Was it just because you disliked all the templates? Then just type out whatever you'd like or want to do followed by your tag. This is your time to shine.Those who post their tags in every thread are not allowed.
>>34613173this thread is way too general... it's honestly even more intimidating than the ones with templates and a focused subject
>>34613177Don't be shy, go ahead and try!
I’m new to 4chan, what’s a tag? Like a sigh off at the end of a reply? Can mine be a photo? Specifically this photo?
>>34613173I want something hyperspecific and no threads are a good match and even if they were no people are going to bite because what I want sounds like a complete and utter trap>>34613181tag like your discord name so people can add you
>>34613187If it's hyperspecific, you need to prepare for disappointment in the first place even if a thread about it magically appeared!Refer to >>34613180
Discord is pony__enjoyerLooking for MLP enjoyers. Porn, chat,whatever.
>>34613366Or tans girls if in Illinois
>>34613362I'm very prepared for disappointmentI want a female internet friend who has few to no friends, likes to talk about herself, is mentally ill to a somewhat extreme level (personality disorder, trauma, etc.), won't want to meet up, won't want to vc, is somewhat old (let's say 25+), and primarily active during the night (US hours, she can be located wherever). It does not have to be a real friendship either so if she has some emotional deficits that's acceptable.The mental illness thread is the closest match, but none of the people there seem to be looking for this kind of arrangement.
>>34613187I too refrain from posting because I want something hyperspecific. Where's my autistic gay MarxistLeninistMaoist shotacon boyfriend...
>>34613381You want to be someone's diary, basically?
>>34613432That's a great way of phrasing it. I would actually engage them in conversation of course, but it does kind of boil down to me just being a human diary. The concept makes people uncomfortable though, it's very one sided so they doubt my motives. I don't blame them, but it does make it hard to find someone to do this with.
>>34613450Why do you want that to do that, though?
>>34613461I don't really know. It's just comfortable for me. I'm not at the level of introspection required to really understand why I like this, but I've done it before a few times.
>>34613173Almost every post is the following generic npc ai generated slop. >whatever/gender/who cares>i like the color blue, various media i consume cause my life is boring and, i work or don't, also i think cats are cute>im looking for people that consume the same things i do so i can talk about them, not bond at all with the other person and eventually ghost them or delete my account>contactJust things they enjoy doing or watching that tells me nothing about the actual person behind their fabricated personality of curated media and hobbies.Also, men don't add me because I'm not interested in sleeping with them so I only get women who pretend to wanna be friends until they fall in love with me and ruin the friendship. This is why I lurk.
>>34613381Cloudsofsam
PHOTOGRAPHY AND KISS !emergencyexist
I wanted to post my tag proposing something fun but I'm too down in the dumps feel like it for now
>>34613483ya people act as if that is the only thing to talk about with it never leading into anything else. i don't think i've ever became good friends by intentionally seeking it out. it just kind of happenedit also sucks if you don't consume lots of slop or have many hobbies or interests but still just like to talk.talking and meeting people is so much different online than in person
>>34613483>>34614304Notice how neither of you provide alternative information people can provide about themselves. It's the nature of how things work in an online setting where the vast majority of people are going to be on the other side of the continent from each other.
im looking for the most hyperspecific thing ever because I want someone who's just like someone I spoke to on here before but who won't ghost but nice idea. I have a recurring dream where there is a soc thread where people simply post what they are looking for hyperspecifically and people can see if they match or post their own and I've thought of making it
>>34613173>Was it just because you disliked all the templatesnah it's because it's a bad idea for everybody involved. on a surface level I'm what many people are looking for, underneath I am broken in a way that leads me to seek out unhealthy dependent long-distance relationships, promise them the world, and then lead them on until I can't keep it up and it collapses.lurking without adding anybody is the compromise that is arguably less bad.>>34613181cool photo tho
>>34613483I dont want to sleep with you. I just want to see your tits and holes.
>>34613173it's because every single chick on here has at least 20 guys adding her lol, cba to compete, especially because sometimes you might be a good match but you'll never actually know since they won't even give you a chance because of how swarmed they are>>34614440then just seek out a healthy relationship instead and you're good
add me if you like video games and hate all of the other threads on this boardramsec
>>34615434I know youcool user
>>34613483a lot of the time when you have a personality, having media you relate to another person enjoying can be a good way for organic emergence of your traits. Now me personality i try to say multiple things that also imply my character and more granular things bnaout my personality but like, i cant exactly say "im super hot and smart and funny" and does it really make anybody more likely to want to get to know me if i try to analyze myself and give you a super ego loaded answer of like "im a super honest person" "im a good listener" "i value having integrity" self claims are all meaningless and dubious 99% of the time. anyways my posts are kind of good tho you should go through all the threads and see if you recognize my typing quikrs in them and then add me....
