>>34924150
That's not the whole point of this board, so the answer isn't going to be yes regardless.

>>34924150
I have met up with a handful of guys, dated 2 long-term, all the rest fucking sucked. It's even worse now because I moved and where I live now is full of faggots and trannies

>>34924225
>I have met up with a handful of guys
How were they?
>dated 2 long-term
Why didn't you stick with either of them?
>where I live now is full of faggots and trannies
Trust me, I can relate. It's an awful feeling.

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>>34924150
Yeah. I'm a woman (not trans) and I met up with a man I thought was my soulmate but it turns out he wanted nothing to do with me after fingering my pussy. it mindbroke me because I sincerely wanted to be with him for life.

I keep posting on soc anyway because if I found him once I can find him again

He didn't wanna be with me because of my mental disability of autism and didn't wanna "fix" me into being a functioning adult

>>34924273
Sorry that happened. That's an awful thing to do to someone. I hope you can find someone who will stick with you. It really is hard to not contribute to the whole gender wars thing when something that frustrating happens to you, isn't it? I can understand both sides.

Like 6ish years ago (was 25ish) met 2 girls I wans in short-term relationships with. I think both were from a SFW KIK thread. One was English, early-mid 20s. We spoke for a while, got along very well. We eventually met at hers and fucked a bunch. Later she came to mine and we fucked a bunch again. I think we had less chemistry when we actually met. Sex was good though, she was excited since I'm a decent size.
The other girl was Russian and 18. She was absolutely nuts but in an exciting and fun way. Felt like we didn't like each other as much early on but later got into each other. I went to Russia like twice and we met in Prague once. Sex was good, she was very fun. She was expectedly a bit immature, came from a rich family. One day got drunk and sucked some guy off so then we sort of broke up though we met up one more time when she came to the UK. I look fondly on that period, she was a nice girl, just not very mature. Hope she's doing well.
I feel like people now are way more reclusive/scared/mentally ill than before.

The answer is no, you wont find love on 4chan. Its fun to talk and be a pervert but the reality is if you dont get offline and go out into the world youre not finding your partner lol.

yeah, ive met a few. some im still good friends with, and others didnt work out. i havent got an actual relationship out of it yet though

>>34924273
Can you die already chikn.

>>34924389
you guys need to accept 99.9% of women on here will be chikn tier (or worse, cassietier) after you get past the peacocking and masking and fawning

if you want stable available women, stop looking on here and go to church while sincerely engaging with the faith

>>34924424
I came here to tell the retard op to not look for women on here and then I saw the pedo responding to the thread. Tf u replying to me for with that nonsense faggot.

>>34924244
>How were they?
Most of them were looking for a quick hook-up but not honest enough to be upfront about it, so no one got what they wanted.
>Why didn't you stick with either of them?
First one we were too young and immature, 2nd one we just ended up wanting different things and let it drag on for far too long. Have you met up with anyone?

>>34924319
>I feel like people now are way more reclusive/scared/mentally ill than before.
4chan is less popular in general, meaning a higher concentration of scammers/bots these days. Plus I imagine the m:f ratio probably got worse overall, so any remotely decent women are forced to just lurk. Covid mindbreaking people probably contributed too.

>>34924150
ive had a few girls say they wanted to meet up but they all flaked. apparently im not interesting enough for /soc/ girls to want to meet up.

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>>34924150
I know a girl on telegram, who met her boyfriend on here, flew from Spain to Sweden for him to live together. Now they have a baby and planning to get married.

>>34924950
Hasn't worked out for me either, but honestly in most cases they probably realize it is just not worth the risk to met a guy from here, when there are safer options. Can't blame them.

>>34924150
I've met a few

>>34924424
I actually met one girl that was pretty cool, but I was not emotionally ready myself to go anywhere with it. I still see her on steam all the time.

>>34924989
Same femanon as before

I met up with the dude who fingered my pussy alone and went to a hotel room by myself with him. But he still left me so it's irrelevant

I'm pretty much stuck here because I do pervert stuff to connect with someone enough to see if i actually like them.

Am M. So I'm probably not much different from regular dudes. But if we're not going to match up sexually. That's a chunk of the relationship that's going to fail.

>>34924150
Dated 3 girls and had a hookup all from soc. Meet up with all of them irl, so yeah OP it can happen just very unlikely.

>>34924497
>Just be upfront about it, bro, and I'll let you into my coochie
This works with 1 out of 1000 women

>>34925017
How many times are you gonna repeat the same sob story?

>>34925401
I'm not saying I would've slept with them, just that I am not looking for that and it was a waste of everyone's time

>>34924424
Why would there be stable men on here but not stable women?

I've posted in threads in the past as a femdom looking for submissive guys, but have usually been let down. I've never met any in person, but had one or two who were capable that became a long term D/s thing.

It's very hard now since the board is overrun by faggots and troons. If they were forced to remain in /lgbt/ this board would be way better.

>>34925063
This is my problem too. If I wanted normal people I wouldn't be here and it's the only reason to use this place but everyone is too far away or too crazy too meet.

>>34926008
I just avoid femdom because there's more scammers there than anywhere and I can't trust anyone to not angle toward findom since that's been my experience every time. But i'd figure you'd have your pick of the subs here? I guess not.

>>34926016
Same, there's no good Dommes on here any more, biofem or otherwise despite my preference for biofem. Just findoms and garbage looking for a handout.

>>34926008
Contact? I'm a sub guy that's been looking for something like this for a while.

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Fuck no lmao

>>34925017
Ok and? That's still more action than I got so congratulations I guess.

>>34924497
Fair enough.
>Have you met up with anyone?
Not from here but I'm planning on doing it for the first time around the middle of the year when she moves here for study. Been talking to her since middle of last year and it's been going really well. Fingers crossed.
>>34924950
Many such cases. Happened to me in the past with girls I knew from big social circles.
>>34924973
That's amazing if true.

>>34924424
Lmao almost good advice then dude had to drop "go to church"

>>34924424
>stop looking on here and go to church
>sincerely engaging with the faith
Can't force faith brother, you shouldn't be recommending church in a thread about dating at all.

>>34927601
He's right minus the being sincere about it part. Most people are only superficially religious, even those attending church.

I did and it was the most bittersweet thing I think I've ever done. I met a man I love dearly. He is the smartest and most handsome man I've ever laid eyes on. He's the only person that it felt right to kiss. Our banter was so good it felt like swordfighting. He's the only person that made me stop and reassess the plan to get my tubes tied.
However, he couldn't love me back. He never wanted to make it official, so I shouldn't have been surprised. I could not in my wildest dreams be what he needed. I could not hold my emotions in like his past male lovers. Eventually it made him lose respect for me. The last time we made love he hounded me to take pregnancy tests. He didn't bother to ask what I wanted. I knew what he wanted. I realized I shouldn't love a man who is so willing to put his wants above all else. Now I know I need to get my tubes tied so I don't take anymore risks like that.

