>>221279113
Depends on the girl but generally yeah

>>221279113
Yes because movies are not social events, you should take her someplace where you can talk to each other and get to know each other. Dinner is fine and all but kind of generic plus she might not like the restaurant, a better idea would be hiking or something competitive like bowling.

>>221279113
Yes. There is almost no interaction between you at the movies. Just go for dinner if you want to get to know her.

>>221279113
Depends which date. First, definitely. Fourth, fifth, sixth after you fucked and got to know each other, why not.

No its perfect because you don't have to talk and can just watch a movie instead

>>221279113
Yeah. Take her for a coffee or mean. Someplace you can talk(She will do most of the talking).

>>221279177
Taking a girl on a hike as a date idea makes you seem like you’re gonna kill her

>>221279221
no it doesn’t, most hiking dates don’t end in murder

>>221279113
The first couple of times, yeah. You’re supposed to be getting to know each other at that stage.

>>221279113
Do people legitimately enjoy dating? I fucking hate it, it feels like a series of job interviews where you have to pretend to be enjoying yourself, and I eventually bailed on the whole thing.

>>221279113
Only if she has already been your gf for some time.

>>221279177
For me it’s pool.

>>221279113
Talking is overrated. Going to see a movie is great way to see if there's a connection between you. A shared experience. Plus you can talk briefly before the film and then after it. Not as if the entire date will be in silence.

Movies are perfectly fine if you go for a walk and/or have a meal after to discuss it. Otherwise no, sitting in silence next to somebody doesn't constitute a meaningful date.

>>221279265
Hate it. It's like 3 dates to even get a good read on a person then 90% of the time I realise I'm not really attracted to them or they have a shit personality I need to extract myself from.

>>221279233
>most
>trust me I killed only 1 in 10 girls

>>221279304
How do you fucking figure. You’re just sitting there staring at a screen. You should be doing something where you talk more than briefly.

>>221279265

it's fun when you're younger and you can afford to be casual with it, but dating in your 30s is pretty grim

feet

>>221279221
And that's a good thing

>>221279221
It’s the implication

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>>221279113
Not at all, get the couples seating

>>221279221
You gotta keep em on their toes. Women love mysterious guys.

>>221279265
It does amazing and horrible things to my mind. With this girl I was with recently, music suddenly sounded better to me than it had in years and I counted down the days until our next date like Christmas. When things started to sour I was anxious all the time and lost my appetite. When it finally ended, suddenly I felt all this energy to be active and my appetite returned.

>>221279177
>a better idea would be hiking
Damn I need to try this. Just as a test, for fun. Second date.

Depends how much experiencd you have with women. If you don’t have a lot, then simply being around a qt can fluster and tongue tie you. A movie gives you the chance to become accustomed to being in close physical proximity to her and then you can move on to dates where you talk more.

>>221279221
Last girl I went out with asked me to go hiking for our second date. I never got a third date though. Was I supposed to rape her?

>>221279221
Honestly a good date idea, you'll get laid either way if you know what I mean

>>221279113
Only if it's an adult movie (if your country air those) and you make her suck your dick in the dark

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You're asking the wrong guy.

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It's fine, but only if you chat about the movie afterwards.

>>221279373
Stop it

>>221279608
what would you even do
like I have no frame of reference for this

>>221279113
As a first date? Yes, you can't talk to each other and you aren't comfortable enough with each other to fool around.

NORMIES GET OUT REEEEEEE

>>221279113
It's bad for a first date, fine for later dates. Just get drinks or coffee or something afterwards.

>>221279398
faggot

>>221279177
>a better idea would be hiking
until she ditches you for a bear

>>221280691
What do you mean? Take her to a movie, then afterwards you eat something together and chat about the movie.

>>221279113
Take her to the zoo
Or an aquarium
>>221280939
>until she ditches you for a bear
I wouldn't even be mad if she makes it work

>>221279327
that’s exactly why people say wait three dates for aez

>>221279113
It's fine, not for a first date though, unless you start out doing something social and then go to the movie afterwards. If your whole plan is "lets see a movie" then yeah it's a pretty shitty date idea, unless you're decently far into a relationship. Like, already gf/bf territory.

>>221279113
zoomettes don't watch or go to movies, so yeah it's a bad idea

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>>221279113
Take her to a holocaust museum

>>221282337
i don't think that's necessarily true. wtf do they do all day?

>>221279113
Take her to a free first karate lesson

I'm informed that if she picks out the movie, the movie makes a statement about how she sees the relationship and where she wants it to go.

I don't know whether that's true or not.

