How do you respond to this without sounding mad?
>>223616744those poor dogsyjk
I just start a new Obsession (2026) thread
>>223616744>that filenamethis is you isn't it OP? >>223616762
funny how no one actually answered this question
>>223616815>saar please redeem the question
>>223616744i am mad. i am frustrated. not even about this but just about my life in general. i'm a stupid fucking incel and nothing ever goes my way
>>223616928Turn off your internet and stop trying to be an internet celebrity.
>>223616744This movie is pretty much a women in a islam country. Islam is right about women.
>>223616957>turn off the heckin internetand do what? also how am i trying to be a celebrity by incel posting on 4channel
>>223617023>how am i trying to be a celebrity by internet celebrity posting on 4channel
>>223617073i didnt make this thread. it was made by a jeet
>>223616744>born in 1996>somehow owns a houseThat alone would get him laid
>>223616815Have you ever had someone obsess over you whilst not liking them back? it's miserable. even the most affection starved incel would be repulsed by the thought of a 4/10 obsessed with them
>>223617173this is trueit’s fine if they like you but when they start actively pursuing you it’s extremely uncomfortable
They only like you if they all like you
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qLGBZTcLrvY
>>223616744Incel rep is best done by a gay bottom. Very apropos.
>>223617173The dude wasn't even obsessed with her though
>>223617173I had an ex girlfriend like this. It’s not that disliked her as much as it got to a point where I didn’t like her enough to be together anymore. We were “friends” afterward but then she started getting pretty weird. She would just show up at my house to “hang out with my sister”. What that really meant was she was staying the night with me. The 2 times I told her she needed to leave she started having a meltdown about how she doesn’t wanna go home. Like literally reverting a toddler in an instant. She once sent me a picture of herself, in my house, wearing my clothes. Like a full outfit with my shoes and a hat lol while I wasn’t even there. I mean she was just trying to be funny but it did make me question whether something was really wrong with her. I kinda felt like I was being stalked.
>>223616744Do incels have some sort of magic power to force women to love them or something? I don't get the woketards trying to occupy this movie which is obviously about toxic relationships and nothing else.
>>223617285women just have zero game and it becomes really obvious when you’re the one being hit on
>>223617173Fat chicks fucking love me, I know exactly what you mean. I am volcel, fuck broads
>>223616744>>223616815ok femcel
>>223616744"Incel" is literally just a "crutch-word" they fall back on any time something makes them butthurt or offended, but they lack any sort of rational justification for feeling that way, or at least lack the intelligence to articulate it rationally.It's like some kind of automatic verbal tick.
>>223616744>implying incels are real
realistically, i'd have to treat dating apps like a full time job for a year, manage to get 3-4 people past the initial flings, and after all that time, i'd still have maybe a 15-20% fighting chance at a relationship that lasts. not even mad, just genuinely don't want to bother. pissing in a bottle while driving a forklift for 60 hours a week sounds like a mental health retreat compared to months of swiping, matching, and ghosting.
>>223616744It's crazy how normalfags never had this feeling. Rejection is universal but somehow this depressed thought never flashed through this guys mind? Not even once?
>>223616762>>223616794Take your meds, anon
>wishing for loveRetard representation
>>223617173>skinny redhead with curly amber pubes and saggy D tits>face looked like pic relatedCouldn't stand being around her
>>223617674most people live the majority of their lives within a comfortable bubble of delusion
>>223617448Correct, they are a boogie man women invented.
>>223617173>>223617933thing is what leads to this obsession in the first place. I've always been a guy of negative consequence. Even the women I've been with never toss n turned over me. Forgotten in like a few days
>>223616744If she checks under her bed each night for incels
>>223617674People only identify with successful chads or with a loser that's represented in a cool artistic way, like a starving artist. A normal guy struggling is the least relatable thing to modern audiences.
>>223617173>mfw my scale starts at 7.5 so I just got rid of the other numbers and just use 0 to 3
>>223616762what’s with ugly obese browns pretending they’re not the actual incels?
>>223616744Do incels really just live rent free in the normies minds like this? They bring them up all the time.
>>223617448>why don't they just go out and have sex?!
>>223616744This mediocre "horror" film mindbroke a lot of retards. That is all.
>>223618022You sell fish
>>223617674Because the majority of the human species have a defense mechanism built in that help them deal with the trauma of failure. They fail, they try again until they succeed. The species would never have evolved without it. 500 years ago stinky peasants were having more sex than you. Self loathing is a modern creation.
>>223618055>They bring them up all the time.Sounds familiar
>>223618055There's this thing people do where they focus on some person or group they consider "lesser" than them as a way to feel superior about somethingeveryone does it
>>223618070Maybe we should just have sex with each other.
>>223617229>le so quirky>spork>*farts*>xD>im not like othr girls tee hee
>>223616744I have not seen this movie(don't plan on it) but what he needs is a reality check from a bud. Hit the gym, hang out with friends, go fishing etc. Better yourself and forget about that roastie whose vagina is only half an inch(if that) from her butthole. If you have to chase then she isn't for you anyways. A women will always make it clear they are interested in you and then the rest is easy. The "one in a million" romance cope is absolutely untrue. Tons and tons of axe wounds out there just as good if not better waiting at the finish line for you so they can continue to live life on easy mode.
>>223618040
>>223617320It reminds me of the fact that the way women act when they have to be the one pursuing, they would all get designated as autistic if they were men. Women only know how to sit there and wait for a man to do everything, whenever they have to do shit, they're the most not self-aware incel retards you could imagine.
>>223616744He is not an incel unless he is whining about ugly female characters in his video games.
>>223617173A couple of times. It was flattering. Only I couldn't in good conscience go through with it, because they were kind of retarded.I can't imagine ever being like "Ugh! Stop liking me!". Women are so spoiled.
>>223618279#rekt
>>223617448>just produce a social network out of thin air>just will all of your insecurities and social anxieties out of existence>just get over the trauma of being repeatedly told you weren't wanted and you weren't worth anything for the first 20 years of your life>just get over the trauma of being treated like a subhuman for having disabilities
>>223618055>normies Noone except incels even knows what an "incel" is.
>>223617674>normalfags never have to work for anything>why is my life so hard?
women and society don't care about your inner struggles or hidden virtues, they look at your outward behavior and react with aversion to the cognitive dissonance if you're demanding a romantic role without possessing the social license to pull it off.competence, being perceived as competent, and social permission to use that competence are three different things.
>>223618394get the fuck over it already
>>223618397which is part of the problem, because they let the media tell them there's this thing out there called an "incel" and it has something to do with Andrew Tate and murder, and you need to be very afraid of it.
>>223618419to be fair Elliott Rodger was a real person
>>223618272funny enough, the most “game” that’s ever been spit on me was by an autistic girl I dated. I found her really funny and likeable, and the way she pursued me was almost irresistible.
>>223618413How do I build a social network out of nothing?>just go out and talk to peopleIt's not going to work. I'd look like a rapist.I've tried doing it online, and people just don't talk back to me, or only respond to tell me to fuck off.
>>223618427One guy.More people get killed by foids who wake up one day and decide to throttle a child.
>>223618437just saying it doesn't help your argument when there are documented cases of dudes who couldn't get laid going out and murdering people because of it
>>223618452like a handful, across several decades.That's fucking nothing. Do you know how much voilent crime occurs every day?The statistics would show that incels are overwhelmingly non-voilent.
>>223618463in fact i'd say it negates your argument because there are documented cases of men who got so insane over not being able to get laid that they went out and tried to kill people
>>223618474There are documented cases of people killing each other over televisions on Black Friday.Do we need to raise the alarm about shoppers?
Posting ithttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SxGfCYVMAisYes, this was real.
>>223617173I had two 4/10s obsessed with me in high school for years and it was mildly annoying at worst
>>223618394>extremely woman coded postunironically take accountability
>>223618584That doesn't answer the question. How do you build a social network out of nothing? Especially when people repeatedly make it pretty clear they don't want you around?I can try to be fun and approachable. I can try to be stoic and dependable. People don't give a shit. Experience has shown me that the only way to get any attention at all is to start an argument.
