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>that one gaming buddy you consider your literal best friend
>he doesn't feel the same about you
has this ever happened to you?
how do you cope with the fact that you're just one of many for him, while he's the only one for you?
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idk but that sounds pretty gay
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>>720628194
just tell him how you feel
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Stop posting anime girls to illustrate your faggotry you're not an anime girl you gay retard
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>>720628194
>has this ever happened to you?
i never had any gaming buddies or friends, so i never had to deal with gay shit like that
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>>720628353
>you're not an anime
Proof?
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>meet random lads 10+ years ago for some stupid cursed game
>somehow become fast friends
>practically every day playing vidya
>consider him a brother at this point

>suddenly he decides that vidya isn't that great, got a distance himself from it
>okay, whatever, shit sucks, but respect
>literally just ghosting to play vidya with people that will emotionally jerk him off

Why does it hurt, bros
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>>720628194
that's life, nothing is retributed on the same amount, on every relationship one wins more than the other, but that's ok, be happy with what you have and never light yourself on fire so others are warm
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this thread is disturbing, do you guys seriously not have friends you made in real life? is it all online relationships now?
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>>720628652
I don't have any friends at all. I'm 25 so too old for that
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>>720629064
Zoom zoom
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Tranime
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>>720628269
Don't. Please don't. Everybody has moments of weakness eventually, just wait for him to realize how that he can rely on you to be there, don't pressure him to choose too early.
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>>720628194
I don't have any friends at all
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I don't have any friends at all. I'm 34 so too old for that
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>>720629392
Yes! Hug!
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>>720628560
I had friends in HS but that was 15 years ago.
Stuff happened after that which made me a total shutin ever since.
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>>720628194
Not really. I have a bunch of gaming buddies, some I've had for almost a decade, but we never talk about anything but games. Hard to see that kind of friendship as my 'best' one.
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>never had IRL friends
>xbox 360 friendgroup still holding strong even after moving to PC over half a decade ago
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>>720630537
shit happens, are you ok with that or do you want to meet people?
can't help you with the second part, I'm lucky to maintain some of my friends, but my oldest friend is from 15 years ago and I'm too weird to meet new friends, but it's just a numbers game, you just need to put yourself on situations where you'll meet others, preferably on environments that suit your interests
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>>720631736
>oldest
sry, meant newest
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I used to have good friends, none were gamers, tho.
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>>720628652
schizoids don't need friends
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>>720628367
Honestly same. Never had that "bros 4 lyfe" gaming squad, just played solo or with randoms. It’s like watching people talk about losing something you never had in the first place-hard to relate, but somehow it still stings.
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>>720630183
*hugs back* Love ya anon :3
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>>720628194
Just get better friends, sissy
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>>720631736
Its complicated.
I guess i do have a buddy to hang out with these days (my dad)
We get drunk and watch F1 together.
Making friends would be very hard for me and I'm not sure i would even enjoy it. (definitely not with normalfags)
My hobbies aside from F1 have gotten very specific to the point it would be difficult to find likeminded people offline.
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>>720628652
Use case for friendship?
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>>720628652
Go back
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Hanging with my friend just isn't the same after he got a girlfriend. Can't just crash over at his place with a pizza and play Factorio coop until 4AM anymore. Now I gotta schedule 1 week in advance and stay at most 4-5 hours (daytime hours only). Can't invite him out anywhere anymore because his girlfriend also has to come, and he can't invite me either because I don't have a girlfriend so we can't do group dates or whatever.
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>>720634540
Job opportunities, girlfriend opportunities, possibility to do group activities, can call someone over with a car to help you move some stuff (if you don't have a car). You also laugh more when in a group of friends and laughing is good for your health.
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Fuck off with your tranny self insert character
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>>720635236
>friend gets girlfriend
>slowly lose friend as his life becomes all about his girlfriend
When they break up, remind him of how he abandoned all of his friends for some mediocre pussy
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>>720628194
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well anon? you know other anon?
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Internet friendships are pointless
