especially since I still hate how I look and I am also trying to lose weight so my head is just stuck with how I looked at my highest weight
grim
>>34709632I like the drawings waifu material for surewhat is this thread about?
if that's you, you got nicer boobs than me and i'm jealous
>>34709632If that pic's you, then you're really hot, sorry you feel the way you do
>>34709632Amazing boobas
>>34709632aaaaaa im really sorry you feel this way anon! if the pic is you then I know that many people (me included absolutely!!) think your body looks incredibly hot and good! but i know that body dysmorphia is often not rational and how you feel in your skin is way more important than how others perceive you... i really hope that you can find whatever it is you need that'll make you feel comfortable, whether its losing that extra weight, self-reflection, meditation, or some kind of therapy! just please don't take things too far and hurt yourself...
>>34709641Anything to vent about insecurities/neg feelings and also just to vent personallyAlso, this has been the only thing I've drawn in months so glad it doesn't look as anatomically bad as I thought it would>>34709646Only thing I feel okay about lolwDoes mean my bras either give me quad boobs or just sit flat against me though>>34709637>grim>grimace>grimace milkshake?
>>34709685>this has been the only thing I've drawn in months so glad it doesn't look as anatomically bad as I thought it wouldCan you post the originals I want them for reasons>insecuritiesLuckily I have none except all the ones that I have so I have nothing to vent about
>>34709685erm maybe if you provide the milk
>>34709632you look so much like my ex it actually scared me for a moment. I honestly hate how perfectly you fit my type.
Oh fuck off
>>34709685why be skinnier? I have never understood this obsession with being skinny. are you not a healthy weight right now?I personally think the weight you're at is PERFECT and I'm actually drooling over you as I type. pls give me a chance queen
Pls god add me on disc: conch99I swear I’m semi normal
>>34709632Imagine thinking you're worthy of a relationship aftsr showing your tits on 4chan. Kill yourself
>>34709927who hasn't shown their tits on 4chan?
>>34709632hate to say this but you actually drew your body very accuratelyI know how it feels though, I have it too.
>>34709927She is worthy of more than just a relationship. This type of girl needs to be WORSHIPPED.
>>34709722Assuming the OP is from the US…The obsession is from the idea that being skinny is considered best, right, and morally good. While being not skinny is considered the worst, wrong, and morally bad.
>>34709632You're going to lose weight, deflate those tits, and then actually will look like the drawing.
great rack. you're not as fat as you think. ethnicity?
>>34709632You look great anon! As someone who can be a bit self conscious too I feel your pain lol. Not sure if you're adding anyone, but if you ever need any reassurance or just need to talk my discord is pomfypomfers
>>34709722>>34709889>>34710001SAD sight to see ya’ll
>>34710010Can you blame me? I mean cmon.I want to kiss her SH scars.
>>34710010got a real faggpt over here, amiright? :p also this is SOC, AKA the board where you message people.
>>34709632dysmorphic girls are the best. they have low standards, you get to spend your entire relationship telling them how pretty they are without them taking it in, and when you call them an ugly whore who'll never find anybody else to love to love them, they accept it and that you cheating on her is the cost of doing business
>>34711645you're completely right. it's also waaaaaaay too easy to keep them isolated from the outside world. make a comment about how everyone notices their SH scars and they wont ever wanna touch grass.
>>34711645>>34711662Damn u guys stop giving me ideas lmfao...Where the fuck does one even meet a girl like this ? Sounds like Id have to break into her house to get to know her in the first place lol
>>34712873her not replying to the thread anymore makes me wanna kms.
>>34709680Lole i grew up on a "must suffer in some way" mentality so doing things healthily is definitely a struggle 4 me. No matter how many compliments get thrown my way i can never see it as genuine and just makes me feel awkward ah>>34709699Wasn't basing on anything except my head so cant post>>34709708Funnily enough, i have been musing on doing induced lactation as a method for a better silhouette so maybe soon lmao>>34709716If it helps i have the face of an ogre so not all of it is mental>>34709722Better figure + number go down make brain go awogaBefore i was like 60kg and i looked more like a fat man with a beerbelly, all blocky and rectangular too, although i mostly started to lose some thickness on my thighs but even after 10kg they're still just as fat :c
>>34714557>Wasn't basing on anything except my head so cant postMeant post the original drawingscan I see the ogre face?
