Was it just because you disliked all the templates? Then just type out whatever you'd like or want to do followed by your tag. This is your time to shine.Those who post their tags in every thread are not allowed.
>>34613173this thread is way too general... it's honestly even more intimidating than the ones with templates and a focused subject
>>34613177Don't be shy, go ahead and try!
I’m new to 4chan, what’s a tag? Like a sigh off at the end of a reply? Can mine be a photo? Specifically this photo?
>>34613173I want something hyperspecific and no threads are a good match and even if they were no people are going to bite because what I want sounds like a complete and utter trap>>34613181tag like your discord name so people can add you
>>34613187If it's hyperspecific, you need to prepare for disappointment in the first place even if a thread about it magically appeared!Refer to >>34613180
Discord is pony__enjoyerLooking for MLP enjoyers. Porn, chat,whatever.
>>34613366Or tans girls if in Illinois
>>34613362I'm very prepared for disappointmentI want a female internet friend who has few to no friends, likes to talk about herself, is mentally ill to a somewhat extreme level (personality disorder, trauma, etc.), won't want to meet up, won't want to vc, is somewhat old (let's say 25+), and primarily active during the night (US hours, she can be located wherever). It does not have to be a real friendship either so if she has some emotional deficits that's acceptable.The mental illness thread is the closest match, but none of the people there seem to be looking for this kind of arrangement.
>>34613187I too refrain from posting because I want something hyperspecific. Where's my autistic gay MarxistLeninistMaoist shotacon boyfriend...
>>34613381You want to be someone's diary, basically?
>>34613432That's a great way of phrasing it. I would actually engage them in conversation of course, but it does kind of boil down to me just being a human diary. The concept makes people uncomfortable though, it's very one sided so they doubt my motives. I don't blame them, but it does make it hard to find someone to do this with.
>>34613450Why do you want that to do that, though?
>>34613461I don't really know. It's just comfortable for me. I'm not at the level of introspection required to really understand why I like this, but I've done it before a few times.
>>34613173Almost every post is the following generic npc ai generated slop. >whatever/gender/who cares>i like the color blue, various media i consume cause my life is boring and, i work or don't, also i think cats are cute>im looking for people that consume the same things i do so i can talk about them, not bond at all with the other person and eventually ghost them or delete my account>contactJust things they enjoy doing or watching that tells me nothing about the actual person behind their fabricated personality of curated media and hobbies.Also, men don't add me because I'm not interested in sleeping with them so I only get women who pretend to wanna be friends until they fall in love with me and ruin the friendship. This is why I lurk.
>>34613381Cloudsofsam
PHOTOGRAPHY AND KISS !emergencyexist
I wanted to post my tag proposing something fun but I'm too down in the dumps feel like it for now
>>34613483ya people act as if that is the only thing to talk about with it never leading into anything else. i don't think i've ever became good friends by intentionally seeking it out. it just kind of happenedit also sucks if you don't consume lots of slop or have many hobbies or interests but still just like to talk.talking and meeting people is so much different online than in person
>>34613483>>34614304Notice how neither of you provide alternative information people can provide about themselves. It's the nature of how things work in an online setting where the vast majority of people are going to be on the other side of the continent from each other.
im looking for the most hyperspecific thing ever because I want someone who's just like someone I spoke to on here before but who won't ghost but nice idea. I have a recurring dream where there is a soc thread where people simply post what they are looking for hyperspecifically and people can see if they match or post their own and I've thought of making it
>>34613173>Was it just because you disliked all the templatesnah it's because it's a bad idea for everybody involved. on a surface level I'm what many people are looking for, underneath I am broken in a way that leads me to seek out unhealthy dependent long-distance relationships, promise them the world, and then lead them on until I can't keep it up and it collapses.lurking without adding anybody is the compromise that is arguably less bad.>>34613181cool photo tho
>>34613483I dont want to sleep with you. I just want to see your tits and holes.
>>34613173it's because every single chick on here has at least 20 guys adding her lol, cba to compete, especially because sometimes you might be a good match but you'll never actually know since they won't even give you a chance because of how swarmed they are>>34614440then just seek out a healthy relationship instead and you're good
add me if you like video games and hate all of the other threads on this boardramsec
>>34615434I know youcool user
>>34613483a lot of the time when you have a personality, having media you relate to another person enjoying can be a good way for organic emergence of your traits. Now me personality i try to say multiple things that also imply my character and more granular things bnaout my personality but like, i cant exactly say "im super hot and smart and funny" and does it really make anybody more likely to want to get to know me if i try to analyze myself and give you a super ego loaded answer of like "im a super honest person" "im a good listener" "i value having integrity" self claims are all meaningless and dubious 99% of the time. anyways my posts are kind of good tho you should go through all the threads and see if you recognize my typing quikrs in them and then add me....
I want to find people to draw with. I like drawing only with other people.
>>34613181>Like a sigh off at the end of a replyThat's a cute idea. Reminds me of how I used to feel about 4chan. Sigh.
>>34613483>who pretend to wanna be friends until they fall in loveYou're implying you're a woman... Are the yuri rates are that high in 2025?