>>223618609>>223618394>>223618430>I've tried doing it online, and people just don't talk back to me, or only respond to tell me to fuck off.>Experience has shown me that the only way to get any attention at all is to start an argument.kek based freakazoid
let me introduce you to the P.E.N.I.S. method:Provide an out - give her an easy excuse to say noEstablish context - read the room, set the moodNudge - hold eye contact a second longer, if she leans in proceedInject polarity - stop being an agreeable emotional tamponSurrender the outcome - zero desperation, be willing to walk away
>>223618497Lmao what the FUCK is this??
>>223618643explain how I'm wrong
>>223618652I know. It's amazing.
>>223618673you're not wrong thoughyou're telling your own truth king *nods respectfully towards you*
>>223618609>How do you build a social network out of nothing?Meet people through work, family, clubs, sports, hobbies etc.>Especially when people repeatedly make it pretty clear they don't want you around? Did they actually say this or is it all in your head? People generally dont do this unless there's an actual reason.>I can try to be fun and approachable. I can try to be stoic and dependable. People don't give a shit. Define trying to be fun and approachable>Experience has shown me that the only way to get any attention at all is to start an argument.I think you need to spend less time on 4chan if you unironically believe this
WOMEN. HAVE. HAD. ENOUGH
>>223618700>Meet people through work, family, clubs, sports, hobbies etc.Easier said than done. Picture the scene: you're at work, you pick a person, and start awkwardly trying to get close to them with the intention of making friends. It's weird, it's creepy, people know you're doing it, and they don't appreciate it.>Did they actually say this or is it all in your head? People generally dont do this unless there's an actual reason.Yes, people have repeatedly throughout my life slammed the door in my face, as soon as I thought I was starting to get somewhere, or just seemingly on a whim suddenly decided they didn't like me.>Define trying to be fun and approachableWell therein lies the problem. If I told you "be fun", what the fuck would you do? Start honking a clown horn and doing a Jim Carrey impersonation?>I think you need to spend less time on 4chan if you unironically believe thisThe thing about 4chan is people do actually talk you, instead of just ghosting and blocking.
>>223618734What is this?
>>223618786DIE CHUD DIIIIIIIIE
>>223618430>How do I build a social network out of nothing?Go out and do stuffLast month I met a girl at a glass painting class I just went to on a whim and we've been hanging out ever since. Last week I went to a boogie class and that's already a ready made social group with girls looking forward to see me this week too. The same can happen at art exhibitions or concerts, and so onHave interests and put yourself out there and people will be naturally drawn to you to an extentWith guys it's even easier. Just go to the pub during the football game and pretend you care and exchange some comments. After a bit offer them a sigarette or even better pay for a round. You'd be buds by the end of the eveningI built new social networks two times over already in the span of a decade, and I am as incel as it gets as far as luck with women goes
>>223618813I'm not going to a fucking "boogie class".
Are people still talking about this garbage boring movie?
>>223617373this except i do fuck the occasional fatty once in a while. i hate myself for it thoughi truly believe i deserve better. i am not fat, have a stable job with good income, i'm in my late 30s and still have all of my hair and am decent looking. i shouldn't have to resort to bottom of the barrel trash, yet i do.
>>223618775>workOkay have you tried hobby or sports clubs? Like looking through facebook groups or on meetup?
>>223617173>Have you ever had someone obsess over you whilst not liking them back?No, I think a rolled a 2 or something on Charisma but nobody has ever taken an even vaguely curious interest in me
>>223618040>>223618136They think simping will help them get some pity poon
>>223618856I don't like sports, and I don't understand how you find hobby groups. I've looked around for these things. They don't exist. At least not for someone like me. Maybe if I was a child.
>>223618825Go hiking then. Or join a sport club. Or check out your local music scene. All environmente in which I met people and made friends
>>223618851Ye that's precisely how most women feel
>>223618919I go hiking all the time. You do that to get away from people, not to meet them.I'm not interested in music.
>>223616744I say “GRRRRR IM MAD!!!!”
>>223616744In context the other only choice he had was killing her or himself. It’s a perfectly valid question
>>223618934>You do that to get away from people, not to meet themYou totally could tho>I don't like music>I don't like sports>I am not going to dance that's cringe or something>I want to avoid people on my leisure timeGee you do sound like a stick in the mud. What do you even want a social circle for?
>>223618962I'm interested in games, art, and technology.I don't see any "clubs" for this stuff around me, and even if I did, I'm not about to gatecrash some woman's writing group, because it's pretty obvious those groups don't exist for socially awkward autistic men trying to make friends and have sex. If anything, I'd be asked to leave.
Oooh ahahahaha
>>223618911What sports have you tried? Are you open to trying new things? What makes you think hobby groups are just for children? They are literally for everyone, from kids to people that have retired.
>>223618954Not really no. She is literally asking him to kill her because it is preferrable to be a meat puppet controlled by some entity or being forced to act against her will, and he knows that by that pointYet his reaction to her pleading for the sweet release of death is>wah can't you just be happy being my sentient fuckdoll am I really so bad?! :(Same thing when he calls customer care>Yeah I asked for this chick to be crazy for me but now it's gettinga akward and it's causing me problems. What? No I don't want to free her, just adjust her a bit so she doesn't embarass me in front of my friend and freak me out. You can't? Ah bummer. I guess you can make my wish null and void then
>>223618996I played tennis as a kid. it was a humiliation ritual. I was really bad at it it, all of the people my age moved up to the next group while I was stuck with the little kids, and then I just quit.
>>223616744he is gayI dont want aids or stds.men on men just gets a higher rate of infections.
>>223618985Then go make some male friends at some nerd gathering about games and tech, I know nothing about that stuff but I see guys hang out all the time in playrooms and such and having a good time and I know for a fact they are always on the lookout for people joining their roleplaying games or what have you because I have been asked to in the past on several occasion and you see posts on social media all the time with open calls to joinAnd you can totally meet chicks at art galleries and events. You even have a conversation starter right there for you to use given you'd share the same interestAnd if a woman's writing group is too awkward for you join a unisex oneSeems like you have given up before even trying anything at all>have sexI thought the point was to make a social circle. Is that just instrumental to have le sex? With an attitude like that it's no wonder people are wary of you
>>223619059There are no "nerd gatherings". I don't know where you people hallucinate these things to be happening. Probably in the sitcom in your head, where Leonard and Sheldon's comic shop exists on every street corner.Where do "art events" ever happen? Nowhere I could get to on-foot. If it's happening near me, people aren't telling me about it.
>>223619059>I thought the point was to make a social circle. Is that just instrumental to have le sex?Well, yeah...Eventually the goal is to have sex. If I pretended otherwise, I would be lying.
>women hate men who have sex>women hate men who don't have sex>women hate mendo you get it yet lol
>>223617173>ugly girl was into me>stalked me>i respond positively>we dated>she dumped mewhat the fuck
>>223619086>There are no "nerd gatherings"There is one next month at my local comic book store for the 40 years of the saint seyia anime which I plan to attend. I know that if I wanted I could bond with some of the attendees over growing up on the show or something and make friends with them. And I know of a couple of pubs that pride themselves on their boardgame collection that they make available to customers, so I know what kind of people would hang out there if I was interested in thatFor art events just go to your local museum and check out whatever art exhibition is there. You'll know for a fact that whoever will be there will be interested at least in that artist. And every library or bookshop has a couple of events every month where they invite some washed up professor or author to talk about a topic or a new release. Uninteresting as they may be you know you'll find people into literature and the arts>by footTake the bus then. Or an uber. You expect people to start some fair in your neightborhood before you feel like going out and talk to someone? Should they be literally be knocking on your door?
>>223619096You don't care about friendships? You don't have any interest or curiosity about other people from different walks of life? If you actually only just care about sex, why aren't you just having sex with prostitutes? What's the problem exactly?
>>223618394Just go to church.
>>223618394People are literally incentivized to gaslight you which each of the replies have doneIt’s about marketplace control
>>223619096You're supposed to actually blove people if you want to receive love back eventually. Seeing friends as instrumental to getting your dick wet won't do much for you
>>223619100If you retards would use actual normie social media like Instagram instead of 4chan and Twitter you might learn a thing or two.
