/flg/ - F-List General #8380Red Flags EditionPrevious Thread: >>84220023F-list is a website for people interested in erotic roleplaying, and creating character profiles to find like-minded partners with similar interests and fetishes to roleplay with. It features a webchat (which can be used for textual roleplaying), group forums and more kinks and depravity than you can memorize.The purpose of this thread is to serve as a place where roleplayers can freely share and advertise their profiles, solicit roleplay from anons, critique each others' characters, ask and give feedback, share their roleplay logs, discuss their kinks, gossip about site drama, and anything else related to F-List.>The Sitehttps://www.f-list.net/>Login Statshttps://chat.f-list.net/stats/>Live Status Trackerhttps://fstatus.stormweyr.dk/>Filtered Adshttps://ffa.e-roplay.de/>/flg/ Community Pastebinhttps://controlc.com/2c01a6bf>Profile Image Searchhttps://xariah.net/artcheck/https://owo.fuzzysearch.net/>Eicon Search Toolhttps://xariah.net/eicons/>/flg/ Archivehttps://desuarchive.org/trash/search/text/flg%20F-List%20General/>Recommended third party chat clienthttps://horizn.moe/>Free Profile Inline Makerhttps://ryokolewdy.github.io/Inline-helper/>Tierlisthttps://flgthread.net/tiers/>A Guide to Profile Makinghttps://docs.google.com/document/d/1RjNMPZMxNBVDBF7UbSXv3_fOYOAEmfqh9r6Vb4olMxI>A Guide to Approachinghttps://docs.google.com/document/d/1JPY5uLzDMF1H22nfUMOo5KIjN_4BdEomuJ1Z2LdcKe0>TQHow many red flags are you willing to look over for a dream scene / ref?
Shill!
>hi ^^>can you read my profile and pick a scenario you want to do with me?>and also look through my gallery and pick a ref for me to play? ^^Was I justified for blocking them or is this not actually the worst approach ever made by a real person?
>Friend is quitting for mental health reasons>Told me he isnt coming backI will miss you...
>>84233551He just logged onto an alt.
>>84233512Hate hub niggers so much its unreal. Block on sight.
>>84233600It's not even a real hub, it's a profile template where almost everything is "Coming soon...~" except for the tab for scene ideas and a gallery full of 2022 AI lolis. On a 4 year old profile, last updated a year ago.
>>84233427why is realism a red flag?
>>84233637Someone who has to go out of their way to point out EITHER realism or lack of realism is someone who's probably really inflexible, and if they went out of their way to make a custom for it they have an attitude about it.Also red flags are all about the quantity anyway.Just cuz I'm going to bed I'll fit in a person example>Be me>FFXIV>Go up to a roegadyn shememe>Constant emphasis on 18" dick>Discuss>Tell them I'm cool with the 18" dick, IF they'll make it a tight, difficult, detailed penetration, because that's what I like>"THIS IS A WORLD WITH CATGIRLS AND MAGIC AND YOU'RE TRYING TO TELL ME YOU WANT REALMISM!?
I get a lot of approaches like this, am I supposed to carry the conversation more or something
Flist culture is so shit lmao Can't even ask a partner if they're still interested in RP when they ghost you cuz that's "rude" (making people wait for you is way ruder btw, you have an obligation to respect people's time).Discord RP culture is so much better. At least there people will agree that ghosting or blocking someone out of nowhere is narcissistic asshole behavior where you're treating the other guy like a tool for your satisfaction.
>>84233705I get ghosted on Discord pretty much equally.
>>84233697You gave that your best shot, it's more than I would have done.
>>84233694I dunno why there's this huge group of people who don't understand internal consistency. The existence of catgirls and magic isn't realistic but the internal consistency/logic of the world matches ours a lot (falling from high places hurts, stabbing people kills them, etc) so...
>>84233705These are just general RP environment problemsWhat's super wild to me is if you go outside of a designated RP platform and exchanges just go like>Hey>Hey>Do you RP?>Ya>Cool. Can you play a Pikachu gijinka and I'll play Malcolm from Malcolm in the middle.>Sure, but only if you play Reese instead>[Somehow some of the best writing you've ever had commences]
>>84233512This nigga approached you and asked you what you wanted to do with them???
>>84233705>Discord RP culture
>>84233746Same thing comes up whenever there's a lack of African American characters in an old European fantasy thing, but I shan't risk diluting your succinct point further.
>>84233750Yeah, shit is pretty common amongst shitters. Same with asking for you favorite scenario so they dont have to make anything up. The bot breaks when you dont give them one.
>>84233750Yes but in an even more roundabout way, they approached me and then tried to make me play build a bitch for them.
>>84233705I’m so tempted to try out the autism that is discord RP
>>84233782I could never just happen into RP servers or whatever. There's that one site people can advertise theirs but it always tends to be dead servers that advertised it long ago and it mostly died since then. I also already mix irl + business (hobby) + net friends + share art with f-list friends on there, I think I'd start resenting the client if I ERPed on it too.