>asl Mtf 22 (if you care very deeply about these things we're unlikely to get along)>abouti never went to school, moved alot as a child, diagnosed cptsd/adhd, yet somehow more assertive than others with my circumstancesi don't do casual friendships. it is all or nothing for me, whether i like you or not is a binary. i can be very selective, and completely apathetic to those i'm not close withi love being understood on deeper levels, and i love attention from those that do understand me. i like to have multiple people in an inner circle that i talk to frequently.I mostly only talk about games (and game design-adjacent topics), but i can enjoy mental health/illness/philosophy talk and blogposting if we are similar peopleLately, i've mostly been playing games on my 3DS, i enjoy mainseries pokemon gamesI like many different games, though. often simple/barebones, mechanics focused, "arcade-y" games>gamesnintendo:kirby 64, smw, splatoon, 3D land/world, pokemon (especially gen 7)indie:cavern of dreams, star of providence, everhood 1, pikuniku, gonner, upturneddoesn't fit in anywhere but i also really like spyro 1, and have an odd, stressful, hateful relationship with minecraft>other interests weed, plushies, attentionI like people who just get it, being misunderstood is stressfulNot looking for any casual friends, be available daily at the minimum please I am not attracted to men>contact discord: sudsforthesoul open with your intentions please
ok well 18biof usa estim drained and depressed, turned 18 this month, don't know what to do in life/future, possible addiction to stimulants, looking for older person (preferably mother-like) to talk to, over share to, and to (kinda frequently) give me advice..someone who's patient, understanding, and a good listenerI might fall asleep soon though tag leannzi
>>34613481I’m nineteen but interested, if you are.
>>34615054>just seek out a healthy relationship insteadbut I don't want that
>>34614304I've lost many friends after I stopped consuming the same things that they did and it made me wonder if instead of friends we were simply acquaintances of circumstance.>>34614319OP asked, I vented.>>34615483If you wanna talk about your niche hobbies there are plenty of places on the internet to do such. I'm here seeking human connection, not discuss the latest marvel movies.>>34614478>>34615571Are you motherfuckers really that horny you assume everyone is a hot nudist bimbo?
A comfy original thread? In my /soc/?Well, I'll be.I'm not quite a lurker, I have been posting my tag a few times this year so I'll refrain from posting for now. Good to see some nice stuff come up!
>>34616426Fair, I just thought it more likely for a woman to want friendship instead of romance than a man
>>34614319i just explained?>>34616426ya i wonder how much in common does a person have to have in order to form a connection. obviously you would want something in common or similar but what's the minimum. it also depends on both parties
>>34615495i will draw with you add discord newhome11928
I'm a dead empty NEET who can barely interact with people IRL and has never been much better online. I browse through /soc/ sometimes, read peoples posts and imagine.
>>34613173I'm too self-conscious to advertise myself and post my tag. And I'm an autistic neet and I feel like I can't really connect with 'normies', it just feels weird. So I just lurk and add people occasionally, but nothing has worked out.It doesn't help that I seem to have niche/boring interests. I pretty much just read (100+ books read this year), workout and scroll online. I still play games but when I do it's never multiplayer. I don't really care about games anymore which is seemingly 90% of people's sole hobby on this site. I watch occasional anime/read manga, but I'm not obsessed with it like others.And my sexual kinks feel incompatible with everyone else, so I can't even begin to try and interact with others regarding sex stuff. I don't even want to, but people don't seem to believe that when I tell them.idk I'm done rambling.
>>34616023I'm sorry, that's too young for me but thank you for your interest.
I only lurk now. A lot of people here have bad intentions and I'm not interested.
>>34616345then you'll never be happy, there's no reason for you to live
>>34616898>niche/boring interests>I pretty much just read (100+ books read this year)Anon, wouldn't that make you pretty interesting to talk to? You probably have a lot to talk about from all the stuff you've read over the year
>>34617387You might think that, but no. People don't care. If a topic comes up, sure, I can respond back if it pertains to a book I've read. But actually trying to talk about a book to someone? No. Especially if it's some obscure philosophical topic. I don't know, maybe I'm doing something wrong. But there's yet to be a situation where someone's said "what have you been reading" and I've tried to explain and not just gotten hit with a "cool" or whatever.
>>34613173I realized that I was too autistic to interact/chat with people even if just the right girl added me.
If you're a mom in the USA with an adult daughter (18+) that would be interested in a serious threesome incest relationship with a 39 year old black mannine inch penis multi orgasmic with great staminateleguard @ F47X9KUENdiscord @ unagi386kik @ unagi386telegram @ unagi386
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>>34613483this, im sick and tired of being ghosted or someone deleting their throwaway
Has anyone ever had any luck in terms of friendships or relationships on here anyway?
>>34617673Had a few successful friendships, but love... bleh, thought I did but the person I was talking to was too dismissive and it destroyed me until I just had to stop investing so many of my thoughts and attention to them. I deserve better or whatever.
To add, a lot of people are so maladjusted or simply just don't know how to treat someone right. Even if the right person for them came along they fuck it up through sabotage or harming the other person
>>34617686Did you add them or they added you? I've been lurking for awhile and seen a few interesting people for friendships, but didn't and still don't know if it's worth it, seems to be a needle in a haystack type of situation
>>34617702They added me, ignored me at first but then I sent an "ok" and we began talking lol
i'm posting my tag in this thread after the whiny one maybe more bites on the hookxxvapenationxx
i'm just socialy awkward and wouldn't know what to talk about, also i guess i am pretty boring as well :D
>>34617349I came to a similar conclusion
>>34617673No I have been on here for about a year now and the longest friendships have lasted maybe two weeks. I have very, not necessarily high, but strict standards that most of the mouth breathing coomers can't meet (i.e, say x to prove you actually read my intro, 80% of people do not say x and open with discord wave or hi hru). I have met good long term friends on /trash/ which is funny to me though
No one's interests are particularly deep (I mean that they list it as an interest but don't really go far in it), and everyone comes across more or less the same. I added 5-6 people over the course of a year, and despite putting a lot of effort into starting and maintaining conversations, they disappeared. Most people are just horny or adding dozens of people in one go, or probably already swamped with social activities. I don't really get the point of coming here to look for more "friends" if you don't have that time or energy.I was interested in Japanese and got fluent in it in some years, I was interested in reading and read a few dozen novels and philosophical texts a year, I was interested in math and started a PhD in it after studying for a few thousand hours. It feels bad when I add someone else here supposedly interested in these things but don't really do much about their interest.No one's really got the time, energy or mental stability to talk about things properly in addition to not doing much.Overall, it just feels frustrating when both people's listed interests and desire for friends or conversations seems extremely performative.So I don't really advertise myself or feel inclined to add new people unless it looks like a really exceptional situation.