>>223618410>feminist make a post without green text strawman challenge: impossible mode
>>223617986It forces them to confront reality and most people are trained to withhold empathy from straight white men
>>223619185I have legitimately never seen a comic book shop in my life, and I don't really see how these social spaces anyway. It's a shop. I saw someone trying to chat with the staff in a game store once, and it was incredibly awkward and inappropriate.I can only get so far outside of my comfort zone. I probably have agoraphobia or something>You expect people to start some fair in your neightborhood before you feel like going out and talk to someone? Should they be literally be knocking on your door?I'd prefer it.>>223619188I do, but I also want friends I can have sex with. I don't want to hire prostitutes, because I want to have a relationship with someone first.Am I just supposed to pretend all of this isn't so, and I only have pure thoughts? I don't.
>>223618075The world as it existed 500 years ago was not like it is nowDelusional comparison
>>223617173most men have not had thisAlso bear is good looking
>>223619227>doesn’t disprove anything
>>223619222it actually does to most people who have sexPeople who have sex aren’t amazing lovable people anon they are selfish shallow npcs living a lie
>>223619242This is trivially shown. Imagine if the protagonist was a whimpering black young man instead. The reception would be a total 180 from the foid horde.>he's just lost>misunderstood
>>223619004obese feminist take
>>223616744>filenamewhy are these indians allowed here? must be some hindu jannies on the team
>>223618954the fact that you even have to say this shows how far gone we are
>>223619279yeah it’s insane what propaganda like this reveals about our sick and decaying wasteland of a society
>>223619217I'm not going to pretend to be religious because there might be sex involved somewhere down the chain. That's loathsome behavior.
The ultimate thing that this movie in the discussion surrounding it seems to reveal about our current reality is that no man or woman are allowed to just like each otherYou must always have good stats comparing yourself against every other guy in the world, and it has nothing to do with who you are but only what you appear to beThe idea of two people simply liking each other has been completely destroyed
>>223619314That meme where it shows a gymnast on one side, explaining something simply, and then the other side, showing it being extremely convoluted with a Jetpack reminds me of the difference between getting laid back then and getting laid now
>>223619221>anons trying to help anon>gaslightingI swear incels will do any mental gymnastics to sabotage themselves from improving themselves. Mental illness is real and not a meme.
>>223619253>I can only get so far outside of my comfort zoneIt won't happen in a day. You just push it further and further. You think I was taking boogie class back in high school when I was phisically bullied by both boys and girls at school? Hell no, I spent my days playing vidyia and feeling sorry for myselfIt's not agoraphobia. It's being a sad sack of shit. And you can crawl out of that hole you got yourself into. I know because I did, and while there is still a lot about me I would change or things I long for, I can at least say that I have people in my life that seem to genuinely like me and that I like back and can be happy knowing that I have earned them in a way, they didn't fall in my lapOr you can keep incelposting on /teevee/. See what good it does to you>>223619253>I saw someone trying to chat with the staff in a game store onceChat with them yourself then. Make a friend. Go outside and look for that fabled comic book shop eveyone swear exists and is fun but you've never seen yourself because you'd need to *gasp* go outside to do so>I also want friends I can have sex withStart with making a single one without planning to fuck them and see how that works
>>223619342you haven’t done anything to help
>>223619273If being shallow and bitter and unlovable hasn't got you laid so far you may as well try the other way, rather than being envious of people you don't even like
>>223619280How am I wrong tho?
>>223619346>you have to build it up graduallyYes, I know. The problem is I've gone from being completely house-bound, to having the freedom of a few miles to move in, in the space of about 15 years. I can only will this to move so quickly.>Chat with them yourself then. Make a friend. The point is that it was a weird and inappropriate thing for anybody to be doing, because someone doing their job isn't there to be your friend.>Start with making a single one without planning to fuck them That would be a lie, because on some level, I would be trying to have sex with someone. Maybe not them specifically, but I'd be trying to work my way closer to other people. That's just the fact of the matter. I'd be conscious that I was doing it. I think they would be conscious of it too.
>>223619367you read the post backwards like a broken botMost people who get laid are shallow and bitter and unlovable because that’s easier than forcing people to be realThe current market rewards fakery because it increases female optionality
>>223616744This movie was dogshit
>>223619384Because none of it has any bearing on reality and all hinges upon a fictional magic device that doesn’t exist
>>223619415that’s true when literally every post that pretends to be advice is just telling men to either wear a certain costume or follow certain “moves” rather than simply being themselvesThe market forces you to gaslight yourself into thinking that there’s something wrong with you when it’s really just set up that way to excuse increasing women’s choices
do women ever watch anything that challenges their world views?
>>223619453there is no incentive to when you have the majority of mediocre men endorsing feminism out of desperation for scraps>just go along with it or you’re the problem incel, wanting better conditions for men is evil
>>223619408>because someone doing their jobI meant chat with the other awkward loser you autismo. At least you could bond over being obtuse>That would be a lieThen start by fixing your mindset that people are instruments to hopefully eventually get laidAnd no, until you can do that, just being curious about people and genuinelly like them for themselves, no one will ever want to be friends with you, let alone your loverYou are doing this to yourself btw. It is entirely in your power to not be like this
>>223619453Do men?
>>223619478every movie that exists challenges a man in some way because unlike women men are not a hive mind, which means that men are individuals which means that every movie that is made by a man is made by an individual which will automatically challenge another man’s worldview If you don’t feel you’re sorry for yourself after making such an abhorrent post. You should really sit down and reflect on it.
>>223619415>The current market rewards fakeryit ain't rewarding you though. may as well try the other way. bet even the women that are on the side that is real would make for much better lovers and companions too
>>223619473So your ultimate answer is hang around in game stores, waiting for other fat autistic losers to show up, and try to talk to them?And pretend I have no motives whatsoever to have sex, when I clearly do?And you think any of this is helpful?Oh, btw the game store closed down. There are currently no game stores in my vicinity, because of Amazon.
>>223616744Women are capricious as fuck and can be convinced of anything- including to like or dislike you based on your appearance, demeanor, actions, etc. even if they rejected you previously. Their brains don't work like men where we pretty much know just from eyeballing a woman whether we want to fuck her or not. Women don't even know what they want for dinner, so don't believe for a second that they actually know what they want in a man.
>>223619420Sure, but once we suspend our disbelief enought to engage with the movie, does Bear behavior reveal something about him that would indeed make him look like the unsimpathetic prick that audience see him as?
>>223619512Anon these people are low quality humans perpetuating a low quality worldLook at >>223619507they tell you to be shallow and fake because it’s what works for them because they have no other choice since they have nothing real to offer on the inside
>>223619530it just reveals itself to be fiction with an ulterior motive that is only upheld by the powers that be because it furthers their agenda
>>223619450>gaslight yourself into thinking that there’s something wrong with youI genuinely think there is. Bee yourself is not the advice I would give you if you are a bitter hateful tool>wear a maskthat's not it either. You have to actually work on yourself and better yourselfI must ask, what do you even like about yourself that is so worth preserving?
>>223619556Pretending I’m bitter and hateful is required of you since the alternative would be admitting the skewed landscape or having empathyYou don’t have the intellect or soul or integrity to do either
>>223619555>wow that bear guy sure sucked huh?>ZOMG IT'S FICTION IT'S NOT REAL WHY ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT A MOVIE ON THE MOVIE BOARD I AM BEING GENOCIDED SAVE ME NIGGERMAN
>>223619574anon it’s a feminist >anybody who thinks there’s anything wrong with the current situation is automatically evil and must dieis not a rational or smart response
>>223619588I accept your extremely emotional and reactionary response maybe be better and don’t try to use fiction as a cudgel for what you can’t get yourself
>>223619363You're right. People can try to help, but if the person isn't willing to change then there's nothing they can do.
>>223619574>Pretending I’m bitterYour posts sure reek of bitterness towards le society. You don't seem all that unbothered by being the way you are.