>>84233769Oh yeah, now you mention it, I have noticed people trying to angle for that kind of thing without stating it directly. I dunno man, I feel like it comes back this >>84233705, shitters just don't realise that me engaging with you at all is taxing and unpleasant. Read my profile, suggest something based on that. If I'm not interested, sorry, but that's that.If I ignore you, I can assure you it's because there's absolutely nothing you can say that would make me be interested in RPing with you, and I just can't be bothered to go through it for the 200th time with somebody.Consider if that keeps happening to you, you may need to work on your profile, or approaching style. That big tiddy furry GF with humans in no, multi-para preference and a strong lead towards kinks probably isn't going to be interested in your ambiguously aged anime-boy who wants slice of life romance with a mother-adjacent figure. It's rude of you to even approach when the profile has told you "No" already.
>>84233742I'm trying to make it a point to respond to shit approaches more often but the rewards are slim
>>84233804>That big tiddy furry GF multi-para preference and a strong lead towards kinks probably isn't going to be interested in your ambiguously aged anime-boy who wants slice of life romance with a mother-adjacent figureI was extremely confused thinking I wrote this for a second.
>>84233438https://www.f-list.net/c/service%20bitch>TQI'd ignore them all for an ambiguously aged anime-boy who wants slice of life romance with a mother-adjacent figure
>>84233807I give approaches a chance if they don't royally fuck up in the first few messages and it's never burnt me yet.
>>84233858bullsparkle bait
>>84233804>>84233769To give a little bit of a benefit of the doubt, sometimes people just aren't aware that it's good form just to say what's up, if they're new to the space they try handling things like a real life convo. Often with the background of not being very socialized irl. Then there's subs (bad) who are you used to being catered to, and then there are subs (learning) who think it is hotter to not say what they're after out loud and they need to refine the technique. Kinda opposite of the last one, I've had exceptional results getting other pinks with hypno unlisted to hypno my pink by asking for stuff openly in-character. One example:>So, I heard about mind magic stuff. You ever try that?>I heard it can be relaxing, I've wanted to try it.>People misuse it yeah, but I trust ya.Works every fucking time, and they always seem flattered. It also turns out full consent for someone to fuck around with your brain in such a compromised state that they may abuse is incredibly hot.
>>84233858dont you feel bad for playing such a disgusting character
>>84233858SexBut get an inline and some more customs and don't use fucking SAMPLES for your GALLERY REEEEEE
Speaking of dogs.Anon, we're waiting for you.
>>84233804Sometimes I feel bad about ignoring bad approaches. I can't even do them the courtesy of a "Sorry, not interested" on the typefucking site when the only thing they've done wrong is not appeal to me? Sometimes it feels like I use the site differently than everybody else; not everyone methodically checks profiles to gauge compatibility and potential interest, and comes up with a few ideas for the intended pairing in case one isn't a hit. Not everyone works on an approach for a few minutes, thinking "How can I entice them best?" and "How can I sell my character to them?" They shouldn't have to, even. I, and everyone else, should be more communicative, I think in these moments. Give them an answer so they don't hold onto hope for too long, maybe some advice on how to do better in the future.Then my kink-heavy monster pink with romance and affection in NO gets pinged with "hi hru ^^" from pablo.gonzalez2009 with a ref full of mismatched gelbooru thumbnails, whose character has no more depth than wanting the attention of a woman larger than him. And I forget my sympathy.
rapes you
>>84233858Is it true you shilled on DoK's board?
>I'm looking for an ageplay scene if that's okay?Sure! What kind?>With vore too.....Okay, but do you have anything in your noggin other than just those kinks?>[picture of a loli]Kill pinks.
>>84233782On discord you make an "advertisement" where you just say what you want and people then DM you to do that thing with you.People almost always RP in their DMs or in private servers you can make on the spot. RP in public spaces always happens but that shit always dies down in like 5 posts.These are my recommended servers:https://discord.gg/lewdnesshttps://discord.gg/valhallahttps://discord.gg/mchamberhttps://discord.gg/yiffhubhttps://discord.gg/lewdfantasiaYou can certainly find others.>>84233797They usually appear "dead" but in the advertisement channels (usually called "looking for dom/sub/switch" or something you have like 6 adverts per hour.
>>84234193Thanks for the advice and links. Will be looking at these later today. Love you
>>84234197From my experience on discord you have way more success just getting what you want by advertising what you want. You can be very specific and tell people what kinds of characters and vibes you're going for and you'll have people who are fine with doing exactly that, or with some adjustments that still stay inside your wishes.Just keep in mind that your advertisement is limited to 2000 characters. So that often means cutting your kinks and limits out of them and instead going over them in the DMs. Tho you could like make a kinks and limits image or just link to your flist kinks page.
