let's just have a thread to talk to each other. what's on your mind, anon?
>inb4 NOOO YOU CANT MAKE A THREAD ON /SOC/ UNLESS ITS FOR POSTING DICK PICS or this gets deleted because the jannies want to keep this board as miserable and isolating as possible
>>34516981Things have been strange anon,For a few nights now my sleep becomes tainted with such horrid vivid images of my ex lover murdering me that I jolt upImmured in my own sweat.It’s not a very unique story but I suppose it’s mine
>>34516981They don't want us having meta discussions because then we would figure out that some of the prominent posters posting degen shit are mods/jannies themselves, or their buddies. This thread will be deleted sooner than the pedophiles posting, the snapchat bot spammer, the guy posting a picture of a random white family, and tranny spam. I genuinely believe this board is also a psyop studying how effective Prison Gay can be, there are various forms of it besides the obvious.
I unlocked a new fetish.I realized that you could remove a girl's IUD by sorta getting your hand up in there and pulling on the strings. So I've been fantasizing about sedating a girl, pulling out her IUD then raping her pregnant.
>>34517015i'm sorry anon, sounds rough to deal with that for multiple nights. i've personally had some crazy nightmares lately about my dog dying in strange ways and i wake up in shock>>34517021i didn't intend for this thread to be purely about meta discussion, rather to just chat about whatever if you don't wanna add people on discord or join one of the 12 or so shitty discord servers being relentlessly spammed. but i do hope it stays up long enough for me to check back in after i sleep lol>I genuinely believe this board is also a psyop studying how effective Prison Gay can betell me more about your theory, am interested
I can't talk about what's really on my mind because it'd just attract negative attention lol
>>34516981Goodmorning frens, having breakfast and getting ready to go to work>>34517117Shoot it anon
>>34516988I genuinely have tried making threads like this and got them deleted for that schizoid reasoning.I literally made a thread before about how the rules aren't enforced, how there was a Session thread... and they deleted that too.But 16 simultaneous discord threads?7 rate threads at the same time?5 flavors of trans threads?All good!!1!It's tiresome, man.
I keep trying to make friends with anons on another board but they always end up ghosting me after a month or so. It's never sexual, nor do I care about that stuff. I just want a friend, and it's frustrating because I don't understand what I'm doing wrong.
>>34516981I hate this board with all my heart and wish I was able to post my shit on the boards i actually use. I just hate selfishly derailing conversation
>>34517142What did you have for brekky? I had oatmeal. Not that delicious but at least I'm getting my fiber. >>34517117Just say it bro>>34517528We can always keep trying.>>34517652What other boards do you use? I don't think it's a you thing. Maybe they're just looking for a distraction whereas you're actually looking for a friend. I hope you can find someone who sticks it out. >>34517971Can you elaborate a little more on that
>>34518043I think it literally is a (Me) thing, though. I've responded to a few anons who were specifically asking for "art friends" and exchanged info with them. We'll talk on discord or Instagram for a few weeks before they just randomly stop responding. I genuinely just love talking to people, learning about them, and sharing parts of my life with them. I can't tell what I'm doing wrong because I literally have no frame of reference for what friendship outside of work or school is supposed to be like.
>>34518043There is nothing to elaborate on? Everyone who uses /soc/ is either a bland normalfag or disgusting tranny and the only reason I post here is because I feel bad shilling my shit on boards where it breaks the rules
>>34518043>What did you have for brekky?I had coffee and a couple of cookies
good afternoon frens, eating instant ramen and watching oneyplays>>34518196>Everyone who uses /soc/ is either a bland normalfag or disgusting trannyso which one are you? :^)>>34518238>I had coffee and a couple of cookiesyummers
>>34518731Call me the a.n.o.m.a.l.y.
