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Share your positive experiences and people you think of fondly from this board. Let's lighten the catalog up a bit :D
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>>34881229
I remember the soc man I cuddled with. I miss him but I scared him off with my obsessive behavior. It's bittersweet.
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>>34881229
I miss the soc girl I was friends with. It was all fucked up but it was fun and she was nice. Maybe she'll message me someday.
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i talked to a guy from an art thread on here a like a month ago, they made me cry but like in a good way xD the convo got deep and i didn't expect it to go where it did but i hadnt experienced that from this board b4. we haven't talked after we vc'd and i think it's cause i pressured them to. so, if ur out there and see this thanks again, and i hope we can talk again some day. if not, ur words are still in the back of my head whenever i start hating ppl and myself
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>>34881229
Chatting with an anon helped me figure out more concretely that I like guys as well as women. That was nice
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A tranny send me her nudes, shit was cash money.
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>>34881913
Hell yeah anon, beautiful story
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I found the love of my life twice on here. I found the person I want to be, it's a lot.
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I see a lot of anons wife's nude on messages apps and gf's and mothers and ex wife, But I haven't slept with a cuckold's wife yet, and no one wants to travel.
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Irony poisoned shit hole can't allow anything nice for once. You should all unironically kill yourselves
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>>34881992
I wasn't being ironic.
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>>34881992
Everything's been irony poisoned since 2013 at least. It's time to leave the internet, I'm afraid.
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I met my boyfriend here. Then we broke up and he turned out to be horrible. Tale as old as time. Don't fall in love with someone from /soc/.
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>>34881229
I fell in love and it ruined my life

>>34883147
Miss you baby girl
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>>34881233
Why not apologize and make amends?
>>34881243
You should reach out instead
>>34881541
Sometimes you're meant to have just a brief but memorable encounter with someone, cherish it
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>>34883212
>You should reach out instead
I was very specifically told not to do so and, out of respect for her wishes, I will comply
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I once met a guy here who we were friends for many years back around the pandemic. We lost contact when I lost my previous account, and partly it was a good thing, since we were both starting to recover from what troubled us when we met.
I like to think that happened for our mutual benefit, and he is much better the same way I am so now.
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>>34883289
Women only say what they feel in the moment
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>>34883303
I don't think she would be happy about me trying to get back into contact
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>>34883314
Damn what did you do
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>>34881229
The people on this board who clearly only use it to find someone to date or sext are just completely soulless beings, though the rare few who are just genuine people at the end of the day and have actual interests are nice to talk to, occasionally nice enough that you end up being friends with em. We need more people like that on this board.
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>>34883385
Let me preface by admitting that I am not smart, socially apt, or mentally well
We were friends a few months. Things were getting kind of romantic, we were spending lots of time together, we had seen each others' genitals. We were starting to act like a couple and I had never been in a relationship before so I was feeling out my depth. I wanted her to know how much I liked her so I started "researching" her. By that I mean, I found all her socials and read through thousands of tweets and instagram posts, watched all her TikToks, and tried to friend her on Facebook with an alt. Then I started mentioning stuff she'd posted like "oh do you like [thing], I really like [thing]" which at first was working really well and she seemed really happy. I made the mistake of forgetting what she'd already told me though so when I asked her how her dad was doing (cancer) she was freaked out. I tried to pass it off as a friendly question but she started rereading our conversations and realized I was always talking about things she'd posted. She told me to never contact her again, blocked me everywhere, and tweeted a bunch about what a freak I was, using my real name even. So yeah, we're not friends anymore. I think she might come around eventually but in the meantime I'm leaving her alone and not reading her posts anymore.
but if you read this I love you and I miss you and I'm sorry I didn't mean to be weird I was really insecure you were my first gf sorry
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I meet girl, she send boob.

Many such cases. 10/10
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>>34883410
you mean you cyberstalked her? Lmfao. Bro. It just kept getting worse the more I read. I mean... Dude... Imagine finding out that someone you thought you could trust had been "researching" everything they could about you even going as far as making an alt to friend you so they could "research" about you even more. Holy shit she must have been paranoid about how much you knew about her. I think you just take the L on this one boss, you need to work on yourself if you don't see how problematic your behavior was.
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>>34883410
Jesus dude. No wonder women hardly come around here anymore
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>>34883410
she isn't gonna come around lol fucking spastic
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>>34883410
Imagine if you actually put that amount of work and dedication into something useful. No way you're not unemployed who the fuck has the time to do this
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>>34883410
Anon you should probably cool it with "research" on any future romantic entanglements you get into. It's natural to be curious about someone your interested in, but going through their whole social media history is going to feel crazy and invasive to pretty much anyone.

Do you know if you're on the spectrum? Looking at a potential partner's socials isn’t unusual or necessarily wrong, but going as deep as you did is not at all typical

I think it's very admirable that you've been respectful of her request to leave her alone. I would suggest assuming that request was literal, there’s no fun flirty subtext. Just leave her alone and take this as a learning experience for the future.
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one anon i chatted with read my backstory about being abused in my early 20s, and how i've mostly moved past it. he said it's "badass" that i was able to dig myself out of that hole and stabilize. he mentioned looking forward to another convo, but i never hit him up until about a year later, he had unfriended by then.
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>>34883410
>I think she might come around eventually
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>>34881229
Got a very attractive Fwb (esex but idc since it scratches the itch), few friends and eventually money from a guy on some server. Thanks /soc/ !
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>>34883410
>think she might come around eventually
LOL. she's not coming around bro. stop waiting and let it go. i think everyone is a little guilty of stalking their crush, but as soon as you started discovering personal and private things you should've stopped. or just waited until you got to know each other better and she shared them with you first.
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>>34881229