>>223619607nothing about you is helpful except to yourself anon but you already knew thisAnd if you don’t you need a wake up call
>>223619594>is automatically evil and must dienow you are being whiny and showing your victim complex too
>>223619615men deserve to be bitter about the current situation because it’s completely antagonistic to them you’re just a victim blamer taking advantage with low iq gaslight tactic taken from ugly women and fiction made to flatter their egos
>>223619556I think I've worked on myself more than most people though. and I've done it because I truly do hate myself and want to change.I exercise regularly, I force myself to read books, I entertain points of view and try to widen my perspective.I don't see anyone else doing that shit. My acquaintance gets drunk, watches TV, and listens to the same music he liked as a teenager. That's it. That's the scope of his existence.
>>223619627you could try making an actual point but it might require you to reroll your gender
>>223619638you’re being gaslit anonNobody that benefits from the current system has done what you’ve doneIt’s busywork to keep you running in a circle instead of confronting the problem of the system head on
>>223619636>men deserve to be bitter about the current situationEven if that was the case, why do so? What do you get out of eternally seething about the world being out to get you?
>>223618807>pays 4000$>to do something that is completely free
>>223619222>Seeing friends as instrumental to getting your dick wetI mean, they kind of are though
>>223619668>what do jews get out of not wanting to be holocausted?>What do black people get out of not wanting to be slaves?this is you anonYou are not smart or a good personYou are not asking real questions you seriously need to look at yourself in the mirror because it’s a problem stop trying to make others weak and ignorant as if you’re a saint for doing itIt’s honestly disgusting as fuck on every level conceivable
>>223619588>I AM BEING GENOCIDED SAVE ME NIGGERMANi say this
>>223619680it's 50% of the reason you have them, and the other 50% is so you have someone to play video games with.Every man knows this intuitively.
>>223619638>I don't see anyone else doing that shitI did. It worked alright. There's still a lot I would change about myself by I can be happy and even proud of the strides I made. And eventually people started to notice tooJust start to include moving out of your comfort zone and seeking out other people to your bucket list of self improvementYour using the present tense when you say you hate yourself so just keep going until you start to like the way you are changing if you feel like you are making progress>I don't see anyone else doing that shitSome people are born into poverty and have to worke their assess off all their lives to get the bare minimum, while some prick with a silver spoon in their mouth won't ever know what struggle is like. It's unfair, but it is what it isYour friend sounds boring btw. I'd rather hang out with you and talk about what you are reading if you manage to keep the incel talk to an appropriate minimum. I bet other poeple would too
I am owed unpaid sex with a beautiful woman that desires me. Simple as.
>>223619717>Just start to include moving out of your comfort zone and seeking out other people to your bucket list of self improvementI mean, I'm trying, and I've gotten as far as to pay people to talk to me, because that's about all I can think of.I keep trying to make social media happen, and that doesn't work.
>>223619717nta but you sound boring
>>223619408>That would be a lie, because on some level, I would be trying to have sex with someone. Maybe not them specifically, but I'd be trying to work my way closer to other people. That's just the fact of the matter. I'd be conscious that I was doing it. I think they would be conscious of it too.I think you're overthinking it a bit. You can get to know someone and also have an urge to have sex with them, just dont make your entire interaction with them close to 100% of the latter. And you need to stop writing these situations off and assuming the worst before anything has happened. I mean all of this with no malice btw and im not trying to gaslight or shame you in anyway. Theres nothing wrong with you. Yeah its not going to be easy getting out of your comfort zone especially with trying to change decades of your old thought patterns as well. I sincerely wish you the best on your journey, anon.
>>223619768goes without saying desuThe only people who disagree are those who think they either don’t deserve it and want to restrict you based on that or women who don’t want to have to be good enough for just one man
>>223619778I will be thinking about it. You don't understand.
women be like>I'm lonely and would like to meet someoneevil>I strangled my 3 babies because I was having a bad dayvictim
>>223619769Maybe give a shot at the few suggestions I gave you ITT. You mostly seem to have reacted with skepticism and disbelief rather than actual reasons to not go outside and do stuffDoing stuff out of hate of yourself like you're doing isn't ideal, but it can lead to naturally develop a curiosity for what's out there. Reading especially does wonders to help develop a theory of the mind and booster empathy, so I have no doubt you'll eventually start seeing people as people and not npc out to get you or mortify you.Yes it will be awkward and even distressing to put yourself out there and you will get rejected, a lot. But talking to stranger isn't worse than paying someone to talk to you, so I guess you can only go up from there
i really am gonna become a wizard aren’t idamnshit sucks
>>223619796It was the husband who strangled the 3 babies
>>223619773What a mean thing to say
>>223619415>Most people who get laid are shallow and bitter and unlovable because that’s easier than forcing people to be real what does this even mean lol
>>223617173I've never had any girl even like me, let alone Obsession.2025.2160p.MA.WEB-DL.DDP5.1.Atmos.H.265-BoNDR_2026_SDR_4k_UHD me
>>223617120I own a house, how do I use it to get laid? Women never knock on my door begging for cock
>>223616744>How do you respond to this without sounding mad?If he was never with her, why she's mad?How can he be an incel if he's regularly getting laid?
Dating advice is the excuse, not the help.Women are told to keep every option open. Men are told the miss is their personality. Be interesting, but not a try-hard. Be confident, but do not want her. Skill up. Work on yourself. Love people. Stop being bitter. Those lines have been running for years. Men followed them. It did not get them laid and it did not get them married. A tip that never ends in a pair is not a tip. It is a way to raise his standards, cut his options, and force him to act like someone else.The defenders need that. A woman who answers a man she likes gets called a pick-me. A man who says he likes her gets called entitled. A man who says the game is fake gets called bitter. Every one of those words protects the same thing: her pile of options, and his blame for not being chosen off it. Nobody just likes each other anymore, because a plain like closes the pile, and the pile is the point.They are not failing to fix it. If they fixed it, the advice would stop. The advice cannot stop, or she would have to want him back and he would be allowed to be himself. That is the intent. Not a mystery. A refusal, posted as guidance.
>>223619842just tell girls "I own a home" and it's pussy city
>>223619842You still have to seek them out and talk to them first
>>223619807there's nowhere to go. I keep trying to explain that these "clubs" that people think exist on every street corner simply aren't there.I can stand in a field, or I can check out some slightly suspect looking business which is probably a criminal front. I have a lot of dank looking gambling shops and immigrant fried chicken places to choose from.
>>223619864>just tell girlsso I just yell out my window and hope they hear me or what
>>223619830It means the easy lay is a fake person.Being real means saying you like someone and wanting that returned. That closes options. This market fines it. He is entitled. She is a pick-me. So the people getting laid skip that. They run a move, hide the want, keep a roster, and act hotter than they feel. Shallow is the costume. Bitter is what is under it. Unlovable is the point: nobody has to love them, and they do not have to love anyone back. Sex still happens, because an open slot is easier than a real one.“What does this even mean lol” is the laugh you do when the sentence is clear and the clear version costs you. If most sex is between people performing, then her options are not proof she is wanted for herself. They are proof the act works. She understood it. The lol is the refusal to say so.
This movie accomplished nothing besides once again giving all the underfucked teenagers on this site an excuse to cry in their relationshit threads.
>>223617173What you just said it's a false equivalenceAny man would easily be able to answer the questionIf an obsessed fatty says "WHAT'S SO BAD ABOUT BEING WITH ME?" any man can simply say "You are fat and not that pretty"You see how man can answe the question just fine, and girls can't?It's because girl's don't have a brain, they are unable to process logically>Ask question>Answer questionMen>Ask question>IT IS IMPOSSIBLE TO ANSER THE QUESTION.IT'S MISERABLE. EVEN THE MOST AFFECTION STARVED INCEL WOULD BE REPULSED. HAVE YOU EVER HAD SOMEONE...yap yap yapWomen
>>223619876oh, no thank you. pass
>>223619892you literally just headshotted them with this damnsaved
>>223619346>>223619185I go to my manga section of the comic book store but Idk how to approach someone. Most of the the girls are in middle school and the few times I see older girls I have no idea what to do.