>>34924150

i met my soulmate here, we've been married for years now

>>34928704
I truly hope you both break up and suffer lol

>>34924273
If it would interest you at all, I'd do more then just finger your pussy.

>>34928922
Buddy that’s Chikn, who is an obese tranny pedo from every account I’ve ever read. You might want to reconsider that

>>34924150

Not all people are searching for a romantic relationship here. I’ve met some cool guys and would love to meet with them irl! Though not sure if we could connect well because of our age gap (different style of humor and all)

sometimes I do just to look at the state of this gay ass board. Actually met a couple cool people a few years ago but most of you losers are uninteresting as fuck and so many of you complain about women having no personality but the vast majority of you don't either and have nothing going for you by any reasonable measure. It's such a slog having to dig through the sea of pathetic
>hey I'm a neet and i want just any breathing woman with a hole
or
>40M want 18 or younger
disgusting.

>>34928977
Lol while for a lot it might be true, most of the women on here are pretty retarded and delusional.

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>>34928977
>hey I'm a neet and i want just any working man with a money for my hole
>or
>18f want 30 or older
bet you think this is fine though

>>34924424
>cassie tier
as long as they have huge black tits I don't care

i met a girl on here that i have been dating and we plan to get married

>>34924273
I wonder how many mentally ill women (and some underage girls) have a story that matches >90% of this.
If the number doesn't reach triple digits I'd bet it's close.

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They do. We have a discord server where we had people meet up from soc to irl and it works out fine, plenty of friends made and even marriages happened here too. Come check it out

https://discord.gg/RxRbK5Az6R

>>34924150
>Do girls actually browse this board
trannies aren't women
>and meet up with guys
no, only fags and trannies do
>and then continue to pursue in-person relationships with them?
the fags and trannies aren't mentally stable enough for any sort of relationship

>>34924273
sybau chikn
>>34924277
>>34928922
kill yourselves you desperate simp ass faggot tourists

>>34928977
omg you yeast infected wet hole will you just stfu already or post your miserable tits

>>34928986

>delusional

women are rightfully delusional. every man you come across on this board should be ur reminder that u might as well accept the normies from tinder

>>34927517
Hope it goes well, but don't have high expectations. Remember that most people are here for a reason. I've had much better experiences meeting people irl, much healthier

I dated a chick off here for 6 months. Even travelled to meet her. Anyways, long distance and the circumstances in our relationship drove me fucking crazy and made me anxious as hell. Didn’t help she was severely conflict avoidant. Anyways, I won’t get into it beyond that. Just don’t date anyone off here. I wouldn’t have dated me off here either lmao. It’ll just end in heartbreak and communication issues. Also pretty sure any chick meeting guys off here is just filling a void until something more convenient comes along. If it seems too good to be true, it eventually will be

>>34931785
Seems a bit like selection bias. Girls on here are almost never interested in the desperate guys. Also what, are you retarded or something?

>>34931526
>Didn’t help she was severely conflict avoidant.
At first it sounded like we dated the same person but a bulk of people here are the same way. I'm sure the issue goes beyond gender but the amount of narcs who shrug off any issue and just fall on detachment or "I need space" rather than resolution is insane, the fact they don't expect things to eventually boil over is more insane. I genuinely resent the two people off here I met up with and dated off here. People incapable of guilt or internalization usually have a better time though

>>34924273
thought this was about me for a second but this is a chicknpost kek

I've talked to one girl from here, but she was from the other side of the world and barely able to talk in English. At some point she stopped talking to me, because she thought I was a fed or something.

>>34931785
You always complain about this ex betraying you and talking behind your back but I have never seen you post anywhere without talking behind his.

>>34931514
>Hope it goes well
Thanks.
>but don't have high expectations.
Sigh, I know. I will never understand why girls lead me on for so long. Call me naive but I really have hope in this one, though. She seems really genuine and caring.
>Remember that most people are here for a reason.
True, but she posted in my thread not even expecting to get a boyfriend out of it. She just wanted to make friends in the country she was going to be moving to.
>I've had much better experiences meeting people irl, much healthier
Maybe so. I'm just not too sure how one would even go about doing that.
>>34931526
Well that was a depressing read.

I live in europe, it's a miracle if she's on the same continent as me. Then again even bigger miracle if she's close and not just from UK or france like it's usually the case.

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>>34924150
Speaking as a guy, yes I've met a few girls from here. Obviously, nothing that has stuck. But even the bad situations have been extraordinarly memorable. /soc/ isn't that much different, dynamically, from dating IRL - yeah you meet fellow Anons and you have a lot in common on that front automatically versus Normies. That's kinda why I date through things like this, I meet people I have a lot more chemistry with now and the dating pool where I live is awful.
I think all the Doomering about /soc/ comes from guys who don't have experience dating IRL anymore than on the internet. They think that repeated rejection isn't normal or something - but it is.
If I could ask anything of /soc/ it'd just be that people take rejection with more grace. Speaking as a dude on the board who has been around women who are also OldFags, the way y'all treat these women after you strike out is why it's like 8:1 M:F ratio.

>>34932582
I unironically have a lot more of a success rate dating irl than on this board. Like dramatically higher. This board has some derangement going on with it across all genders. I think it's silly to say that isn't the case.

>>34924150
I met my fiancée on here.
it was her first time on this board so I got her before the rest of you soulless fucks could ruin her. I hope you all die badly

>>34932589
Lmao same. Be it tinder, or regular dating, I have dramatically better success and also experiences. This board is full of delusional femcels and retarded incels.

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>>34924325
When was the last time you tried dating IRL? It was a mined stilwater pond before. Now it's a mined stilwater pond populated by socially illiterate knee-jerk retards with no emotional regulation post-COVID.

>>34932604
I had most success on hinge. When you're matching with people, you know what they look like, they know what you look like, they live near you, and on top of that, you both know what you're getting into when you match and agree to meeting up if you made your intentions clear. Means hook ups and dating are a lot simpler than the bullshit on here where you're going in blind and having to play games with people who half the time just want attention and validation like... Lmao.

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>>34924424
I dunno, I've met a few good ones but we just weren't compatible. Then again my last actual committed long-term girf here cheated on me with hung transfems. I knew she cheated on me but it took someone else having the same experience to know that was who she cheated on me with.