>>221279113
only take a girl to the movies if you both genuinely want to see it and you are already familiar with eachother.

And even then, do something after or before, like go out to dinner after the movie.

Why do I say this? Because Movies are not a conducive environment for conversation. Horrible idea for a girl you're just getting to know.

>>221279113
I've asked this question a dozen times and no one has been able to answer - why? Why do you want to be with a woman? They are a net negative in your life. You can't name a single positive thing they bring. Is it social pressure forcing you? They are fucking INSUFFERABLE, emotional messes with no logical thinking, extremely disloyal and a money drain.

So again, why?

>>221281789
I mean with a woman that big4u

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>>221282807
No one answers yet again. If it's so hard doesn't that give you food for thought?

>>221279113
>Tattoo

dates are a bad idea to begin with, most girls will put out if you just ask her over or suggest to come over, in a non direct way

>>221282883
no one wants to talk to fags

>>221279113
The best date idea is a night drive through the hills listening to music

>>221282807
My wife makes me breakfast and coffee every morning and prepares a lunch for me to take to work. She laughs at my jokes and has sex with me whenever I want. It is pretty cool.

>>221282807
Love.
I'm sorry all the women in your country are gold digging whores. It is obvious people look for a good one.

>>221279608

Why does she look so familiar?

>>221279398
Cannot imagine valuing foids THIS much lmao

interacting with a woman outside of necessity is a bad idea

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>>221282807
They’re soft, they smell nice, and they make my peepee feel good. It’s a straight man thing, you wouldn’t get it.

>>221283000
I don't believe you

>>221283003
Love doesn't exist

>>221283247
None of.those answer the quesrion

>>221283000
trips of truth, you are a lucky man anon

>>221279113
>Tattoo
Yikes.

>>221279221
stop giving away the plan

>>221279233
Hmmmmmm thats exactly what the serial hiking killer would say

>>221282807
Women are the garnish to a good life, fun, feminine, soft, warm laughter, able to pull you into the moment, make all your worries melt away, just never get to attached to a temporary thing and you will go far, pedestalize your life, not the woman. I love women

>>221282807
Faggots MUST be removed from 4chan. They are responsible for all the bad parts of 4chan.
>Farts
>Traps
>Futa
>Trannies
>Sexy woman hating
>Reporting sexy actress threads
>Furryism

FUCK. OFF.

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I onyl ever went on a date to a movie once, it was picrel last year when I was working at a movie theater. She was a small Mexican girl with glasses and a round face who was studying for architecture.
Overall, it was nice. The movie sucked balls so we had fun joking about it the whole time. She eventually laid down on me and I rested my arm under her tits because the place was empty apart from a couple Boomers down below. We then walked around afterwards and talked, where she became really fixated talking about her small boobs for whatever reason because apparently all the women in her family get implants at a discounted rate from a family doctor back in Mexico. Her Uncle has strong ties to the CJNG and is a big local player down there in her hometown area, so I presume that's why her family gets discounts for big tits. I told her that I think her tits are cute and that she's fine just the way she is, and that implants always look tacky, and she thanked me for saying that but was still considering it for cultural reasons.
I told her that I considered it to be a date the day after and she was super happy and excited that I considered us a thing. However she soon started ghosting me and then told me that it wasn't a thing anymore, and even tried to smear my reputation to everyone else there, though luckily I managed to clear the air and it all went back to normal after a month and we simply became friends afterwards until she left the theater and started blocking my texts, and I never heard from her again despite seeing her at Uni sometimes.
I learned a couple valuable lessons. One, that movie dates can be good if you watch a lightly attended movie in the back of the theater but that you should do it for the second or third date with a plan for after, and that Latinx are a no-go for me because they're too fucking raped and crazy.

>>221279113
Go for a casual stroll, for drinks or bowling. Being silent in a movie sucks. My ultimate challenge is taking a trip to the beach if I really think the relationship is going to happen.

>>221283289
>I don't believe you
That's fine. The 'downside' is that I am the sole earner in our household but I think it is more than worth it. This shit is better than any amount of money imo.
>>221283338
I am, especially since I could have fallen into marrying girls not like this when I was younger. I came close a couple of times and I would probably hate my life now if I had. It sort of happened by accident but waiting for the right one who is actual wife material, is crucial.

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>>221283328
I told you, if you're not a straight man there's no way for you to understand.

>>221283536
I'm as straight as an arrow

>>221279221
Watching eachother in motion getting sweaty and breathing a bit heavier than usual brings out a primal sense of lust and desire in humans of the opposite sex. Hiking date can’t go wrong unless either of you are fat

>>221279113
that's a prostitute

>>221283347
Very Austrian post

>>221279177
Bowling

>>221279394
thats gross

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>no it doesn’t, most hiking dates don’t end in murder

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>>221279221
don't be ridiculous

>>221279113
>1st date
Coffee date. I pay. Every time.