Kind of dreading my commute home. Bumping thread.>>34518195Dang, that sounds rough. It is really tough to make friends outside of those settings and it only gets worse as we get older. You sound like a very decent person and I still think it's a (them) problem. Don't be too hard on yourself, especially if you're trying to form a lasting friendship with someone who regularly uses this site. I don't think the average 4chan user is capable of maintaining a platonic friendship with someone for more than 2 weeks. It just feels like a lot of self-centered coomers with minimal social skills.>>34518196Damn son I just wanted to know what kind of shit you're shilling and on what boards. That first post had zero context and sounded vague. >>34517036I always have bad dreams where my dog is alive again but I somehow forgot to feed or give him water for weeks and weeks. Feels bad when I wake up
>>34517036Thanks fren, it’s been rough I’m a fairly bad hypochondriac myself so just been saying some extra prayers before bed time hoping it works.Hope your dog lives a long life brother>>34518195It’s rather shocking is it not? I think engaging too much with this board has kind of stunted my ability to hold any real conversation in real life.
Had my first add in months and they deleted it before I got home because I don't accept requests until I get back from work.
>>34516981Not much, boring day at work, watched some smiling friends clips during work, how are you doing anon
>>34516981I had one of the first days in a new job that I found genuinely difficult today. Spent most of it picking up after other people and am just so tired after it. But tomorrow will be better!! And I get a 4 day weekend this week!
im about 2 people away from dissociating and treating the people around me like objects to be used for my entertainment. seems that's all the people on here do to each other. im emotionally exhausted and regret ever visiting this board.
I love Minecraft soooo much
Modded Minecraft > All other autism outlets
Idk why but is it weird to like the idea of dating someone in a dorm or just sharing a room together or something that’s really small and you had to share a bed under weird or inconvenient circumstances? But both of you don’t have anything against the idea of doing so? So you decide that you guys are okay with it and just start to cuddle out of no where? Somthing I think about often because I picture a room with no windows or other rooms just utterly isolated underground or in the void maybe space? The room is dark but lightly lit with led lights but sometimes if wish that rooms can just have the galaxy as a room.. dark dim candles and mid night incense sticks burning to add with the late night dark mood.. I think of it as a space where u can be safe and time doesn’t move at all. I imagine that there is a computer with a faint humming sound of the fan coming from it but you can see music playing that’s soothing and relaxing and feels like home. But eventually I’d probably get bored of being in the place so I’d open a door and see a never ending horizon of shallow beach water at night from a beach bar but no land in sight but you can see the dark mid night sky with constellations and rainbow asteroids breaking into the atmosphere leaving a after trail of beautiful colors to enjoy like a show. I town around the the room is gone but there is a beach with a tropical mountain somthing straight out of a pirate movie.
>>34517021You are 100% right the rules are exclusively enforced when you upset someone who is clearly a janny/friend of one. No ban for spambotting every single thread with off topic servers or literal cp advertisements but 7 day ban for saying something mean about a catfish>>34519080Paragraphs please>>34518998Don't cut yourself on the edge>>34519048based 12 year old >>34519053never got into it. I feel like a game with a better framework is better for modding. There's not much to vanilla minecraft
>>34519164Vanilla can be fun with a good community, the old /v/ server from long ago was fun. Modded has some fun progression stuff if that's what you're into
>>34518998I hate to tell you this anon but that won’t change anything you know. Those who go and dismantle as they like are kind of born that way, if you care for people and like interacting with them then lying to yourself and larping as the prince would just bring more pain.Just keep going fren And DO NOT look back eh
>>34518892>Damn son I just wanted to know what kind of shit you're shilling and on what boardsFetch me an otaku babe with emo hair and I will
>>34518998leave, dont think its some gold mine that has potential, you know what this place is? did you ever wonder why they made this board? the ad itself tells you exactly what it is.dont listen to peoples success stories half the time people aimless wonder around in life never really finding anything so they make up bullshit to cope.you have 2 options, keep doing the same thing and expect different results, or do something different with new information.youre not wrong in a certain aspect, alot of people are sleeping through life.fear god and keep his commandments.