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>>34924150
Over the course of 4 years I’ve added and been added by nearly 1000 anons. Out of them, I’ve found only 2 men to be highly compatible with me, but both connections have struggled to continue due to the long distance. I’d say it’s possible to find a guy you like from here as a woman but it’s definitely rare. I’ve tried dating apps but the type of guys I like are mentally ill and are most likely found on this site.

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>>34924950
People don't know how to be honest and just say
>Hey, I met someone else.
>I'm not comfortable yet meeting up.
>We have some real conflicts in terms of compatibility so I don't think it was gonna work
Sometimes people gotta realize also that the mutual attraction sometimes just dies on the vine or isn't there.

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>>34925017
I cannot honestly imagine just meeting a girl up as a grown-ass man to finger her. What're we, teenagers?

>>34932589
Probably depends on where you are. Dating where I live is pretty awful for someone like me. As I've aged and had a lot of experience with relationships I've stopped settling for people and, maybe unfortnuately, I get along with Anon women more than any Normie.

>>34932604
It's also full of Top-Shelf Genuine Freaks.

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Another femanon here to repeat what these other girls have said too. I’ve met over a dozen guys on here (even flew across the world), and every boyfriend I have had has been from soc. Honestly, I don’t go out of my way here to find romance, preferably we like each other as friends first. It is definitely doable to find a girlfriend from here my fellow anons. Anyways if you are from central europe drop your tag.

Most posts on here are ignoring location as a factor. If you don't live in a US coastal area you don't have many options to begin with.
I live in central EU and only got to seriously discuss meeting up with a girl from here once. Nothing came of it though, which is to be expected, but that was an opportunity I won't get again anytime soon.

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>>34932784
Divine luck I guess.
m1ntt3

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>>34932800
This is hilarious. Come here my child.

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>>34924150
I met my ex on 4chan, not on /soc/ but on /r9k/
I moved countries for him and we were together for almost 4 years

I haven't met anyone else from 4chan since
I'd be up to meeting some girl friends maybe

real woman. and yes? kinda? i had someone i would've met up with irl but the relationship wasn't going anywhere. i've also posted in threads seeking in-person stuff (platonic or romantic) but haven't really gotten much out of it.

>>34932050
Yeah man, I got too anxious with the circumstances, and also had unmet needs. (Sexting was fading away and it started feeling like some affectionate platonic relationship). Made me really suspect she was cheating on me, even though she was talking to me all the time. Will never fully know. Long distance is just retarded even if her and I got along really great for like 90% of that relationship. It ran its course, and she did me dirty with how it played out

>>34930516
>getting defensive and begging for tits in the same sentence
pathetic ass faggot.

From what I've read on here and experience it seems like no matter if they're 19 or 30 women are incapable of actually just telling you straight up something isn't working so they waste literal weeks of your time on intermittent communication until you, as the man, have to take initiative which is what should be happening and what is basically biologically destined to happen but we've kind of all been told that is not and should not be the case for the last like 20-30 years of education in the west. Basically if you're a dumb broad reading this just tell the guy you're half-ghosting it's time to move on. You are a grown adult. I know you're a woman and that's kind of like being a grown child but by definition you are a grown adult so please act like one. Thank you

>>34933211
>>34931202
is a good example of this. But that's probably like a 18 year old or something I know there are women here in their late 20s and early 30s still acting like this and it's genuinely pathetic and needs to be called out more.

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>>34932784
Consider my curiosity piqued.
30/M from Central Europe
soraumi64 on Discord

>>34932709
>I’ve added and been added by nearly 1000 anons. Out of them, I’ve found only 2 men to be highly compatible with me
How does anyone expect decent men to stick around here when the odds are this bad? That's got to be even worse than any dating apps. What makes the women here even worse than normal ones?

>>34932912
>Long distance is just retarded even if her and I got along really great for like 90% of that relationship
Weird, because my anecdotal experience is no less than like 5 of my personal friends met someone online with huge distances between them and they're all soulmates. Granted, none of them met on 4chan, but I don't think the distances involved is really a problem past like 2010

I still get stalked by a girl I messed around with from here nearly 15 years ago. It kinda ruined my appetite for meeting girls from the internet, probably for the better.

>>34934223
is she at least hot?

I, despite being a loser, will find a lovely lady here on /soc/ and we will totally hit it off. This will happen to me, right?

>>34924150
Met up with one guy and it was super awkward and he rejected me lols

i've met up with people from /cgl/, /vg/ and /b/ at conventions before, cool chats and hanging out but never anything serious
i met my longest tenured girlfriend because she had an /a/ meme as her laptop background in college
/soc/ has so far been unfruitful

Despite having been a daily 4chan user since the dinosaurs were around, I was always too nervous to post here looking for friends because of the er, track record, women typically have on this board.
Fast forward after I finally bit the bullet and went looking for frens, I have the most amazing irl friends I could ever ask for. I had to wade through a few requests who'd go onto ridicule me for *actually* not wanting to have sex but it was well worth it, and I hope every nonna who sees this can have the same luck :)

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>>34933691
They're not, that's just the reality of the sexual marketplace.
Fucking Zoomers who missed out on OG RedPill, I stg.
Women have a far easier time getting laid than men, that's the paradoxical reality. So the ratios are always going to be skewed, they generally don't need apps to find sex but they do use them for ego-boosting and attention.
But in my experience the women aren't the only problem, lots of 4channers with swinging dicks unsurprisingly aren't the greatest at talking to women. We do get girls out here a lot but retards run them off. I feel like I get a lot of play out here and one of the easiest topics to get a woman to open up about is getting them to tell me horror stories about dudes they have met off of here.
Also, really, the big fix would be men collectivizing for their bros and raising the standards societally for a woman to be acceptable. We actually hold all the cards, we just don't hold each other accountable and take control.

in my honest opinion soc isn't the right the choice, at least not if you're looking for mentally sane people. like 90% of the 4channers on this board are perverts and i don't have the time to look for the exceptions.

it honestly sucks because i'm autistic and have sociopathic tendencies (harmless), so i've always had problems making friends irl.

i'd say the only relatively safe options are the sfw discord threads.

>>34932886
Nice car. Is it yours?

I met my boyfriend on here, plenty of girls browse /soc/ and I'm not mentally ill or have BPD. I'm just insecure.

>>34924150
Yeah, but the one time I did, and I actually let myself trust someone from here, it ended worse than anything I could have ever imagined. My advice: vet him for a while because mentally ill moids will fuck you over. The 4chan moid may be interesting and unlike any moids you meet irl, but can they really be mentally well enough to form a long-term relationship with? I don't think so.

>>34945337
what happened

>>34945337
you let yourself be played lmao, you're stupid. you selected this guy. whores never consider this

>>34945366
Nothing, it's a tranny LARPing.