>>223619890>I admit defeat, save me hollywood!>reports ever post itt she got btfo by
>>223617674>It's crazy how normalfags never had this feeling.PROTIP: they have.Women fundamentally don't know what it's like to be male. Not their fault. Men don't know what it's like to be female. That's just reality.The problem are fucking simps who blindly agree with women's one-sided understanding of the world.>woman: That's so strange? Why would anyone care that much about getting laid? Like just go to anywhere social and there are loads of people>normal guy: Well women can actually have sex far easier due to social blah blah blah>simp: That guy's a fucking incel, women are rightThe simp is well aware that they're spouting bullshit. They just think that this is the easiest/most effective way to get laid. Or they're out of the dating game altogether so it doesn't matter to them.So instead of men having 2/3 of the understanding, and women 2/3, and them coming together to form a complete understanding, you have women and simps telling other men that their experiences are false. Which leads to trannies and chuds
>>223617933>skinny redhead with curly amber pubes and saggy D titsdisgusting
>>223619877Immigrants are usually pretty friendly at leastAt some point if the place where you live is that miserable you may as well start considering moving You can better yourself all you want but people will be hardly come literally knocking on your door no matter how many strides you madeStill, the fact that you mentioned only being interested in checking out a place if you can get there by foot makes me think that there is actually room for you to push your boundaries furtherThere's niggers on the bus, sure, but a ride to the next town over or the city center will hardly be any more unpleasant than stying inside feeling sad for yourself
>>223616744...how is he an incel? He must've dropped literal gallons of semen into that bitch. I'm not even convinced she was cursed, she was probably just cum-addled from having her guts pumped 50 times a day. You can't fathom the amount of nuts a man will bust into his one-itis as soon as the chance presents.
>>223619886Okay then, anon.
>>223619893Understandable. See you tomorrow in the daily obsession thread
>>223619892A no with a cause is a closed door. That is why the cause is banned.“What’s so bad about being with me?” only needs one sentence back. You are short. You are boring. I do not like you. Any of those ends it. The man knows the reason. He can leave, or he can change the thing that was named. The woman has spent an option. She does not get to keep him as a maybe. A maybe is the product. The pile only works if men stay unrejected and unchosen at the same time.So the modern reply deletes the reason and punishes the ask. The screenshot does not say he is ugly, poor, or cruel. It says the question is incel. Eighteen thousand people agreed. They did not answer him. They made the asking disgusting. Once the ask is disgusting, she never has to say what the no is made of. No standard, no closed slot, no man allowed to walk because he heard the truth.That is the climate. Women are trained to keep every option open. A spoken standard spends one. Men are trained to hear “incel” instead of a reason, then go buy a personality, a body, a move, anything except the plain like. The standards on him go up. The reasons from her stay unspoken. He is forced to become someone else to compete for a no that will not even name itself.Nobody just likes each other in that room. Liking him would be a cause. Not liking him would be a cause. Both close the pile. The only legal reply is the label. The label is not a feeling. It is how the option stays open after she has already decided he is not allowed to ask why.
>>223619945Buses are stressful. I feel like if I travel somewhere by bus, I might not be able to get back, and then I'll be trapped there forever.
>>223619892burned that bitch
>>223617173If a 4/10 was obsessed with me i think id just fuck her. 4/10 isnt that bad, slightly below average. Worth a fuck. This actually happens to men all the time. They fuck some woman who is way below them in terms of looks and the woman suddenly thinks that hes going to marry her. What usually seems to happen is the woman is stuck in the fwb zone, which is the actual female equivilent to the friendzone. The guy will never wife her. But in this scenario the woman at least gets some physical interaction/intamacy with the dude and spend time with him romantically in some capacity. Incels get nothing. As in zero.
>>223619949a man who threatens female surplus is an incel a guy who doesn’t have sex but keeps his mouth shut can be an ally but a guy who has had sex and notices feminism being greedy is an unfuckable dysgenic movie villain
>>223619188I am>>223619910 and I do want to eventually have sex as well with a person I enjoy. Back in the day it was way easier and it was weird for you to be a virgin in your late teens.
>>223616744If they remade this with a disgusting fat woman making a wish about a chad, it'd be a comedy.That's all you need to know.
>>223619966Sloptastic post.
>>223619910>Idk how to approach someoneOh hey I like that manga series too! Have you watched the anime too? Any show this season you are looking forward to?At least you share an interest. You'll be rejected a lot but even getting a few minutes of pleasant conversation every now and then still beats posting on 4chan in my book. especially since /a/ is a cesspool nowadays
>>223619926Very accurateThere are always simps in these threads telling men to want less because they know it’s what women would rather hearThe easiest way to tell if you’re talking to a weak man is if he defaults to female judgement in literally any way
>>223619999She will not say why. A why ends it.“You are ugly.” “You are boring.” “I do not want you.” Any of those is a no. A no spends him. She does not get to keep a man she already rejected. So the reason is banned and the question is renamed incel. Eighteen thousand likes. Zero answers. The ask is the crime because the answer would be a standard, and a standard closes the pile.That is the whole climate. Her options stay open. His standards go up. He is told to become someone else for a no she will not even say out loud. Liking him closes it. Not liking him closes it. Only “incel” keeps him on the hook. The label is not a feeling. It is the refusal to spend him.
>>223619886>>223619966
>>223619966You are correct, but at the same time not able to express yourself because you are probably from a third worldStick to making those pics, it's effective and you don't out yourself
>>223619968Gee anon it's almost like you need to get out of your comfort zone if you want things to changeI empathize with your distress, but at some point if you are barely functioning as a human being to the point you can't get further a way than few steps radius from home there are much deeper issues to address before worrying about finding a new social circle
>>223619968You'll be fine anon. Just do it.
>>223620032So how do I address them?This all basically comes back to "figure out how not to be mentally ill" somehow, doesn't it?
>>223617173Never. In fact I’ve given people who’ve said they liked me a chance, most of which were decent looking, but they realised I’m too boring for then and would give up on me within a month. I kind of miss the intense makeout sessions with one.
>>223617173Post your "4/10" sexhaver
>>223620017feminist coded twitter reaction image fail>>223620025Nope, i made like 30 non ai posts before those >>223619221>>223619234>>223619242>>223619255>>223619262>>223619316>>223619463etcjust shut up and accept me as your superior
>>223620003I’ve never approached a stranger like that, so I am a bit afraid of doing it. I’ll try it tomorrow(if I find any girls that fit the bill). But fuck man, I never managed to make any friends in university where I actually interacted with people, doing it like this is really hard.
>>223619926>Which leads to trannies and chudsPeople never give enough attention to trannies and chuds being 2 sides of the same coin
>>223620069All of your effort is a complete waste of timeMen need to stop trying to work within a system that is built against them
>>223620085I’m a chud and I work next to a trannytell me how we are two sides of the same coin
>>223620067superior what, you are barely legible bro
>>223620099You both resent women and perceive them as living life on easy mode.Trannies think the solution is to 'become' a woman and gain their perks.Chuds think the solution is rampant misogyny to take away their perks.
>>223620114nothing I said is hard to understand
>>223620132so chuds are right and trannies are wrong and that makes us alike somehow Riveting
>>223620057>So how do I address them?Do you feel like you have made progress in your path of bettering yourself? Then keep doing that and see where it takes you. You feel like it's mental illness? Then get yourself tested first instead of just going by vibes. I know that's super unappelaing, I myself have always rejected any form of theraphy, but I also managed to function and go outside eventually, while you are chained to your home, so you clearly need more help than I didThere has never been a better time to be mentally ill as far as social stigma and support goes. By which I don't mean things are good, but you'd be way worse in any other time in the past
>>223620154trannies do have a point (or several).Why should we accept that women alone should have access to all of these perks of society? Everything from increased empathy, to nice clothes, to the freedom to be a bitch and not be reprimanded for it.Idk, maybe I want some of that sometimes.I do think trying to literally become a woman is misguided, but they've hit upon something.
>>223619807The suggestions are useless if you don’t actually have the courage to talk. I did swimming and tennis ages ago but I never talked with the other girls there.