>>34617852I've only been lurking for around a month, is it even worth it to post your tag in any of these things with how many coomers there are?
>>34617875just post it retard whats the worst that can happen
>>34616426I don't think you're a nudist bimbo but you are a girl so post your @, I'd like to talk to you and form a human connection
>>34617686do you have a discord? I'm normal...
>>34618042I'm a guy sorry
>>34618068what if I'm bi
>>34616473Like I said in my first post, women who only look for friends often are actually looking for a boyfriend but want to dodge "those" men. It's only a matter of time before they give me the dreadful "I wish I had a boyfriend like you" or they start sending me selfies/nudes. It's annoying.>>34616800If I want to talk about my specific interest, I'll just join a community based on it and discuss it there. What I enjoy about the anonymity here is that people are more open about their lives, experiences and interests. I enjoy hearing about things I would've never tried myself. It's like experiencing the world through another set of eyes. We could look at the same painting and they'd have a completely different interpretation than me; I love hearing about it.>>34616882What makes you unable to interact? Shame? Would you be open to try it safely behind a computer screen?>>34617461What have you been reading?>>34617732No one is boring, most people lack the curiosity to find out what makes you special.
>>34613173been here since /soc/ startedi post maybe once a yearposted the other week, I got 2 adds, one lasted like 2 msgs,the other wasn't what i was looking for.
>>34618144>before they give me the dreadful "I wish I had a boyfriend like you"Do you have any opinion on the ones that say they are asexual etc?
>>34617673Yes. I've had two relationships from people I met on here, one long term LDR and one friend that I briefly dated.
>>34613173>Was it just because you disliked all the templates?No, it's because every thread is filled with faggots and troons, and everyone that has added me in the past has been a faggot or a troon. I hate faggots and troons.
>>34617867okay so im a lurker but i've tried adding multiple people to do math with from here and their interest has either been super shallow or weren't actually interested in actively pursuing it.If you're genuine about finding someone who wants to "do something about that interest" i'm very down.Might be overestimating myself, but I think I have the mathematical maturity to handle most books you'd want to work through with enough effort.
i want to do a 2 player pc terraria worldfplzdiscord: newhome11928
>>34620304My contact detail for discord is in the file name of the image I uploaded in the previous post. I'm currently going through the problems in Vershynin's High Dimensional Probability textbook (2nd edition).
>>34620378I hate math so I won't be adding you but you seem very cute. luck be with you
>>34613173>Was it just because you disliked all the templatesIts because none of the threads have pic related in them Let alone pic related + Scene girl racoon hair augment + Fujoshi brain augment which is what im REALLY looking for
>>34617673Met two people here who I've met around the same time. The first I kinda fell in love pretty hard when I really shouldn't have and honestly I scared them off. Was really torn by that one but it helped me look at myself and fix some things about me. I still struggle with some as you can't undo years of mental damage in months but there's an honest attempt.The second actually lives close by. They're really laid back and I've talked to them on occasion about various things. They lent an ear and gave their own experience when I was down in the dumps and it helped. Everyone else have been meh. No real connection and no effort. I try to reach out at least one more time to peeps but its always low energy so I keep moving.
Tag: palow.tamura19 yoBorn and raised in lima peru and ive become sick of virtually having nothing in common with people my ageFigured I'd just ask here since anywhere else is not chronically online enough lolIf u feel this way too and need a geeky SA friend i can help u ^^Though I'd want you to have a minimum of self awareness, I don't mind if ur a weirdo as long as you try not to be uncomfortable
>>34622981"Tag" is for my discord name btw
>>34622981Omg no I'm sorry it's not palow.tamura its palow.wareGreat, I've fumbled my first post here
>>34622981Add me yajirob000005
>>34617867lunar.beam
>>34616898pleaseeee drop contact..
>>34613390https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7ziRjhAgTO8
I've looked through the threads on this board for the first time today, and it's like getting a glimpse of hell, or India or something, I don't know what's worseAre there any real human beings here? It's certainly not worth it to sift through the endless pile of worthless gooners, third worlders, and bots to find them. All with the average age around the mid to late twenties. There's nothing for me here
>>34623195You realise that I can simply turn my friend requests off and avoid your spam, right?
>>34613187>I want something hyperspecific and no threads are a good match and even if they were no people are going to bite because what I want sounds like a complete and utter trapI have the same issue.
>>34613187>>34623308Fucking get over yourselves and post what you're looking for
>>34623334I did post what I'm looking for anon
>>34623334I'm looking to not get spammed by precisely what I complained about in my first post here, thanks. I also mentioned implicitly in my first post what I sought.
>>34623334I'm looking for:an accountability buddy, a project collaborator,and someone on whom I can info-dump at unusual hours of the day (because I work from noon to nine p.m.).I want to chat with people who are:political, especially with regards to fringe politics like anarchism and micronationalismBUT who are not chuds, meaning no right-wingers whatsoever.I want to start a micronation / commune / secret society / cult that is very structured / formalized / ritualized to make socializing more comfortable for me.
