Dating apps suck dick. They monetize the only really useful features literally putting a price on a chance of love. Then i gotta play the swiping game where i see a bunch of women that don’t match my lifestyle. I dont want to go hiking or out anywhere i just wanna kick it in discord with chicks in my area or go to their place and do whatever inside shit they wanna do. All their lives are put too well together, where are all the fuck ups like me? I cant relate to these people. I just end up swiping left on most of them.
get your pain OPI'm in the same boat as youwe're destined to die alonemaybe we'll have more luck in the next life
>>34967185Iktf OP.Normie dating apps are full of normies and autistic dating apps are full of trannies and furries.I've tried the paid features on some apps but as soon as you filter out the absolute most basic hobbies/opinions/lifestyles you're left with nothing to swipe on.There needs to be an app specifically for losers who don't care about keeping up appearances.
>>34970036and what women do you think you'll find there? none. because they won't be seeking out losers. your premise defeats itself. check out duolicious for proof.
well, yeah. losers don't deserve love because they wallow in their own misery doing nothing to make themselves happy or have any personal merits.that's just natural selection.
>>34970046You are correct. I forgot about reality there for a second.
>>34967185All dating apps turned into shitty "swipe" (my ass) & like system without full search proper profile content or interactions but endless advertisement. I tried even a paid site once and it was not better. Thats why I now resort to 4chan /soc/, its indeed better as you are fishing in a sea of waste in any way, but I will not pay and the chance to at least find interesting contacts here is higher. I leave only e-mail intentionally, its a good start to sort out the worst trash, children and dumb bots that are incapable of even writing introduction. I don't give out any chat program handles easily anymore. Its a waste of time, you rather spend grinding video games while high.
>>34967185I have a put together life but I'm too much of a freak to enjoy the company of anyone I've met on the apps. I'd hire escorts or get a sugar baby, but I'm into men, and they don't do paid affection nearly as well as women. I used to have women sugar babies and all of them could at least be somewhat interesting, or learn. Smart women know where the easy money is, I guess. Men though, all the interesting and good looking ones don't whore themselves.
>>34967185Have you tried not being fuck ugly or unpleasant to be around
>>34970611I guess I didn't try changing the chromosome to X, yeah.. you're right...
>>34970611oh get raped
>>34970692Tbh I need it
>>34970695I believe you
>>34970695Hello!
>>34971024Fuck off, that's my rapee (and i hope rapette, else you can have him)
as someone who started using tinder recently i feel the same, but my situation is probably worse because i’m an extremely socially inept, awkward, shy and quiet person, basically the ultimate fucked up autist, not the bubbly, gifted one. i have matched with a few men that i thought i could vibe with better. rookie mistake. i was chatting with one of them for some days and he told me to come hang out and smoke weed. obviously, i’m isolated, lonely, depraved and bed rotting 24/7. so i go and when i tell you it was the most awkward thing to ever happen to me.. i was mute, i only giggled to whatever he would say occasionally, i was giving him creepy glances, was too deep inside my head once high and i legit just ruined the whole thing. left with extreme embarrassment, shame, guilt, anger at myself that i am this way, that i should have just been aborted because there’s like no point in a person like me to live and exist, i will die alone anyways, because i can’t do social things and that is literally the basis of a relationship and love lmao
>>34970677Women can be losers like us but theres 2 main kinds. Those exactly like us with no jobs anxieties, interests and no sex or those that distill their worth to just sex and being submissive because its an easier than getting a job or being intresting.
>>34971826Weed only makes it worse. That was probably the biggest mistake
>>34971893i know it amplified the awkwardness but even without it the whole thing would have been bad. when i was walking up to his apartment and saw him standing outside i tried being witty or whatever and was like “is that you?” but he didn’t even give me a smile or anything, he just looked at me all emotionless and was like “yeah”. so right then and there i couldn’t tell wtf is the vibe. through text he even himself said he yaps a lot of shit and seemed kinda expressive and now i’m faced with complete opposite and i no longer know what to expect. idk it was hard and panicky for me to try to adapt somehow i just couldn’t do it bc i couldn’t tell what would be expected of me
>>34971914Didn't sound like he was helping matters. I can tell if someone I'm hanging out with is shy or awkward and the first thing I do is joke around or try to make them feel relaxed by just giving off a vibe like hey it's just us, no big deal.
>>34971936our characters probably didn’t match that well either so.. and most likely due to my weirdness he started feeling nervous as well, maybe uncomfortable, idk, but i think that whole energy just seeped into the room and we were in hell lmao
>>34971914If you wanna discuss this encounter more, or anything else, here's the disc:leeroyjenkem0241
>>34971956I think you were seriously overthinking shit lol