>2nd or any date after
Movies are fine, but there should be a meal after. Even if it's cocktails and appetizers. Even if it's takeout you eat at your place. On the drive, talk about the movie and branch into other stuff. "That one scene reminded me of high school blah blah blah. Has that ever happened to you?" Movies are only bad if there's no *quality time talking* afterwards.

>>221283000
i have your wife haha

>>221283000
Yea she's pretty based
This anon's wife also has sex with me whenever I want

>>221283415
>ven tried to smear my reputation to everyone else there, though luckily I managed to clear the air and it all went back to normal after a month and we simply became friends
why would you be friends with someone who tried to ruin your reputation?

>>221285250
>why would you be friends with someone who tried to ruin your reputation
We worked at the same job plus she was reall fun/easy to talk to. Just mentally ill like all Latinx though andnot good for loving.

>>221279113
as long as you go out for drinks or something afterwards it's fine, everyone likes movies and it's low stress
>>221279221
I didn't know this at first and took a girl to an abandoned mine on a first date, we went out for a year but she said she was considering bailing when she saw where we were going

>>221279177
For me, it's spying on neighbors with a telescope.

>>221282807
>So again, why?
Holes feel good

>>221285737
did you watch me have sex?

>>221279571
>>221279221
Horrible date idea because if you do end up having sex her pussy will be smelly from the exercise

>>221279402
Hiking dates can go awry if she's insecure about her body. You'll find out fast.
It's actually a pretty good way to find out how she handles stress because if you're just a reasonably in-shape guy, you will outpace her and should look more effortless out there than her. How she handles that is important information.

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>>221279177
Goat move is glass of wine and appetizer. Then just talk her out if her clothes, it's that easy.
>>221279113
No thats just when you've been seeing eachother a bit already

>>221279177
>hiking
OP, don't do this, at least for one of your first dates. She'll bitch and moan and think you're gonna kill her.

My girl cousin once messaged me about her best friend seeing me on Facebook and thinking I was really cute, so she set up a blind date to go watch a movie. She insisted that she was cute and really nice, so I agreed to go. I meet them and it's the ugliest non nigger non jeet bitch I've ever seen. 2/10 face, 100lb overweight. I don't even remember the movie, I was sweating bullets trying to avoid the fatty and holding my seethe at my cousin. I was just shoving popcorn in my mouth to avoid talking. Last time I ever did a blind date.

>>221279608
>chat about the movie afterwards
my wife always either agrees with whatever I say about the movie or says "it was fun" if I ask her first.
she buys my snacks and plays with my dick during/blows me after though so it's all good

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>>221279113
I havent been to a movie theater since before covid

>>221279177
>>221284424
>>221283492
Duckpin, candlepin or wii?
Full-sized bowling is painful with chicks, they just keep dumping the ball in the gutter.

>>221286806
Yeah, best to keep that a surprise

depends how far into dating you are. i don't think it is a good idea for a first date, unless you are in high school. dinner and a movie is traditional. get your gabbing out during dinner, get your cuddling and touching out during the movie. afterwards you fuck her in your car.

>>221279608
Oh this girl is the video is fucking fat

>>221279113
The only acceptable date is going out for drinks until you've had more than 10 dates or so and by that time you shouldn't be asking this question as you've figured out the vibes.

>>221287014
I do normal bowling its fun doing it as a double date too. Top Golf isn't bad either, video game shit is if you are banging some chick in a dorm.

>>221279113
If she's dressed like a hooker? No.

>>221279113
It's one of the best date there is if the girl is down for it.
Don't listen to any unserious person that would tell you otherwise.
To get the girl you need to vibe with her, lower her stress level, make the date pleasant, fun and far removed from the daily life race.
You don't need the HR interview to fuck her. You don't need to know her and collect trivia about her life and listen like a good simp cuck who throw dinner dates and think that you need to rapid fire as much questions as you can and share interest to bring her back home.

>>221279113
None of the women I have ever dated liked movies. They don't have the patience for them. Somehow they'll have the patience for binging a tv show for twice the time a movie takes or spend countless hours on instagram and tiktok, but they don't have the patience to sit and watch a movie.

