>main character is having a kid and starting a family in his 40s/late 30s
>>221345441Am I the only one who thinks the boomers who actually did this are either mentally unstable, retarded, or both.
>>221345441Better late than never (like you)
>kid starts his family and fulfills the prophecy reuniting the DNA of the daddy balls
For a guy that's fine but a woman its a massive gamble
>guy starts a family in his 70sGood>w*man starts a family in her 30sBadI have spoken
>>221345571I know someone whos dad had him in his 60s and he was mentally ill and became a tranny so I’d advise against this
Unfortunately you need to have enough money to buy a house and send your kid to a private school as public schools are filled to the brim with minorities
>>221345599It's you isn't it
>>221345612If you have daughters yeah, if you have sons they'll just wiggermax and smash ethnic bitches
I'm in my late 30's and it's over. No house, no wife, no kids, no job, no hobbies, nothing. All I do is watch jewslop and eat myself to death.
>>221345612ok but id rather have kids than not have them at allmy blue eyed pure white son will just have to learn to deal with latinas and hapas lusting after him
>>221345639Me but I do have hobbies, and even make money from one, but nowhere near enough to live off of.
>>221345639Kek at least you're not brown
>>221345639How do you pay bills
>>221345621No it’s not me
>>221345612Homeschool>>221345634It takes two to racemix and men are way more guilty than women in that regard; the only reason so many women racemix today is because we allow niggers to be in the territory.>>221345654Whites who refuse to date outside their race unironically causes the most seething amongst nons.
I am 27 and in the same exact room I was in at 20 when I first heard this song and will probably be here another 7 years from now.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q8hkSDJeCBw
>our only hope was some mid-life second wind>find a nice late-teens/early-20s girl with daddy issues>they took that from us.
famous people do this often, I had my first at 29 (last year) and I felt a couple years late. I know a handful of people who had some at young ages and then had more early 40s
>I'm 30+ and my life sucks!Every other thread here
>>221345673Heh yeah...>>221345677Disability + structured settlement from medical malpractice
>>221345639This is sadly gonna be the fate of more than half of Zoomers and probably way more Gen Alphas unless a revolution or collapse takes place
>>221345712Also never had a girlfriend or sex and never wanted one but now I have to be like wait am I missing out and oh wait normal people don’t care about sex sex sex they care about starting families and shit, well I don’t want that. I don’t. But I’m still a sexual being. It’s weird. I just jack off still.
actual, pathological autism is hereditary.by not breeding, i am doing society a favor.you're welcome.
>>221345724it sucks that society makes it so hard to have kids in your teens and 20s and to be in a stable situation. It's when we're best biologically able to handle kids. People spend their 20s doing all night parties/gaming/whatever instead of just being able to effortlessly handle a babys sleep schedule. It becomes so much harder in your late 30s.
>>221345779you're not autistic you just have schizoid personality disorder most likely
>>221345612my wife is hellbent on homschooling which I'm fine with but I think by high school we might be robbing them of life experience
>>221345705>Whites who refuse to date outside their race unironically causes the most seething amongst nons.asian american women are the most entitled by far, i really feel for my asian brothers
>>221345807yeah it's fine for a little while, you guys will have a long time to decide to enroll them later. I agree not doing high school would be too far. Grade school doesn't really matter at all, especially if you get the tykes involved in some little league or somethinghopefully your school district isn't garbage, some elementary districts unironically give kids tablets for learning even though we know now it makes them retarded
>>221345654good mentality, anyone who makes an excuse for why they shouldn't have kids is probably better off not being a part of the future genetically
>>22134572429 and 30 are the sweet spot imo. I think both you and your child should be allowed to enjoy your relative youth and by time you're 60 your kid will be around 30 him/herself.
>Want to have a family so I'm not alone>Realize my wife could divorce me at any time, take more than half my wealth and kids leaving me broke and aloneI've seen guys in their 40s having to start all over again and even had their pensions taken. No fault divorce laws completely fucked a whole generation and its no wonder why fertility rates are collapsing
>>221345840i sometimes wonder about what exactly we're selecting for in the great filter we're about to undergo with falling birth ratesI know we're not going to fall to zero and will bounce back at some point even if it takes a few generations - I wonder who the survivors will be.sure, family values, religion (even though we were all religious in the past) etc., but I wonder what else is being selected for
>>221345634They'll end up on the streets of Philly after they graduate though, such is the fate of wiggers.