>>34518972>smiling friends clipsbased... have you watched any of the new episodes? the camping one was absolute kino>>34518991niceee :-D hope u enjoy this weekend!!
>>34518998I know it's said often, but trying to find a woman on here is miserable. I actually have some things going for me compared to the average NEET anime rotter who posts, and I do get adds consistently, but they only come in two flavors: deranged BPD slut and boring, easily offended social retard. Sure, it's not advisable to try to find a girlfriend here, but what do you get on dating apps or in public places? If they're college-aged, you get the two groups I mentioned already, and if they're a little older, it's fat HR ladies who think they're "girl bosses". People (usually 40 y/o millennials) will tell you to join hobby groups, to go to church, to do this and that, as if the odds aren't similarly dismal in those places. It's not an issue of young men all being basement gamer incels, because even if you can attract women, all you'll find is garbage these days. It seems it's best to focus your energy elsewhere.
im chillin, living, etc.
I met my ex gf on here and dated for 5 years, let her move in thinking we were going to get married and have kids when she finished college. I was 15 years older. 3 years in bitch tells me shes not sure she ever will want to have kids. Meanwhile I'm tolerating her birth control, plastic surgery (which I told her she doesn't need, and we wanted to get married), anorexia, helping her repair and improve her relationship with her brother and parents, dropping $100 a week on vapes for her, and paying for nearly everything in my house. 4 years in she graduates and gets her career thanks to my mature wise advice (just get your general education degree, you're failing out of biology 6 years into college, and you can get the kind of job you want still) and then tells me she never ever will have kids. Then a year later she breaks up with me and moves out, leaving behind all her stuff in my house for several months while nearly no communication. Then she starts talking to me like old times and says she wishes we could be back. Then a couple months later, still with her things in my house, she blames me for the relationship not working over discord and obviously torched my reputation with her family members. She then shits on my entire life's ambitions and achievements, shits on my personality and relationships with my loved ones. This is my third lost love and second wasted epoch of a long term relationship. Now I'm 42, wifeless , and childless. It's over bros. They are all evil, just give them enough time.
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I’ve taken so many photos that I’m proud of this year. Been reading a book recently on a Taoist approach to photography. Next year’s photos are going to be even better.
>>34520335nice photo, are you using a phone camera or a dedicated one?
>>34520346Nah, dedicated. This was with a Fujifilm X-Pro2 with a lens adapted from one of my film cameras.
>>34520326So you were with a minor and you were 15 years older and you wonder why she wasn't fucking ready? Retardmaxxing huh?
>>34520535>in college>minorAnd you call him a "retardmaxxer". Terminal mutt brain. inb4>no it's bait, I was actually pretending to be retarded myself you see
>>34520326>15 years older>when she finished collegeSo you were a 33 year old dating an 18 year old or something close to that... Uh yeah no fucking shit it didn't work out, date someone your own age cradle robbing moron. 30+ year old dudes who date women under 25 are almost ALWAYS fucked up douchebags in some way, usually just toxic retards with the emotional intelligence of a baby that thinks they're owed love and loyalty because they pay for shit. Not saying that's you anon but come on even if you're not fucked up in the head or a piece of shit human being you have to realize an 18 year old woman has nothing in common with a 33 year old man, if you really feel the need to date younger then date 30+ year olds since you're 42 now I promise you will have much more success finding meaningful relationships.
>>34521734Jealous hag detected
There's only a handful of anons that are actively trying to have conversations in the SOCIALIZING thread while everyone else is autistically whining without contributing anything of value. >>34518998 and >>34518195are absolutely delusional for thinking they can find friends in this shithole. Do you really want to become friends with someone who says this kind of shit? See: >>34517025>>34520326This thread is exemplifying everything that's wrong with this place.