>>223620208I make progress, but I never really get what I want, which is for other people to be nice to me and to perceive me as worthy.
>>223620069It gets easier as you keep doing it, but I understand that it's awkward and scaryAlso unless by girl who fits the bill you just mean an adult one I still think your head space is the wrong one. Especially given how weeb girls usually lookBut I recently met one by bonding over liking the apothecary diaries and she's a joy to hang out with despite being woefully unattractive for me
>>223620234Because they never made you feel welcomed to do so anonThey didn’t want youGirls don’t just ignore guys they want
>>223620234>The suggestions are useless if you don’t actually have the courage to talkYeah no shit that conversation started by asking where does one begin to meet new people and build a social circle, not how does one even talk to people
>>223618070Surprisingly, it really is that easy. But when you look like Sloth and act like Chunk, you shouldn't be expecting Andie. Mama Fratelli is more your speed.
>>223620154>I can't read or understand words so I'm right?
>>223620304I accept your concession
>>223620264> Also unless by girl who fits the bill you just mean an adult one I meant a girl that is at least 16+ not the kids that I mostly see there.> But I recently met one by bonding over liking the apothecary diariesWhere did you meet her and how did you approach her?> unattractiveAt this point, I don’t even think I have standards for that as long as she is not obese or something.
>>223620308>>I can't read or understand words so you concede?
>>223620263>I make progressthen you keep doing that. also start with addressing your being unable to move too far from home problem. chances are when you actually manage to get to places and talk to people you'll find out you are already likeable enough for someone to be nice to you or at the very least go through the motion with you I doubt this going by the vibes I got for you over the course of the thread but I understand this is the incel rage thread so one is encouraged to be overtly negative and bitter here
>>223620327your words existed yesAny meaningful connection between them to the point of what you meant to imply was not made
>>223620147It's not about the content, you brown skinned monkeyYour english syntax is trash so nobody can read your shitDoesn't matter how right you are, it's like you are trying to explain how the earth is round to a bunch of chinese flat earthers going "CHING CHONG ROUND ROUND CHING"Stick to making ai slop pics, those are readableYour barely coherent post like this?>>223619966incomprehensible.
>>223620132>living life on easy modethey do
>>223620341Nobody is encouraged to do anything you little spoiler using bitch
>>223620132Can you please tell me something men have, that women don't have?
>>223620362you haven’t said how or why I’m wrong
>>223620323>Where did you meet her and how did you approach her?an unrelated event, but tangential to being a weeb. it was a kintsugi lab. I just had some small talk with her during the lab (what have you brought to repair? have you ever done this before? wow this is actually pretty hard huh?) and at the end I asked her if she wanted to have some romen in a nearby place and she accepted and eventually she opened up about being into anime and ln and we hit it off
>>223620384testicles
>>223620367A little stiff, but good action scene
>>223620300That reply is a cheat.She said it is easy. Then she added a rule: if you are ugly, date ugly, and stop wanting the hot one. Those are two different claims. Easy means he can go out and get laid. The movie line means he is not allowed to want the woman he actually wants.Men are not failing an easy task. A woman at his looks level is not handing out sex to every man who matches her. She still has options. He still gets told no. The Sloth and Chunk bit exists so she can call that no fair.The original claim was simple. Just go have sex. He cannot. The casting joke is what she sticks on top so she does not have to admit it.
>>223620403using testosterone is illegal now so they are merely a decoration at this point
>>223620370idk I am getting quite a crab bucket vibe itt
>>223620385I'M NOT GOING TO FUCKING TEACH A RANDOM MONKEY ABOUT SUBJECT VERB-AGREEMENTS, ADJETIVE PLACEMENT AND CLAUSESGET A FUCKING 1ST GRADE ENGLISH TEACHER DOWNLOAD A HIGHSCHOOL CLASS OR SOMETHING
>>223620384prostate
>>223620403>>223620448in society, turbo retard
>>223620428not an accurate description of the threadthere are liberators like me at the top exposing truth, midwits like you in the middle saying “umm wear a clean shirt and be nice, it will work!” And then there’s the feminist pirate brown shirt slaves barking at the bottom
>>223620440I accept your concession
>>223620423Having sex with an ugly/fat girl is still sex. If you're not able to get laid, you don't WANT to get laid.
>>223620399Based on how many workshops you do, you sound like a very outgoing person. How old are you?
>>223620426>I need hormone drugs to be a manHey, isn't that what trannies say?
>>223620341It's been decades. When do people start noticing I exist?
>>223620384accountability
>>223620478> you don't WANT to get laid.Tell me how to do it instantly, right here. I am a 4/10, I smell nice, I am 178 cns tall and I am not fat. I’ll take any woman.
>>223620478ugly and fat women think they are too good for ugly and fat men moreso than the opposite is the pointit’s so easy to see when you are playing dumb
>>223620481literally not what was said but trannies aren’t the most honest bunch
>>223620511holy fucking kek
>>223620501they don’t and won’t the system must change anon not you>>223620517you’re talking to a gaslighting feminist anon
>>22362048033. Why? And yes I am outgoing, but wasn't born this way. Spent all my adolescence playing videogames and went through a through a three years long depressive episode or something where I only left the house to stream movies at the library the whole day
>>223620517>>223620520You can literally go to a bar right now and find some post-wall skank or fatty drinking her sorrows away. Sweet talk her, and you have sex before dinner.
>>223620474I can't understand shit of what your schizo rambling is, and i'm on your side politically. I agree with your position! I'm just unable to read it effectively because you are a brown third worlder retard with little english skillsYet, you are confrontational toward me, going "how am I wrong huh?? how am I wrong??!"And your smugness and antagonism comes from the very precise point I'm makingThat you are too stupid to read, and write, englishYou have the intellect of a women, and the emotional response of one as well, and for that, I'll stop responding to youHave a good day
>>223620501When you go out and meet them. that would be a way to start>but I can't!Then I am all out of ideas
>>223620546why did you include me >>223620520in your reply if you had nothing to say to my point
>>223620572you haven’t helped me at all I’m sorry I need more substancethis is slop to me
>>223620478Id rather die alone than entertain a fat chickI used to weigh 240 pounds and girls treated me like I was subhuman. If fat men don’t deserve love, then neither do fat chicks
>>223620578>if I pretend his life isn’t real I don’t have to have empathy or solve anythingYawn
>>223620546> Sweet talk Idk how to do that.
>>223620588>Id rather die aloneWell you're in luck there anon
>>223620588whoever made this is a fat woman
>>223620546The kind of person who hangs out at a bar is the kind of person I don’t want to invite to my home
>>223620582Because you're too dumb to see how it applies.>>223620588Then you don't want to have sex. Keep saving yourself at 40 for a virgin 10/10. See how that works out.
>>223620578I don't understand how putting myself in the vicinity of other people makes them talk to me. If that worked, I would have gotten friends in education. I would have gotten friends on social media. Nothing ever happens.I know exactly what would happen if I forced myself to go to a gaming club or something. It would be awkward, and then I would go home. That's what has happened my entire life up to this point.
>>223620598The way other guys do it is they basically just lie to women and set up false expectations romanticallyNobody actually flirts or says anything sexy anymore because that would get you in troubleSo basically you just have to promise a relationship and then betray that promise once your dick goes softThis is why there are a lot of incels because we don’t want to be dishonest like that
>>223617173Yes and no, there’s a sliding scale for men. I was a bit of a pussyhound in my last job and managed to fuck three coworkers, one of them my boss. One day a new girl joins and she’s this Asian mom. At the time I was thinking to myself “thank God I really don’t want to get fired, I’ll be able to work around her without trying to fuck her because she just looks average.”Well a few months go by and all of a sudden she’s looking much better. I start imagining how nice her ass looks, and that was pretty much it. I realized possibly she started taking care of herself more, but more likely than that I came to want her because I was around her all the time every day. What I’m trying to say is men can learn to find lustful things in most women, it takes a LOT for a man to not want to even consider it.
>>223620542Just curious, I am 25.
>>223620603You have standards that don't befit a "man" in your position.