>>34714557Uhhhh can I like worship your body though, or does that make it worse? Like would be your face chair
>>34714557>If it helps i have the face of an ogreDoubt it if your body image is that flawed. I think you know you aren’t ugly. :/t. A cups
>>34709632You're giving Tifa from FF7 Rebirth vibes <3 hmu HZCFDCPVG
>>34714570>t. A cupsMy last gf had no tits and I loved the hell out of her. She was beautiful and so fun to be around. I never once wished that she had bigger tits.
>>34714579I love u
>>34710001>>34709889Should say as a btw that I'm not planning on adding anyone lol, appreciate the offer though>>34709927Never thought I did :3But thanks for the advice ^_^>>34709944Yeah, I was trying to at least keep it accurate to now instead of back then as that felt too "omg I'm so ugly plz compliment me X((" kekwk>>34709975Not US, actually live in an area where thick/chubby is considered more attractive, which would be fine, if my body didn't default to looking like a deflated bag of cement when my BMI is higher than 22
>>34714570A girl I was hooking up with years ago had a flat chest. Always made sure feel her tits up because her small As were really sensitive and her nips could almost make her orgasm. She was really hot and I enjoyed every second of her until she moved on. I wanted a relationship with her but she didn’t want me like that. Would’ve loved that girl if she’d let me.
>>34709980Am ugly brown so don't get ur hopes up lol>>34709977I used to be skinnier and their size wasn't much different before I started overeating so I'm kinda banking on my genes to not fuck my body up :v>>34711645Never been romantically involved but if i ever did, this is usually how i imagine it ending up being, so trve>>34712882Srry anon^^i usually sleep for a while since my energy is super low :<>>34714562Ah rite, here's one, it's like the only drawing i had done recently that wasn't completely half-assed or referenced heavily lol
>>34714570After pounds of makeup, maybe. Without it i go from ltb to sub 4 kekw
>>34714663>Ah rite, here's oneThat's cute, it's a good drawing. Were you considering being a vtuber or something?You're not ugly. Even if your face is as bad as you say your body is very nice. Your skin is a nice color too but that's a deranged compliment to make.
>>34714675Oh ya but then I remembered that i have an annoying/bad voice and also don't have the setup for it so i immediately let go of that idea kekek
>>34714756Don't a lot of them use voice changers anyway? The anime girl sound is not natural kek. Post a vocaroo?
>>34714772Don't think voice changers can fix retardisim, fuck i forgot how awful i sound when speaking normallyhttps://voca.ro/12TRWbVCVJwIGenuinely can't imagine how anyone even tolerates me ewew
>>34714814You sound really cute. Why do you think you have a bad voice? I know the speech impediment sucks to have but you don't sound bad at all. Why is your self esteem so low?
>>34714822Idk just is, lel?Self-esteem is just ego and it's easier to hate everything rather than try to build a false and fragile ego, I guess
>>34714861>https://voca.ro/12TRWbVCVJwII don't get it, I believe a endless false confidence is fine as long as you don't let it become too real, and the OP is sexy as fuck, their voice is fine too, idk what she's on about, it's a real shame about her personal views on herself
>>34714861It's not a bad voice. You can say self esteem is just ego but everything is "just" something if you want it to be. Feeling good about yourself makes life more enjoyable so does it really matter if it's a false belief? At the end of the day the idea that someone is pretty or ugly, that a voice is good or bad, is all cultural and made up. There's no objective truth to it. When humanity is dead and gone whoever comes after isn't going to understand our concept of beauty. Hating yourself makes your life less enjoyable and more difficult. Loving yourself, the opposite. So why not love yourself instead?
Guy in mid-30s here. Used to browse /soc/ every day about a decade and a half a go. Was on some proper dumb shit, and I loved it. Now I come back a couple of times a year, and this is the first thread I've seen in a long time which I felt compelled to reply to.I've been working out pretty consistently since I was 18 - also obviously when the body dysmorphia started. I'm not going to go on some retard tirade about how the world has changed around me and how I've changed with it over the course of nearly two decades, so I'll just say this: exercise regularly, eat well (you don't have to overdo it and absolutely fuck your enjoyment of food - cheeky snacks and high calorie meals are great in moderation, much like most things in life), stay hydrated, brush your teeth, and give yourself some fucking credit.At 18, I was exactly like you; body was genuinely pretty decent and nothing to be ashamed of, but I just felt like a fat sack of shit all of the time. Over time, if you continue healthy habits that you instill when you're younger, you'll hopefully begin to learn where your body dysmorphia stems from, address it, and see, actually, hey, "for my age, I'm looking pretty damn good".And if you don't manage to find and treat the root, you'll certainly see everyone else around you become absolutely diabolical with age (apart from those you hopefully surround yourself with who share a positive attitude towards healthy habits and don't judge you for wanting to go to bed at 9PM). Comparison is the thief of joy, but using it in a pinch to see just how much "better" you are than the common person is fine. Just don't say it out loud.Keep on keeping on. Be kind to yourself and others.
