50/50 in my experience

99% of them are

Is it even possible not to be ghosted ? It seems that whatever I do I always end up ghosted for some reasons. Even when everything seems to be ok.

>>34541727
>The girls
You mean mentally ill trannies.
>just looking for attention.
Holy shit dude, you cracked the code. This isn't a dating platform.

Most of them yeah. I've spoken to exactly 4 that made actual conversation but only one paid off.

>Normie girl who clicked here on whim and is cool and we speak daily.
>Other girl who was really nice and sweet for a week but then she stopped responding or appearing online.
>Girl who was unhinged but friendly but she sent me a baity depressed vague message the day after and my brain straight up refused to let me reply to it. Hands kept freezing every time I tried to shit out a "What's wrong?" so got defriended after a bit.
>Swedish girl who added me "to ask why I want to be friends with women specifically" and we spoke in depth for an hour after I answered then she also stopped replying or appearing online. She posted here later on a slightly different account name selling hang out time so she was only friendly to scout me as a buyer, shame because she was fun to talk too.

>>34541727
We're ALL here looking for attention you fuckless nitwit

>>34541727
Well yeah, that's what everyone here is for. You're just upset women can get it easily from other people that aren't you. Try being interesting (that requires actually doing interesting things and not spending all day in front of a screen)

Wait, you all are unironically look for girlfriends here? On 4chan? Yeah, you guys are idiots. Just go outside and meet people.

There are girls on this board? I thought it's all crossdressing gay men.

>>34542412
They mostly hang around the female camwhore threads, but troons, incels, discordtards, and general trolls have been shitposting them a lot lately.

>>34542412
There's some but they mostly lurk since posting themselves just results in getting 9 trillion requests, most of which are just dick pics.

>>34542412
I've gotten a few on teleguard

>>34542360
I was a girlfriend to someone I met off soc two years ago. He lived 30 minutes away and we cuddled when we met for the first time. He blocked me two weeks later because I was too clingy and obsessive and weird.

It is possible just dont be too obsessive like I was.

>>34542559
I was the boyfriend of a girl very similar to you who i also met on soc. We cuddled the first time we met, and dated for about 2 months. I ended up leaving because she threatened herself and me with a knife after getting blackout drunk.

Clingy is okay to a point, but when it causes a strain on other relationships or even on the relationship you're trying to build right here and now then it can be a poison

>>34542559
I've always wondered how many fuckbuddies or couples happen because of soc

>>34542687
>>34542559
>>34542412
I've also been in a long term relationship from soc. During it there wasn't really any point in coming back to say "hey I'm in a relationship now". I think there's more success than people think, but it wouldn't really make sense to report back.

>>34542687
Lot of hook ups. Might as well call this board Tarder. Situationships more frequent than Relationships. But all of these together account for like less than 5% of interactions with relationships that last being the most rare. If you think the board is full of ghosting women, well, they're all going somewhere, just not you. Same rules that apply to dating apps apply to this cesspit. I will say, there's more variance here, can even be a little less superficial in a kind of wholesome way, but this board is literally an ironic joke. It always makes me smirk when people come on here and act like they're above it all while actively seeking attention.

I want to hook up with many from here, but horny stuff aside, people need to understand that being attached to someone and actively weighting them down are two different things, obviously the latter being something to avoid. There's my two cents on at least some relations between you fucking retards and idiots, I can give more basic ideas and stuff if you want

>>34541769
i love attention either bad or good

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>>34542750
There's a special kind of pain that comes with having spent 2 years in here desperately trying, without ever having tasted a femanon's nectar. Sleep tight, all you sexhavers

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i'm not a girl, but i want attention too. i'll give you mine in return. all night long. will react poorly to rude or coomer things. fake.wrong on discord.

>>34542961
>namefag
>i love attention
could never have guessed

Stop giving it to them.

Simple.

>>34543486
ty :)
>>34543567
it'll break my sad lil heart

>>34542360
Where? There’s no girls my age anywhere except on dating apps and I barely get any matches for some reason.

>>34542425
>muh 1 million requests
This is a lie they tell here by the way.