>>221279544
yeah its a test, better be safe than sorry next time

>>221279394
there is a theater near us where they have regular dining seats and tables and they bring you pizza or other food
it's super cozy

I texted my ex some dumbass question hoping she'd reply and I could take her to the backrooms movie. I already have a new girlfriend but she hates horror movies. She left me on read. Almost sucks more than finding out she blocked me. It mindfucks me that I never got to fuck her (a 5/10) but I was able to fuck my current 7/10 Asian gf on the 2nd date. Admittedly I'm between jobs and live with my parents at 32, but enough savings I'm not worried about money for a while. Now I have no one to see the backrooms with since none of my friends want to go either. Kinda sucks cause I really wanted to see it in theaters.

>>221286239
HEY STOP STEALING MY MOVES

>>221289312
just watch it alone you fucking nigger it feels like you just care more about watching it with someone rather than watching the movie

>>221289423
I just hate going to the theater alone. I know it's a meme here but something about the beauty of a kinoplex makes me desperately crave female companionship.

>>221279177
>getting to “know” a woman
They’re all the same, they don’t have fucking personalities, which is what makes a movie a perfect date. just get her in a dark room and feel her up and if she’s into it you go from there

>>221282807
It seems like my brother lost literally all of his friends after getting married. He used to barely acknowledge my existence and now he's texting me like once a week to come over and hang out. It's kind of sad.

>>221279308
You take her swimming. So you can see what she looks like without makeup or most of her clothes.

>>221279113
No, invite her and her best female friend over and make dinner for them.

>>221279113
Invite her to McDonalds to watch porn on your phone over free wifi.

>>221282588
This, but it's at your own house and you're the instructor.

>>221282807
Penis goes in vagina.

>>221283562
Arrows are fucking gay

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>>221282807
>Why do you want to be with a woman?
Because I am a man with testicles that pump a constant stream of testosterone in my body. Something you dickless hormone imbalanced trannies can't understand. Seeing a beautiful woman is much like seeing beautiful scenery of untouched nature. You want to just sit there and stare in awe for half and hour. And then you want to spoil and ravage it.

>>221289453
You don't need female companionship, because you sound like you're already a female.

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>>221290215
FAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAACKKKKK

>>221290215
>Seeing a beautiful woman is much like seeing beautiful scenery of untouched nature
...then you have to deal with her having more legal power than you and dictating your entire life, and that's only if she likes you and decides to stick with you when 99% of the time she doesn't give a fuck about you and probably outright hates you.

>>221290294
And most men put up with it because their testicles tell them to put up with it. Thing about MGTOW movement is most of their streamers and spokespeople are married these days, so the whole talk about "not needing a woman" was bullshit from the start. Obviously men crave women everyday.

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>meet attractive girl who seems interested in me
>dreading asking her out, not if she says no, but if she says yes and we have to go through the hassle of the early dating period
Is it just me? Dating sucks fucking balls

>>221290337
>And most men put up with it
And that's why everything is fucking shit, doubly so if you're young. When we can't even stand up to our women in the most minor of ways, what can we say we stand for, if anything?
>MGTOW
I understand you're probably older so you'll have a hard time hearing this, but it's virtually impossible for me to explain how awful relations between the sexes are if you're under 30. There's genuine, deep resentment the two have towards each other for very good reason.
>Obviously men crave women everyday
This is biologically true but I think many men increasingly wish that wasn't the case given it's clear women are not reciprocating and never will unless you have height and status. It's to the point that I wish I could just press a button and be gay instead of wrestling with desiring something I can never and likely will never have, but here I am.

>>221290387
I wasn't commenting on modern state of affairs, simply why men are interested and always will be interested about women. As long as men have balls pumping hormones in their body that is never going to change. Ideal woman would preferably be a living breathing torso without the annoying head but we don't have the technology for that yet.

>>221279113
I've done it before, definitely not the best way to get to know someone. Unless the movie really speaks to the both of you then it's better to just hang out with them someplace where you can interact for several hours. My favorite places are parks, but some chicks get spooked out by them.

>>221290365
Idk if it's just me but I haven't gone on more than 2 dates without the girl giving up her pussy or at very least french kissing,if she goes out with me it means she wants the D so am not gonna wait till she starts noticing my mental illness and runs away

>>221279544
it was to measure your T-levels, you failed

>>221279113
1st, 2nd, 3rd date? dont take her to the movies

married for years? yeah, good to go

>>221290365
why would it be a hassle? just line up another chick and talk to both of them at the same time without having to commit hard to either until one of them proves to be worth it, figure it out bud

>>221279265
I have literally never been on a single date.

>>221279177
>movies are not social events
??? Me and my friends talk during the movie all the time.