>>223620605your post didn’t apply to what I said you’re just a seething feminist
>>223618929Most women (in the US) are fat. They shouldn't feel entitled to amazing men when they cant even maintain basic health
>>223620572It's amazing the amount of brownskins that populate this site this daysit didn't used to be like that just 10 years ago
>>223620599As long as that girl who rejected me is still a mother of 4 through some broke nigga, I feel like dying alone isn’t so bad
>>223620612it’s what people say when they have no real advice anonThe situation is the problem not you>>223620621Anybody telling men not to have standards is not helping
>>223620594What am I supposed to do? Be the one who goes knocking on his door? I offered my advices already and related to my experience. I guess I could take the plane to wherever he lives where society is so sparse that there are no clubs or social gatherings to speak of at a walking distance, but I don't think he would be interested in fucking me so we would still need to get past the "friends are instrumental to pussy" hurdle. it's a lot to ask
>>223620625I'm a man, and a manly man. I'll fuck women who rate in the negatives, because sex is sex. You're just blaming others for your inability to do what's necessary.>>223620639>Anybody telling men not to have standards is not helpingMost people on 4chan aren't men. They're just males over 18.
>>223620598thats the cool part. you ask how to do relationships and then they give a vague answer, saying something like "just bee yourself" "just talk to her". They will never tell you what this actually means though
>>223620605I love next to the Bunny Ranch. I have chicks that look like Dallas cheerleaders on tap. >>223620621I make just shy of 6 figures and have a hot body. I’ll be picky if I want
>>223620612>putting myself in the vicinity of other people makes them talk to meit don't. you have to be the one reaching out. people won't notice how deserving of love you are if you stand around waiting for someone else to make the move
>>223617173I WANT DISGUSTING SEX-HAVERS TO LEAVE THIS BOARD
>>223620644you could just shut up and listen instead of pretending you have anything useful to say
>>223617448>letting retarded women be the judge of what is acceptable and what notAlso they don't give a shit as long as the guy is hot.
>>223620649being a bitter plapjak isn’t a flex anon
>>223617229
>>223620663not reallyIf you’re good looking or black people will automatically talk to you
>>223620663>uh hey, how about that cup of coffee hahaha! They sure serve em good here!I genuinely don't think anyone does this.
>>223620628Yeah that's probably true, and they are most likely going to end up as bitter spinster if they believe they do. So?
>>223620651Do you know how to not insult people? That's what you do. Talk to a lonely woman (meaning, say the opposite of insulting things). Suddenly, she's not lonely. She becomes grateful. Before you know it, your dick is coated in her saliva.>>223620676I'm not bitter. I have sex. When you go "FUCKING SHIT FUCKING WOMEN ARE FUCKING CUNTS THEY HATE ME FUCK SHIT FUCK BUTTAPPLE," you're bitter.
>>223620690Not over coffee perhaps, but over something they are interested in? A hobby they share? An artist they like?
>>223620666Anon, most sex havers actually have WORSE sex lives than a regular goonerMost girls don’t wanna do anything but lay there or ride. Like, lots of couples don’t even take their clothes off, they just bump pelvises till they cum and that’s it.I can’t count the number of times I’ve nearly killed myself fapping on purpose. Its so much fucking better than what normie sex-havers are doing, I promise
I don't get where that's coming from. Bear wasn't an incel. He was a simp. They aren't that similar.
>>223620724So just creep around the art gallery looking for women?
>>223620724How are you supposed to figure that out about strangers from just looking at them?
>just talk with womenOk, I asked an older woman(40+) if I can help her with her bag while walking and the. she started telling me about her son and shit and I listened but we didn’t have sex. Fuck this.
>>223620742Incel doesn’t mean virgin even though everyone thinks it does. It means someone who wants sex and isnt getting laidIf you had sex 3 years ago, never hooked up again, but wanted to the whole time, that period of celibacy would have been involuntary
>>223616744>>223616762I have Jeet fatigue
>>223620754By the place you are in for instance. I won't approach a stranger asking about his favorite novel at the sports bar
>>223619147She saw you browse /tv/
>>223619662You dont think normies read books and go to the gym in their spare time? Well, maybe they don't in whatever brown shithole you live in.
>>223620542I also wanted to ask how to exactly approach a possible girl in a manga store. Do I just say “Hey, you like that manga” or do I introduce me first?
>>223620778Your “advice” is painfully unhelpful. >Just happen to be in the right spot at the right time and pray this girl is wearing a music shirt or something so you can ask her about that instead of regular small talk>Its so easy, bro
>>223620750It helps when you are interested in art too but sure why not
>>223620800Nerdy girls are the wrong girls to approach. They're hunted more than "cool" girls.
>>223619217>Still believing this works in 2026
>>223620803>Just happen to be in the right spot at the right timeyou seek out those moments though. you go to the concert and meet the girl with the music t-shirt. if you hit it off you may also ask her about other interests of hers and find out if there's chemistry
>>223616744>Dilate
>>223620835Homie, that shit hasn’t been the norm since before Covid. The vast majority of relationships start through mutual acquaintances. What’s next, youre gonna tell me to go church or join a running club?
>>223620699Do you not understand how you're doing exactly what I just said? "Just talk to her" "Don't insult her". I may be on 4chan but I'm not walking up to women calling them ugly cunts. I talked to girls in highschool and college. Your advice (and anyone that says the same thing) is ALWAYS missing the fundamental important steps of going from talking to someone -> relationship
>>223620773>Incel doesn’t mean virgin even though everyone thinks it does. It means someone who wants sex and isnt getting laidWell, yes. That's also what being a simp means, when you get down to it. The difference is, an incel doesn't like women, while a simp likes them too much.
>>223620699anon you’re seething and only fuck ugly fatties while acting like it’s hard or good to doI think the two things may be connected
>>223620737This, just look at >>223620699for example
>>223620773>>223620856You’re both feministsIncel means involuntarily celibate Simp means a guy who gives to women without receiving anything back
>>223620800>Do I just say “Hey, you like that manga”Yeah sure. See how she reacts, whether she responds friendly or closes herself to you. In the latter case you just let the chat peter off naturally and exit with a sorry to have bothered you, otherwise you can than introduce yourselfI am no dating coach but in my experience girls tend to be friendly in a just-going-through-the-motions sort of way so it is very unlikely that they'll be actively rude to you even if they are bothered by you. At worst they'll be cold but they will respond if you ask them about stuff they likeGranted, nerdy girls are in a league of their own, but they will still respond positively if you act warm and friendly. I've had it happen to me at least
>>223620849>that shit hasn’t been the norm since before CovidI do those things though. Regularly. Maybe it won't get you laid but it will make you meet people so you can actually make some acquaintances. Try and have those before you start worrying about relationships
if you are a four Chan type of guy and you think that you want to have casual sex, then you are so sorely mistakenThe only people in this entire world right now who can actually enjoy casual sex are people who are both rich and hotNormal people do not have fun or sexy or easy casual sexThey either have gross regretful casual sex or they have lame boring unsexy relationships Guys like us are not cut out for either of these deals and that’s not a bad thing
>>223620867It's...not hard. That's what I'm saying. And I don't ONLY fuck ugly/fat chicks, but when I want to cum, any port in a storm will do. You're literally posting an angry message and calling me seething. I don't think you know what "seething" means.
>>223620807that's not going to work. People aren't hanging around art galleries waiting to be charmed by an autistic man.
>>223620959plapjak melty
>>223620947I think average joes get to do that stuff when theyre in their teens at least, but we got a lot of bitter adult aged people who didnt get to do that stuff
>>223620905Thanks for actually being patient.> Granted, nerdy girlsWell those are the girls that I even feel somewhat confident in approaching.
>>223620983Based actual sex having empathetic anon
>>223621014anon we were there as teens too and we were unwanted thenthe bitterness is validthe idea that it can be fixed with casual sex or normie relationships is the false cureWe have to fix the system for future men
>>223620618>momYou shouldn’t do that with a married woman.