I'm looking for someone who knows how to draw and wants a friend to draw with or things like that. I don't play online games, I almost always draw
I just lurk because don't think I'll ever find what I'm looking for, and it sounds kind of pretentious and requires effort and quality that 99% of people in general just aren't willing to give. I've been a helper/fixer all my life. All I want is a bit of that in return, to talk to someone who is astute that gets to know me (ideally a mutual thing) and points things out about me and areas I need to work on. I have some internal and social blinders on despite being mostly functional.
I miss the glory gole discord that was once created here, it was really nice and well made but i think it got took down cause no one wanted to pay for the bot? Idk, i just miss it :c
https://discord.gg/tDuY6SYdCome make friends.
>>34623291>your spamAre you schizophrenic?
wireriver
i just feel like shit all the time and want random people i can dump my shit on without feeling guilty. something like a server rather than just individual dms. but everyone on here is just a bunch of horny faggots and scrolling this board makes me wanna kmsdiscord: leonard_keegan
>>34618144Right now I'm reading Hegel's Phenomenology of Spirit, trying to finish it before the year ends so I can get into reading Nietzsche at the start of the new year. I've also been reading Carl Jung's works recently. Fiction wise I'm reading a book called Laurus, which is very lovely so far. The Once and Future King might be my next fiction read after Laurus.>>34623243I'm not a girl if you're under that impression. discord is yukasteria. if anyone adds me, don't expect much. I'm autistic as I said and hate talking over text.
Any Brazilian women? Looking to make friends.
>>34613173Well if I'm to get introspective enough about it I've always been a hardcore lurker across the entire internet. I guess I took all the teaching about "don't talk to strangers on the internet" a bit too far for a bit too long.And now at this point I don't have the confidence in my image to find any point in breaking my anonymity. I only stop by /soc/ every so often but it's long enough to get a reminder of the kind of people everyone is looking for on here and how far I am from meeting any of that criteria so why bother, right?
>>34625098you never know what a lurker is looking for. my longest or closest connections from here added me first with one exception
>>34613173Honestly the ammount of times i made posts and got 20-30 adds in total but only one stayed my friend kinda sucks but also its normal i guess as a slightly picky personWhenever i add or post to be added here i keep expecting to meet a close friend who ill vibe with and not feel bad because they have a million other friends to give attention to or we just dont like the same things,but when it happens they just get quiet after less than a month of talking so i just tend to feel bad and less like adding people because the hassle to go throught a friendship for it to die out is really tiringAm i the only one who went throught all this? In any case its just tiring but expected of online friends,doesnt mean i didnt wish it was different though
>>34613173test
>>34625098No one cares about you, for better or worse
>>34625384It's really just the fantasy of meeting someone, like buying a lotto ticket. Maybe other people can manage it, not me though.
I've had a rough and abusive childhood. I'm a man looking to be treated as a kid or teen by a female. I don't like baby or little space roleplay. I prefer a middle or high school range. You can be middle or high school aged, or you can be an adult. It can be a friend, romantic, or sexual RP. My biggest dealbreaker is childish typing. You know, the full babytalk / animu moe / furry UwU act. Just talk to me as normal. I'm not into dark or edgy roleplay stories. No married, cucks, taken, poly, open, etc. My interests are older video games, kids TV channels, cartoons, comics, children's books, toys, in and out of RP. I don't care for IRL age just as long as you aren't too young or too old in real life. My childhood was the '90s and '00s. I'm a private man.I'm looking for strictly text replies. That means no phone calls or video. I'd like to keep this online. I'm not going to meet up with you or date. Any country is okay just as long as we keep the RP in English. My timezone is EST; I'm most online at night.>Discordshi.meji
>>34620304Me and another anon started working through Dummit and Foote if you're interested.
>ASL37/M/US>InterestsThe Cure, Cocteau Twins, Slowdive, The Smashing Pumpkins, Duster, The Chameleons, Deftones, Yo La Tengo, Low, Spiritualized, honeydip>Looking ForMusic>Not Looking ForVC>Discordof.nadwy
>>34625582KILL YOURSELF FUCK'S SAKE
>>34613381That's literally me. I'm 26, from the EU, no friends (though I have a boyfriend), mentally ill but somewhat functional
>>34625849There's no point when effortposting gets you absolutely nothing. The more specific you are the less likely you are to find anything.I'm 19 (20 soon) M SASince someone was complaining about only interests and no personality,Personality>Positive: creative, idealistic, daydreams about people to maintain a sense of closeness, focuses on fantasies, observant, attracted to counter culture;>Middle of the road: often dreams about a rescuer, emotionally moody, prone to quitting, to feelings of loneliness, easily distracted, private, low self-confidence, generally submissive;>Negative: avoidant, often self-sabotages, can't control fearful thoughts, prone to feeling discouraged and to sadness, has HPD.Interests>RPG Maker games, slice of life anime, shonen anime, comedy anime, writing, drawing, singing, TRPGs, JRPGs, visual novels, shmups, doing deep dives into rabbitholes, character design/writing, game development, fantasy stories (mostly medieval/urban fantasy), vtubers (kinda).Looking for>Someone who feels they'd be compatible with me and would like to have a deeper connection, romantic or not. I won't specify further since that just drives even more people away. Also someone who won't take it too seriously if we just don't go anywhere.Why I'm here>I'm really lonely and sad this time of year for several reasons, but I had been browsing the site as a whole for a while before already but I want to stop coming here someday. Maybe when I'm fulfilled and happy.Don't add if>You only vaguely relate/are interested, you drink, you smoke, have tattoos, want to sell something, are a catfish, are pushing 30 or underage.Discord. It's an alt, I don't want to accidentally find people I know here but I won't lie about who I am if we talk at least>supervampy
>>34625919Sorry, meant to reply to OP
>>34625919>attracted to counter culture>don't add if you have tattoos
>>34626043Satanism isn't a good kind of counterculture, right? Neither are tattoos to me.