>>221345501You're like 24 and doing what all redditors do which is making the perfect the enemy of the good. The birth rate would be fucking 0.1 if you people got your way. >>221345555Sperm quality also degrades after 35 ... which chuds seem to always ignore.
>>221345872life involves risk, there's no avoiding it. It's just money. You can always make more. The point of life is not money. Money is not your god. Also you're already married lol you already did the risky thingI do agree that no fault divorce with no kids entitling a spouse to half is extremely silly, but on the flip side, being a single mom is pretty awful. They are taking a risk too by marrying you. With each additional kid you give her, she's much less likely to divorce. No broad is divorcing you if you have 5 kids and aren't actively beating her or addicted to drugs or something
>>221345872Think what it'd be like from a woman's perspective without divorce laws>want to have family>socially expected to work less and devote more time to housework thus foregoing a career>realize my husband could become an abusive dick at any time>either legally can't leave him or if i do the financial cost would be a huge detriment to the children>forced to maintain a relationship that's horrible for everyone because poverty is even worse
>>221345555Not with current technology. You can pretty much know what the outcome will be. Soin you will be able to design your offspring to some degree. Actually we already have that ability too.
>Incels talking about reproducing
>>221345925i hope this crap gets outlawed, we have sexual and natural selection for a reason. imagine a million elon musk clones running around
>>221345887>what else is being selected forAbility to survive, comply, and not go insane in an unprecedented dystopia.
>>221345913>Money is not your godMoney is more improtant than ever in our current age. Considering how fucking expensive shit got after the Coof, I can't imagine having to lose almost half my income and assets to some woman who didn't feel the passion anymore or even cheated. I get that the ultimate goal in life is to have children and pass on your genes but with the way the world is headed now we could be in a children of men like scenario by 2050.
>>221345872I only 20% wish this happens to the friend who has decided to ghost me forever, only slightly connected to the fact he has a family now. Truly I am not that bad a person.
>>221345943>we have sexual and natural selectionI'm glad you recognize you are not passing on your genes for a good reason
>>221345975Money is just the means to an end, not the end itself. Yes, money is more important than ever, but if you ever find yourself thinking it's the most important thing, you've lost the plot to life entirely.
>>221346003the average anon is 30 something and plenty of us have kids now
I don’t want a wife and kids, I want a kife and wids. I might be the only one.
>>221345501I mean, they did it by choice. They got married and owned a house for a decade then when they're 40 they decided to have kids. That's crazy. But doing it now because you didn't get your life together until then isn't.>>221345781Yep. Waste your most fertile and energetic years on BULLSHIT why don't you
>>221345555That shit's exaggerated just to give women something else to complain about. In reality the odds of Pickens double from like 0.5% to 1%.
>>221345441Men are at their peak when they turn 40. They'll have established a career and then they have the pick of any woman they want while all the "chads" that peaked in high school get cücked and have to work the drive thru and settle for some pig.
>>221345924what is it you're saying, here?i support the welfare state (fuck you /pol/) and it'd be nice to meet everyone's needs.as it stands, 'poverty is even worse' for 100% of humans regardless of their sex or divorce laws. men don't even get the 'live with an abuser' option (inb4 'just be gay bro', gays are picky too).
>>221345781its one thing to balance being poor with a kid but whats sad is culture makes young people think that if they're not already making near 6 figures they don't have enough money to have kids and redditor types tell them how expensive babies are (hint they don't have to be). Then on the female end you can find a really great girl on several levels but she'll say shit like "i don't wanna have kids until I'm older" and she'll literally mean like 35 at the earliest. That shit is just sad and theres no amount of convincing them otherwise unless you're a cult of personality boyfriend. so your choice is often settle for some lame bitch who will have kids at a young age or hold out for cool chick who wants her first at 38
>>221345599Sperm can wrack up epigenetic damage, and honestly by 70 your body is degrading anyway, I'd be surprised if the balls even function all that well, probably have dusty old sperm that's not being cleaned out regularly
>>221346223a lot of the selection for men is men that are obviously still healthy, some men look great at 70 others look decrepitI wouldnt recommend any 70 year old man reproduce, but the women getting knocked up by them are making very individualized judgment calls - it's not like it's some dysgenic 70 year old man reproducing, it's a guy like Clint Eastwood
>>221345441GIWTWMI did all the "right" stuff and I'm not even a complete and utter social retard, and I even had some track of a "career" but I still got stuck on the bottom rung of the ladder and it got pulled anyway. Now I'm too fucked and I have to kill myself
>>221346256careers are fictional things
>>221345441I should have just done the "stupid poor people" meme of getting 3 different women pregnant by "accident" while I had the chance
>>221346160Being married to the person I think is the most attractive male on god's green earth, I feel overwhelming guilt finding other men attractive. "I'm married, not dead." is the old adage. But when you're actually experiencing it, it feels like a flimsy excuse.