Cute home schooled girl -no ghosters pls
Tg is YGE3ZL2XK

>>34945378
Yeah, that's why I posted that advice. To not date mentally ill moids from the chans who will lie to you, fuck you over, and not feel an ounce of guilt for it.

>>34945366
Lied about his history, cheating on me, was verbally abusive, and disordered. After we broke up, he accused me of abuse and assault. Every day with him left me feeling like shit. I had the whole BPD run-around package.

>>34946025
no, my point is that women are naturally attracted to this type. you whores consistently select for that type. i know this because i am that type. don't try and blame men. you want this, naturally.

>>34933211
>>34933220
This realization that women literally act the same no matter what age they are finally pushed me to start fucking 18 and 20 year olds. I don't care if I'm a "pedo" for it, they're all the same age mentally

>>34946025
I'd ask a more specific question because this hits a lil too close to a past experience i had on here but idk if i wanna open that can of worms. lmao. in case you might be the person I think you are, I hope you're in a better place now, u deserve peace :)

>>34946025
The same thing happened to me too. Dated a guy from here after being friends for a long time. We were together many years (online to irl relationship). At first I thought he had depression and anxiety nothing too serious but he become more unhinged and cruel the longer we were together and left me for the woman he cheated on me with. He accused me of sexually assaulting him after he left me even though he was the one who was always pushy and coercive about sex. I got the whole BPD package as well - emotional/verbal abuse, lying, cheating, gaslighting, raging, discard then smear campaign. People with these cluster b disorders bring misery to anyone they associate with. Sorry you went through something similar.

>>34946249
> I got the whole BPD package too

how much of that story is bullshit, queen

I believe her, it's /soc/ it sounds like par for the course

If you're a stable and family oriented man with moral principles, you're way too "boring" to interact with bitches here or anywhere else for that matter.

>>34924150
Yes, but it's rare. Also you have to be good looking enough, even here. I've hit it off with multiple women from here, but get ghosted once they know what I look like. Looks are king if you're a guy, especially in any form of online dating.

It seems like a fever dream, but I once sent a random dick pic to someone requesting. I started a chat and they willingly engaged with it.

They turned out to be a beautiful, normal, hot (like, absolutely smoking hot) Russian girl in her 20s who had left and gone to Western Europe around the start of the Russia-Ukraine war.

We chatted, sexted, gooned together, and spoke online for a year or so until we could finally meet. When we did, she was everything I could have asked for.

But our lives were way too different to meet in the middle, and neither of us were in a space to be able to make those differences.

I kinda wish I was lying, and I kinda wish I had worked a bit harder, but you know how it is with LDRs - small cracks can make huge fissures. Idk where she is now.

>>34945337
>The 4chan moid may be interesting and unlike any moids you meet irl, but can they really be mentally well enough to form a long-term relationship with? I don't think so.
This applies to the foids too then? Or do you give them the pass.

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>>34946069
I'm 47 and haven't dated older than 22 in a whole lotta years. Shame they never last long, age gap is really difficult with being hated by everyone and all, but they're fun...

Sort of? I met a guy through a soc discord server. I wasn’t looking for a relationship at the time but we really hit it off, and started dming each other occasionally. Mostly about life stuff or music. Casual. I knew he liked me but I wasn’t outwardly reciprocating… At first, but I fell for him. Before I knew it we were up until 6am on the phone. After a few months he got me plane tickets… and so I stayed with him for a few days. Cried in his bed before he took me back to the airport lol. We are madly in love. I’m going back up to see him soon :)

>>34956220
If this is all true then I'm happy for you anon.

>>34925401
1000? 1 out of 1000 to the power of 1000 maybe
>>34931785
so drop contact then

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>>34924150
soc helped me develop an irl friendship with a fella going on 2 years now. im waiting for him to ask me out because it would be a resounding yes, but bro is way out of my league. we hung out last month.

>>34957429
Stop waiting for him to ask you out, go and ask him out you fucking retard. Waiting for him to ask you out is waiting for another girl to catch his attention. Just lay your cards out and tell him what you want. He’ll probably be so flattered that even if he hadn’t thought of you like that, he’ll still say yes. I will never understand why women wait for a man they like to ask them out. Like you could be getting what you want but you’re waiting around to pursue it for probably the most arbitrary reasons? Un-fuckin-real. Don’t come back here until you’ve asked him out and you have an answer one way or another.

>>34958504
why do you try to convince a woman with reason? you know as well as i do that doesn't work. ever. she'll just keep doing what the funny chemicals in her body tell her. and the pussy tingles that serve as her moral compass. it can't be helped.

>>34958530
>the pussy tingles that serve as her moral compass.
That would make "men only think with their dicks" projection...
Now it makes sense.

>>34958546
that dude is quoting 2010s Red Pill shit almost verbatim

>>34958559
quoting? i was there, nigger. and it's more real than ever

>>34958559
The real red pill is accepting that he is 100% correct about women, while acknowledging men are equally retarded.

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>>34958504
lemme ask him out, get rejected, and ruin a two-year friendship!! alternatively, lemme ask him out, start dating him, and negatively affect his life :)). have you ever heard of nuance? he's younger than me, smarter than me, and has his whole future to focus on. why the hell would i push a relationship onto him and risk hurting his growth as an individual? im self aware enough to know that im mentally ill and shouldnt push that onto others. but if he wants to pursue me, id assume at that point he knew how stupid it was n id accept.

>>34958530
dont try to convince a woman with reason, try to convince her by being a whiny loveless chud online. youre doing great sweaty

>>34958646
you kidding? any man with experience with women looks down on them in terms of their nature more than any incel. it's the clueless guys in the middle that'll idolize women and they keep falling flat on their face for it.
but you can only think in terms of pussy as currency and reduce yourself to that. that's standard lmao
and what a neurotic mess that drivel is, with a dozen phony post-rationalizations. just sack up and take what you want you ridiculous person

>>34958706
>still tries to convince a woman by being a whiny loveless chud online
keep going sweaty!

>>34958728
oh! it's a tranny lol

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>>34958739
https://voca.ro/1FfUXMtByEnG

>>34958838
You sound sexy af shawty just seeing what's good shawty ft

>>34958838
hardcore animus complex! with the mouthing off and all lol, my bad

>>34958861
isn't it a little late to be doing this right now daniel

>>34958878
lol

>>34924150
They browse here and look for men, but they refuse to accept incels and only want chads, because women's standards these days are utterly ridiculous and bullshit.

>>34959874
Most men on here just reek of desperation and degeneracy with no idea on how to actually interact with women because they see them as an object that's simultaneously above and beneath them that they have to guess the hidden phrases for to get access to pussy.

