Are they in the room with us right now?
Nope. Only sellers and troons
>>35025043There are no women on the internet.
>>35028923women aren't real
>>35033403What is "women"?
>>35025040One of the biggest mistakes of my life was thinking that I can get an obsessive best friend that leads up to unconditional love and companionship in every sense of the word from guys I could get in contact on here. Being a woman on here sucks why would any chick with a semblance of self respect stay here?
>>35025040i'm a woman but men automatically perceive me as unattractive (maybe rightfully so) even before any photo exchange so i might as well not be a woman anymore tbqhbut also no one wants a relationship anymore so maybe (coping here) it's actually protecting me from worse pain xD
>>35037192if you're down for a chat my discord is grumkinvumkin, alt acc I'll give u my main later
>>35037208but why? i'm tired and i'm old
>>35037213who cares about ur age, as long as you are fun I don't mind u being older than me lol
>>35037218i care, a lot of zoomzooms are retarded in a concerning and frightening way. i may be an ugly old freak, but i need some intellect
>>35037221Yeah true, but I don't think u can tell if a person is ugly without even a photo
>>35037225nah i looked in the archives and you're kinda exactly the type of poster i'm trying to avoid tbqh. just dropping a discord tag with 0 info and talking about looking for "fun" tells me basically nothing except probably shallow/aimless vibesalso why even the alt/main acc thing lol
>>35037236Cuz I dont know what you like and I feeling discussing it in dms is more appropriate As for the alt acc well just a precaution :P
>>35037248fair enough but that's kinda my point lol. if someone gives literally no info except "add me for fun" i'm automatically gonna assume we're probably not compatiblethis whole thing just makes it feel like you're casting a wide net for lustful purposes. not what i'm looking for pardner
>>35037268How old are you and what country/timezone?
>>35037268I mean I didn't even said that I was "looking for fun" but I'm not gonna push it further if you're not interested I respect your choice, dont give up on people, not everybody is fucked up, it's just takes a lot to find someone normal
>>3503727228 and in the US
>>35037280Wait till you're like 39, then you're really gonna feel old.
>>35037290by 39 though i will feel more settled into life so it won't bother me as much which is a comforting thought
>>35037311Yeah I guess that my biggest thing now. I'm so used to being alone, even if I some how met someone do I even want to bother at this point.
erm yes, they really hecking exist
>>35025040Holy shit, that image hits a little too close to home. I used to believe in psychics and new age spirituality and the law of attraction. And... after 20 years, I'm still not a millionaire or have a girlfriend. My spirit guides lied to me...Sad face :(
Every woman on 4chan is a seller, whore, or ugly. I say this as a woman on 4chan.
>>35037330>even if I some how met someone do I even want to bother at this point.i'm not that far gone luckily>>35037619normal people wouldn't need to be here so that makes sense. as for being ugly, that's not a death sentence if i didn't have the issues that lead to me a place like this in the first place because ugly people get into relationships irl all the time. maybe not the seller thing but most guys are happy that a lot of girls put out easy because that means they have a chance too kek
>>35037643>most guys are happy that a lot of girls put out easyat the risk of sounding like a cringy "#notallmen" male feminist freak, I think there's been a cultural shift in the past 10 years or so making that (somewhat) less true. If I wanted easy, I'd be paying for hookers.Obviously there is still a huge swath of this board that are gooners. But looking at a lot of other guys' posts, they don't want that (at least nominally)
>>35037789>If I wanted easy, I'd be paying for hookers.well someone's paying for OFguys rave about how women are such evil whores or whatever, but who is funding the whore economy?
>>35037794now I'm not a whoreologist, but I think data shows that its mostly dissatisfied married men who prop up the whore economy, they're the only people with $ to do so. And after that I guess it would be the full-on blackpill giving up types.oh and I guess with OF type stuff specifically, I'm convinced its 70% money laundering, 20% third worlders
>>35037826yeah one thing i can't help but keep in the back of my mind, a lot of threads here are filled with married/taken men. much to think about. also /adv/ is filled with ''i'm thinking about or will cheat on my gf/wife" i'm not even sure why i think a relationship would be fulfilling for me when the reality of it is grim
>>35037192>Waaaaaa I am forever alone woman, but for what reason! Men think I am ugly and reject me before we even talk. How could they do that.>Someone on board says hey let's talk. >You search the archives to find a reason to reject him>You reject him based on age you didn't even verify, and you're only 28.>You sound insufferable in self selecting isolationSounds like you're projecting hardcore anon. You're your own biggest obstacle to happiness when you start by assuming it's not going to work out before you even try.(I'm saying your personality is the problem, no one can tell if you're unattractive before seeing you, but you definitely let them know you're annoying)
>>35037857can everyone weigh in on this, what are your thoughts
>>35037842I think a lot of it has to do with how society and relationships have devolved. I'd like to think people are waking up and trying to change that, but idk.And guys are always paranoid too, maybe not from straight up cheating (although there is plenty of that), but the fear that you will be dropped and discarded because she found someone better to move up one rung of the ladder.
>>35037879idk dude i just want to meet someone good
I am a certified woman who occasionally lurks, but I've only posted my contact info here once. Never again. I'm too much of a hermit for that shit, and most of the guys that added me were pretty vapid. Why add me if we have nothing in common? I met a few genuinely interesting people though. Like some russian immigrant girl who was working as a mortician. Does anyone know who I'm talking about?Most women on /soc/ are weird mentally unstable e-girls. Not worth itMaybe you guys should hire prostitutes instead...
