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A thread for submissive men looking for dominant women, and vice versa.

This thread isn't just for people looking to get off, but for meeting others who share a common interest in dom/sub dynamics.

Remember to include your ASL, your interests, what you're looking for, what you're like, etc.
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>>34397744
>ASL
26/M/UK
>About you
I like to live life to the fullest, having a laugh, being able to joke around, banter, etc. I also like vidja, history, and going on walks through nature, including hiking. I have quite a range in interests, sometimes I like to go out partying, and sometimes I like to nerd out about history, it depends on my mood, really.
Strictly speaking, I'm submissive, however I don't tend to offer my submission out to anyone, but rather see it as something to be taken from me. Some people might describe me as a brat, but really it's more that I value the journey as much as the destination. I don't want to just kneel for whoever asks, I want to kneel for someone who's earned it, who's made me, who's fought me for it, and won.
>Kinks
Basically everything BDSM-related. Any form of domination gets me going, so even if I don't enjoy something, being forced to do it will likely make me enjoy it, regardless. I'm very much into CNC, TPE, bondage, humiliation, blackmail, slavery, etc. I live for the thrill of hearing a padlock click into place, or the struggle against leather and chains, the rush of knowing I'm truly at another's mercy. I have few limits, other than the obvious (scat, incest, full public exposure, etc.)
>What you're looking for
It's probably pretty apparent so far that I'm probably most suited to someone who's dominant. I'd love to be able to meet someone who's sadistic, but, also someone I can spend time with. Suffice to say, I don't really expect many people want to dominate total strangers, so for now I'd rather just get to know people, and see where it goes. If anyone ends up wanting to dom me, well... You're welcome to try lol
>What you're NOT looking for
MtFs, men.
>Any additional info
Sunstone is a great webcomic
>Contact
Discord: Rwalaer
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I've had a rough and abusive childhood. I'm a man looking to be treated as a kid or teen by a female. I don't like baby or little space roleplay. I prefer a middle or high school range. You can be middle or high school aged, or you can be an adult.

It can be a friend, romantic, or sexual RP. My biggest dealbreaker is childish typing. You know, the full babytalk / animu moe / furry UwU act. Just talk to me as normal. I'm not into dark or edgy roleplay stories. No abuse, cucks, taken, poly, open, etc.

My interests are older video games, kids TV channels, cartoons, comics, children's books, toys, in and out of RP. I don't care for IRL age just as long as you aren't too young or too old in real life. My childhood was the '90s and '00s. I'm a private man.

I'm looking for strictly text replies. That means no phone calls or video. I'd like to keep this online. I'm not going to meet up with you or date. Any country is okay just as long as we keep the RP in English. My timezone is EST; I'm most online at night.
>Discord
shi.meji
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>interests
tv, films, music, literature, east asian stuff, sports, current events (political, social, cultural).
>nsfw interests
amwf
>looking for
a young cool overachieving girl
>discord
pineco2759
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>>34397744
Ew why would i want to domme a femme guy
Gross
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>>34397744

>About you
I'm a submissive chubby guy looking for a dominant, very kinky and open minded gf. I'm obviously into all the kinky stuff, but actually want to get to know someone out of that as well.

>Interests
Into gaming, reading, tv shows, movies, psychology, philosophy and a bunch of more stuff

>Looking for
Dominant, open-minded girls, above 20 preferably and long-term connections

>Not looking for
Men, Mtf, Ftm, Femboys etc.,

Discord: dev24823
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>>34398126
>Gross
:( I'm sorry for being gross miss
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>ASL
24/M/EU
>Normal stuff
White, 5'8", long hair, fit/skinny, nerdy, sometimes funny
>Kinky stuff
I'm a switch, into BDSM, Femdom, Orgasm control, Chastity, JOI, and much more, but those are the main ones I'm looking for here
>Looking for
Girls that enjoy teasing guys! I'm not really looking for one of those high protocole "Yes Mistress" dynamics, I'd prefer something more casual where we both just enjoy the same kinks. I wanna get taunted and know that you enjoy doing it!
We can just chat, trade hentai, watch vids together or any other fun ideas! Maybe give/follow some orders?
Bonus for alt/emo, or petites!
AFAB only please.
>Not looking for
Findom (lmao), bbw
>Contact
discord:
averagetdenjoyer.
(The dot at the end included!)

PS: Happy locktober everyone
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>ASL
35/M/US
>Words
It took me too long to realize I want this kind of dynamic, and now I'm afraid that I'm too old to find a dominant woman with any sort of interest in me. I don't honestly care if you're younger or older, I just want to call you mommy and do whatever you tell me to do (except not really anything: findom, selfharm, things like that are off the table).

Tonight in particular I'm feeling very gloomy, a friend I recently made and was interested in suddenly starts telling me about this person they met and how well they hit it off, and now I'm just feeling sad and lonely and like I'll never have a relationship in my life.