>>34958838
You are right, dating that guy would absolutely harm his development. You should ruin my life instead.

>>34959986
>Most men on here just reek of desperation and degeneracy with no idea on how to actually interact with women because they see them as an object that's simultaneously above and beneath them that they have to guess the hidden phrases for to get access to pussy.

foid projection 101. You view men as objects. Semi loser men you use to build harems. You lead them on, use them for some quick validation and attention, refusing to commit to a single person.

You also project cheating on to others while cheating yourselves.

If the guy isnt a chad you automatically think that you're superior to him and have the right to be entertained by him

>>34960057
Spoken like somebody who doesn't know how to actually play the social game. You must be legitimately on the spectrum and that in itself is why you're a khhv. Unless you're repulsive, you should start by asking yourself what it is a "Chad" is because it goes beyond physicality and has a lot more to do with how you carry and posture yourself when talking to others.

>>34961107
>play the social game. You must be legitimately on the spectrum and that in itself is why you're a khhv. Unless you're repulsive, you should start by asking yourself what it is a "Chad" is because it goes beyond physicality and has a lot more to do with how you carry and posture yourself when talking to others

Grow up. Santa isnt real. Democracy doesent exist and the way you carry yourself will never compensate for your looks.

>>34961168
shit like this is so delusional. the average person isn't an Adonis

>>34960057
That's what happens when you're used to a hundred friend requests. Humans never had that kind of option. Men still don't. Women do. What happens when you give a rat cocaine on demand?

>>34961168
I never said looks didn't matter. Of course they do, but you're fixating on that way too much. The looksmaxxers are literally the perfect example of how looking Chad doesn't stop you from acting and behaving like an incel. You're the one that should stop living in fairytale land. Because if you want the reality, it's that looks DO matter, but unless you're a 10/10 or have some other exceptionally redeeming qualities, being a pussy woe is me self loathing faggot will always turn anybody off. That's what a real Chad is. There's a big difference between looking like a Chad and being one. You also live in this fairytale world where everyone who gets a girl is a Chad, have you not looked around? In the real world chads are like 1% of the human population, yet everyone is in a relationship, you're going to cry because you aren't a Chad? Maybe it's more of a you thing than an actual chad thing. Pointing to chads as being given everything in life gives you the perfect excuse to stop trying and start villifying. You don't have to be a Chad to get a girl, you don't have to be a Chad to live a happy life. That's the reality. Fuckhead

>>34958646
>lemme ask him out, get rejected, and ruin a two-year friendship!!
You’re ruining it right now by not being honest about what you actually want in this relationship. In being dishonest about a crucial detail like your romantic feelings towards him, you are being a shitty friend to him. It borders on Nice Guy shit. And to top it off, you don’t even know that he would reject you, you’ve just assumed he would and made the choice for him.
>alternatively, lemme ask him out, start dating him, and negatively affect his life :))
Again, you’re assuming the outcome without even trying. You don’t actually know if you would negatively impact his life. For all you know, you could be the best part of his day. But you’re not gonna bother to find out either way because you’re a fucking idiot and a huge gaping pussy.
>have you ever heard of nuance?
Rich coming from the person who’s thinking in stark black and white terms, and only assuming negative outcomes. The nuance here is you don’t know what will happen because you haven’t asked.
>he's younger than me, smarter than me, and has his whole future to focus on. why the hell would i push a relationship onto him and risk hurting his growth as an individual?
Then go be his older woman fantasy you fucking idiot, and then help build him up to his full potential so he can be successful. If he’s smarter, then let him be smarter. What does it matter if he’s smarter than you?
He has to study? Pay for supplemental study services like tutoring and homework banks, order or cook food for him, suck his dick every time he takes a break.
Looking for a job? Get him a tailored suit, help him network, make sure his resume and LinkedIn are solid, fuck him before every interview.
Work is stressful? Let the man vent, make him food, help him with chores, let him fuck you however he wants to blow off steam.

>>34961528
Why even argue when it's all cope? She wants him to be active because her nature dictates it, but then she's gotta cover it up with false altruism for social reasons. This is all very simple. They all do it.

>>34958838
Continued from >>34961528
>im self aware enough to know that im mentally ill and shouldnt push that onto others
I have bipolar disorder; if I can manage, so can you. Suck it the fuck up, manage your illness, stop making excuses to not pursue what you want, and start doing shit that will make you happy and have a normal life. It is that simple.
>but if he wants to pursue me, id assume at that point he knew how stupid it was n id accept
Again, assuming. You don’t actually know and you only think in the most negative black and white terms. Stop thinking because that’s clearly gotten you fuckin nowhere in life, and go ask him out.

I can’t believe I have to hold your hand through the simplest fuckin thing in the world. Dumbass. I bet he says yes and your retarded ass doesn’t even have a response. Just so you don’t fuck it up, here’s what you do: go in for a hug, tell him how much you like him, and tell him how excited you are to be with him. After that, either let him take the lead and go with the fuckin flow, or take the lead yourself if he seems unsure of how to proceed and set the tone for whatever you want to happen. If you can’t plan past that point, go live in a group home for like-minded retards.

>>34961528
>>34961588
Brother, any women that has met up IRL with a guy from /soc/ and hasn't been actively pursued by him for a relationship is almost certainly considered hideously ugly by the man in question. The probably of a man finding a woman on /soc/, getting along with her, and also being in the same region to meet up, is astronomically low. If he hasn't started flirting with her in 2 years of interactions then he's clearly not interested.

You can try to whitepill as much as you want. The story is either fake or she's leaving out significant details that explains why he hasn't tried to fuck her. Though the "he's out of my league" part is a hint that she's simply ugly.

>>34961890
Or the simpler explanation, the guy is oblivious as most men are. Either way, here’s the undeniable reality: this idiot isn’t trying and only has herself to blame for why nothing has happened. I’m just the person delivering the desperately needed swift kick in the ass.

