What video game do you associate with your parents fighting at the background?
playing on eu servers the amount of spaniards in cod with parents fighting in background is insane
My dad was just gone one day. My siblings were psychos though. Another 4 hour long drive, back when we still had a car, hoping the war would've settled when we got back. Gameboy color and pokemon yellow were my go-to.
Destroy All Humans. I remember my mom and dad had one of their biggest fights while I was playing this game on my sister's ps2. At one point my mom burst into tears and came into the room with me and just sat on the bed watching me play and said nothing at all.
My older brother was a big wrestling fan and he was playing WWF Smackdown: Just Bring It when our mom walked in and told him she was divorcing our dad (I was a toddler at the time and have no memory of my father) so he forever associates wrestling games with that, yet he still plays them anyway even some of the recent entries to this day.
>>729793407cs source definitely. i spent my life in that game during my formative years
>>729793407>millennial humorFuck off.
why do parents do that so often? how hard is it to not be a piece of shit?
>>729793407https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SB05WS3-m3Q
>>729793407Definitely Warcraft 3. My dad was long gone by then, but my mom was mentally ill and would have screaming fits downstairs with herself, until she got bored and would have screaming fits at me. I'd just sit there trying to listen to the cool story but it was too hard to do with a bitch yelling at you so whatever.
>>729793717My parents had a really ugly divorce (dad left mom and married a woman he had met through work just months after the birth of my youngest sister), but I appreciate that they did practically all of their fighting away from me and my siblings, we never witnessed any it. They also managed to be civil about 50/50 custody.
>>729793407Parents got divorced when I was like 3 so HA
Is marriage really such a lottery, frens? What can an anon do to avoid such a fate?
>>729793407Mario party>>729794421Be hot almost all marital problems are just “girl settled and doesn’t want to have sex ever”
>>729793407I associate Custom Robo with my friend's parents fighting
>>729793407I don't remember anything from the period my parents fought eachother, other than staying vigilant 24/7, and stopping several suicide attempts of my mother. My father drank himself to death eventually and things got quiet, moved out and I ''restarted'' gaming. I'm sure this is why my hair is fully grey at 30.
>>729794421Just don't marry.
They didn't at each other but I will associate Chrono Trigger with>Turn off that damn game>I just need to get to a save point>I DON'T CARE ABOUT YOUR GODDAMN SAVE POINT
>>729793407>the joke is today's kids have never seen their dad or have parents who live in different homeslol, the worst I had was that my dad studied ice so he was gone to the arctic and various northern countries for half the time. Otherwise they got along fine.
>>729794421There are too many factors that are unique in each relationship to give advice. And in matters of feelings you probably wouldn't even be able to act on advice anyway, no matter how good it is.
>>729793407how do you guys think he's doing now?
>>729794421Here's the difficult truth that most people can't accept, because it goes against societal, cultural, and religious norms.Marriage is anti-human. Humanity, at a base level, is still driven by primal instincts. We are highly advanced monkeys. Monkeys work on a pecking order and mate with many other monkeys throughout their lives. Marriage ties two people together in perpetuity with the expectation of lifelong sexual exclusivity. This is a perversion of the natural order and obviously creates a lot of friction between our base desires and our intellectual desires. As a species we are designed to have numerous meetings and partings throughout our lives. People grow in different directions and want other things as they get older and continuously evolve.Of course, most plebians aren't ready to consider this, and usually morons throw the "cuck" word around because they speedread and don't understand that I'm not advocating for open relationships, I'm telling the truth that settling down long-term is a bad idea for most couples.And obviously I'm not saying that marriage can't work for many people.
>>729793673This is zoomer humor tho
>>729794807I've been saying this all along. Humans are just monsters pretending to be people, and it's time to stop pretending. We don't need "love", all we need is violence, hatred, cruelty and insanity.
>>729794807Apes are among the most monogamous animals though.
>>729794807holy based
>>729793407>divorce>pleasure
>>729793407>normalfags when they have to spend 5 minutes without bitching about their family problems online.>>729793717>>729794421Shitty marriages are literally mainly born when people marry because they were "forced" into it, throught they "had" to or thought marriage would fix their problems. No nigga if you have no connection or love for the other person of course the relationship will be a disaster and only enchance your problems. It's the same with how shitty parents just forget to wear a condom or even worse, think having a kid will save their failing marriage.>>729794807>>729794853This kinda shit belongs on Twitter with all the epic trad marble man statue accounts ran exclusively by indians, brazilians and mexicans.