>>223620983No, but will at least enjoy a casual conversation about something they like. And if you end up being actually charming and likeable they may enjoy talking about other stuff too. You or some other anon said they wanted to be noticed for their qualities. Well, if those are actually noticeable they will show up during a conversation
>>223621005You sound like the insane people on /v/ bitching about people with high end GPUs, then saying those people are coping and seething, while said anon is laughing all the way to the bank with a 560Ti. You're literally pulling opposite day shenanigans.>>223620983I rarely do art galleries, but they do engender conversation. I've never picked up a chick there, but it seems reasonable to assume it's possible if you make a connection over a piece or an artist.>>223621016Nerdy girls are the holy grail for nerdy guys. They're surprisingly hard to find single.
>>223621041I'm telling you, It's not going to happen. You probably don't get it because you're a woman, but I don't get to just walk up to people and talk to them.They will immediately assume I want something, and if they don't pin me as a sexual predator, they will pin me as a mugger or a scam artist.
>>223621100>You probably don't get it because you're a womanI am a guy and that's how I approach women and make friends in general. I am also a bald manlet so no chad either. And even conceding that you can't meet women like that, you yourself said that the way to do so is through mutual acquiantances. So maybe try and do that to make some of those. I promise nobody is going to shame you or bully you
>>223621016They can be awkward and timid but will open up as they nerd out about their special interests. Also they are freaks in the bedroom due to the smut they consumed as teens
>>223621181I don't think this is real life. I don't think anyone makes friends by chatting people up in art galleries.
>>223621194> Also they are freaks in the bedroom I doubt I will ever get to that stage. Anyways thanks for talking, I wish I could meet people like you irl, I only have the chance to talk with others here on 4chan.
>>223621212Give it a try. I have made friends I specifically hang out with when I want to check out an exhibition. Girl friends to bootIf that doesn't work for you try and do it at the pub over the game
>>223620699> Talk to a lonely woman (meaning, say the opposite of insulting things). I am >>223620517. So if I want just to have sex, I approach a random sad ugly woman in the bar and tell her that she is cute and everything will be ok? It’s that easy?
>>223621276Ask her name. Offer to buy her a drink. Dissemble enough about you that you don't look like a spaz. Conversation flows from there.
>>223620851no response. interdasting
>>223621308It's because you're a fucking retard. Talking to someone doesn't require a WikiHow article. Just talk to someone.
Why must I respond? Why must I always respond? Do the math
>>223616744Well I guess you feel represented then don’t you Dalit? Or does he need to rub shit on his skin first
>>223621330
>>223621354How many beans? Square root beans?
>>223621375TOE BEANS
>>223621273I can't pretend to care about sports.
>>223621320Are you purposely being stupid? Like it's almost comical how you keep responding with "Just talk to her". Read what I wrote again. The talking isn't the hard part. How do you go from talking to having a relationship?
>>223621212I went to a massive attack concert, chatted up this girl who seemed to be alone by asking her whether she had ever seen them before and she responded that it was actually her first concert ever so we took off from thereWe kept chatting through the whole wait until the music started, I let her stand in front of me so she could have a better view which she was clearly appreciative of, and we exchanged contactsI will confess that I did not get laid, but you will at least lest concede that I got a hell of a lot further than I could by doing nothing and talking to no one
>>223621448Who's trying to have a relationship? I just want to tame her strange.
>be me >want gf>anon just go church if u want gf>go church>they see im not acting like 'myself'>act like myself>anon is retarded>they're super nice to me>they wont say im retarded because theyre nice>nice to be around nice non-judgmental people>anon is the nice retard that attends church now>no gf but>no longer forever alone because I now believe in Jesusim still not sure what happened
>>223621295I might fuck up the conversation part. Fucking a woman shouldn’t be this hard.
>>223621057>he’s a plapjak gamer
>>223621497What's this indian word you keep using? I don't speak curry.
>>223621468Cool, then tell me how to go from talking to "taming her strange"
>>223621468This is why the world is the way it isPumping and dumping women ruins them for the next guy>>223621492It’s become so hard because of feminism and apps and immigration and inflation
>>223621509It just happens. If she's lonely, she's DTF if you show an interest. Oh yeah, give a fake name and a burner number you can change. I have my main Verizon account on an ESIM, and the physical SIM is a prepaid account with easy number changing.
>>223621491In Christianity you don't need to raise yourself towards God but it's Him who reaches out to youSeems like people reached out
>>223621543>It just happensGo fuck yourself retard. Proving my initial point >>223620651to the fucking letter.
>>223621563You keep saying you need a guide, but it doesn't work like that. You're an angry autist that blames everyone else for your virginity, but it's your lack of effort to blame.
>>223621624Why would I need effort? It just happens, right?
>>223621624you have no advice probably because you’ve never done it yourself>>223621643it depends on your looks and money and status
>>223621643So you're actually retarded?>>223621661I gave advice, but he wants to know exactly how a hypothetical conversation he'll never have will go, like I can post it as an Infocom walkthrough.>>223621661>statusWhat does that even mean?
>>223621682Just stop pretending you’ve ever had sex or have any steps on how to do it
>>223621682So do I need to put effort into a conversation or does it "just happen"? Make up your mind. In the meantime I'll just talk to her and bee myself. The worst she can say is no!
>>223621749you don’t have sex by walking up to strangers anon you’re listening to a retard
>>223621737Everyone is as miserable as you. Check.>>223621749It "just happens" if you put effort into it. If you don't talk to a woman, you're not having sex. You need to take a shower, put on some cologne, dress in a way that doesn't look like you're a manchild, then go to a bar. Approach a woman. Use your big boy words. Once you get into a conversation with someone like that, it eventually flows to "your place or mine?" >but that's not "just happens"It is.>>223621770>can't separate sentences>but I'm the retard
>>223621749>The worst she can say is no!Well, what's the worse that could happen?
>>223621786you not having any proof or advice doesn’t make others miserable anon
>>223621320How the fuck do you escalate
>>223621788going to jail and losing your job also obviously
>>223621786>>223621804If you have to “escalate” or show “effort” you’ve already been rejected Guys who have sex just do itThey don’t need steps or costumes or instructions
>>223621786Most of the bars I’ve checked have either drunk men or teenage couple. None of the ugly, fat, low esteem women that I could approach.
>>223621804Women who hang out at bars in 2026 will escalate if you just show interest. Ask her about herself. She'll talk your ear off. Show interest, even if it's boring. Attention is the greatest thing a woman can get.
>>223621786>Use your big boy words.This seems like the key. How do I acquire them?
>>223621823a bar is a horrible place for an autist to go topeople like us are too deep for casual sex because it requires too much fakery and not enough standardsThis world actively punishes people like us by setting up the framework that since we are deep and honest it means we are “entitled”
>>223621786>just talk to her>it just happens>it just naturally flowsyou are beyond parody. this is not some nebulous unexplainable thing, you just have no idea
>>223621842Read books?
>>223621834If a woman uses you for attention she’s never going to fuck youThat’s the beta friend zone
>>223621834What’s stopping her from friendzoning you though
>>223621858in 2026 nothing
>>223621855If I read books I’ll get game? Is that what you’re saying?
>>223621854It's because it's not something you can diagram. You learn interaction with people by repeatedly interacting with people. The basic rule is "interact with people until you get it right.">>223621856>>223621858They don't go to bars for friends.
>>223621872If you read books you'll learn how to speak without going "HI ARE YOU! MOMMY MILKERS AHOY!" That's what I'm saying.But no, you're right. It'll give you game.
>>223621876>They don't go to bars for friends.Trust me, my dumb ass could absolutely get into a conversation with a chick at a bar and nothing sexual would come of it
>>223621891I read Blood Meridian and now women fear my presence.
>>223621914Read The Big Nowhere and start talking like Buzz Meeks.
>>223621807For me it was he crawling up and starting hyperventilating while we were dancing and then her storming our screamingThe next half a hour was spent with her friends accusing me of molesting her, lecturing me about consent and threatening to call the cops
>>223617448Volcel is a different thing that already exists. These people are idiots.
>>223622257They're saying anyone could in theory have sex if they wanted to.Which I guess is kind of true (there are prostitutes), but it's pretty clear that what most people want is to be in an actual relationship with someone they like, not just to coom in a hole.