>>34961980
Fuck off Chikn, you disgusting pedo tranny

>>34959986
Females should stop being mad at men for being desperate. Females have such high standards that a lot of men are going to be desperate. Many men will "fake it" to seem otherwise but that's stupid, honesty is better. And plenty of us just want equality rather than seeing ourselves as better than anyone, but females fucking despise equality in dating and now just want extreme eugenic fascist bullshit in dating. False should lower their goddamn standards and it's really fucked up that none ever will and that they consider the mere thought of doing so to be evil (unlike the abusechads they give infinite chances to who are never ever evil no matter how many times they abuse women)

>>34962151
stop crying about nature and stop appealing to people's better conscience when their own evolutionary self-interest is in question. you need to either argue in their interest why they should do something or you must subjugate them. if you can't get what you want by force then you have to come to an arrangement. you won't argue women into fucking you. so either you make yourself as attractive as you can or you organize with others and change society. it can be done, it's been done one way into the one direction, it can be done away with again into the other. they'll scream and stomp and cry but what can they do.
i'm not even setting an imperative here in any direction as far as the above goes, what with women and their dumbass games and their rights and all the little fictions they love rattling on about. i'm telling you this whole woe-is-me crap won't get you anywhere. women will act in their own self-interest as will you. it all comes down to that. even altruism is just a logical conclusion to egoism because you wish for a better outcome by sustaining the organism you're a part of. so fuck the moralism, fuck the whining and do something about it.
also call them women, you call them females they'll just call you an incel and declare victory.

20F here!! desu, ive never actually gotten into a long term relationship on this site and I never plan to. just here for hookups really, hope this helps and sorry to disappoint

>>34962192
Evopsych is just social darwinism 2.0 and is generally just nonsense. "It's just natural" has been used as the excuse for all sorts of bullshit and it's not a valid excuse. Females can simply get over themselves and lower their standards, and more and more men are going to get mad as hell since they keep refusing to do so. It's that simple. Neither you nor females can crush the desire for equality and liberation from societal standards and roles no matter how much you belittle the idea.

>>34962151
srsly? idk what this convo is but we dont have “high standards” u just have to not be fat, a psycho or have an std, likeeee…

>>34962208
you're a weak little man and you'll keep simmering in your impotent ressentiment until it kills you inside.

>>34960057
what’s wrong with casual hookups? highk its ur fault for expecting more than just a quick sucknfuck im just ngl

>>34962215
I'm not fat or psycho and I don't have an STD and yet no females have ever given me a chance and none ever will - because I refuse to make the insane bullshit effort needed to be the Chad that females want (even if y'all don't admit it)
>>34962218
Females should simply get over themselves and accept weak little men rather than being fascist filth who fetishize power. Power is bullshit. And so is Nietzsche.

>>34962245
desu, you sound like a psycho, maybe get self awareness, stop being a doomer and realise thats why none of us want u

>>34962245
your navel gazing in your ivory tower doesn't have any permanence. only those things have staying power that actually want to persist and take the world how it is as point of departure. you can shove your tabula rasa up your ass for all the world cares man.
the only thing that has staying power is will. you thinking one thing and not another is an expression of will. you choosing and discriminating in favor of one thing over another is will. negating will is will. you can not escape this. and this isn't nietzsche, this goes back all the way. and you appealing to outside forces to give you what you want is childish and weak. you'll never get what you want. you're not a serious person.

>>34962259
I'm not psycho, you females just assume that about any man who questions your bullshit high standards and criticizes society. Whereas the chads who do so much abuse don't get seen as crazy or dangerous because they are outwardly agreeable and charismatic. You just refuse to consider the possibility that you are in the wrong and that the men you reject are unjustly being rejected and demonized. I've done nothing wrong. But you will never care.
>>34962273
You are just wrong and people will never stop demanding a more fair and equal world no matter how much it bothers you. We are all entitled to better than this.

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>>34962245
how has refusing to make the insane bullshit effort been going for ya

>>34962326
It's miserable and it would also be miserable to make the effort. I just want to be me. Making that effort would mean becoming someone else, which would be even worse than the torture females put us incels through by excluding us from romance. Females and their high standards ensure that there's just two horrible choices for us, and no actually nice outcomes.

>>34962245
bullshit effort? lmao. you do realize that being a chad means not being overly invested in outcomes because you're your own person and you'll be fine regardless of whatever happens? if you think it takes effort to have fun and fuck around idk what to tell you, perhaps you're just too lost in the sauce to see you're taking things way too seriously.

>>34962308
“you females”
“any man”

:/

>>34962308
you're in a cult buddy, but acting it out all on your own. fkn grim

>>34962342
oh romance? thoughtu just meant like, sex… yeaahh why would u ever want to have low standards for romance lol

u should always have the highest standards cos the whole point is to be with someone you truly love right? find the one?

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>>34960014
ill add you to the tally above my bedpost of the men whose lives i ruined

>>34961528
i appreciate your no-nonsense response to this. i like to think i'm different than a niceguy in that if he were to reject me or we don't end up together, i'd still care about him and encourage his success. our current dynamic just works and i'm not willing to risk losing that right now. i assume the worst cause its a very real possibility, and i don't think i could survive it.

your responses are weirdly sweet and i can tell you're a good person. wishing you nothing but good vibes.

>>34961890
>she's leaving out significant details that explains why he hasn't tried to fuck her
you're leaving out significant details on why i would gaf about what you have to say. he added me from a thread about my country cause he was staying in my city and saw my post. he was never interested in romance; he only added me for friendship. if that has to do with my looks then everything you just typed here has to do with your micro peen and fading hairline

>>34962342
becoming someone else would be an improvement for you. not putting in effort and staying at your "baseline" would just have you being a lazy neet all day. every time you grow, you "become someone else", learn new habits, form new neural connections, and become a better person. effort is torture, effort is pain, effort is miserable, same with anything you have to work for. you have to get over it.

I mouth fucked Donut-Chan lmao. Forced her to swallow my cum before pounding her ass. Fat bitch needed to be abused

>>34962357
How many have u done so far tho? I’m at 3 but tryna bump up lmao

>>34962345
It takes a lot of effort to be desirable enough to not need to be overly invested in outcomes like that. A lot of effort - or a lot of privilege
>>34962350
Females should simply stop being so hateful and judgemental towards undesirable men, but you hate the idea and always will
>>34962357
The idea that only the best of the best are worthy of love is total bullshit. Men can love even the least attractive women. So women are capable of the same - they just refuse to anyway, because they embrace a hypercapitalist and eugenic fascist approach to romance, only considering the best of the best men to be worthy of anything. That's pretty evil of them

Also makes it clear that the whole "women are gatekeepers for sex, men are gatekeepers for romance" thing is wrong and women are just the gatekeepers for everything (and growing worse and worse in that regard)
>>34962357
The "cult" of basic decency lol
>>34962439
And this is just more bullshit. The assumption that if someone doesn't change in the particular ways that women demand for romantic desirability, that someone must be stagnant in life, lazy, doing nothing

Someone can have various life goals and be actively working on them, but still be seen as a lazy stagnant loser with nothing going on, just because they don't choose the particular goals women desire relating to shallow things like looks, money, status, and the parts of personality related to gender role nonsense that have nothing to do with basic decency. Whereas the guy who makes half the effort but puts it all towards the stuff women want will be seen as a more productive person even if he's doing it all for external approval rather than self actualization. Which is bullshit. Women should just be more tolerant instead of requiring that shit to date.