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>>34541727
the only kind of woman that would ever make a post here is an attention whore

think about it for a second
women know that when they post here as an F, they'll get 50+ adds, the vast majority of which will be simps
if they really just wanted to find someone to play X niche game with them, they would post as an M in order to filter retards that spam add every F without reading the post
or they would just, you know, add a guy directly, which would completely eliminate the simp spam

so why would any woman post here, instead of employing one of the above strategies?
because they WANT the attention
they WANT the simps
they WANT the spam
they WANT to see the number in the little red discord discord bubble go up
seriously, no mentally healthy person would want to receive 50 friend requests. One time I got 4 adds from a post I made here and that was enough to make me turn off friend requests. You have to be utterly fucking insane and a globally ranked top 500 attention whore if you would be okay with getting 50 or 100 adds

remember this anytime you're thinking of adding a woman here. You are 1 of 100+ guys whose sole collective job is to bolster her fragile ego


P.S.
here are some bonus attention whore red flags
>discord status is DND
>has discord nitro
>changes her profile picture or bio frequently
>account is less than a year old
>plays league, overwatch, valorant, marvel rivals, genshin, dead by daylight, or roblox

I’m a lonely 30 something stay at home mum. I love attention from online degenerates, it makes me feel alive.

>>34543858
dangerously based

There’s girl on here lmfao

>>34543858
>has discord nitro
explain

>>34541727
isn't that the point?

like to simp for em and show em love like they deserve?

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I need some attention here am horny


Telegram AinaGo7

>>34544297
grim

>>34544257
I'm guessing it either means she had someone buy it for her or she uses discord way too much, hence the nitro.
You don't want someone that uses you as a paypig for obvious reasons and you don't want a girl 24/7 on discord cause they're either insufferable or 300 lbs, sometimes both.

>>34541727
..on this board?

>>34541727
oh no! I think he's onto us (´⊙ω⊙`)!

everybody likes attention, especially the attention of somebody they like, even yourself
the moment you stop trying to be macdaddy mr. aloof 2kool4u and accept this fact the easier it'll be to live

>>34543906
Discord?

The issue alot of you guys have with the women of this board is that all of you willingly add the women the post when those are usually the worst ones of the lot. Just make a post that isnt just you listing off every anime or video game you like and wait until one of the good ones add YOU.

>>34544463
fact check: true

>>34544463
I did that once, one or two added me. One never said anything the other didn't feel like talking much and ghosted me 2 days later.
You just can't win.

>>34544474
If you get upset over two broads, you are not built for life. F1 - Kill.

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>>34544257
most of what >>34544345 is right
basically nitro means she either has simps that buy it for her, or she's retarded enough to pay for it herself
also implies that she spends a lot of time on discord, which means that she probably has no real hobbies and also there's a good chance that she's talking to a lot of other guys

I had a 3 year relationship with a guy I met off this board. I used to attentionwhore on here a lot but whores need love too, if anything more than a normal girl. I think you're stupid expecting to find a mentally stable girl or a long term relationship- most of the girls on here are really damaged and there's a way higher barrier of entry im the female loser who uses 4chan compared to their male counterpart so obviously women on here are a mess. Just enjoy the female company while you can clearly some of you don't talk to women irl so you have to accept these scraps.

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>>34545351
>lol you don't talk to women irl anyway so be grateful for being treated like shit and ghosted
Fuck off

>>34541727

god i hope this a troll post

>>34543906
whats your discord, id love to chat

In my experience actually investing on men in this board doesn't pay off, they are either going to ghost you or so mentally unstable the BPD women will seem normal

>>34548446
Sorry anon, I get how you feel, I invest too much time here lately, because I don't even have free time anymore to make friends with work and parental responsibilities, but I still come here and it's sad lol. Gotta try and avoid this place more and work on myself, because even if I've not been as crazy as some of the BPD women are, but I'm here, so I've got flaws I need to work on.
Whether you're a gay guy or straight lady, good luck anyways.