>>34626043Uhh dunno why my ID is different but I am the anon you replied to
>>34626064well I was just curious because we do have a lot in common but when I was a kid I put on one of those temporary tattoos you stick on your arm and since it's something you'll never see and will have no applicability to an online internet connection by your definition we'd be incompatible
>>34626079Well if you say so
I'm just looking for a chill chick who likes video games and hentai and I can be horny with. I have a job and might be down to buy you shit if you seem like a genuinely cool person. Don't add me just to ask for stuff, I'm only including this part to advertise that I'm not some total loser. Vibes are the most important thing.Discord is slenderius
>>34626126Should've just said you had a job
4channelthrowaway@proton.me Im thinking this will be the year I finish my 22 year old fat ugly pornsick retard life. Limited edition or whatever.
>>34623384>>34623308based sealandposter.
Hiiiii, I’m a 20 year old male chub pre-transition mtf trans femme searching for a dominant master (or masters) who is searching for an obedient full-time live-in slut, I’m more than willing to relocate (US now) I prefer older serious doms and the more the merrier ;) if this sounds like something you’re seriously interested in, respond to this, I’d love to discuss. (Serious irl inquiries only please, sexting, camming, and anything online aren’t really my thing, sorry.) DM me, lurkers, xoxo ;)Discord: khlokhlo19Kik: khlokhlo_19
>>34625384i don't think i've found a single lasting friend/relationship from here. the ones that didn't just fizzle out lasted for a few months before exploding in the ugliest way possible. not to mention the fact that if you're from anywhere other than the united states and have any hopes of meeting up with people or have a normal sleep schedule then like 80% of people posting here don't apply.trying to meet people here sucks for a multitude of reasons and i wish there was some better way of finding friends and relationships, or if there is then i wish i knew of it.i legitimately only come here when i get desperate enough from lack of human interaction
>>34627739Where are you from?
>>34628152yurop
>>34627739>i wish there was some better way of finding friends and relationships, or if there is then i wish i knew of it.yeah I wish there was a better way to meet people that aren't normalfags someone genuinely throw me a bone here. if the boards with my interests had a discord thread or even if soc was a blue board it'd all be a different story
I lurk a lot because I generally don't see myself getting very lucky on /soc/. I'm not online much and feel people are generally looking for someone who's more consistently around to chat. Also while I'd like to talk to other channers, this board is often horrible. It's basically a porn board... I think it would be a much better place to find people to talk to if it were a blue board.If I sound interesting and you're open to messaging someone who might not be around everyday, drop your tag.I'm a 20 year old foid neet from Europe. I like to talk about all sorts of things, especially vidya, anime and stuff.While I like to stick to certain genres of anime, I play just about everything. I'm pretty mentally ill, but I'm working on becoming a more functional and independent individual... So I'd like someone who could give me advice and wouldn't mind hearing me talk about any victories I've had in improving my life.I'm not big on VC, but I wouldn't mind watching something on stream together occasionally if you'd like. I'm kinda picky about what I like to watch though.I could also watch you play a game or something if you'd like to flex your epic gamer skills.I try my best to be a good listener and wouldn't mind hearing you vent about your problems. I do sometimes go through rough patches in life, and I think it would be nice if I had someone to talk about it from time to time.
>>34629606Disc: ronson_ol26/m/usaYou sound kind and nice to talk to
30 something f with autism the diagnosed type. Pretty dumb & uneducated. Shutin most of my life but now pretty much housebound. Mentally ill, emotionally unstable, currently spiralling.Actively distressed and self harming. Would like to speak to others currently spiralling in self harming, eating disorders, erratic behaviours etc. Probably preference for people 30+. Would really like to connect with a f to talk about girly shit. I love love cute things, addicted to stuffed animals prolly slightly mentally regressed due to autism. Friendly terms only. nothing nsfw at all , not looking for relationshipSnapchat: pixiepoms
>>34629905I'm younger than 30 and foid do you have disc?
>ASL19/F/USA>Looking forlately ive been feeling like something is missing in my life & i think having someone i can truly bond with will heal my soul. my ultimate goal is to form a serious relationship. i want a lifelong partner (aka a husband) that i can eventually meetup with irl. i will get to know you first and see where things take us. please dont add me just to immediately sext me, not interested in that until we’ve established that sort of relationship. being able to vc sometimes is a plus. >Not looking forghosters, unironically rude people, people immediately interested in sex, doesnt contribute to conversation, consistently taking forever to respond, people who dont not live in the USA, people not looking for a serious long-term relationship, people who dont want to have children, NEETs>Interestssinging, video games, cooking, tv shows, voice acting, fashion, food, doomscrolling, hiking, animals, just started getting into jigsaw puzzles and i love it>Discordjoyfulcassie
>>34623384based jonestownmaxxer
>>34629962doesn't work..