>>34963629
at this point i genuinely think you're an aspie, not even being polemic here

>>34963742
Females should simply lower their standards and settle for aspie men. Aspie women get acceptance and love, so it should go the other way around too. Fair's fair. Not that females give a shit about fairness of course, but they should, and men are right to be mad as hell at women for not caring about fairness.

>>34963577
are you the one who took pics of her sleeping or no?

>>34962413
>the tally above my bedpost of the men whose lives i ruined
Hot!

not a girl but i have had two irl relationships from here so yes it does happen. both times they added me, don't even waste your time adding the attention sluts that post themselves, you can never compete with the attention 100 other men can provide

The one girl I met on here and considered dating, wouldn’t stop cutting herself. Eventually she got with a brown guy, so it was a good dodge. Never date a cutter.

>>34966888
How many times did you have to post before you got a reply that wasn't a scam?

>>34967162
two posts total and both times they were the only ones that added me. i guess i was exceptionally lucky

>>34957429
how did you met him?

>>34967356
Damn sounds like you know how to make yourself sound appealing.

>>34966888
Which threads did you post in? I rather befriend someone before dating them so I don't post in dating threads.

>>34967485
not at all. i just posted some generic slop about hobbies are interests. sometimes the stars just align and a girl who is exceptionally lonely enough to be adding the guy finds you interesting
>>34967522
gaming and uk threads

I got laid off here once so I guess

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>>34967553

Yes and he cheated on me after almost a year of dating. He was my first boyfriend, first kiss and took my virginity. I really loved him and now see he felt nothing.

yeah, it’s been around 2 years since we met and 1 year since we had a short conversation where i tried to cling onto him, but he dismissed me. i remembered him last night and had a huge wave of painful nostalgia. i wish things could have turned out differently. that maybe if i was different, if i did things differently he would have wanted a relationship or at least keep me as a friend. but he was very emotionally unavailable, so maybe not. maybe it would have always mean nothing to him no matter the circumstances. but we had fun. i know we did. it was nice being there with him, to hold him and for him to hold me. i felt no pressure, no need to perform, i could just be. and i happened to meet him on 4chan after i left my abusive relationship. he was the first and only person that i wanted to love again desu. that i wanted to open my heart to eventually. i would have done anything for him if he’d just let me. because when i left the abusive relationship my whole foundation beneath my feet was destroyed and holding onto one stick only at the end. and that was for him, but he shattered that too and my heart went completely black after that. i bawled my eyes out yesterday night and i wonder how he’s doing and what he’s been up to, but i know he doesn’t want to see my name pop up.

M in australia so already you know how dead the community will be

I have only encountered (online):

- women who: "SUPRISE! my post was irrelevant and actually i can sell you my nudes for $50"

- women who: "yes i have a cock... and a beard... im not even trans im just a guy"

- girl who: "so actually im underage... can we meet up so i can buy some drugs from you"

Yeah its over for me fellas. But you all may have a chance as i am looking for one time flings that arent even sex but kinks to do with a woman abusing me in some sort of way. Kinda narrows the options down by a lot.

>>34924150
Yes, but I'm such a retard I blew my chance with her

>>34924150
Yep, I married him and we have a kid on the way. He was my first everything.

Im wondering if it was easier to meet chicks on her when being trans was less prominent. Maybe it was just gayer than it is now

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Browsing part yes, contacting people no. I'm an autistic woman and for years I would lurk every so often just to find somebody in the same "too weird to seek out relationships on normie sites but not weird enough for the majority of /soc/ threads". I did find that, eventually, partly because of a server that was advertised here. Absolutely there are many more girls like me.

>>34963862
Quit being such an intellectually molested faggot and you would fare better.

I met up with a boy I met on here. I simply wanted a friend ao I posted looking for someone to talk to and had the misfortune of meeting him. It was nice in the beginnning, of course. We met in person twice. He came to my apartment because he was/is a broke neet loser who lives with mommy and daddy at almost 30 and probably will for life. I didn't care about that in the beginning, but after all the bullshit he put me through, the patience of a saint I'm known for, ran thin. I still wish I had a partner to share my stable, adult life with, but I would never look for him here. I don't come here anymore. I randomly came here today hoping I'd look and see if a woman I used to chat with would be here, but she probably isn't, so I'm not going to bother and leave again and maybe come by again in another few years, maybe not. I noticed women tend to slowly stop coming here in their late twenties and just never come back in their 30s and it seems I'm no exception.

>>34975114
>australia
Same. What state?
To everyone else, I'm reading all your replies but I'm a procrastinator it won't all happen at once. Didn't expect this many lol.

>>34974866
Jeez... and I thought being lonely was bad. It continues to be true that having something and losing it is far worse then never having anything at all. Kind of like when you compare historical street photos to current ones...

>>34975565
What did he do? I sound similar to this guy and no way i would ever want to fumble something like this.

>>34968423
It doesn't get more brutal than that. :/
Sorry.
>>34966921
>wouldn’t stop cutting herself.
Fuck. What does a guy even do in that situation? :/
>she got with a brown guy, so it was a good dodge.
Agreed. Hope they don't have kids lol.
>>34966888
>don't even waste your time adding the attention sluts that post themselves
A wise statement.
To those of you bragging about just getting cheap sex from this board and nothing more, I hope your brains start to form at some point. Better late than never!

1/2 because it thinks my post is spam...?

>>34934443
This is pretty much my case, so, lol. Wagies in shambles.
>>34932894
Do you have a personality or do you make the guys do all the work?
>>34932886
Moving countries and living together for four years but it STILL didn't work out? Why??
>>34932784
Why didn't any of them work out?