>>34714814Your brain is casting judgement on yourself before others can as a defense mechanism. So here's someone else's actual judgement of your voice, and not what your brain is saying people think. Your voice is timid and shaky, but it isn't horrible, nor is it grating. You sound like a kind person and I'm sorry that long ago the actions of others planted that seed of insecurity within you.
>>34714663indian-brown? post feet possibly?
>>34709941men, aka 50% of the population
>>34709632big tits nice hips no belly reallyyou're fine
Pretty sure the girl in the OP image is a cam girl in /boob/ >>34714845
>>34714912Don't see the point in changing imoWas always like this and it didn't affect me in any meaningful way so i never saw the point in changing it, if anything, it saves me the trouble of mistreatment more than anything>>34714870Isn't it really common lol? Don't get why everyone's acting as if it's a majorly bad way to think>>34714925i get what you're saying and i do appreciate you taking the time to write all that. i'm not really in a "self-improvement" headspace though. this mindset's just kind of been there forever and it hasn't really ruined my life or anything. it's predictable, which makes it easy.still, it's nice to hear from someone who's been on the same brainworm carousel and didn't completely fall apartThanks for the perspective.
>>34709632Why is your head square
>>34715272>Don't see the point in changing imoIf that's how it is then that's how it is
>>34715274Squre head sufferer :,(
>>34715286Fix that
>>34714590PLEASE GOD I would worship you like a goddess. I NEED YOU SO BAD YOU HAVE NO IDEA.im normal trust.
Honestly anon I get it I been losing weight by eating less and also i lost my job so it helps to not spend money on more food.When i went to visit my folks and friends who hadn't seen me in months they said I looked way skinnierBut the thing is i still see myself as fat and want to lose weight why are things so difficult
i understnd how u feel op...honestly, i kind of aspire to have a body like yours; you have such a nicely proportioned torso and your hips lack dips which really makes me jealous!!ive been going to the gym but no matter what i do i feel like i cant shake the way my body looekd before and it kills me so bad!!!
>>34719176Post body it probably looks fine
>>34719181post gym picturs from today...blocked out strangely because im crazy schizod oout
>>34722164That looks like a perfectly fine and normal body to me what do you think is wrong with it?
>>34722168most of the things im insecure about are covered in these pictures, and i do this purposefully...i do not like my hip dips and i have a short torso ~_~ i used to be a chubby kid and for a while i was deeply malnourished so i have trouble looking at myself from a perfectly normal standpoint, i kind of pick at myself until i get too scared to look in the mirror
>>34722189Even if you're covering them up you still look normal. Are hip dips bad? I thought people liked those. You should try to compliment yourself every day. Pick one thing and force yourself to find something good to say about it. Helps some people.
>>34722210honestly im not really sure-- i really dislike them, and ive seldom met people who think differently, i think they damage the aesthetics of the body personallybut ill do that,cinmplimenting myself,m maybe it will help , hopefully!!!!
>>34722228I think hip dips are fine, I didn't know people had strong opinions on them desuIt will be! Just stick with it and do your best to not attack yourself. After a while it'll be second nature for you
>>34722228can i add u, ur really sexy
26 mOn a long bus travel, I want someone to confess naughty stuff and stories or tease me. I find most body styles hot, don't be afraid to show yourselfTeleguard: GPFJ5CTB8
>>34709632Learn to love yourself or hit the gym
>>34709632please stop with the victim mentality when theres tons of moids on here begging for your tits wiwi
>>34709632Women can have big great tits with nice bodies and then complain and bitch and moan and crash out about how they're not “perfect”.What's with your aversion for any kind of mental stability or happiness?
>>34728123If this woman is complaining and crying about the body she has now she wouldn't last one day in a objectively average/medicore woman's body
>>34731681But her body is mediocre. You all just have low standards
i don't get it you look just like the drawing
>>34731782>gay tranny detectedopinion discarded
>>34709632You look hot as fuck! I'd love to suck on those titties! Unless you're a butterface, then you're genuinely sexy!