>>221345839>involve them little league or somethingyeah thats the exact mentality the wife has, we'll socialize with clubs and private shit
There is a Russian oligarch who has sired over 100 children around the world. Imagine if your every orgasm resulted in a life. You could be him, and then some.
>>221345901>Calls me a redditor>Also seethes about chudsPick one
>>221346433i hate redditors and chudsboth should die in a fire
>>221346292this is unironically better than being childless, as long as you showed up occasionally in their lives by the time they're 16+ you have these friends for life you get to share whatever with and each one is a permanent semi companion
>>221346416anyone can create gutter spawn, most of those kids probably wont go on to have any grandkids. daughters grow up to be girlbosses or sterile whores and sons grow up to be incels, trans or stepdads
36, coming out of a 7 year relationship. No kids. We thought of having kids but we could barely survive on the money we made, now that is over I'm glad we didn't. I'm thinking whether I can put my shit together, date a couple of years and perhaps find someone and have a family by the time I get to 40.
>>221346443nah 80% of chuds are totally basedt. Chud living a higher life than majority of anons on here
>>221346470Yes. But when black people do it it's a problem. White russian oligarch does the same thing, it's something to aspire to.
>>221346475>we could barely survive on the money we madehow much was your combined income?
>>221346470lineage and legacy. yes, it's remarkable how any of us are even here shitposting. considering we are all descended from the same common ancestor. talk about incest!
>>221346475I can't argue for the quality of the woman but I can guarantee the moment you popped out a kid with that woman you would've loved every day for that kid and worked every hour happily for them. My life was directionless until my baby was born and now for the first time in life I hope I get scheduled for overtime because then I can save an extra dollar for this family. Every day off is a hang with my favorite human being.
>>221346541I confronted a priest about how in the hell did adam and eve procreate without incest down the line. But Darwinism has the same problem, if all life originated from the same common ancestor.
>>221346541all blue eyed people are relatedhumans are particularly incestualhistorically we were in tribes and you just married your cousinbanging your cousin isnt even that genetically risky, basically a non-issue if you haven't been doing it for several generations. same risk as having a kids in your 30s
>>221346571asexual reproduction is not incest.
>>221346571You should tell your priest that bacteria are not capable of incest, as they reproduce asexually. Unlike humans, who would need incest in order to reproduce past Adam and Eve.
>>221346619incest is legal in the bible but homosexuality is not? what kind of bullshit is this?
I once had a teacher tell me that god put dinosaur bones in the ground to test our faith.
>>221346746Makes sense to me.
>>221346746My teacher literally thought dinosaurs existed because some dude found some big old thing in the ground and decided it came from a giant lizard. Fucking retard.
>>221346746chicken bones shouldn’t test your faith
>>221346532We would spend 70% to 110% of our combine income. No luxury, no car, just paying rent, buying food and other basic stuff. There were moments we could save a bit, but then something would happen and we would go back to zero. I'm still struggling on my own.>>221346546That's great to hear, bro. I dream of having kids one day, if I could I would have a full house and a big family.
I didn't think having a kid in your 40's is that big of a deal anymore (even as a woman)? Didn't Spider-Man's ex wife just have a kid at 49?
>>221345441>wife is in her mid 20show i get for me?
>>221345441My wife and I are trying for our first kid here soon. I'm 35 and she's 40. Sorry that upsets you frog poster.
>>221347984why is she 5 years older
>>221346746And now teachers tell you that they're more than two genders.
>>221347871You're a retard. Women are born with their eggs. The older they are the more genetically damaged they are. 25% of women are already infertile by age 18.Male fertility is based on current health, so while they theoretically can have children later, realistically they are much less healthy.AND THE CHILDREN WILL SUFFER FOR IT.