I just want feminine affection, gentle comforting care. For a brief period I experienced it and it was blissful and she seemed to enjoy it as well. Made me do several things I hadn't done before... things ended up not working out but I still am glad to have met her and learned more about myself and what I like.
>Contact
That's enough rambling for now I think. My discord is opaque_silhouette
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Blackmoonboy99

Femboy showing face and small dick for exposure, blackmail, and humiliation, jerking to wives and GF's ,.,.
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>ASL
Sissy M35, Europe, bi/pan :3

>About me
Very submissive, kinky and obedient sissy from Europe, looking to talk to fun people. Outside of sexy stuff I love learning new things, linguistics, science, technology, gaming and lots more. I'm an easy going person and would love to find longer term contacts :)

>Kinks
Chastity, anal, denial, humiliation, piss, diapers, age play, rough stuff, and LOTS more, message me to get the full list :3 I am only sub for M/MtF, but can switch with F.

>What I'm looking for
Dominant girls, transgirls, or guys, who are interested in online domination, porn trade, dirty chat, or anything inbetween. Any age is fine! I'm open to just starting somewhere and see what happens :)

>What I'm not looking for
- Fake doms/scammers/people who want money
- People who only want to be fed porn or pics of me
- Low effort people who respond with 1-3 words per message
- Sub-only guys. Switches are OK. Sub F are also OK.
- Furries

>Contact info
Discord: serendipitous89_39257
Kik: misthiosanon
Snapchat: misthiosanon
Telegram: wub_ww
TeleGuard: G3TEAHMLC

I also have Session and Signal, ask on one of the other services for my ID :))
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Masc 35m/29f

Wife and I have been doing femdom/bondage/pegging 6 years now, interested in chatting or sharing, pref with Fs or other couples.

I'm handsome, fit, and hung with a nice ass. She is divine.

rhinehold_
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M34 from Europe

Any domme interested in a very long playing session (like 2, 3, 4 hours, whatever you'd like)? Anything that is not a limit is on the table

Happy to go both for a one time only deal, or repeat if it works out for both of us!

Discord is post_tenebras.lux
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35/M/CA

Hello, I'm looking for a dominant lady to chat with and get to know. I would prefer to establish an emotional connection before anything.

As for me? I'm fit, tall, and handsome. Taking care of myself is important. Currently grinding away at my goal of starting a band. Also like reading, I help run a book club with my friends. I cook a lot, too. Love trashy reality TV as well, and true crime. Old vidya, too

So if any of those topics interest you, please send me a message on discord:
.solzh

Have a nice day :)
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I posted on the last thread but it archived like 2 days later, so:

>asl
30s, F, USA

>about
Dominant woman wanting to understand submissive perspective & desires better since I’m considering exploring more casual online dynamics instead of in person relationships. Outdoorsy/nerdy/spend a lot of my time on offline hobbies.

>looking for
Still looking subs (M or F, 25+ only, 30+ welcome) who have prior femdom experience to chat with about what they enjoy and desire in online femdom sessions/relationships. Experienced subs who can describe preferences, experiences, favorite scenes, or ongoing dynamics they’ve had in the past/currently a major plus, especially if you balance BDSM with normal life/work and have other interests & hobbies.

>not looking for
Sexting/porn rather than kink discussion, constant online contact/attention, people who can’t hold up their end of a conversation, a full relationship

I don’t particularly care about matching exactly on kinks since I’m mostly looking to hear about others experiences, but I enjoy control/denial/teasing/praise/degradation/instruction, and have no interest in ageplay/bathroom/incest/being your therapist.

>contact:
I prefer to be the one to reach out. if you leave your discord here I’ll message you directly, or you can email jincognitoemail@proton.me with your discord + an introduction. It may take me a while to reply depending on number of responses + I am not online every day, thank you for your patience


A lot of people with no prior femdomme history already got in touch with me, and many seemed very nice, but only 2 who have much experience. I really would like to talk about the kink with a few more submissives who have concrete ideas of what they're into & want out of online dynamics.
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>>34400490
That is whats sad about femdom. Nobody ever is looking to introduce new people to it :(
But hope you find what you are looking for, anon
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26 y/o “straight” white twink here…
desperate to be hypnotized, broken, and rebuilt into a drooling little sissy cumtoy.
I want spirals, trigger loops, and hypno scripts drilled into my head until I’m a dumb, addicted, cock-hungry girl who can’t think for themself anymore.
Make me edge, drool, and beg. Dress me up, rename me, control my profiles, lock me down, humiliate me, ruin me
I want it all: sissification, Feminization forced-bi, bondage, cum addiction, Chastity, Hypno, degradation, Humiliation.
Use me. Own me. Rewrite me. Force me on HRT. Turn “straight me” into your perfect hypno-programmed sissy femboy slut!!~!

