Do girls actually browse this board and meet up with guys and then continue to pursue in-person relationships with them? Be brutally honest.
>>34924150That's not the whole point of this board, so the answer isn't going to be yes regardless.
>>34924150I have met up with a handful of guys, dated 2 long-term, all the rest fucking sucked. It's even worse now because I moved and where I live now is full of faggots and trannies
>>34924225>I have met up with a handful of guysHow were they?>dated 2 long-termWhy didn't you stick with either of them?>where I live now is full of faggots and tranniesTrust me, I can relate. It's an awful feeling.
>>34924150Yeah. I'm a woman (not trans) and I met up with a man I thought was my soulmate but it turns out he wanted nothing to do with me after fingering my pussy. it mindbroke me because I sincerely wanted to be with him for life. I keep posting on soc anyway because if I found him once I can find him againHe didn't wanna be with me because of my mental disability of autism and didn't wanna "fix" me into being a functioning adult
>>34924273Sorry that happened. That's an awful thing to do to someone. I hope you can find someone who will stick with you. It really is hard to not contribute to the whole gender wars thing when something that frustrating happens to you, isn't it? I can understand both sides.
Like 6ish years ago (was 25ish) met 2 girls I wans in short-term relationships with. I think both were from a SFW KIK thread. One was English, early-mid 20s. We spoke for a while, got along very well. We eventually met at hers and fucked a bunch. Later she came to mine and we fucked a bunch again. I think we had less chemistry when we actually met. Sex was good though, she was excited since I'm a decent size. The other girl was Russian and 18. She was absolutely nuts but in an exciting and fun way. Felt like we didn't like each other as much early on but later got into each other. I went to Russia like twice and we met in Prague once. Sex was good, she was very fun. She was expectedly a bit immature, came from a rich family. One day got drunk and sucked some guy off so then we sort of broke up though we met up one more time when she came to the UK. I look fondly on that period, she was a nice girl, just not very mature. Hope she's doing well.I feel like people now are way more reclusive/scared/mentally ill than before.
The answer is no, you wont find love on 4chan. Its fun to talk and be a pervert but the reality is if you dont get offline and go out into the world youre not finding your partner lol.
yeah, ive met a few. some im still good friends with, and others didnt work out. i havent got an actual relationship out of it yet though
>>34924273Can you die already chikn.
>>34924389you guys need to accept 99.9% of women on here will be chikn tier (or worse, cassietier) after you get past the peacocking and masking and fawningif you want stable available women, stop looking on here and go to church while sincerely engaging with the faith
>>34924424I came here to tell the retard op to not look for women on here and then I saw the pedo responding to the thread. Tf u replying to me for with that nonsense faggot.
>>34924244>How were they?Most of them were looking for a quick hook-up but not honest enough to be upfront about it, so no one got what they wanted.>Why didn't you stick with either of them?First one we were too young and immature, 2nd one we just ended up wanting different things and let it drag on for far too long. Have you met up with anyone?
>>34924319>I feel like people now are way more reclusive/scared/mentally ill than before.4chan is less popular in general, meaning a higher concentration of scammers/bots these days. Plus I imagine the m:f ratio probably got worse overall, so any remotely decent women are forced to just lurk. Covid mindbreaking people probably contributed too.
>>34924150ive had a few girls say they wanted to meet up but they all flaked. apparently im not interesting enough for /soc/ girls to want to meet up.
>>34924150I know a girl on telegram, who met her boyfriend on here, flew from Spain to Sweden for him to live together. Now they have a baby and planning to get married.
>>34924950Hasn't worked out for me either, but honestly in most cases they probably realize it is just not worth the risk to met a guy from here, when there are safer options. Can't blame them.
>>34924150I've met a few
>>34924424I actually met one girl that was pretty cool, but I was not emotionally ready myself to go anywhere with it. I still see her on steam all the time.
>>34924989Same femanon as beforeI met up with the dude who fingered my pussy alone and went to a hotel room by myself with him. But he still left me so it's irrelevant
I'm pretty much stuck here because I do pervert stuff to connect with someone enough to see if i actually like them.
Am M. So I'm probably not much different from regular dudes. But if we're not going to match up sexually. That's a chunk of the relationship that's going to fail.
>>34924150Dated 3 girls and had a hookup all from soc. Meet up with all of them irl, so yeah OP it can happen just very unlikely.
>>34924497>Just be upfront about it, bro, and I'll let you into my coochieThis works with 1 out of 1000 women
>>34925017How many times are you gonna repeat the same sob story?
>>34925401I'm not saying I would've slept with them, just that I am not looking for that and it was a waste of everyone's time
>>34924424Why would there be stable men on here but not stable women?
I've posted in threads in the past as a femdom looking for submissive guys, but have usually been let down. I've never met any in person, but had one or two who were capable that became a long term D/s thing.
It's very hard now since the board is overrun by faggots and troons. If they were forced to remain in /lgbt/ this board would be way better.
>>34925063This is my problem too. If I wanted normal people I wouldn't be here and it's the only reason to use this place but everyone is too far away or too crazy too meet.
>>34926008I just avoid femdom because there's more scammers there than anywhere and I can't trust anyone to not angle toward findom since that's been my experience every time. But i'd figure you'd have your pick of the subs here? I guess not.
>>34926016Same, there's no good Dommes on here any more, biofem or otherwise despite my preference for biofem. Just findoms and garbage looking for a handout.
>>34926008Contact? I'm a sub guy that's been looking for something like this for a while.
Fuck no lmao
>>34925017Ok and? That's still more action than I got so congratulations I guess.
>>34924497Fair enough.>Have you met up with anyone?Not from here but I'm planning on doing it for the first time around the middle of the year when she moves here for study. Been talking to her since middle of last year and it's been going really well. Fingers crossed.>>34924950Many such cases. Happened to me in the past with girls I knew from big social circles.>>34924973That's amazing if true.
>>34924424Lmao almost good advice then dude had to drop "go to church"
>>34924424>stop looking on here and go to church>sincerely engaging with the faithCan't force faith brother, you shouldn't be recommending church in a thread about dating at all.
>>34927601He's right minus the being sincere about it part. Most people are only superficially religious, even those attending church.
I did and it was the most bittersweet thing I think I've ever done. I met a man I love dearly. He is the smartest and most handsome man I've ever laid eyes on. He's the only person that it felt right to kiss. Our banter was so good it felt like swordfighting. He's the only person that made me stop and reassess the plan to get my tubes tied.However, he couldn't love me back. He never wanted to make it official, so I shouldn't have been surprised. I could not in my wildest dreams be what he needed. I could not hold my emotions in like his past male lovers. Eventually it made him lose respect for me. The last time we made love he hounded me to take pregnancy tests. He didn't bother to ask what I wanted. I knew what he wanted. I realized I shouldn't love a man who is so willing to put his wants above all else. Now I know I need to get my tubes tied so I don't take anymore risks like that.
>>34924150i met my soulmate here, we've been married for years now
>>34928704I truly hope you both break up and suffer lol