I want to find people to draw with. I like drawing only with other people.
>>34613181>Like a sigh off at the end of a replyThat's a cute idea. Reminds me of how I used to feel about 4chan. Sigh.
>>34613483>who pretend to wanna be friends until they fall in loveYou're implying you're a woman... Are the yuri rates are that high in 2025?
>asl Mtf 22 (if you care very deeply about these things we're unlikely to get along)>abouti never went to school, moved alot as a child, diagnosed cptsd/adhd, yet somehow more assertive than others with my circumstancesi don't do casual friendships. it is all or nothing for me, whether i like you or not is a binary. i can be very selective, and completely apathetic to those i'm not close withi love being understood on deeper levels, and i love attention from those that do understand me. i like to have multiple people in an inner circle that i talk to frequently.I mostly only talk about games (and game design-adjacent topics), but i can enjoy mental health/illness/philosophy talk and blogposting if we are similar peopleLately, i've mostly been playing games on my 3DS, i enjoy mainseries pokemon gamesI like many different games, though. often simple/barebones, mechanics focused, "arcade-y" games>gamesnintendo:kirby 64, smw, splatoon, 3D land/world, pokemon (especially gen 7)indie:cavern of dreams, star of providence, everhood 1, pikuniku, gonner, upturneddoesn't fit in anywhere but i also really like spyro 1, and have an odd, stressful, hateful relationship with minecraft>other interests weed, plushies, attentionI like people who just get it, being misunderstood is stressfulNot looking for any casual friends, be available daily at the minimum please I am not attracted to men>contact discord: sudsforthesoul open with your intentions please
ok well 18biof usa estim drained and depressed, turned 18 this month, don't know what to do in life/future, possible addiction to stimulants, looking for older person (preferably mother-like) to talk to, over share to, and to (kinda frequently) give me advice..someone who's patient, understanding, and a good listenerI might fall asleep soon though tag leannzi
>>34613481I’m nineteen but interested, if you are.
>>34615054>just seek out a healthy relationship insteadbut I don't want that
>>34614304I've lost many friends after I stopped consuming the same things that they did and it made me wonder if instead of friends we were simply acquaintances of circumstance.>>34614319OP asked, I vented.>>34615483If you wanna talk about your niche hobbies there are plenty of places on the internet to do such. I'm here seeking human connection, not discuss the latest marvel movies.>>34614478>>34615571Are you motherfuckers really that horny you assume everyone is a hot nudist bimbo?
A comfy original thread? In my /soc/?Well, I'll be.I'm not quite a lurker, I have been posting my tag a few times this year so I'll refrain from posting for now. Good to see some nice stuff come up!
>>34616426Fair, I just thought it more likely for a woman to want friendship instead of romance than a man
>>34614319i just explained?>>34616426ya i wonder how much in common does a person have to have in order to form a connection. obviously you would want something in common or similar but what's the minimum. it also depends on both parties
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>>34615495i will draw with you add discord newhome11928
I'm a dead empty NEET who can barely interact with people IRL and has never been much better online. I browse through /soc/ sometimes, read peoples posts and imagine.
>>34613173I'm too self-conscious to advertise myself and post my tag. And I'm an autistic neet and I feel like I can't really connect with 'normies', it just feels weird. So I just lurk and add people occasionally, but nothing has worked out.It doesn't help that I seem to have niche/boring interests. I pretty much just read (100+ books read this year), workout and scroll online. I still play games but when I do it's never multiplayer. I don't really care about games anymore which is seemingly 90% of people's sole hobby on this site. I watch occasional anime/read manga, but I'm not obsessed with it like others.And my sexual kinks feel incompatible with everyone else, so I can't even begin to try and interact with others regarding sex stuff. I don't even want to, but people don't seem to believe that when I tell them.idk I'm done rambling.
>>34616023I'm sorry, that's too young for me but thank you for your interest.
I only lurk now. A lot of people here have bad intentions and I'm not interested.