>>34548455
Thank you, I am a woman and currently getting ghosted.
I wish he would text me back already so I could pretend he does want me as much as I want him, but at the same time I have been trough this before and just hope I will forget he exists so I can find someone irl as flawed as me.
I understand the feeling, I am not as dysfunctional as the average 4chan user but I still feel like there are many unusual things about me so I keep coming back here

>>34548489
>>34548446
If you came to this realization it's better to find people elsewhere. Don't bother sad-posting either because even if he sees it he'll just use it against you and possibly even attack you. Work on your self respect

>>34548446
>>34548489
Which country you in anon? Male here and I'm so frustrated with the /soc/ experience in general I'd honestly just try a random equally frustrated woman at this point.

>>34548629
Don't fall for this either. He will take out his sublimated frustration on you in some way.

>>34548634
No I won't, sorry you're so bitter

>>34548629
I live South America, there are very people from here on /soc/ so I think that contributes to the eventual ghosting

>>34548642
live in*
bro I hate typos

>>34548642
Fair enough. I'm in the UK but I will say the woman I connected most with from here was also from South America. Crazy world

>>34541727
isn't everyone here supposed to be?

I'm a looser femcel and I reaaally need attention right now!! >_<
Please leave your discord here!

>>34550515
No.

>>34548629
It’s a troll dude. No man on here is going to ignore a girl showing interest lol. Easiest way to call people like this out is to just ask them to post their contact.

>>34541762
the number of times i've had girls add me, MAYBE say hello and start talking before immediately disappearing again. forever.

Test

>>34542278
Damn. I just want a normie girl

yes

>>34542286
That only gets you so far from my experience. I ought to know because I've been doing literal comedic performances in womens' DMs for ages now but haven't noticed a meaningful difference to when I didn't do that.

Apart from a few exceptions, the only /soc/ women whose attention I could hold for more than a few days were either completely dry and boring or they were despicable online bullies looking for a guy to abuse.

>>34557427
What were the exceptions?

>>34557633
Over the course of two years:
-A sweet, quirky girl I really liked and that I had a falling out with. Unfortunately, we couldn't recover from it.
-A girl I lost interest in after a few days.
-Another sweet girl that doesn't VC. This one doesn't even do audios or face-reveal. I know she likes me and we had our good moments but she doesn't reply to a good amount of my messages, so I'm not too happy about that relationship either.
-Some girl that wanted e sex a couple of times but stopped replying mid-act every time

>>34543858
>remember this anytime you're thinking of adding a woman here. You are 1 of 100+ guys whose sole collective job is to bolster her fragile ego

This is the truth, sadly. Like with this shithole, most women online are simp collectors with the odd unicorn who wants a genuine connection. I know women in their 50s who have lists of guys numbers they can pluck from (could be for food, sex, or whatever they need).

More importantly, most of you guys need to stop being so damn thirsty and desperate. I'm seeing childless guys wife up single mothers, men going back to their abusers/cheaters because they're so scared to loose access to pussy. Never saw this shit 15 years ago.

Stop with the desperation, stop sending them money, stop swiping/adding women you don't even like, stop treating them like gods and things can (possibly but they wont) go back to normal.

>>34545351
>whores
>love

You may only choose 1 (one).

>>34541727
I'm looking for an attentionwhore girl, but I want someone overly mentally ill to the point that other people refuse to give her attention for any extended period of time. Everyone here just wants attention though, that's the whole point of the board, isn't it?

My girl definitely is just looking for attention she flirt eithbstrangers at clubs and bars she'd told me about the men that have come and felt her the amount that give her their number and try and get her to do more if you Wana talk about it

gf_gotz_hugeTit kik

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>>34541727
This board has constant generals that exist purely to worship and praise women.
See threads like
>>34547836
>>34534847
>>34530438
>>34504324
>>34554123
>>34449219
>>34422706
>>34391867
And that's not counting all the not so subtle porn exchange threads like the Discord, Kik, and Session threads they can slip into effortlessly.
Really, all it takes is to type /F/ and you're guaranteed to have at least half a dozen simps trying to add you, contact you, or compliment/flirt with you.

It's not (entirely) the women's fault when the entire board openly encourages attention-whoring behavior. Ironic given the anonymous nature of the website.

