Making this so myself and others can vent about their sex lives in this thread.Nearly all of my friends in middle school and high school were either porn addicts, promiscuous or both. Simply growing up around them and being exposed to the content, kinks and fetishes that they were into has permanently rewired my brain.The few women I have attempted to date I have either scared off due to how extreme my sexual interests are or, even worse, willingly fed into them because they themselves were on the same level of fucked up I was. Normal "vanilla" sexual relationships are not only uninteresting, but they genuinely turn me off.Instead of being content with whatever relationship I am in, my current girlfriend for example, I constantly fantasize about my exes or plans me and my exes had made. No matter what I do I have a perpetual feeling of sexual FOMO that does not go away no matter what kind of "regular" sexual interaction I engage in.I make myself sick but I have no desire or interest in trying to break this internal cycle.
>>86310310>porn addictsNo such animal.
>>86310588Ok I'll just say "very into porn". It was not uncommon for nearly everyone in my friend group to casually talk about what porn they were into and who their favorite pornstars are/were, including the women in the group.
>>86310310if you and your girlfriend are having a generally good time together, stick with her. especially if you're in your late 20s, cause it's way better than being totally alone in your 30s
>>86310820We are in our early 20s and we're trying to make things work. While she has significantly more sexual experience than I do most of the sexual experience I have was significantly more intense than hers. For instance, me, my ex, my former best friend and his girlfriend were planning on all going to the same university and starting a polycule. Both of our girlfriends were interested in experimenting with women (after I broke up with my at the time girlfriend she has only dated women since dating me based on what she has told me since then) and all of us were into partner swapping. The only person who was not bisexual was my former best friend. His girlfriend was also wild AF and was an exhibitionist who had been doing borderline illegal activities since she was a minor. She was also obsessed with anal after my friend took her anal virginity on her 16th birthday.
>>86310310>Nearly all of my friends in middle school and high school were either porn addicts, promiscuous or both.Based. The world is improving.
>>86313802I got the short end of the stick in many of these situations. I wasnt able to start consuming porn on a regular basis until I was around 15, and while I had the opportunity to lose my virginity at 14 I ended up not going through with it for bullshit reasons. I was constantly wracked with an insane degree of anxiety. While my friends were getting laid or making homemade sex tapes I was often the lookout or I didn't participate at all.
>>86313858I forgot to mention that I had multiple (attractive) female friends who would let almost anyone hit if they didnt kiss and tell. I never took advantage of this because I was such a pussy.
>>86313928Yeah...I know the feeling. I had SO many women that I could have just said the word and we would have been in bed together. But...I always felt that I was moving too fast so I never initiated. Left me a virgin until this last weekend. I met up with a trans female friend of mine. Met her in a shooter game and got her Discord. We were really good friends and then she wanted to visit me on Halloween weekend. Turns out a convention was happening that weekend nearby so that was our reason to get together. When we weren't at the con, we were fucking in her hotel room. Found out that yes, I am very pansexual as her personality turned me on so much that it didn't matter that she wasn't as feminine in appearance. We did so many dirty things together and I was completely overwhelmed since I have dreamed of these things, but never imagined that I would be able to do them in person. She even wants me to visit her, go to a convention that will be happening next year in a nearby city, and even asked if I was good with having threeways or fourways since she wants to find people at the convention open to fuck. I'm honestly so blessed because I never believed that I would have a sex life and now I have the sex life that I only dreamed of before.
>>86310310>>86315456Well apparently we have some chads here. In my case I never had an opportunity to lose my virginity. If I wasn't a gooner maybe that would be different, maybe I would look more into relationships, but since around 15~16 I was already addicted to porn and that make me care less for real relationships. That desire for my weird kink is a significant factor, I don't think many women would be able to match me and I'm also too porn brained about their bodies.
>>86316570I am the OP. While I had dated several girls between high-school and college it took me until I was 20 to lose my virginity to a girl who is objectively worse than any of the other girls I dated. Yes, me and some of these girls engaged in other sexual activities such as fingering/dildo play, but I never had put my dick in any woman's hole until much later.
>>86316570It took me until I was 38 to lose mine to my trans friend this last weekend. Until then, I was completely addicted to porn and self conscious to get anywhere. Now, I'm much more confident about myself, especially when my friend confirmed that I'm hung like a horse and can cum like one. I already was able to get femboys to melt for me, but now I will be able to bed some myself. It took me years and years of hating myself and then reversing all that negativity before I was able to get what I wanted. Trust me....it's never too late. It can be undone and I'm living proof.
>>86310310>>86310978Just copy pasting this shit My girlfriend is very openly bisexual. My #1 sexual kink is having threesomes/other ENM activities. Outside of me and my girlfriend being aggressively average in the height department we are exceptionally conventionally attractive individuals.When we first started dating, over 2 years ago now, we agreed that after the first 3 or so months of us dating we would either fully open up the relationship or begin to have threesomes on a regular basis. Those three months came and went and all this time we have actually lost progress on having a threesome.Without looking, we have had 4 different opportunities to have threesomes, 2 of which came to us with the offer, one of which we turned down, and the other two being individuals in our friend circle who were open to engage in that kind of activity. My girlfriend found a way to blunder these opportunities so badly that one of the women completely ghosted us after knowing us for years and the other is now no longer on direct speaking terms with my gf.I'm so fucking done with her shit, I just wish she'd be honest to me about this.Hope someone has advice.
>>86319874dude, anon. you should talk to this other anon. I think y'all could relate>>>86319698
>>86319943I am that anon, I posted this shit here because you told me to.
>>86319977im just saying man, jeez
>>86319977I didn't tell you, you did it yourself, lol