>>34629941I do have discord post it ur @
>>3462960626m from EuropeI can relate a lot to your experience and self-improvement mentalitydc: spokonaya
>>34629952Beggar and minor avoid
>>34627739No no this is all real man,its already kinda annoying for me to go throught the process of meeting someone because its already hard to find someone compatible that have the same interests and stuff And when i finally do and we talk and stuff it just ends after a few weeks and its so weird,i know its 4chan and ohh you wont meet good friends here but i guess i still like to believe theres cool people here i can vibe with (plus im bored of making friends with dramatic snowflakes on twitter or discord only where i cant say anything or else i know theyll take it very seriously and instantly hate me)
>>34630835Like even if its hard i guess it really doesnt cost anything to keep trying,good things usually come after hardships right
>>34629606I'd love to talk, could you send me an add on my discord? it's aerdbier
>>34630818Im not a beggar or minor stop lying
i want a friend who is a bit of a social outcast, likes moe anime girls, has a diverse music taste from denpa to italian music soundtracks. if you want to make normal everyday life conversations then im here, im sick of watching the day goes by and i'd love to have someone that keeps me company once i go home>tagpekomamagi
>>34630835discord servers suck because you have no way of filtering for people you would want to talk with, so it's really inefficient to try and keep finding new people in the hopes you might finally get along with the next one, and because most discord servers have already formed an in-group which makes it hard to get a foothold in.twitter sucks because it's too public and filled with retardsvideo games used to be decent for finding friends but nobody fucking talks anymore because they're too afraid of getting banned for being too mean, and because matchmaking no longer allows for a community to form by encountering the same people over and over again unless you're in an ultra high elo where the population is small enough, or you're playing dead games where it takes a lot more effort to even find games in the first place.communities used to form around servers and a lot of the time you could easily find people from the same country as you, now the entirety of a continent is thrown into the same matchmaking pool and you have no influence over who you meet and what people you play witheverything sucks for socializing, and it sucks even harder for socializing with people near youi fucking hate the modern internet
>>34630971the internet tries so hard to be its own equivalent to a physical space that it purposefully cuts off its connection to the physical world. "it doesn't matter if people are near you, they're all Online!" and then you get a bunch of atomized little frankencommunities that can never meet up and never be on at the same time. and since anything you say *might* be publicized to the entire online world at any time you're incentivized to never ever leave the first bubble you find that feels safe. if the internet is a physical space it's a hostile wasteland where all there is to do is hide in caves
>>34631579literally, the internet is bigger than ever yet it feels like nobody is on it because it's gone from smaller community ran social spaces to everyone being on corporate mega platforms that are built to discourage that sort of stuffit also satisfies most people's cravings for socialization enough that they don't bother leaving their comfort zones. you can't even meet new people in real life because nobody leaves their houses and there's nothing to dolike it's cool and all that you can keep contact and hang out with people that aren't within reasonable physical distance, but online interaction is to socializing what condoms are to sex, it's so detached and unfulfilling, you always feel like you're missing out and being held down by the limitations of the digital world.i barely have any friends, let alone any irl ones, and it feels like i missed the last train home
I'm looking for a recovering discord user, which is a herculean task.>>34615666>>34627666>>34630971you should stick to old games with community servers, i found some really cool people in a goldsrc pve shooter.
>>34625479>making friends is like the lotteryFuck man, sad but true.
>>3461338122F, @bloodybaby on discord
>>34613381I fit all of that criteria except for being active during US night hours but this seems quite strange. do you just want to be an unpaid therapist and volunteer your time to help internet strangers? or is your end goal to get into a relationship? I am assuming you are male so I think it's the fact you are specifically looking for women that causes people to doubt your motives.
Male/32/EUI post here when the lack of social interaction makes me too depressed to do anything else.I’m mentally ill. The psychiatrist doesn't know if I'm asperger or skyzoid and I personally don’t care about the label, but I certainly have a long term depression and an HQI.I’m too disconnected from the “real” world to have any hope to have “normal” friends nor that I want to. I’m looking for someone that knows the feeling of inadequacy and won’t judge me for being weird. Just to have someone to talk to. It can be about your specific interest or nothing.ADHD and BPD pass your way, you will be ignored without any remorse from my side. simon_yuse
>>34613173hi. i live a lonely life that is my own fault and im an ugly and deeply troubled person. this is something i drew on mspaint a little while ago. i dont really know what else to put here. i do other things too like write. add me if you want unless you're evil.intheshadowofthevalley
>>34633740i posted the wrong image, but i did draw the rattlesnake cat and you can look at that if you want. this is what i meant to post. im going to stop posting now.
>>34633727You sound cool...
25+, male, EUI'm looking for mutual clinginess, with a woman, who is online often and responds quickly, ideally possessive, someone that doesn't mind voice chat (not all the time), streaming or watching me stream work, or game, with the intent of growing it into meaningful secretless dependence.resident_hermit
>>34633740How old are you? Whats your gender?
>>34635113i am eighteen and i am a male. those are two of the least interesting things about me.
female looking for trannies or men that r blonde and cute to vc and play Roblox urallevil
>>34627739I relate. Would ask for contact but you said you're not looking for americans. Oh well.
I like anime and whatnot, my favorites are GLT, NHK, HNK, and aria and lots moreShounen is slop and SOL is soulTag is taciterMay be looking for a relationship….
>>34639289>Shounen is slopTrvke if you're not 13 years old or a really boring autistic guy shounen will always be one of the worst genres ever made
I am seeing too much touhou, umineko and some other VNs, idk what's happening in this thread since my small brain cannot comprehend it but you can add my discord If you want endlessdreamscape
My new years resolution is to find a girl who will lick my ears and jerk me off with her feet. God bless
>>34613173I lurk because I'm a npc that just consumes media, plus I don't wanna lie in my description to make it more appealingI will stop lurking when i become an actual human being with something to them
>>34644089My new years resolution is for that to not happen to you, cheers!