>>34559126
The threads you listed are fap threads only and begging for contact info in those threads is a bannable offense.

>>34559134
You're still pouring praise and attention towards women in particular. Intent does not matter.

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trvth nuke incoming

99.999999% of the women who post here are attention whores and whores in general. Even the ones who post in "SFW only" threads will get naked for you and start trauma dumping 3 hours into decent conversation if you're attractive and not a sperg. True in more instances than most of you would believe.

I've been on this board for over 10 years on and off and I couldn't even begin to count the amount of women that have sent nudes and more. It must be in the hundreds. I'm not even that attractive of a guy or that horny either, so I can imagine it's even worse out there. You might think I'm bragging but at this point in my life whores genuinely disgust me.

Good advice any newfag should listen to: you should never, ever, ever trust what a female says she's looking for from this board. Genuinely doesn't matter what they say or where they post. I've been added by women from hookup threads and they want to marry. Women from SFW threads and they want to be a fucktoy. The only common denominator is that they're here for a reason, and that reason is NEVER "oh I was just bored and trying to find friends!" They're almost always looking to fulfill something missing in their life. And if you know women, you know that they're kind of clueless retards and don't understand how to fix their own problems. So they come here and get fucked up in the head by being disposable sluts. It's tragic.

Honestly this place has kind of turned into a parody of itself and is basically completely useless for 99% of you because I mean come on a lot of you are kinda weird and lonely. I would recommend you look elsewhere unless you're chasing nudes. The women here aren't worth your time and will hurt you if you don't know what you're getting into. Or if you're a retard you're just gonna get catfished.

>>34559136
You ever heard of talking a woman out her drawers?

>>34559151
>You ever heard of talking a woman out her drawers?
Yeah, to get a woman to give you something you could get significantly quicker by looking up porn. And unlike doing what you said in real life you're not getting sex out of it.
My point is those threads give women a platform, a gateway, an open invitation to be a shameless attention whore. To post whatever she wants and get showered with praise and compliments and good brain chemicals by whoring herself out similar to an OnlyFans account, except here they get as much pay as your local janishits. And by doing this, the board is creating an environment where that is encouraged. Why look for friends or meetups when they can perform softcore porn for a bunch of horny retards who will endlessly suck up to them? It's quicker, easier, and grants instant gratification. And any woman broken enough to visit this board for one reason or another will either end up leaving (if all the faggot/tranny gaping asshole OPs haven't made them do so already) or join in on the fun, dropping any intent to do anything but camwhore. It is but one of many reasons to advocate for a blue /soc/.

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>>34559138
This was someone I messaged from a SFW thread btw. Totally normal post, not looking for sex, "I have high standards, I don't just have sex with anyone, I like to feel a strong connection"

meanewhile LMAO. Never ever ever trust women

>>34559175
Tell me how I know you're a newfag or probably started posting here in 2019.

>>34559179
I know exactly who this is, she sent me the same exact copypaste fantasy after reaching out from the sfw thread LMAO sadly can confirm it's a woman larping a fantasy and not a guy larping as a woman
Well over half the time any time a woman adds me or I add them, it becomes sexual or flirtations within a few days tops, despite only posting or adding from sfw threads. I'd never in my wildest dreams date a /soc/ girl again, they'll fuck around on you or are cheating on someone else with you. I can admit I have a double standard since I haven't exactly been faithful in a fair amount of relationships, but it made it easy to notice the same weasel words and avoidant behavior I use

>>34559217
She told me it was something that happened to her very recently, not a fantasy, but she struck me as a very compulsive liar so who knows and who cares what's true.

Point wasn't to shame her specifically, only to highlight the absolute absurdity of DMs you'll receive from SFW-posting women that have "high standards" around here.

>it made it easy to notice the same weasel words and avoidant behavior I use
Tell me about it. I can recognize this behavior just from exposure to it, unfortunately, and it is scary how many women on /soc/ do this.

>inb4 some angry roastie replies with "but MEN HERE SUCK TOO"
Yes we know. We see the simps and tranny loving gooners too.