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>>720628652
I lost them all to life and self improvement shit. I was fine hanging out once a week once they got busy with new shit but I honestly got tired of their conversations sounding like work and they kept telling me how I should do this and that. Later they told me that I no longer fit with them after I said that I was fine with what I've had. Well mostly, one guy told me to fuck off way earlier after I refused to go with him to some life coach of his. Didn't really make any after that because I started chilling more with dad fixing shit together and I doubt some random ass nigga I'd befriend would beat that.
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>>720628194
In my experience "best friend" means "someone I don't have put effort into"
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>>720628194
Nah never.
I can't maintain a friendship over the internet, I need to see people IRL to care for them.
M gaming pals are the same dude I used to play N64 with 20 years ago.
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Nobody gives a shit, fuck. I wouldn't give a crap about you too if I knew that you're such a pathetic clingy faggot.
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>>720628652
I'm an adult. I have two friends that don't know each other.
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>>720639272
>self improvement shit
a friend of mine fell for that scam too, sad to see
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>>720628269
How? Just randomly reaching out to him and saying "you're my best friend!" outta the blue sounds weird
>>720628549
Maybe you feel abandoned/replaced? I'm terrified of being abandoned by my best friend so I'm very clingy
>>720628560
In my case I'm extremely lucky and happy to have him since he's basically the highlight of my day, but i wanted to be a better friend for him, not necessarily making him see me the way i see him but at least making his day a little better by spending time with him, just like he makes mine better
>>720638575
Yeah. Wouldn't mind being friends with other anons but I've never met an anon as friendly as him
>>720639619
My friend actually giving a fuck about me is the reason I'm so clingy to him
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>>720628194
I remember I don't have a vagina and stop caring about pointless horseshit.
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>>720628652
I only have one IRL friend and one online friend I've made on a WoW private server 17 years ago (we still talk to this day). Everyone else dropped gaming and/or started families.
I tried doing the discord thing but it's mostly people in their late teens and early 20s and, while I don't hate them or anything, I don't "vibe" with them at all.
I guess it's hard to find losers in their late 30s like me.
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ayumu is literally me
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I thought this was the tranime erp thread.. where are my nonnies at?
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>>720628194
Things happen for me backwardly, most people I know think I'm the best bro for lyfe just because they sent me a friend request and don't take it too well that I think of those "close" to me as just acquaintances
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>>720628194
OTHER GIRL
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>>720628652
i don't have either
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>>720628194
>while he's the only one for you
You need to work on that phrasing anon.
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>>720628194
holy ESL
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>>720634540
bloat. don't bother 'ussy
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>>720628652
no, I do have IRL friends but they don't give a shit about vidya they are "normies"
I lack online friends.
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>>720628194
Yes.
Multiple times.
I get obsessive, so now I keep distant for everyone's sake.
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>>720628194
I am the one who ghosts.
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you're in love with your friend. go tell him your feelings and hope he doesn't abandon you for being a faggot.
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How many times are you gonna repost this thread you estrogen filled idolfag? Genuinely you need to watch your mom get raped while you're tied to a pole being burned
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A guy I met during an apprenticeship once confessed to me and I rejected him and things turned awkward and gross, we had the same commute so couldn't even avoid each other. Don't confess to your male friends keep your gay fantasies to yourself.
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>>720628194
I've never had a single friend. All the people I thought were my friends cut contact with me as soon as we got separated and never bothered looking for me, and the few people I've met on the internet are so different from me that I doubt they consider me a friend either. 4chan is the full extent of any social interactions I have.
Video games.
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>>720647076
>be friends with that one guy
>want a boyfriend so i start to act faggy towards him, being intentionally clingy, sending pics of myself asking "do i look gay in this pic? an old man just called me a faggot when i was omw to work" (this actually happened)
>it works, he falls in love with me shortly after
>go on a date with him
>it sucks so i tell him i can't see him as a lover
>he starts to hate me
ur right. don't try to date your vidya buddies. i lost a friend because of it.
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>>720648354
I went to an anime con with the guy once and he acted faggy and clingy with me too, it wasn't that bad but people looked at us funny and it made me uncomfortable. Homosexuality isn't worth it.
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>>720642928
You think he does.
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>>720648985
>You think he does.
referring to?



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