>>34613173I lurk for the amateur nudes. Friendships are very boring in my experience, particularly if they are the social sort advertising themselves like you would find here
>>34639289Blump
>>34618163I've been added by like 6 women from /soc/ on the past 2 days and only one of them went above like the 10 message mark.One of them added me, didn't reply for like 6 hours which is fine by me I don't really care but then they removed me from friends when I didn't reply to her in 4 hours lmao
>>34613483Psychopath tier post
I feel so detached from other people I'm beginning to doubt whether I'm actually a human beingEverywhere, everyone seems like a complete normie to me. Everyone just dumps a bunch of generic consumerist trash posed as "interests", not to mention the degeneracyI'm only 20 and I've been extremely lonely and alienated for ever but I've gotten used to it by now. Except I'm now questioning whether my life is even worth living if all that it's ever going to be is working a shit job and daydreaming to try and get away, a mere spectatorI can't even pretend to be normal because the self awareness is just too overwhelmingI can only compare my feelings to grief for my own life. Just a few tiny bits different in my head and I might've had an actual life, family, friends, stability, maybe even a womanMaybe it's my mistake to desire comfort among this suffering, maybe I was born in hell
18f black girl looking for anyone into “black taboo” in 910 area nc
35 F UK here with a soft, smooth, slim body, blonde hair, small boobs and a fat ass. Looking to make friends! :) I wasn't being sexual describing myself just trying to give you an idea of what I look like. Please no weirdos!I can send pics here and there while we chat but don't just ask for more. Just mention fat ass or British in opening message please so I know you read everything.. :)058d745d49648faa5ee87548dde22fec59042ebe0aa54de736c864850428d4097d
>>34629952>joyfulcassiePosting All day every day
27/M/straight/appalachia hereI work 8-4 Tues-Sat sometimes less hours cus my work is job board based. I only make 30k/yr. I'm looking for a better job but not much luck out here...might suck up the stress and find a job at a hospital cus they're always hiring. I do live in a 2br with an unoccupied bedroom. But I am Catholic (though admittedly quite apostate for like 2 years now) and active in my church so I don't think I can give you a place to cohabitate, ladies. Dudes, if you're cool (like we REALLY get along well), I'll sell all the shit in my spare room if you need a place.The only socializing I do is with my best friend whose like 10yrs older and church/club friends who are all elders (60+, some are old as bones), and usually that socializing is just friday dinner and maybe a game or food night at someone's place.I'm pretty fuckin depressed, I can't keep up with the dust, my place is only ever clean when family comes to visit (pretty much never), idk what to do with my life (pipe dream is to run a livestream/public access video prod. studio), I'm a mega-pirate, I hardly play vidya cus I can't enjoy anything (I dislike probably 70% of the few movies I watch), I can only really enjoy an episode or 2 of shitty SoL/moe/comedy/isekai anime before bed (very rarely I'll binge something like re:zero), I enjoy singing (in choir at church), my cars are slowly falling apart, I don't have enough money in the bank to buy a shitty craigslist smoker's special accord, I can't chatter endlessly (my job forces me to small talk chad larp and sell shit enough) but can listen for a long time at least if you talk about something mildly interesting (love stories of wild younger days from the elders).....Kinda burnt out on writing this already. But I'll make it 4k chars just cus I like this thread.1/2
>>34665646Always feels pointless. I've had some psychedelic experiences (dw, not touching drugs anymore, I'll have a psychotic break if I do) and figuring out what I want to do seems to be a core issue for me that hurts bad on bad trips. I know I don't know shit, I have no real ideologies, don't try to make me adopt some ideology brother. I don't watch the news and I don't need you to tell me the news or talk polishits. Hierarchies fall apart and only you and your neighbours matter and how you interact. That's the most ideology I'll give and even that's not set in stone. For all I know this whole thing's a cosmic joke fractal.Anyhow, I occasionally drive out to nice scenic secluded spots in the woods/mountains and stare at the scenery or stars, would be sick to have someone else next to me to just share a long stare at this strange existence with. Or someone to force me into some hobbies or to carpool to a con or to brave the normie dens (bars/clubs) with or just to sit around and watch dumb shit on my big telly with. Maybe we pull eachother into creative pursuits (I've been working on anime fansubs for a long time, I love writing if I ever had the motivation to do it, I never learned video prod or editing but would love to). Idfk. But I feel like with my current route I'll die unremembered insignificant and having regretted my waste of time. So just tossing a bone out for teh lulz.Thanks, maybe I'll write more in reply to this later on if I get inspired.
>>34665682infamous_dale
>>34625919>There's no point when effortposting gets you absolutely nothing>Negative: avoidant, often self-sabotages, can't control fearful thoughts, prone to feeling discouraged You sure it isn't just (you)? Sure there's a bunch of horrible interactions you'll have and I've had a fair share of them, but I've made some friends over the years I've kept in contact with for 2-3+ years.I think people here, the majority of them, have unrealisticly high expectations of what they want out of someone else. When you meet someone out on the street and small talk with them, do you react the same way you would on discord or whatever else you use? Probably not. Just enjoy the interactions and meeting new people. Sadly nothing is forever, and hoping for perminance will hurt you over and over.
>>34670535huge flaming faggot bot
2.5 years ago, I posted my tox id on linux thread. One guy added me, he was intelligent, well-read on privacy, and capable of writing lengthy messages. Over a few weeks or months I started to feel disinterested in our conversation, even though it included distant subjects and his replies were genuenly valuable information or good questions. And then I just stopped appearing online like a coward I am.I think, the lesson there, is that I'm capable of forming lasting connections only with people I've been doing something with, like a project or business. But having a job leaves me without much energy for anything.
>>34672159>I think, the lesson there, is that I'm capable of forming lasting connections only with people I've been doing something with, like a project or business.You're just describing the default way of forming connections with people. Penpal style conversations are basically impossible for making meaningful connections. Nothing about the typical way people interact from these sorts of threads is organic or a normal way to make friends. A handful of people get lucky or have niche goals that align, but just talking about generic hobbies you both like rarely ever leads to a long-term friendship.You're essentially putting on a performance for no goal or objective. Conversation for the sake of conversation with someone that you'll never see in church, you'll never help them build a fence, you'll never set them up with a cute girl. You'll just simulate the things that sort of feel like a human experience without any of the tangible benefits from a real one. Then you're left hallow and empty when either party loses interest.The internet is hands down the biggest crime against humanity ever committed. There will never be a tragedy that comes close to the level of misery this facsimile has inflicted.