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>>34543858
mostly true, however normal girls do post here, just not more than a few times. you're a lot more likely to come across a girl that posts here a lot than a girl that posted once or twice, found what she wanted, and then stopped posting

>>34541727
Absolutely, and the ones that say they're looking for the just friendship and add guys who are obviously desperate for a relationship are just looking to milk for that attention even more.
Every single person here is dysfunctional, the men and the women.
The difference is dysfunctional women can still find genuine connections and attempts at relationships/conversations/friendships in traditional/normie spaces, the dysfunctional men obviously can't.
>>34541762
It's really simple, they're talking to a dozen plus people at the same time.
It's a dancing monkey contest and unfortunately you got tired out and your "tempo" slowed down or the other monkey was more flashy.
Even if you hit it off and have a really good conversation or two, eventually she's going to get bored and just find someone new.
It might take a couple of days, a couple of weeks or a couple of months, but she's looking for novel experiences not real connections
>>34542360
Most are to dysfunctional defined a woman in normal spaces
A good portion of the men here are so physically unappealing and often at the same time charismatically a black hole no boomer advice you could possibly give would help them in normal situations for dating.
But some of them are just young and lazy/scaredy cats
>>34542412
It's about 95-98% gay men.
>>34542559
I feel like the “weird” part might be critically vague here.
At this point in my life I'd be willing to commit war crimes just to have someone to cuddle every once in a while.
I've completely given up on hopes of a relationship and having a woman be actually genuinely interested in me.
>>34544463
Can confirm the only remotely decent conversations that I had added me, years ago I stopped adding them.
The ones that posted and I added never put effort into the conversation whatsoever

>>34545351
The problem here is both parties are dysfunctional and both parties project.
There is a very large portion of men that are more or less not that dysfunctional but extremely isolated never have been paid attention to or given a chance.
That creates a social death spiral.
They presume that the women on here will be like them.
And you are a woman and you know all too well your own issues, and you probably project that on to those men.

I have personally had multiple instances of chronically lonely girls basically show their projection to me asking all sorts of things that transparently translate to
>hmm I'm slightly interested but if you're chronically single that means you're being overly picky and petty, so what are the things you're being picky and petty about
They don't realize that my personal flaws and issues that impede me from having relationships aren't the same as theirs.

Finally no you don't need MORE attention and love
You probably received far more than you ever needed, you just got the wrong kind from the wrong places and you know it.
>>34548446
I'm not trying to sound cruel here but you've got bad taste.
There's hundreds of guys on here and you're picking those types, but on the other hand yes every single guy on here is dysfunctional.
I've never ghosted a woman that wasn't rude/creepy/weird/disgusting and obviously trying to be that
>>34557833
>Another sweet girl that doesn't VC. This one doesn't even do audios or face-reveal.
That's either not a woman or she definitely doesn't like you.
There's this thing called manipulating and lying where you can make someone think they believe something and they don't actually believe that.

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>>34560759
>There is a very large portion of men that are more or less not that dysfunctional but extremely isolated never have been paid attention to or given a chance. That creates a social death spiral.
You didn't have to call me out like that.

>>34561535
Sorry man it is how it is.
Humans are pack animals and defer to group consensus especially women.
No one needs to know why you're chronically single.
The fact that you're chronically single is enough for them to make a judgment to not want you.
They don't have to witness type of social interactions or even here testimony of it from others.
Women can smell it on you from a mile away, just like they can with men on the spectrum.
That's the gist of the reasoning knowingly or unknowingly.

My only genuine advice here is it's basically gambling.
Don't expect to win, expect to lose a lot, actually expect to only lose.
But if you don't gamble you have absolutely zero chance of winning, and unfortunately if you're anything like me gambling is the only option.
So keep hope and try to some degree, until the pain of that hope becomes so much greater than the loneliness you can't stand it anymore.

>>34541727
Girls are just looking for attention, everywhere, all the time. It's their cocaine.

>>34557833
Lmao I know who you are

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>>34561750
>Women can smell it on you from a mile away, just like they can with men on the spectrum.