>>221346302Because it is flimsy. The nigga isn't 'most attractive', he just happens to tick all the lifestyle boxes you want while also possibly being unassertive and low-maintenance enough that you get to take the utter liberty of finding other people attractive. Worse still, by how you present it you have no true ability to make the "man" you're with feel attracted to himself without it being facetious.I get it. We're all whores so long as we deal in money, but that doesn't mean you have to integrate it into your lifestyle. Embarrassing really, and particularly why I don't engage with most of your kind. Once I buy a house, it will be extremely trivial to throw one of you in there and watch you poorly play pretend at cooking, cleaning, and domesticity while being attached to the phones, to social media, to the opinions of others, while slowly undermining what got you there in the first place.
meh it's better to adopt anyways. My genetics kind of suck as is so probably for the best
>>221346025I don’t trust anyone on this website who has children and still posts here, sorry. Go ahead and make all the excuses you want for why you still come here. I rightly won’t accept any of it.
>>2213481934chan is your social media addiction, just fyi.
>>221348276Contrary to popular belief, one can watch a trainwreck without having to be aboard - it is only a matter of how much distance one catches when the traincars all start tumbling over.
>>221348404This is classic 4chan cope. You’re not wise or above it all.
>>221345441The ideal age for a man to have kids is 25. For a woman, it's 16-18. That's how nature intended it./thread
>>221345441my parents had me in their late 30s, probably why i have autism lol
>>221345668What hobby do you make money from just out of curiosity
>>221348250why would having a kid make me stop posting here? is that what you think will happen for you? why?obviously i’m busier but you have no context for how frequently i post
>>221345639Early 40s reporting in with a job and not eating much and not watching crap (I just follow new music and go to concerts sometimes) but otherwise the same as you.>>221345815Agreed. It will never happen but it would be nice if guys of all races could make a truce and try to stay on the right path and only date their own race and force women to come home to their own kind. I've never really find non-white women attractive and I'm surprised at how many white guys chase Latinas and Asians, in particular.>>221348199> My genetics kind of suck as is so probably for the bestYeah I get that. Whenever I feel down about not being in a relationship I remember how aggravating it would be to be in a relationship with me. I'd just give nothing.I feel for my parents but my mostly mainline prot mixed liberal/con political english/scottish stock fairly large extended family has gone from 30 cousins to 4? kids. Maybe we get to 8 max before we all age out. It's just a massive generational wipeout and I'm sure demographically similar stories can be shared here.
>>221345807>posting on 4chan>married, so a woman actually wanted to be with him>this woman wants to homeschool the childrenguaranteed to be raising a school shooter. just call child protective services now.
>>221348483You don’t have to stop posting here, but I absolutely will not be taking any of your parenting advice seriously.
>>221345757>Disability + structured settlement from medical malpracticedid you use jg wentworth?
if you're 30 now, your wife was literally just born
>>221348658Just keep in mind that most married guys here have fat wives.
>>221345901>Sperm quality also degrades after 35 ...That's only because people stop eating healthy and just compound years of drug and alcohol and fast food abuse.
>34>kissless virgin>still live with parents>have no career>have no life whatsoeverIt's so bad for me that I legitimately do not understand how normal adult lives work. I can't comprehend how people in their 30s get married, have a great career, have kids, and do all the other things for maintaining an adult life. People who live the basic normal life are like complete aliens to me. It's completely and unabashedly over for me, and I never even started my life to begin with. Somehow I'm supposed to get the motivation to change and improve myself when I've reached this age doing absolutely nothing. I'm so far behind that I'm never going to catch up and there's no point. Every day I almost have breakdowns and managing to go to sleep at night, meaning another day without having snapped and killed myself, is my only accomplishment.
>>221348818It feels impossible to even mimic normalfags. I haven't had a friend since highschool and even then I wasn't close with any of them. At Uni I couldn't make any friends either despite my efforts. There's something repelling about me that repels people
Just remember that there are people who look like they have it all who are absolutely miserable. Life is what you make of it and not everyone's path to happiness looks the same.
>>221348818If your life is like that at 34 you shouldn't be agonizing over making it any more. If your parents are still trying to push you to the same things they did when you were 18 then level with them. Readjust their and your own expectations for where your life can go from here, and make the best of that. Recognize the good things you do have in your life and focus on those.
>>221349813i dont agonize over making it. i know that ill never have anywhere close to a semblance of a functional adult life. i have no good things in my life. all i think about is when i will finally get the courage to kill myself.
>>221345441>41>single>gone back to college and about to finish new degree for career change so will be starting at bottom>haven't had a date in around 10 years>Haven't had sex in around 9It's over for me. I will almost certainly never procreate and life is feeling more and more pointless with every passing day. I wasted my life.Don't be me.
>>221349911what purpose do you see from the college career change?
>>221350005None. Seemed like a good idea at the time. I'll hate what I do regardless.