Disc: hypnoslutboi
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>>34397744
I hypnotized a Domme, gave her the best orgasms of her life
she asked for Denial and Edging so I gave her triggers that made it so she could only Edge
she then was out of contact for her own personal reasons for several days

she finally came back, begging to be allowed to have Orgasms again
I think I broke her,
all it takes to break a domme is Orgasms only from you
and Denial and Edging every other day

anyone that claims to be a Domme is a Wannabe
Girls are for fucking and submission

>>34401041
based on your image
I think you want the gay thread
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>ASL
21, M, DFW area of Texas
>About you
So physically I'm 5'10, white, and lean. I'm a great cook and I enjoy gardening. I've always been insecure about being a tough dude while fantasizing about submitting and being owned. I'm tired of having this just be a fantasy and I'd like someone to help me make this a reality lol. I would like something at least relatively long term.
>Into
Bondage, denial, exhibitionism, service, and I have a bit of an oral fixation so I love oral sex and making out. I want to try pet play like being collared and, if my partner wanted it, crossdressing (though I doubt I'd pass lol).
>Not into
People out of state, people who can't respect boundaries, strictly online. Also not a fan of penetration but that's more of a soft limit than a hard one.
>Discord
helterscelterr
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>>34397744
Find the girl of your nightmares
https://discord.gg/w83BAJC68G
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I’m a clever, playful Goddess who loves taking control and teasing the right kind of guy. I’m looking for a nerdy, submissive, kinky man who’s curious, eager to please, and secretly thrilled by being guided. Online or IRL, I want someone who can handle a little mischief and a lot of attention.

Kik: Alex4sub
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Kik: femiman1
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33M tall skinny autistic nerd with messy dark hair. Generally subby but can switch.
More importantly though, I'm not looking to find or be a kink dispenser, I want someone who's also a huge nerd and can tell me about her passions and interests. Talk to me about music, literature, cinema, your hobbies, etc. Dom me if we click and find each other stimulating. I'd like to earn a chance to show that I'm useful enough to be worth claiming.

Discord: periapts
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Liking for naughty obedient slaves to play with, not a seller just for fun
Start with asl AND who you live with for reply
26 f uk
Daisydom1901 - kik
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>>34400753
I’m looking to learn still too. One I get more experience I’ll come back for you newbie subs <3
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I need to be dommed
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>ASL
25/Male (white)/West TN/fine with longer distance
>A good bit about your personality, dreams, beliefs, etc
Ex NEET INFP now waging as a cook. I can be quite introverted, passionate, scatterbrained, imaginative, idealistic. I'm a very heart driven romantic, just wanting to finally find love in this agonizingly lonely world. Finding my love has always been my greatest dream. I lean agnostic, but am interested in Sanatana Dharma and Buddhism. Politically I'm a bit of a mixture; patriotic, somewhat socially conservative but economically socialist
>Your hobbies and interests
Cooking, history, fashion, lost media, unsolved mysteries, spirituality/religions, philosophy, storytelling, worldbuilding, journaling, meditation, hiking, biking, cultures, nature, animation, music (shoegaze, math rock, various indie, and lots more), architecture, home decor, swimming.
>What you're looking for in this thread. Gentle femdom? Role-reversal? Mommydom?
Gentle femdom for sure. I just want something loving and sweet
>Would you prefer a full domme/sub? Are you okay with a switch?
I don't really know. Sometimes I like the idea of being more of a dom to serve my love, but I am quite shy.
>Tell us a bit of what you'd like out of your partner
This'll be more of an ideal, not what I absolutely require in a lover:
Someone poetic, romantic, reserved, but bubbly for those that she allows in her personal life. Has a rich inner world and yearns to be truly understood. A creative, nostalgic and kind soul who knows herself well (or at least seeks to know more). Wants nothing more than true love and a simple life. Has similar values and interests to me. Perhaps a neet, or something along those lines so that we can help each other get out and blossom. Must be white like me
>Contact
dhammapala
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>>34400490

You should add me! I think there's quite a bit we could talk about. I'm 30/NB AMAB/US, discord is midnightpanacea. (with the period)
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Looking for submissive man

Telegram AinaGo6
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>reposting from the last thread

>ASL
31/M/US East coast

>Description
5’9 180lbs, brown hair brown eyes. Well put together 30 something year old, full time stable job and no mental issues. Visited 4chan for some years now and have had moderate success finding interesting people to connect with. 5’9, brown hair, not in the same shape I once was but steadily working on my fitness journey.. I’ve also been told I have a nice voice.

>looking for
Long term bio-f online friend who shares the same interests, possibly more. Ideally someone who likes to voice chat. Pretty good at ERP/sexting, but not the first and only thing that I’m after. Ideally a woman interesting and open minded. Someone who’s able to hold a conversation. Love curvy women but not superficial about looks.