>>221279113
Date 1: coffee or drinks, maybe a walk. No restaurants, no movies, concerts or any events.
Date 2: same as above, but you can take her to a restaurant without fearing that you're just a food ticket
Date 3: like date 2, except you invite her over if you haven't done that already
Date 4 and onward: whatever you like

>>221279221
Stop trying to make me aroused

>>221279113
A movie is a great date. You sit quietly and observe each other, get used to each other's company, and share a stimulating emotional state.
Its a headstart on pair-bonding and all it requires from you is to be quiet for 1.5 hours. Plus she's sharing the transition back to reality with after you leave the cinemas, now you're almost in tune and might be more likely to get food together and you'll feel more comfortable with each other.
You get so much from it, and its so low risk, its dumb not to do it.

>>221279113
no
>>221279180
nooo you can't talk during dinner because you're eating!!! dates are about talking!!! you don't wanna makeout at a movie you wanna talk to her!!!

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>meet up with girl I had a crush on in highschool when I come back to town 3 years after living in the city
>she asks me if I'd like to go out with her for drinks
>she cancels on me last minute and I arrange to see her again next week
>she cancels on me AGAIN and I just say to her that see should just pick a time that she'll definitely be free and let me know
>Ghosts me and never talks to me again

WHY GIVE ME YOUR NUMBER AND ASK ME TO GO OUT WITH YOU THEN FOR FUCK SAKE?

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>>221290215
sauce
plz be asian

>>221292376
not with that hip to shoulder ratio

>>221292421
stranger things have happened

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>>221279113
i took my internet friend to see a concert together (taylor swift)
he stayed on my apt for a week so we watched kinos, and cuddled and made out and dot dot dot

>>221292206
They love the power they have over "low status men". She knew you liked her and she loved fucking with your mind. She wanted to see if you still liked her years later, if she still had that influence on you, and that's why she asked you out.

>>221280939
Me and my Bear!

>>221279233
It's not murder if she just happens to get lost in that blizzard on top of the mountain

>>221290294
just leverage your constant, barely restrained potential for unhinged violence against her

>>221282807
>>221279370
>>221279265

Dating as we understand it is a modern phenomenon that comes from the royal courts of medieval Europe created to entertain the nobles with gossip and the excitement of vicariously living through a horny young person courting.
Unions/marriages were always throughout history first and foremost an exchange of wealth to guarantee the financial and existential survival of your biological heir, nothing more. Even in religious institutions it was to preserve the moral behavior of having sexual urges within a monogamous relationship to avoid mass societal decay.
All this cutesy obsession of butterflies in your stomach is a modern drug designed to leave people chasing highs that diminish with age and leave people in broken marriages.
You're not supposed to like dating. It should feel like a drag because it a drag, you're just forming the space to secure offspring safely.

>>221279113
>Is taking a girl to the movies a bad idea for a date?

Fucking fuck one thousand percent it is a bad idea. You should NEVER NEVER NEVER take a chick you haven't fucked already to the movies. Don't ever fucking do it. Absolute virgin friendzone move.

>>221287014
>Duckpin, candlepin or wii?
Normal bowling, anon

>>221292239
no it was just a meme
boomers just took pussy

>>221295041
my grandparents first two dates were to going to movies you go eat dinner go to the movie then go do something else after the movie
these days if its a first date from a dating app I recommend just getting coffee before you decide if u want to even date them but have a plan to go do soemthing fun after coffee in case theyre not a fuckin mess

>>221279221
I took a girl out hiking as a first date

Eventually nutted in her mouth straight down her throat and she drank it all like a good whore

>>221279544
When I was growing up, there was a girl who lived on my grandparents' cul de sac. She was my age and sort of a tomboy, when we were young we'd play whenever I visited my grandparents. We went to different elementary schools and grew apart as time went on, but wound up going to the same highschool and sharing some of the same friend groups. By this time she had matured from a short-haired tomboy into a very attractive girl, with the roundest ass I'd ever seen.
We both ran track and cross-country, and one day during practice in our junior year we found ourselves alone near the bleachers. We were goofing around/flirting like teenagers do, and I just couldn't stop myself. I pulled her running shorts down to expose her pale, plump ass, I got her on all fours, and I started fucking her. She resisted me at first, but I started pulling on her ponytail and shoved my thumb in her mouth, and like a broken mare she calmed down and let me ride. Fifteen minutes later we were fucking missionary, she wrapped her legs around me and I came inside her harder than I'd ever cum before. We were so lucky she didn't end up pregnant.
We graduated highschool 15 years ago, and we've been married for 12. I don't mean to suggest that any of you should ever rape a woman, I just mean to present a method that worked for me.