>>84234187I have the opposite:>Hey would you do a goblin gangbang scene with humiliation and virginity with my [classy and elegant mage]Oh absolutely. Were you wanting to do con of non-con?>Con. Too horny and too curious.Easily. Must feel so uncharacteristic of her, letting short goblins that only go up to her thigh getting the favor of their lifetime, such a prestigious mage risking adding up the monster fodder she use to fight. They can be rough too, potentialy scratching their plaything up.>Yes exactly. Also are you cool of I play her 16?Yeah sure. [Insert me conveying the scene more]>Could you add subtle notes of there being a guy that has a crush on her?Sure that's easy. [I keep painting the scene]>Great! So what kinks are we adding?What?>This scenario is devoid of any kinks. Are we adding any? ... What?
>>84234328Are you offering the goblins or the mage?
>>84234197What>>84234263saidHowever if you think you're going to get the obscure RP you have always wanted and been unable to find on f-list you're probably shit out of luck. I often wonder what rock the average f-lister lives under given how little media they seem to be familiar with but the average discord server (I've tried three of the ones anon listed) is somehow even worse.
>>84234328They were expecting smeggieshitties
>>84234343The mage asked me to play the goblins (I don't even have goblins in the menu)
>>84234328So long as we can agree that pinks need to be killed.
>hehe~ would mama snug?Someone translate retarded furblue to human for me
>>84234376Nvm it's snuggle, because that's a normal way to cold approach someone
>>84234347Discord tends to be more OC focused from my experience.
>>84233697Hate when the other person approaches you and then just waits to be grabbed by the arm and dragged into play.
>>84234376Hello, is my character one that you consider cute or attractive enough that you desire to snuggle him and not simply have plapplap sex? Please note that my idea of cuddling is murring, purring and going uwu on repeat.
>>84234397I can feel myself morphing into a bitch in realtime with how bad the approaches have been this morning. Next poorly cropped furry is getting quickscoped into my ignore list.
>>84234425Amusingly enough the worst avatars I've ever seen have been from FFXIV players. There's a bunch of them that just put 16:9 or even 21:9 screenshots in as their avatar so they get the mega squish
>>84234328hey
>>84234440Sounds incredible, I'm excited to meet one!
>>84234328I've had a surprising amount of adult pinks ask me if they can play as a teenager or child instead. Do they have the big tits just to trick me?
>>84234464post the pinks
I can't find any smilers that aren't just after vore/scat/metaplay, I might have to join the shitter ranks and ask somebody I already know to play one for me
You guys ever tried running lewd tabletop campaigns or is it just erp and thats it
>>84234187>Kill pinks.From the first approach I've recieved when I started on f-list, pinks have always been complete shitters in my DMs. I've only had a few exceptions where they were actually willing to hear out my ideas or kinks and actually play or take initiative. Also I unironically think guys playing pinks do a better job than girls doing it.
>>84234684I've tried, but scheduling is a nightmare even for non-lewd stuff.
>User offline for years>I request a mod to retrieve her name for me.>Receive a note years later
>>84234720Was it even a unique name or just a common one?
>>84234720kek. why is this website full of such bitches
>>84234809A short online nickname, it seems she used that name for her socials too, then I found her on twitter and I discovered she is a transgirl with real autism.
>>84234835>real autismno, she's just entitled.
>>84234720>Several years agoYou should've called them out for being a hoarder.
>>84234848Well she said she was diagnosed with autistm in her profile and i believe that since her character in f-list was a nude headless woman with the vag in her neck.
>>84234705ever considered play by post?
>>84234902nobody is that retarded on accident. the only reason people do shit like that is because they know it gets them attention. look at all the other freakshow profiles ran by "irl autists". there's nothing on those beyond the theater of the absurd. real autists hyper-fixate on lore and authenticity.
Red flag.
>find cute profile in the topic room i like>check profile>fav, anal vore>find another cute profile>fav, anal vore>they are two different playerswhat is going on.
>>84235126>F>U>C>K>F>LBased
>>84233858>>84234165Can you answer this please
>>84227104>slopanon, I come not with a request, I just wanna know what you've been using to produce your slop since i'm too retarded to use pnginfoAnother anon already helpfully answered with the checkpoint and style LORAs that I use, but I have a more comprehensive list of stuff I use on my profile: https://www.f-list.net/c/slopanon
>>84233438https://www.f-list.net/c/Hairy%20Knuckles>tqDepends more on the red flag I'm seeing than the volume. Some I can't look past at all, like bad grammar. But I'd be willing to put up with a decent amount as long as someone's pretty competent in writing.
>>84234835>>84234848>>84234902>sheDon't encourage his mental illness
>>84235364I think it's interesting how everybody on here understands that we use the /c/'s gender to refer to people OOC, except for when the player is trans. THEN it suddenly becomes important to use the pronouns for their biological sex.
>>84235432Because we understand the separation of fantasy and reality but trannies don't, hence why they self-insert so often.