>not looking for
Men and weirdos, one word replies

>discord
positive4792
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Hii! I'm a shy, subby neetboy, looking for a girl who might be into things like hypnosis, fetish conditioning, behavioral modification or any other ways of corrupting and altering me to her liking..
If you'd like to mess someone up like this, please consider adding oyama13 on discord !
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>asl
22/m/midwest usa
>interests
hiking, photography, indie/folk music, story based video games, anime/manga, cooking
>lookin for
lookin to explore an online relationship as well as d/s dynamics would be nice to find someone near me to build a good relationship with and get to know each other and build from there. pref my age or older
>abt me
im currently in alotta schooling rn so i have a fairly busy schedule but ive been trying to prioritize my free time alot more to decompress :P (btw we can talk more nsfw stuff in chat if thats and intrest)
>discord
wertzz0667
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> ASL
34M

> me
6’1” hairy bear bod, shy nerd with big fantasies. SFW interests include film and retro anime/games, I’m trying to read more, and I would love to share those or other things if we connect. Looking for an erotic connection that could potentially be emotional too: I love passionate, articulate, nerdy girls who feel and think deeply and want to do it together in the most fun ways.

> into
Pleasure domming or being gently dommed, praise and affection, contrast, detailed dirty talk and sexting (with much discussion of body worship), sharing porn, lots of oral and anal play, hairy girls (HUGE kink), female bisexuality (I just genuinely love bonding over attraction to women). Also any woman who is turned on when I’m gentle or shy, even though I can be quite dominant once my barriers are broken down.

> not looking for
Anything violent, cruel or degrading, pedo/loli stuff, edgelords, penis havers

> tag
mysterman1052_2
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Kik: someboy4567
Disc: some_guy2038
Teleguard: 487X7Y9PJ
Telegram: Osome90388


Come show me with pics, gifs or vids how you think my innocent blonde crush that friendzoned me is getting used right now. Into BBC, bondage, rough, femdom, cnc, forced bi, cnc, full nelson, etc.
Also looking for fakes and edits.

Also wanna RP how you would be using her right now or that you just saw her doing something, just text me like you know her and show me! Ill pretend like its her in what you send.
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>>34397744
>ASL
29 M US
>Non-sexual interests
Video games, snowboarding, skateboarding, boxing, filmmaking, gardening
>Sexual interests
Servitude, I love to eat pussy and ass. Pegging, cuddling, teasing, I enjoy lots of different dynamics.
>Looking for
Someone who has their shit together, has a job, etc. Stable adult women who understand the difference between exerting control and trying to abuse/take advantage of. I prefer black women but I'm not interested in raceplay.
>Not looking for
Broke/BPD bitches, I'm not trying to be your dad.
>Discord
RNSam349
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>ASL
39, M, US
>About you
I like to wear latex
>Into
Latex, sharing porn, camming, playing with my toys, kink
>Not into
Men
>Discord
latexfunn
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>ASL
27M USA
>About you
Quiet, shy, nerdy, medium long hair, small. Women think I'm funny if we talk a while.
>Interests
Guitar, Antiques, Psychology, Science, Animals, Nature, Woodowrking, cars, and a bunch of other very sepcific things related to mechanical inclination or just old things that are coo to me; General movies, tv, anime, music etc.

>Things I do irl/on dates
Going to a restaurant I haven't tried and just ordering a cheeseburger, antique stores, places with animals, nature trails, drive around not knowing what we're gonna do and eventually just settle on just smoking weed in her car (I do have my own car but I don't have my own weed.)

>What you're NOT looking for
people under like 24, masc men, bigoted people

>Contact
you gotta give like a similar type of infodump to this in your first message and ideally why you messaged me or my autism is gonna make me repel or just not know what to say to you in all likelihood and also if you don't I will be actively annoyed by that because my first assumption is that you're a fat old man or a minor that's my default conception of you.
discord: precasey7
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Where are the guys who know how to treat a woman right?
......
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>>34399337
Bump
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>ASL
27/m/ny but open to ldrs
>about you
I'm tall, redheaded and handsome though somewhat twinkish. I'm somewhat reserved despite being a journalist in NY, a little autism but I'm a good guy.
>interests
cooking/wine, aviation, journalism, japanese lit, anime, classical music, opera.
>kinks
femdom, pegging, foot worship/legwear, female body hair, cunnilingus, forced bi, cuckolding/nts, sph, chastity, teasing/verbal abuse/humiliation. pet play, I have cat ears and used to have a tail and a collar/leash. choking, getting scratched or bit, getting hickeys.
>looking for
a longterm flr with a cute girl, generally prefer other white girls.
>discord
catman45



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