>>34672214I agree that ways to connect with people are generally universal for all people. But I love Internet and conversations on the Internet, some were formative, some left good memories, even though it didn't made me any friends I'm still grateful for the experience and I'm glad it happened. My life would be worse without the internet part.I remember how cool it was for teen me, living in 1k population village, to suddenly be able to talk to people anywhere, with same interests, build things... It felt more real than reality. Which, perhaps, says more about my life than the Internet, but such it is.
i'm tired of the stupid "i like blah blah i'm blah blah and i do blah blah" i just want to talk to someone. lets just say thingsmy discord is chickenbutt
>>34672312The internet is novel and interesting, but that doesn't make it fulfilling and productive.
>>34643711>>34639289Real scholars know that Shonen and Moe are both integral to the ecosystem and both must be respected and revered as the annihilation of either would lead to a "yellowstone wolves" scenario
yes. templates/questionnaires to fill out is something you do to auction off your steers and horses. aside from that i'm a functioning person. an overwhelming majority of the people who ''use'' this board expect you to be as extremely online as they are.
>Explicitly state that I dont want to be added by anyone who is a child and/or someone who only uses /soc/ (and/or /r9k/ and/or /b/) >MFW last 4 adds in sequence have been from children who only use /soc/ and /r9k/I am looking for who know what swag means or are what >>34622309 describes (A major prerequisite of both of these is being a tourist to /soc/).My discord is sticksuicide>LikesPizza, Vidya, Anime (my 3x3 is here https://mysticcombat.com/aboutme/Vidya3x3.jpg ), combat, drawing, cartoons, Metal, Nukes, Knifes and Katanas, Children, Planet vegeta, Colonization, Computers, Armpits, Money,The purple chaos emerald (brother is sealed inside),Chains, Gears, Natural Selection>DislikesTrannies, Lotion,Mean People,Frost demons, Jews, Niggerz, Women, Hypnosis, Vidya (post 2015), Ketchup, All Reploids, Mobile phones, Globalzation, Women, Polidicks, People who witness rape and say "ew"
>>34679274this poster is a pedophile btw, check the archive
Previous attempts failed, not much to it. I'm not a heavy discord user, won't stay connected most of the day, and came to terms with realizing I shouldn't bother other people to fill my loneliness like that, specially here where most people seem eager for more serious things or very specific discussions.Successful cases were getting recommended a game, sharing silly anime images from one of those booru sites, losing at chess and picking cyoas I guess. But all in all I think there's an invisible pressure of having to try really hard to be pals or something instead or just talking with a random person for a bit on most threads. Or maybe it's just me and that's it, it's compatible with irl too, I struggle to sustain interest in people like that, so to speak
>>34674243heh chicken butt
>>34683979check your hymen i just raped you *kanji for SEMEN appears on my back*
I want to meet jirai kei girls, but just being into games or anime is fine too, I'm bored working from home with nothing to do. giga.vii
I’m a lesbian. Convinced I’m the only (female) lesbian on this board so it isn’t even worth it to post looking for another one
>>34613173I want a girl and have absolutely nothing to offer. I look like shit, I suck, I don't have any hobbies, don't so anything. I don't even like interacting with people, but sometimes I'm more human than I would like to be.I'm not gonna add anyone here, I don't trust anyone here, I don't even like any of the girls I have talked to before here, you all honestly suck.I have 1 female friend from here and we have a weird relationship, it's a bit colorless but she's fine.Idk, desperation mixed with self immolating is why iI'm here.
Tbh i just want a ftm guy to have lewd chats, but don't wanna be called a chaser m24 bi
Just lurking to see if the person who disappeared on me will ever appear again:(
>>34686697I started talking to my friend again after I recovered from a bad mental state for reasons a couple years ago and I only found her because she was posting on the old lost contact thread. I'm not sure what your situation is, but sometimes, all it takes is a heartbeat signal.I made sure I can't ghost her by introducing her to my life and now we don't talk too much but she's there and I'm here.I'm not sure you wanna hear this from someone like me or any of this, but maybe it gives you a bit of energy to show you are here and you are trying to reconnect.I hope you find your person.
>>34686753>I'm not sure you wanna hear this from someone like meI did and it helped. :) Thank you anon.>lost contact threadI posted there and I will keep posting in them when they pop up. I also lost them to a bad mental state.
>>34686678you never should have left me.
Fulfill your innate curiosity with a group who will bring you enlightenment https://discord.gg/fckaX5rXK5
>>34686496Bi gal here and felt this sm :( Yes I am attracted to and enjoy talking to everyone but almost every guy I’ve ever been with was some loser at least 5-10 years older than me who used me for sex. Its obviously not my fault, but I’m probably the problem at that point. Is it my body type??? The way I present myself???? Is my race possibly even a contributing factor????? They do say your vibe attracts your tribe after all. Oh well, if I think about it too much I get depressed as shit. I desire romantic connection without it nescesarily turning sexual so much and I feel like it would be way easier to do that with another women/nb than a man. But women here don’t rlly post with the intention of meeting other women romantically so that’s that.
>>34687473>Its obviously not my faulthow could somebody posting on /soc/ say this with a straight face?
>>34687686i legit dont know if it's real or ragebait, amazing right? either way 10/10 would not approach with a 10ft pole