2/3 lol

>>34932710
I'll drink to that. Happened to me so many times lol. Why do they ghost dude? Why can't they just be honest and then block me after?
Also what are you guys in-fighting about? QRD? Can't be arsed reading ALL of it, maybe I'll read SOME of it at some point.
>>34950068
Disagreed, Clav.
>>34950055
My case seems to nullify your point... maybe.
>>34945337
I really hope the girl I'm talking to is the one. She's got mental struggles, (shocking, I know) family issues and kinda trust issues too but I hope it works out. Been talking for around a year but I guess you truly never know until that in-person meetup happens.
>>34941847
Thank God, at least we have one.
>>34935632
>i'd say the only relatively safe options are the sfw discord threads.
The problem with those is... well, trying to find traditional people who aren't washed on mainstream Discord isn't the easiest endeavour.
>>34934463
>i met my longest tenured girlfriend because she had an /a/ meme as her laptop background in college
Man, America sounds great.
>>34934452
:<

3/3

>>34975615
I sometimes feel like he may read threads like this, so I'd rather not give too much away, but I got to reading some responses and I'm shocked as to how similar a situation I had with another woman on here. The longer post about leaving an abusive situation. Though, it wasn't a relationship. But it's simple to not mess something up with someone. Just be an adult. Communicate. Trust each other. Be honest. Be there for each other, especially when the other needs you. More importantly, be sure you're ready for and actually want a relationship. That's pretty much everything he did not do. He was not mature and was very mentally ill and chose to take all that out on a stranger who only ever showed him too much grace. In the end, all his failure caused him to never know what kind of father he could have been and it unfortunately caused me to never know what kind of mother I know I would have been. And I wouldn't ever tell that to him, that I feel that way for causing me to lose our child, because I know he would simply use that as an excuse to drink more.

>>34975691
Damn thats sad and thats awful that happened to you. I hope this doesnt upset you but reading stuff like this actually gives me confidence, because even though im like these guys in the living with parents and not having a good career or money kinda way. Im not like them in the vices and mental illness ways. But i am fat tho lol which im trying to fix.

>>34975583
>State
Vic melbs.

If u wanna chat:
disc: mekzi_tot
kik: mekzi_tot
teleguard:L7NTQ3GUB

i chat with a few people from here on discord. i’ve met up with one guy, we hung out for a few days straight and i didn’t get tired of him. it was really nice. we talk daily but we live in different parts of the country. i do like him, but i don’t want to move across the country.

>>34924150
Yes, I had some nice longterm bfs irl from here. I think 1 guy just lied to get sex though. You can be a girl and have a real relationship or marriage with a nerdy guy here. I don't like looking here for relationships though cause men I like aren't really here.

>>34978870
this is genuinely 95 iq, wild

this is a general question for women or men who have a partner and don't hate women: when I make an ad, how explicit should i be that I have problems?
I'm relatively high functioning, so its not like I'm homeless or have a crippling drug habits, but I have screws loose. I don't want to con people, nor waste either of our time by saying "btw, i have x problems teehee" instead of just putting it in the ad, so I try to make it clear in a sucinct way that there are things that could make me incompatible. EG, I make it clear I hate my line of work or I refer to myself as a mischling when describing my appearance. should I just leave these out and only bring it up later (not very later, but if we have fun talking and it becomes obvious that we'd both like the continue)?
It could also just be i'm so repulsive even if I don't mention the undesirable no one would reply either way but idk (I know not to put that in an advert).
>>34975551
if you don't mind me asking, would you say there's better odds for men if they are in servers rather than posting in the threads where people share their profiles?
>>34975661
similar question, which thread did she find you in? Did she ever tell you how you stood out amongst the sea?

>>34924150
There are or were at least, i think nowadays they are a dying breed thanks to discord where all of them migrated to. My first kiss was to a cis girl i met from here 8 years ago. We were together for almost two years and met twice.

But since i'm in the EU and she was in the US and there are no girls here outside the US, we broke up partly due to the distance but also because her family was toxic and abusive to her AF, wouldn't let us see each other and refused to meet me even though she had met my family...

>>34978930
Well i just looked up mischling and it told me it was a nazi word for mixed race people so definitely dont do that shit. Complaining about your job is normal just say you think it sucks. It really depends on if you are a woman or a man and what you want. I think being just upfront is always best just try to convey it like you are working on it or say it in a cutesy way. If you are just looking for hookups probably doesnt matter

>>34978870
>men I like aren't really here.
who are the men you like? why wouldn't they be here?

No women are on here

>>34979028
oh shut up, i've been incredibly racist and misogynist in front of and towards self-avowed radfems and leftist women and they simply don't care when they're attracted to you. they'll even tell you! and why should they be ashamed of it? nature doesn't care about your little constructs and fictions. and women don't care. they'll make rules for you when they're not really attracted to you.

>>34978930
>which thread did she find you in?
My own, funnily enough. I made it in the hopes of finding a girl who'd be in my city and she posted in it saying she was moving there in about a year's time (only a couple months away now). Even more humorous was that she wasn't even looking for a guy to talk to (only girls) but decided to add me on a whim and fell for me after that.
>Did she ever tell you how you stood out amongst the sea?
All she said was that when the few other guys added her they were older and more creepy. I text in a friendly way and I suppose I was charming enough for it to carry on.
How's your experience with girls been?

>>34928977
Are you daft? You come to boards dot 4chan dot org slash soc and you are surprised that many people here are just desperate neets? What exactly did you expect kek why don't you just leave us neets alone

>>34981249
i never considered making a thread for myself, i'll keep that in mind. unfortunately i've never lived in a large metropolitan area so my chances of success would probably be pretty slim.
I've had no women add me. I myself added a woman older than me from the SFW discord and we talked off and on over a couple months. I wasn't interested in dating because of the age gap (when I was younger I was into older girls but I realize that women want a man who can provide for at least equally to them and I can't do that for someone older), but it was nice talking to her just platonically since we shared interests and the one time I really sperged out about something she seemed to like hearing what I had to say. eventually she unfriended me, but I was (and still am) really shit with keeping in contact with people so I don't blame her. She had a lot of IRL bullshit she had to deal like family members facing chronic illness or having to do major repairs, so I hope she's alright.
but in terms of dating ads I've posted i've had no replies ever.

i’d like to but i’m black & i live in nc lol

i’m not fond of the thought of being lynched

>>34924150
Let's say (as a young female) I realised it would be kinda dangerous to meet up with someone random from here, you never know when you could get trafficked. Ofc you should take time to vet them etc. but my problem is I hate online relationships and much rather enjoy irl ones. The only problem is finding people i vibe with irl.. and 4chans anonymity makes people more truthful

>>34924225
>>34924244
Where are the trannies? my dream is to date a trans girl

I just met up with someone yesterday! it was fun

>>34986887
does your name begin with an A

>>34924150
ive surprisingly met a lot of women here but they live all over the world. never find any in my area

>>34975551
>Quit being such an intellectually molested faggot and you would fare better
Females should simply accept me for who I am without me needing to change at all. Females are hateful and evil for not doing that
>>34986840
It's only dangerous because you are picky and want chads, who tend to be abusechads, and refuse to settle for nice guy incels

>>34986840
Tht's just human nature. People will always act more "Authentic" on the internet becasue they think there are no reprocussions for their actions. You just gotta find people tat have the confidence irl to act the same way without being an ass.

>>34986887
is this why you completely ghosted?

>>34989304
oh yeah, being a needy little fag will totally bring her around bro