>>34616345then you'll never be happy, there's no reason for you to live
>>34616898>niche/boring interests>I pretty much just read (100+ books read this year)Anon, wouldn't that make you pretty interesting to talk to? You probably have a lot to talk about from all the stuff you've read over the year
>>34617387You might think that, but no. People don't care. If a topic comes up, sure, I can respond back if it pertains to a book I've read. But actually trying to talk about a book to someone? No. Especially if it's some obscure philosophical topic. I don't know, maybe I'm doing something wrong. But there's yet to be a situation where someone's said "what have you been reading" and I've tried to explain and not just gotten hit with a "cool" or whatever.
>>34613173I realized that I was too autistic to interact/chat with people even if just the right girl added me.
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>>34613483this, im sick and tired of being ghosted or someone deleting their throwaway
Has anyone ever had any luck in terms of friendships or relationships on here anyway?
>>34617673Had a few successful friendships, but love... bleh, thought I did but the person I was talking to was too dismissive and it destroyed me until I just had to stop investing so many of my thoughts and attention to them. I deserve better or whatever.
To add, a lot of people are so maladjusted or simply just don't know how to treat someone right. Even if the right person for them came along they fuck it up through sabotage or harming the other person
>>34617686Did you add them or they added you? I've been lurking for awhile and seen a few interesting people for friendships, but didn't and still don't know if it's worth it, seems to be a needle in a haystack type of situation
>>34617702They added me, ignored me at first but then I sent an "ok" and we began talking lol
i'm posting my tag in this thread after the whiny one maybe more bites on the hookxxvapenationxx
i'm just socialy awkward and wouldn't know what to talk about, also i guess i am pretty boring as well :D
>>34617349I came to a similar conclusion
>>34617673No I have been on here for about a year now and the longest friendships have lasted maybe two weeks. I have very, not necessarily high, but strict standards that most of the mouth breathing coomers can't meet (i.e, say x to prove you actually read my intro, 80% of people do not say x and open with discord wave or hi hru). I have met good long term friends on /trash/ which is funny to me though
No one's interests are particularly deep (I mean that they list it as an interest but don't really go far in it), and everyone comes across more or less the same. I added 5-6 people over the course of a year, and despite putting a lot of effort into starting and maintaining conversations, they disappeared. Most people are just horny or adding dozens of people in one go, or probably already swamped with social activities. I don't really get the point of coming here to look for more "friends" if you don't have that time or energy.I was interested in Japanese and got fluent in it in some years, I was interested in reading and read a few dozen novels and philosophical texts a year, I was interested in math and started a PhD in it after studying for a few thousand hours. It feels bad when I add someone else here supposedly interested in these things but don't really do much about their interest.No one's really got the time, energy or mental stability to talk about things properly in addition to not doing much.Overall, it just feels frustrating when both people's listed interests and desire for friends or conversations seems extremely performative.So I don't really advertise myself or feel inclined to add new people unless it looks like a really exceptional situation.
>>34617852I've only been lurking for around a month, is it even worth it to post your tag in any of these things with how many coomers there are?
>>34617875just post it retard whats the worst that can happen
>>34616426I don't think you're a nudist bimbo but you are a girl so post your @, I'd like to talk to you and form a human connection
>>34617686do you have a discord? I'm normal...
>>34618042I'm a guy sorry
>>34618068what if I'm bi
>>34616473Like I said in my first post, women who only look for friends often are actually looking for a boyfriend but want to dodge "those" men. It's only a matter of time before they give me the dreadful "I wish I had a boyfriend like you" or they start sending me selfies/nudes. It's annoying.>>34616800If I want to talk about my specific interest, I'll just join a community based on it and discuss it there. What I enjoy about the anonymity here is that people are more open about their lives, experiences and interests. I enjoy hearing about things I would've never tried myself. It's like experiencing the world through another set of eyes. We could look at the same painting and they'd have a completely different interpretation than me; I love hearing about it.>>34616882What makes you unable to interact? Shame? Would you be open to try it safely behind a computer screen?>>34617461What have you been reading?>>34617732No one is boring, most people lack the curiosity to find out what makes you special.
>>34613173been here since /soc/ startedi post maybe once a yearposted the other week, I got 2 adds, one lasted like 2 msgs,the other wasn't what i was looking for.
>>34618144>before they give me the dreadful "I wish I had a boyfriend like you"Do you have any opinion on the ones that say they are asexual etc?
>>34617673Yes. I've had two relationships from people I met on here, one long term LDR and one friend that I briefly dated.
>>34613173>Was it just because you disliked all the templates?No, it's because every thread is filled with faggots and troons, and everyone that has added me in the past has been a faggot or a troon. I hate faggots and troons.