Solid number of friends that ive been in regular correspondence with over a few years. One even sent me some cool shit. Big ups to her. Thankfully there do seem to be some well adjusted people on here.
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>>34883410
LAUGH OUT LOUD ROLLING ON THE FLOOR LAUGHING MY ASS OFF
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>>34881229
Met a guy on here 8ish months ago. Was best friends with him up until last month where we started drifting apart because of my mental health issues (which was what damaged our friendship in the first place) until he stopped talking to me under the guise of now "being less active online" which is bullshit but i get it, my issues were BAD. Anyways, that was the best friendship i've ever had in my life. It completely changed how i think about myself and the world. He always tried to understand and help me regarding my mental health issues and only ever treated me with kindness when i would fall short, fuck up, and message him crying. I don't know if he was ever as close to me as i felt to him, i wish i didn't have to lose him tho.
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I'm genuinely struggling to think of any, and I've talked to a lot of people from here over the years :/
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>>34881229
>A/S/L
31 M Germanistan
>Status
Retired (Unable to work due to not conforming to the wageslave system)
I though 'work' for spreading awareness, understanding and higher consciousness
>What are you looking for
Compatible people that share my mindset without delusions. Ideally someone local to meet and interact with, although when it comes to intimate things I'm definitely
not into hairy, beards, masculines and chubbies. I'm an androgynous male that some mistake for a women or fetishize. I don't like gender roles but I submit to this
avataras biological destiny to some extend. I seek for the advanced knowledge and those that seek it too. Those that dare the transgression and are not afraid.

For physical meetups I might have a garden area that requires a lot of effort as no one helps me and my ex relationship left me with immense fiancial burden I have
been working in no-money style for years and adapted very well to it. The garden is making progress but a mere blueprint for my future, one without (human) neighbors
is certain. You can become part of this process and we see where it will lead. Just do not force interaction if you do not geuininely resonate with my wording and
seek for a superficial relation or someone to exploit.

We might play video games excessively together or if you are into gardening you could help me in my projects to gain experience on your own. Someone for no-money camping
and illegal freedom would also be nice as that is one of the things I intend to do in the future. We could spend a lot of time in the forest together, maybe get high,
do duties, hunt for mushrooms, look out for cute spiders and possibly other things.
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>More about you
I'm 170 cm 66 KG (wanting to get to 55 again), long haired, very pale as I'm nocturnal, permanent NEET with infinite time but their own place in some magical forest hills
in western Europe. Don't bother for anything physical if you are not local or do not possess a valid identity to be here. I have been through all of that already. My
lifestyle is adaption to extreme poverty, if you are into money and worship the system its definitely not for you. I cannot be bought, but I'm attracted to those that
disobey and resist like I do. Interest in plants, nature and psychedelics would be ideal, as these are the main parts of my existance beside my computer systems. I have
a genuine F84.5 diagnosis that also allows me to become pensioned in such early age. I see it as a blessing not as a disability, as it allows me to see things more clearly,
but that is for you to judge yourself.
>Contact
endzeitromantik @ emailn . eu
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>>34889896
Do you have discord?
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The most wholesome and fun discord server! Join if you want to have to have fun and make friends!

https://discord.gg/8GduwhRbFy
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made lots of cool and probably insane friends on here... so, what's the catch? we all share a difference in timezones spanning 6~8 hours lol
that said, it's always fun to talk about nothings with anon: something about associating with this website makes it easy to act like my unsolicited, mildly vexing self -- for as much as i wish i could have a meltdown about algae or animation techniques or dying to random streetgoers, by comparison that feels more susceptible enough to bad consequences to vanquish the thoughts.
nice matisse btw
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I met a gorgeous girl from here and we traveled together in Japan. How I miss the days of /soc/ when there were girls here and it wasn't overridden by faggots and troons.
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After a miserable stress filled year, filled with a familt death, panic, sleepless nights and burnout so extreme it turned my brain into ashes, I have finally worked a debt of $19000 down to just $3000. The peace of mind has been incredible.
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>>34890340
Very nice, anon.
If you manage to turn that into saving and investing you're looking at a comfy and maybe early retirement.
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Literally none. I'm on here talking to and meeting people for self harm purposes
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>>34883425
Ok I had to remove the girl who would send me boob. Need new boob sender. Someone help.
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>>34894049
>self harm purposes
yo u up?
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>>34889908
Obviously but I do not disclose that publically due to retarded "hi whats up" people and dickpics, so if you can't write a proper introductionits not what I seek. E-mail is a good method for sorting out dumb specimens, some are so mentally degraded they can't even understand how e-mails work or write more than one entire cohesive sentence.
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>>34881229
After lurking for years, I finally spoke to someone here about a month ago. If you were to analyze the minutia of the interaction, it would probably seem like a bad experience for the both of us. It is cringe, it was shameful, it was hurtful, but ultimately it felt human and genuine. I'm not as empathetic or patient as I had thought myself to be, but I'll keep trying. And although I think I've learned a lot about myself through this exchange, I wish it didn't have such a lingering effect on me. I don't know if it's just appealing to my sense of novelty, but I catch myself chasing the dragon. The way interactions go on /soc/, how you are able to bypass years of small talk and go straight to the deep end, is truly bittersweet and addicting.
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Now I don't remember if it really was an anon from here or from a random friends thread on /v/, but I had a blast with him playing Sonic 3 together. I didn't beat it as a kid but it still ended being a super chill experience. After that, we stopped talking. Felt like it was one sided. I hold no hard feelings, however. Just hope you're doing well out here, Sonic anon



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