>>34520270I'll let you in on a little secret, if you can't find a normal well adjusted person on a dating app the problem is YOU, not that there's no crazies on there but you can sift through them and find good people, I was on there for 3 years and found plenty of decent girls before I met my wife. So here's the wake up call, there's a 99% chance you are fucked up in the head and similar to many women have unrealistic expectations of a partner...>I actually have some things going on for meDo you though? Your on 4chan looking for a girlfriend, unless you're making 6 figures and look like a chad you don't get your pick of the litter. Idk you but I've met tons of dudes who make 50K a year and are 6/10 looks wise making the same complaints you are expecting some 10/10 perfect ideal version of a girl to fall into their lap instead of facing the reality that they are pretty fucking average and should be looking for average girls with great personalities so when I see posts like this it's just sad.
>>34519792Thank you!! I think it will be good, I get to see friends I haven’t in a long time and have no responsibilities for the first time in ages! Hope the rest of your week is good aswell anon :-D
>>34521752>Jealous hag detectedRetard detected, I get your probably emotionally stunted but it's literally a maturity and life goals difference. You know it's a fact that most of these relationships don't work out so either you're retard trolling or just a retard in denial. I'm also a dude and dated an 18 year old at 27 and guess what? It didn't work out, sex was great but long term it just doesn't work, period.
>>34517142>>34518043>just do itfuck no, you people are mean as fuck on here
>>34521806They were being completely normal and polite with you, what is your problem? You sound like a whiny little bitch lmfao. Why are you even on 4chan?
left this place some months ago just to come back to it today lonelier and deteriorating. i don’t see any reason for action, because everything is void of meaning to me at this point. not long ago i thought that if i had a man to love i’d have that reason, but now i’m like those prisoners in social confinement only by my own making. i don’t feel like talking. i don’t feel like looking. i don’t feel like sensing. and i can’t pinpoint just yet why this sudden shift..
>Get friend request>Deleted before I get home to accept>Check Discord profile>Request got moved to spam.Haven't accepted from there since I assume it's there for a reason. What makes it go to spam after half a day?
>>34522346Such is the life, I've been broken by someone today after being fluffed up for the past two weeks. it's a tiring endless search even outside of here
I'm not quiet, you've been quiet, just receiving what you said
>>34521998there it is lol
>>34521768>I'll let you in on a little secret, if you can't find a normal well adjusted person on a dating app the problem is YOU, not that there's no crazies on there but you can sift through them and find good peopleI've done plenty of sifting. I live in a metropolitan area of about two million, and swiped on many profiles across the apps. What I found was exactly what I described in my last post. I don't care to argue the mountains of data from the social sciences about how modern dating is skewed towards women's hypergamous behaviors above all else vs. your ancedotes, probably dating back to Obama's presidency, of how there's "decent girls" out there. >Do you though? Your on 4chan looking for a girlfriend, unless you're making 6 figures and look like a chad you don't get your pick of the litter. Idk you but I've met tons of dudes who make 50K a year and are 6/10 looks wise making the same complaints you are expecting some 10/10 I didn't say shit about expecting a 10/10; all the issues I pointed out with modern women were personality traits, and most guys today, myself included, would be happy with a girl who's pleasant, not obese, and not a slut, but that has become a rarity now and most are off the market before you ever know they exist. You should understand that no one is impressed you're married or gives a single fuck about the slampig who settled for you after every other man on the apps had a run at her. Rather than the reasonable or low standards that young men typically have, yours were nonexistent, and that's the only thing that separates you. You would like to think it's because you're actually a catch and not simply a walking wallet, because that makes you feel like a winner (lol) and suits your boomer "I got mine" mindset. But it's completely meaningless when a cuckold fag like you thinks the men of today are at fault, since it's your permissing simping attitude that let them overwhelmingly become whores unfit to be wives and mothers.
>>34521763>There's only a handful of anons that are actively trying to have conversations in the SOCIALIZING thread while everyone else is autistically whining without contributing anything of valuethank you anonanyway im super bored tonight im probably just gonna play terraria and then sleep
>>34517036>tell me more about your theory, am interestedHere's an example in this very thread >>34522604
hello! hi everyone! hows your day/night?