>>34617867okay so im a lurker but i've tried adding multiple people to do math with from here and their interest has either been super shallow or weren't actually interested in actively pursuing it.If you're genuine about finding someone who wants to "do something about that interest" i'm very down.Might be overestimating myself, but I think I have the mathematical maturity to handle most books you'd want to work through with enough effort.
i want to do a 2 player pc terraria worldfplzdiscord: newhome11928
>>34620304My contact detail for discord is in the file name of the image I uploaded in the previous post. I'm currently going through the problems in Vershynin's High Dimensional Probability textbook (2nd edition).
>>34620378I hate math so I won't be adding you but you seem very cute. luck be with you
>>34613173>Was it just because you disliked all the templatesIts because none of the threads have pic related in them Let alone pic related + Scene girl racoon hair augment + Fujoshi brain augment which is what im REALLY looking for
>>34617673Met two people here who I've met around the same time. The first I kinda fell in love pretty hard when I really shouldn't have and honestly I scared them off. Was really torn by that one but it helped me look at myself and fix some things about me. I still struggle with some as you can't undo years of mental damage in months but there's an honest attempt.The second actually lives close by. They're really laid back and I've talked to them on occasion about various things. They lent an ear and gave their own experience when I was down in the dumps and it helped. Everyone else have been meh. No real connection and no effort. I try to reach out at least one more time to peeps but its always low energy so I keep moving.
Tag: palow.tamura19 yoBorn and raised in lima peru and ive become sick of virtually having nothing in common with people my ageFigured I'd just ask here since anywhere else is not chronically online enough lolIf u feel this way too and need a geeky SA friend i can help u ^^Though I'd want you to have a minimum of self awareness, I don't mind if ur a weirdo as long as you try not to be uncomfortable
>>34622981"Tag" is for my discord name btw
>>34622981Omg no I'm sorry it's not palow.tamura its palow.wareGreat, I've fumbled my first post here
>>34622981Add me yajirob000005
>>34617867lunar.beam
The template threads fail to catch my interest the majority of the time due to it feeling like I am being window shopped. That I am fruit from a bush being picked for my color, shape or size. I do not want to be food to anyone. I want something more substantial, something more visible to the naked eye that there is a home being built. It also does not help that the majority of people on /soc/ are extremely superficial. Looking for quick sources of amusement and distractions alike. I do not want to be a tool by posting in a template thread often.I will give this a shot. Maybe two other threads a shot.forgivinghumans is my Discord.
>>34616898pleaseeee drop contact..
>>34613390https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7ziRjhAgTO8
I've looked through the threads on this board for the first time today, and it's like getting a glimpse of hell, or India or something, I don't know what's worseAre there any real human beings here? It's certainly not worth it to sift through the endless pile of worthless gooners, third worlders, and bots to find them. All with the average age around the mid to late twenties. There's nothing for me here
>>34623195You realise that I can simply turn my friend requests off and avoid your spam, right?
>>34613187>I want something hyperspecific and no threads are a good match and even if they were no people are going to bite because what I want sounds like a complete and utter trapI have the same issue.
>>34613187>>34623308Fucking get over yourselves and post what you're looking for
>>34623334I did post what I'm looking for anon
>>34623334I'm looking to not get spammed by precisely what I complained about in my first post here, thanks. I also mentioned implicitly in my first post what I sought.
>>34623334I'm looking for:an accountability buddy, a project collaborator,and someone on whom I can info-dump at unusual hours of the day (because I work from noon to nine p.m.).I want to chat with people who are:political, especially with regards to fringe politics like anarchism and micronationalismBUT who are not chuds, meaning no right-wingers whatsoever.I want to start a micronation / commune / secret society / cult that is very structured / formalized / ritualized to make socializing more comfortable for me.
I'm looking for someone who knows how to draw and wants a friend to draw with or things like that. I don't play online games, I almost always draw
I just lurk because don't think I'll ever find what I'm looking for, and it sounds kind of pretentious and requires effort and quality that 99% of people in general just aren't willing to give. I've been a helper/fixer all my life. All I want is a bit of that in return, to talk to someone who is astute that gets to know me (ideally a mutual thing) and points things out about me and areas I need to work on. I have some internal and social blinders on despite being mostly functional.
I miss the glory gole discord that was once created here, it was really nice and well made but i think it got took down cause no one wanted to pay for the bot? Idk, i just miss it :c
https://discord.gg/tDuY6SYdCome make friends.
>>34623291>your spamAre you schizophrenic?
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