>>35037921>Most women on /soc/ are weird mentally unstable e-girls.i've talked to and befriended a few. i don't really mind the mental instability as long as we click and she's not flaky. the flakiness is the most unbearable for me
>>35037897Well what do you define as good? like you said above, normies wouldn't be here. So if your only requirement is not a cheater, not a gooner, not an AbuseChad type, I'd think there there's at least a few others around here. Not saying >>35037857 is right, but being honest with yourself and others about what you are looking for is absolutely a hurdle.I say this as someone who is bad at that myself.
>>35037921>>35037867Idk if it's just the fact you're all NEETs or shut ins or what. But none of you sound like you're able to have a social life.>Why would you message me if we have nothing in commonMy sister in Christ, how tf do you find out what you have in common unless you talk to people? Like the reality of life is you gotta talk to people, even the vapid ones, to find out who you're compatible with.You people sound so insufferable. "oh it wasn't immediately obvious he was perfect for me in the first message so clearly I'm going to die alone". Have you genuinely worked for anything you have, or do you wait for it to fall from the sky? Are you the type of person this "ideal man" for you would even want? I honestly don't think so at all. You're probably just as vapid to them.
>>35037930>goodconsiderate, authentic, able to think deeply about things, emotional intelligence, gentlethe last 2 are things i kind of struggle with ngl so i need to work on that. i think i'm pretty honest and upfront>>35037944>But none of you sound like you're able to have a social life.i do, i'm not doing something every weekend but i do things and spend time with others doing things i enjoy>oh it wasn't immediately obvious he was perfect for me in the first message so clearly I'm going to die alonedid i really exhibit that? we had a back and forth and i still did not get much from him. i don't want to go through the trouble of adding someone on my main who is hiding theirs when i should just be able to find that information if they posted here already>Have you genuinely worked for anything you haveyes.. i'm not sure how you came to this conclusion either. having an ideal is kind of dumb and unrealistic, i just want to meet someone i connect with and we make the effort to pursue a relationship
>>35037978I didn't use the word good so idk what you're talking about. >Able to think deeply about things Yet you can't show the self awareness to consider that a forum isn't the place for someone to prove they deserve you to talk to them? Trying to have a private conversation on a public forum is your issue. Maybe think deeply about that. You're missing the most basic of internet social cues, I really think you're not as socially aware as you're presenting.>Did I really exhibit that?Yes. You complained no one wants to get to know you because they auto assume you're ugly, then you autorejected the first person who tried being nice to you. You looked like either a self hating moron or just the pickiest idiot. Complaining about not being given a chance, and immediately not giving someone a chance is really all I need to say about you. >I just want to meet someone I connect with and we make the effort to pursue a relationship From what you've displayed in this thread that's the cope lol. Someone offered you a chance and you found a dozen reasons to not even talk to them. You don't get to know someone messaging on a forum, that's for DMs. Expecting them to present it all on a silver platter before you even put the effort in is dumb and is why you're on 4chan lamenting unable to find companionship.You're fishing in salt water for fresh water fish, dropping the rod as soon as you have a bite, and low-key expect the fish to just jump into your bucket. You're an idiot.
>>35037208>>35037218god you're desperate>>35037236hahahahha>>35037867that's an incel>>35037944people generally list things they are interested in to find similar folk in contexts like this, and that guy very clearly just wanted to jerk off. it's not rocket science. maybe you should go help him if it bothers you so much
>>35037944>Are you the type of person this "ideal man" for you would even want? I honestly don't think so at all. You're probably just as vapid to them.>You people sound so insufferable. "oh it wasn't immediately obvious he was perfect for me in the first message so clearly I'm going to die alone". You're making a lot of assumptions. Who says I was looking for an "ideal man"? Do you think I posted on here to try and find some dick/a potential bachelor? I'm celibate. I specified "guys" in my last post because literally all of the people that added me were male, except for the Russian girl.>My sister in Christ, how tf do you find out what you have in common unless you talk to people? Like the reality of life is you gotta talk to people, even the vapid ones, to find out who you're compatible with.Well, I tried, but I got OVER 70 ADDS. Kind of difficult to talk to 10 people at once.
>>35038005i wasn't even replying to you and you use it as an opportunity to be hostile. initial poster i replied to asked what I define as good. not going to read or respond to your post you weird dick
>>35038009Getting frustrated that people cause their own problems doesn't make one an incel >>35038010>ideal manOkay, you're celibate. Good for you. Replace man with "friend/conversation/interesting person". Are you someone an interesting person would enjoy having a conversation with? No one who's interesting is going out of their way for people who aren't also interesting. And none of those people are on 4chan.>Why is there no one worth talking to on this human cesspool called /soc/That's all of your problems lol>>35038026Just because you don't like hearing it doesn't make it not true. Sorry you can't handle a mirror.
>>35038040If this board is such a cesspool full of uninteresting retards, why are you here?
>>35038052People watching.This place gives the rare chance to descend into Plato's Cave and try and explain the outside world.
>>35037978>i think i'm pretty honest and upfrontThat's good. I wasn't accusing btw, just that's a stumbling block I've seen for others and myself.For me, I struggle with being genuine with strangers and moving beyond that acquaintance tier of friendship. Obviously on an anonymous mongolian basket weaving forum idgaf, but i'd feel the need to be performative and mask-on if I ran into you on the street.That's part of the reason I even visit /soc/, almost like exposure therapy so I can be less guarded.
>>35038040>I am le voice of reasonKys
>>35038080>Obviously on an anonymous mongolian basket weaving forum idgaftrue, i should also care less but desu online and irl interaction is so different i don't think any sort of interactions here are helpful or translate to the real world
>are women realWhy yes, post tits or gtfo. Women are only women online when they share their womanly parts, otherwise it's irrelevant.Anyway, took the photo just to prove my point. So here I am, seeking attention /s, because I am in fact real. Adhere rule 30