>>34522695>waahhh you derailed my reddit9k NPC chatter thread so I'll call you gay How will I recover from this?
>>34520352nice, i was looking at some the other day, thinking about getting back into it but idk have to stop being a lazy fuck and go outside more i suppose>>34522713is that image real?
>>34522725yes, it is very much real
>>34522742crazy world we live in
>>34522719>How will I recover from this?You won't, that's why no one likes you.
>>34522749>Not being liked by a faggy redditor How will I recover from this?
>>34522748post more ducks pls
>>34522834very well
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>>34522604I always wonder what any femanons lurking feel when they read posts like this. Assuming there's any of you here, do you think there's any truth to this post or is it just a misogynistic rant to you?
>>34522604>>34522955Just realized I made a typo, *permissive, not permissing.
>>34522955It makes me feel flabbergasted. If I lived in area with 2 million people, and made a serious effort to date with no positive results, I would realize I am clearly doing something wrong instead of calling all men [insert insult of choice]. I don't know how so many people go around with no self-awareness and blame everyone else for their issues.
>>34522955both. there isn't even any value in trying to explain ourselves in a place like this because it is a cesspool and very few people are willing to challenge their worldview, especially if it means blaming someone other than women or indians or whatever race is hip to sling shit (hah) at. it is objectively true that 1. dating as a culture - meaning the pursuit of someone to date - favors women. i forget which app but one of them not too long ago did away with their policy that women had to message first (which i did actually like, save for when someone was particularly hot and it made me nervous lol)2. 4chan and the internet at large (including dating apps) are, as aforementioned, cesspoolsyou are absolutely fucking capital r retarded if you think that you are going to find a meaningful connection on 4chan. has it happened? sure. but i'd wager that the percentage of happy marriages that came from soc is maybe half a percent of the connections made. the most recent data i can find shows that 27% of married couples (out of an admittedly small sample of 8000) met on a dating app. that was comparatively a majority but when you think about it 30% of relationships isn't a whole lot.people who talk like this love to pretend that they are noble and honest good men who have been pushed to a breaking point. it takes an iq of maybe 30 to come to the obvious conclusion that they have always seen women as lesser beings. nobody suddenly wakes up with this much hatred towards 49.6% of the population because they didn't find a wife off tinder. these people are rightful social outcasts who have nothing meaningful to offer - if they did, they would have by now found someone who is willing to be the silent bimbo that they so desperately desire, because believe it or not there are plenty of women out there who are also desperate and have no standards. the fact that they haven't found one to claim should tell you all you need to know
>>34523027i think that being able to self-reflect is maybe the most important element of emotional maturity. even if it doesn't result in hatred like this, if you go through life having 0 success with women and your only takeaway is "wow, women must be intrinsically evil," all that tells me is that you have the brain of a child. i will reflect for anon: you are a spiteful, hateful child trying to make connections with women who, even at their worst, are very likely biologically wired to be smarter people than you. how pathetic. crawl into a hole and die there.anyways, i've worked two doubles this week and i'm very tired. i'm feeling pretty good otherwise though!
>>34522834i believe this is my last one
>>34523031>who, even at their worst, are very likely biologically wired to be smarter people than you.Eh?
>>34523006I see reading comprehension isn't your strong suit. If you looked at the numbers on dating today on and off the apps, you'd realize the problem is a shortage of marrigeable women, not women in general. Very few women start having casual sex quite early in life these days, and in doing so decrease their ability to pair bond and drastically raise the risk of divorce and other issues. Just earlier today a woman made flirty remarks about my appearance at the grocery store, but she was a brown single mom with her kid in tow. If you consider who ends up on the apps specifically, you're already dealing with leftovers—the meme of the most obese woman in a group photo being the one behind the account exists for a reason.>rightful social outcasts who have nothing meaningful to offer.....blah blahThis is transparently seethe on your end ("silent bimbo") that men might not care for STD-ridden liberated women, but aside from that, women are most definitely not desperate. In the casual dating culture that I've mentioned, many are convinced that the high-value men who sleep with them on an off night are their equals and will potentially commit to them, when it most certainly isn't the case, and that informs their thinking regarding who they're willing to date going forward; Google "Tinder pig woman experiment" if you'd like an example of just how subterranean the standards for women are. It's extreme midwit thinking to believe that dating outcomes and opportunites are roughly equal based on the gender ratio alone, and it's also hilarious that a person who has to work double shifts at some shit wagie job is telling a white collar man he has nothing to offer, but completely unsurprising.Only on this normalfag colony of a site would wanting the mother of your children not to be an embarrassing whore be considered evil, demonic behavior.>>34523086Shhh...let her cope.
