I get a few friend requests from time to time and it's always some random people who can't hold a conversation, we exchange a few messages, sometimes less than 3 or 4 messages, and I reply with proper manners and behavior, and then this person randomly fucking unfriends me? why? Happens so often now, this shit didn't happen a few years ago. Another weird thing that happens is someone will send me a friend request and then seconds later will undo it, again, why? Why even bother wasting your time? >it's your locationbullshit, I don't even let people know where I live>it's your gender/age/whatever you said in your postthen why even send me a friend request in the first place? why are you faggots so autistic and enigmatic?
oh and don't get me started on all of these people who add me on discord and then say nothing at all and then sit on my friends list for years without saying anything, what's up with that?
>>34933714Just give them 48 hours to reply and then unfriend them. This isn't rocket science.
I always assumed people who add then unadd are either stalkers or being stalked and trying to see if your account is either the person they're stalking or being stalked by. They also do it as a way to see who your mutual friends/servers are. The only reason I even caught on to this was because I added someone who had requested me, noticed we had a friend in common, then within minutes of me accepting they unadded me, onto for said friend in common to asking if I was added by a random recently because apparently they were being stalked
Idk man and then mfs complain about being lonely. They expect you to put in all the effort like a robot and then ghost you if you don't please them like a bitch or have niche interest XYZ
considering youre the type of person to expect people to be socially competent and aware on the internet and then make a post like this as if youre in the right shows me exactly why they unfriended youbtfo normalfaggot
>>34933708sleep tight, steeler...
>>34933727I don't even feel like doing that. I just want to understand the reason behind it. Maybe they add so many people in one go they don't feel like replying to everyone? It's my only theory so far.
>>34933737You don't understand what I said, they don't even get to know me enough to determine whether I am a normalfaggot or not (which I'm not, fuck u) we exchange less than 5 messages total and he dips for some mysterious reason. Nothing out of the ordinary was said to prompt this.
>>34933728interesting theory, it's crazy to think there's people here who are worthy of being stalked lmao
>>34933708what are you looking for o pee?
>>34933728That's fucking bizarre. I've only been using discord for like a few months and I've only added one person off of here and their alt and I've only posted my tag in like two threads but I had someone add me from a new account a few days ago when I know my tag hasn't been in an active thread for like 2 weeks now. I think the account registration date was only like a couple of days before it added me too. Some real fucking freaks on this board. Wouldn't the only way they would have found my tag be in the archives or something?
>>34933782Idk I don't really think anybody on here is actually worth being stalked, I just think you have a bunch of insecure neurotic fucks that allow their insecurities to run their behaviors. I've only ever actually met one legitimate schizo and they were chill. Me thinks most "schizos" and "BPD girls" are just fucking toxic individuals
>>34933770>whether I am a normalfaggot or not (which I'm not, fuck u)the mindset which would influence someone to make a thread like this is one only had by normalfagsas i said btfo
>>34933792Uhhh yeah. I don't really use the archives much myself. I'm just aware of them, but generally if someone knows things about you they shouldn't, it's because they were creeping on your tag. Welcome to understanding why so many people on this board have countless alts. I didn't know this! I'm relatively new to the board still, but yeah, just post your tag a couple times is enough for people to start stalking you if you accidentally speak to one of their beloved long lost exes that decided to move on with their lives long ago
>>34933798o mighty weeb, why do you do this? why must you make me suffer?
>>34933800Well that's fucking disturbing I guess I just have to turn off requests forever now. Kind of sucks because I used a name I always wanted to use and never did but at least I didn't use one I've used before........
>>34933708Same here.>hi. hows it going?>im _ _ _ _>so what are you up to?>do you like vidya, etc?>cool, im also into thisNext day:>hey! whats up?<no response>Every. Fucking. Single. Time.
>>34933708>When you're just interviewing them the entire time>When they get bored once they have to get to know you
>>34933794yes this is true.i am actially mentally fucked and i have never ever tried to be mentally ill to anybody ive met.most people are normal trying to come off as insane and you need to mutually prove you can zaney post to fuel their delusion.big brags are a psyche ward visit like you cant do this at any time, youll notice this one a lot now.also i wont post a bloody anime girl with a bladee filter on it, so for all you know i might be sane.
>>34933708>steelies at the battle stationA kindred spirit, I see.
>>34933714They find other people who entertain them more, it's not actually that complicated. You gotta divorce your ego from the equation.
you all lack creativeness. originality. witty. sarcasm. irony. weirdness. charm. you’re all oh so formal, so proper, so morally righteous, so uncomplicated. so boring. >Hi, how are you?>I’m good, how are you?>Good. How old are you? What are your interests?give me a break, man. only thing is that i’m naive enough to believe that there’s still someone worthy out here.
>>34935121usually when I try anything witty or ironic they unfriend right away
Am bored and need someone to talkTelegram @AinaGo
>>34935121midwit detected, random people have no incentive to jester for some absolute loser like yourself. and like the other guy said, if you skip the brief small talk in favor of something out of pocket and/or high effort, you're still likely to get deleted
>>34933708>I get a few friend requests from time to time and it's always some random people who can't hold a conversation, we exchange a few messages, sometimes less than 3 or 4 messages, and I reply with proper manners and behavior, and then this person randomly fucking unfriends me? why?I can carry a conversation but in reference to the rest:Being on /soc/ long enough you unintentionally learn to spot who's a good match and who isn't just from a few messages, sometimes even one message. It's fickle and mean but if it makes you feel any better it's not that you're an unwanted person it's just that you're not the person I'm looking for. I used to be very open minded, or thought I was, but after talking to hundreds of people on /soc/ I know EXACTLY who I get on with and that's who I look for now. I'm sorry, I know it's heartless and cruel and hurts your feelings, but the alternative is dragging things out for a few days before acknowledging it's just not working.