>>34562289
Abusers know how to hide it better

>>34562308
Yes and no.
One time is bad luck, twice is maybe a coincidence and three times is a pattern.
If the woman has had three or more men who were abusive as partners she's choosing for personality types or characteristics that are directly or indirectly related to abusive personalities.
It might be as simple as them liking aggressive or assertive men.
Not all aggressive and assertive men are physically abusive but for the most part all physical abusers are.
The same logic applies for men with chronic bad partners, if all your girlfriends cheated on you.
At some point you have to ask yourself what is it I like in these women that is a common thread.

But on the notion of knowing how to hide it.
I wonder if women ever think about the fact that the men that pass all their tests and games might not be doing so not because they're the "right one"
Maybe they're so good at it because they've done it many times and they know how to be a player.
I'm guessing not because they'd realize that most of these games and tests also filter out all the genuine suitors who don't like juvenile manipulation.

>>34541762
The best people I've spoken to accept the request after like twenty days

>>34562397
if i add someone and they don't accept or reply within a day or two, i delete them. i'm not going to orbit someone desperate for a crumb of attention.

>>34562013
>WpFt5k/j
Then what's the first letter of my first name?

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>>34559138
>I'm not even that attractive of a guy or that horny either
how were you getting nudes out of these women then? Are you just good at creating a sexual vibe and naturally escalating?

>>34562851
NTA but I've gotten plenty of nudes from a number of girls as well. Fact is, most of the posters here (men and women) are natural sluts, either from porn brainrot or just a desperate need to feel wanted and admired for once. So when someone starts getting flirty and so much as implies you want nudes, it's incredibly easy to get them.

>>34541727
Yeah the entire point of this board is attention whoring.
You think you'll actually find your soulmate in this hellhole? Please. The girls here are just Hollywood bimbos in oversized hoodies who say "retard." They're still manipulative, overly emotional, and Chadsexual.

>>34562851
I only post and wait to get added by women, make my intentions clear, and I know how to have a conversation. I'm also funny and have a really big dick. That's literally it. Women here have pretty low standards, just don't act like a fucking retard or waste your time with obvious gigawhores or children.

>>34563396
>I only post and wait to get added by women
ah I see
so your posts are flirtatious/sexual in nature?
>and have a really big dick
do the women know this going in? Do yiu say this in your posts?

>>34564393
SFW posts only. Sincerely write about yourself instead of only posting a list of interests and wamen will add you
>do the women know this going in?
If you're not uggo and get along well with a woman here for a few hours worth of conversation she will be down to flirt more likely than not.

>>34564788
>tfw ugly and boring/awkward around people unless I've known them for a long time

>>34563264
Most women here want to cheat too

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>>34564788
I think you just got it man. I'm not quite sure what "it" is, but I think you have it and I don't
I've talked to women from soc for multiple months and gotten zero genuine sexual attention. And these were blatantly whorish women that were, in all likelihood, sending nudes to other guys while talking to me. The most I ever got was teasing (saying stuff like "omg u make me so horny!!!", but obviously as a joke). Like it's actually kind of wild lol. I guess I have such strong gay bestie energy that to women, the idea of being attracted to me is so absurd that it's funny
I just get instantly clocked by women as a beta cuck simp and I'm not sure how to fix it
idk where I'm even going with this. What advice would you give me, e-chad?

Who isn’t?

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>>34545351
You cheated on him didnt you

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>>34561750
>Women can smell it on you from a mile away, just like they can with men on the spectrum.
This isn't really true, femanons just say this as yet another form of tedious, misandric virtue signalling. It's more accurate to say that fellow autists (male or female) can "smell" each other from a mile away, and as you've said in your earlier post, they're projecting what they hate about themselves onto male autists.

>>34562387
>I wonder if women ever think about the fact that the men that pass all their tests and games might not be doing so not because they're the "right one"
>I'm guessing not because they'd realize that most of these games and tests also filter out all the genuine suitors who don't like juvenile manipulation.
This is what I've been thinking for a while now. I take for granted that female posters will be like this so I generally don't bother, but even a lot of women who reach out first have this annoyingly stuck-up attitude, like I have to prove myself worthy of interacting with them simply because they're women (all while thinking I should pay for the abuse that other men have allegedly inflicted on them, apparently not grasping that we're in fact different people and that I'm not responsible for their behaviour). Now there are obviously men who do this too, but only one way round is sanctioned by mainstream society, leading to the increasing resentment of men towards women seen almost everywhere in the developed world (which is the actual story, no one gives a shit that women hate men lmao).