>>221345441I'd like to have a family but i've been cursed by a slightly below average dick.
>>221349850That is agonizing though. It was never gonna happen, just move on
>>221350090hoping troll but never can tell anymore.
>>221350090Just marry a really short chick. My wife is 4'11 and she can barely handle my 5 inch dick.
>>221350447Epic blog
This thread is Poopy Juice.
>>221350530Two short sentences is a blog now?
>>221350532welcome to /tv/ for the past decadejust normalfag tourists whining about women
>>221345501I don't think it's bad in general, but I do get the feeling that people who do it only do it because it's a "now or never" situation.They gave kids looking for purpose from social pressure and their own ego, without any understanding of what they're doing or getting into.Need a fucking license just to browse the internet nowadays but people are just free to fuck and reproduce at will. Maybe Zod was right, at least to some degree.
>>221346160Plenty of 40 year olds today never "established a career," a great recession and hyper inflation and hyper immigration will do that
I'm 32 with no job. Used to make 50k a year. I live off my ~80k in savings with my parents. I had a white gf 7 months ago and I thought about stealth knocking her up but she probably would have aborted it and we never got beyond her blowing me. Now I have an Asian gf I fuck raw but I don't want hapa kids. My family is white back 400 years and I'm the 5th guy in a row with my name. I have to have a son and name him after myself like my dad did. I can't be the one to break it or turn my family nonwhite. I wanted to marry that white girl. I texted her a few days ago but she didn't reply. Left me on read. Probably blocked me after. I wasn't in love with her but she was a 5/10 quirk chungus and seemed normal enough. She didn't want kids cause she had the BRCA gene so it was a bad idea anyway. Every white woman I've been on a date with since has been a big back ugly bitch. And after dating an Asian girl who is feminine and submissive and easygoing for 6 months now, I don't have any patience for white women's bullshit, mind games, tests, and idiocy anymore. I seriously fucking hate white women. But I want white children. Idk what to do.
>>221350894tl;dr
>>221350900Tldr I still think about my white ex cause I never got to fuck her and I have an Asian gf but I don't want hapa children.
>>221350957k
>>221350545tldr
>>221345441never happening
>character is 19, full hairline, not locked into his ((Corporate benefits job for his family))FUCK THIS SHIT
>>221345441I'm 40 years old now. I only have about 10 good years left to do the unthinkable and the impossible...find a girl, mutually fall in love, knock her up and becoming a grandpa dad like Bill Burr
>>221345913>It's just le heckin moneyrinos!You sound like my deadbeat brother who mooches of family. All that money you lose in a divorce is time spent just wasted. Dumb nigger!
>>221345441>Lets have a hecking kid in your early 20s and completely destory your youthNah thanks tradcucky.
>>221345599I know one who came a dad in his 80s, he banged some 20 year old russian
>>221345526untrue. you are just a massive sad simp beta cuck loser doormat that thinks womyn will like you if you lick the floor they step on. Please end this awful excuse for an existence of yours
I don't want kids, my girlfriend has 4. Pretty fun to hang out with, sometimes they're not...but ultimately not my responsibility and I am lazy.
>>221345441never wanted kids or any annoying women in my life, ive grown to love the loner life ever since cutting every person out of my life 15 years ago, dont need no friends or family, i got my online friends i make heckin based jokes with on 4chud.com!
>>221345639all your own doing, congrats
>>221353221>just a massive sad simp beta cuck loser doormattake a breathe there big guy
>>221345441My cousin did this but her and her husband are in great shape and wealthy.
>>221345760Meh. Men just make do with what they have.
>>221345639this would be ok if the jewslop was jewkino instead
>>221345441>Main character is having sex in high school
>>221348658cant be a school shooter if he doesnt go to school
>single>steady cash flow that keeps racking up my savings>have fun with my hobbies>no whiny bitches in my life>hanging out with the boys on a weekly basis>freedom to do whatever the fuck I want>be grateful every day of my life that I wasn't born in IndiaI don't get why some of you guys get so dramatic, but I guess it just works for me. Life is pretty cool once you stop putting pussy on a pedestral, it ain't all that.
I was 37 and my wife was 34 when we had our kid. It’s nice having money not be an issue.
>>221355001just the one kid?
>>221345797Even more reason to not breed. He's practicing eugenics. What a hero.
>>221355013One and done most likely.
>>221345441Man needs to be established to start a familly. What does a 20 year old broke kid has to offer to a girl?
>>221355193Love and commitment
>>221353264Please be joking
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