>>34523089I forgot to reply to >>34523027 but that's what the second half of my post is about.
>>34523089*Very few don't begin have casual sex early in life
>>34523096>>34523093>>34523089>tripleposting>8pbtidGet a hobby, another job, get daddy to limit your screentime, something. The state of you
>>34523089i don't need to work two jobs, i work full time at my own business and part time at a retail job that i stay at because i enjoy and like the people at. i do not think that men not wanting "whores" is evil or demonic and i did not say that at any point in my post. i said that you specifically are an idiot manchild. you can continue talking in circles though, i will continue enjoying my life as it is!
>>34523123>a bunch of non-argumentsYou lose, bitch boy. You probably jumped IPs a bunch of times already so I imagine that's projection as well>>34523128>I work in retail because it's fun actuallyThe coping levels are off the charts. And yes, you did screech a bunch of times that I was hateful and bad, although you never really articulated what the basis of that was, since you're just lashing out emotionally. It must be hatred not to want low-value women because...it just is, ok?!?! This is as much of a nonargument as the ones the fag before you made, so I'll accept the concession from both of you.
>>34523152This is you
>>34523157lmao, it'd be something if someone actually came along and said "Dating in the West isn't dysgenic and skewed toward women's hypergamous behaviors, and there are actually many women who are capable of pair bonding and being good wives and mothers. Here's the numbers on that". But it's so transparently the opposite of reality that no one even attempts it, and all you get instead is "reee hateful misogynist" "touch grass unc on skibidi" or "youre this chudjak". Another brainlet fag takes the L, it's safe to say I'm the victor of the thread at this point. I'll let the small talk retards ITT return to what they were doing, picrel
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Photoanon again. Heading up to the mountains in the morning while the rainy weather is still here. I don’t shoot in the rain as much as I’d like, and I think I should change that. My camera is weather sealed, but I’ll feel better with my rain cover should it be more than light rain.I like this sort of thread. It’s comfy and we need more of these.
>>34520326So you spent five years of your life and thousands of dollars on someone who was so far from the same page as you that her own page was on a different zipcode.She's a bitch? Well you're a retard.
>>34520326>I've had only 3 loves/2 relationships but all women are evillmao even.also, ever think maybe you have bad taste in women? like of course meeting a woman from here she probably is a maladjusted, mentally ill whore. water is wet. fire is hot. etc. etc.fucking retard, it's good you don't have kids if you couldn't figure this out in your late 20's let alone 30's or 40's
>>34523031This is why I can't stand /r9k/.>>34523069Thank you, those were some good ducks.>>34523224Sysyphus is gonna have a hell of a time moving his boulder out of there.>we need more of theseAbsolutely.
>>34523528/r9k/ was just>TFW no gfA decade ago, now it's just endless sexist whining (in both directions, since it's been largely colonised by femcels like much of the old internet)
>>34522857>>34522931>>34523069thank you!! i love you <3
That blogposting faggot who won't shut the fuck up about "low value women" and "dating in the west" thinks he "won" the thread. Absolutely insufferable. Go find your gf in this thread >>34232388. You seem like that type of guy. Alternatively, you can also go to the Philippines to find your high value wife. You'll probably end up doing that in 15 years. No one here wants to engage with you.
>>34524086thanx!