>>34566332
>This isn't really true
Sorry but in my 35 years of life and being friends with people who are certified high functioning autistics this is 100% true.
It's not just true some of the time, women are hypersensitive to it.
>like I have to prove myself worthy of interacting with them simply because they're women (all while thinking I should pay for the abuse that other men have allegedly inflicted on them, apparently not grasping that we're in fact different people and that I'm not responsible for their behaviour).
It's not just you, that's also something I have witnessed and experienced many times over
Not just from women on here you can find it in pretty much any women that participate in social media or online dating.
While I can't read people's minds and only can judge from what they do, I have a theory on this.
I think the misplaced treatment the blame for other people's actions is directly proportional to how much you are not mistreating them.
They didn't act shitty to the men who abused them, but for some reason be it guilt or insecurity the more you are unlike those men.
The more that you show yourself to be genuine, the more that you show yourself to be honest and open and communicative.
The more that they will resent you for it.
Alternatively for the ones that are just evil people being genuine, open and honest makes you an easier target than closed off and manipulatively aware abusers.

Last serious attempt I had with a relationship was with a supposedly isolated and in her own words “socially retarded” rusty/inexperienced girl.
She ended up leading me on for 4 months at points basically begging me to give her more time.
At the end she said she didn't understand why I didn't pick up on her asking me to give her more time was her way of telling me to give up.
Also my favorite part, the disdain that was dripping from her words when she said “I can't believe how naive you were, you were so honest”

>>34566403
>women are hypersensitive to it.
This is just feminist hubris, what they're "hypersensitive" to is that supposedly autistic men won't do whatever stupid mating dance they expect as a prerequisite for interacting with them (as again, you've basically laid out in your post anyway)

Even the ones that don't ghost you, the moment you say something they aren't inherently fan of, or god forbid, you make a lighthearted joke at their expense - bam, blocked within 10 milliseconds world record any%. Zero charisma, humour, and patience. They literally don't care that you two had fun previous 3 days, they don't form any sort of bond or friendship and just block or ghost without second thoughts.

Mind you, im not talking about whores that make a post, these are women that added me. I also look good, better than them in 95% of cases and don't have any creepy disgusting fetishes or anything. The game is simply rigged and you will never be enough for their mental disorder. Unless you are a billionaire werewolf with 10 inches and a knot that can fly them out to hawaii, you won't be fun for long. Post covid 4chan is a complete wasteland, women that happen to come here are complete fuckups and beyond salvation.

>>34566471
>creepy disgusting fetishes
Again this is more misandric virtue-signalling. As anyone who's spent a small amount of time in a kink community can attest, there are loads of women into this stuff too and they're generally masochists. It's emotionally stunted women who can't accept their urges and project them onto men instead. There's nothing inherently immoral about any sexual fetish, it's about how you indulge in it

>>34566485
I know but i just wanted to clear that up before anyone went to say "well ofc they are gonna block you when you say you are into scat and pedo" or some shit.

>>34564973
Simple, stop being so fucking depressing and down on yourself. If you're not already in good shape go start lifting because you sound like you hate yourself. Women can smell insecurity like it's chum in the water except they want no part in it.

I don't know you I can't give you advice. I don't know what you want from this place. Nudes? If you can't get nudes from the women here you need a lot more help than I can give you.

no woman on the internet likes what you like or wants to know you for genuine bonding they have 20 other retards wrapped around their fingers

Idk y this thread is so long...women don't exist online.

>>34543858
replace discord status of DND with offline and its correct
women here like to appear offline all the fucking time

>>34567212
I know men and women who do this, just because sometimes they don’t have energy to reply even if they are currently online, and just don’t want to feel pressured to reply or make you think they’re ignoring you. I don’t see the big deal.

>>34557427
>despicable online bullies looking for a guy to abuse.
Ngl, I would love to be mentally wrecked by a femanon.