picture I have of myself lol.>>34369755The only issue I have with working out is that I'm very malnourished and bulking isn't something I can do cause my fuckass body will get sick randomly and if I eat too much. I struggle to get over 80 pounds but I try to drink protein shakes at least. Thank you for the advice though I will try to get more in shape over the winter.
>>34369769bwahaha dw you look fineskinny people just suffer from eating in general, smaller stomachs, etc. when stressed, instead of eating like some people we lose our appetite instead.read the b2b articles when you get time. since we struggle with eating a lot at once-- space out calories instead of gorging-- 5 small meals, or 3 normal meals and 2 snacks. i usually suffer from discipline, time, mealprep, and finances though so I only eat 2 usuallya healthy microbiome = more efficient nutrient gain, so get a little bit of fiber in your diet. don't drink water during meals, space water between meals. ideally, replace water with caloric hydrating subsitutions when possible, e.g. protein shakes, milk, juices, etc. BUT STAY HEALTHY-- don't junk bulk, it's terrible for your body and just won't make you feel good.chewing is filling so eat tender foods that require not a lot of chewing: e.g. chili > steak in this regarddamn, i'm 120 so you are in a bad shape rofl. aim for .7 to 1 gram of protein per pound in bodyweight on a daily basis-- so 56-80 grams of protein (its not a lot, its like 4 kirkland 20g protein bars for you)and you need good sleep-- don't neglect sleep. speaking of which, im going to bed. good night, stay safe, read the things, do well!
>>34369792>good night, stay safe, read the things, do well!Will do, thank you very much anon, goodnight
you just look like a hot young dude but that hair makes people think tranny because long hair on a dude = tranny now ig . prolly just some groomer shit you're hearing from people
>>34369769no grown person should dress like this
trannys are basically just pale and twinky with bad attempts at anime hair. you are pale and twinky with an exteemely stupid haircut. cut your hair shorter and you wont look like a tranny.
>>34369624ur so hot omgt. tranny