>>729794807I don't accept that. For a start who will look after you when you get old? Also, the point of a relationship is to grow TOGETHER. You become a critical part of each other. This is why breakups and sudden deaths can be so traumatic. You're losing one of the pillars of your life. What you describe is animalistic and I don't accept that we stoop to the level of animals, I don't care what "psychologists" say.
>>729794982Fuck i always forget to delete the name after shitposting in another thread
>>729795049kek its all good man, u gave me a laugh after a rough day
>>729793407Wind WakerDad said I wasn't allowed to have the game, mom bought it for me anyway. Dad saw me playing it and the fight ensued.It was the day I realized that none of it was my fault and ceased giving a fuck. I just put my headphones on and went sailing with Link.
>>729794421after marriage many people just flat out stop putting the kind of effort into their relationship that they used to. on top of that like 90% of marriage issues just come down to clack of communication and subsequent build up of resentment
>>729793407>unc humorthey cant stop talking about how "traumatic" their childhoods were lmao fuck off go self medicate some more lilbitch weak generation
>>729794421>Is marriage really such a lottery, frens?Yes, but there is a catch. Marriage problems almost universally come down to lack of communication and lack of will to cooperate. You have to be able to sit down and talk like adults on any subject and if you don't, or you refuse because of whatever reason, this is where things start falling apart.That's why anticonception, responsible dating and living together as a trial is important and cannot be neglected. It is your job as someone who is dating is to screen everything in your partner that you know you would not be able to deal with in long term, and you must also be sure you two are on the same page when it comes to vital views like having children or religion. You MUST get over the butterflies in your stomach, her sex appeal, the 5D romance chess to be able to do the necessary cold calculations before you sign a binding contract. You still won't have a 100% success chance, but that success chance still rises dramatically.Most people don't do this. They just listen to their inner ape, hoping to trap the most sexually attractive partner possible, then deal with the fallout.
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>>729794807I disagree, our primitive instincts can be fulfilled by tons of extremely different things, we are extremely mutable in what we can do to fulfill a desire. Best example is the extremely unnatural behavior of sitting all day at home and staring at a screen. A lot of desires are fulfilled with this extremely unnatural activity. The same way a monogamous relationship can do tons of things to fulfill all desires.
>>729793573Who was the biggest instigator?My mom was a total psycho and I took dad's side for a long time until as time went on I kind realized he was pretty nuts too.
>>729793717Because the average human is a fucking retard.
>>729794421Move in with your partner BEFORE getting married, you have NO idea the amount of bullets that can be avoided by doing this, also, keep on having romantic dates and the girl will be more likely to have sex.
>>729794807>I've never known any discipline, so I believe all humans are like this and the only people who disagree are in denial Just admit you're a sexual deviant already.
Look at it this way guys. Hopefully you learned to not be like your parents. Personally I eject anybody from my life at the slightest hint that they like to argue.
>>729793407My parents were more grumpy and snarky rather than wild and savage. I remember my mom playing solitaiare on her laptop almost daily before the divorce.
>>729794807i refuse to think anyone could think this is a good solution. why dont we just stop getting into toxic relationships
My parents didn't fight much desuMom was a total wreck after my dad died though and burned every possible bridge with the rest of the family
Friendly reminder that it's your fault they fought. You were a worthless piece of shit and continue to be one. They literally fought for nothing.
>>729795362>Personally I eject anybody from my life at the slightest hint that they like to argue.Fuck this is me too. Not one relationship in my family lasted. The ones that didn't end in divorce, it was them cheating on eachother and all around being miserable together. I would rather jump out of a window than live like that. But I feel I set myself up for perpetual loneliness, and relationships don't do anything for me other than the basic lust for sex.
>>729794853>We don't need "love", all we need is violence, hatred, cruelty and insanity.
>>729795456t. psychopathic nigger parent that abandoned his child and blames his awful life on them to this day, being perpetually unable to mature and accept responsibility of any kind
>>729794421Just work on yourself, Make yourself a better person everyday.
>>729795123Marriage seems stupid. Return to monke. Benis in begina
>>729793717you can be pretty much assured that in 99% of cases it's the foid starting it
Most of these posts reads like their parent's "infighting" are more akin to siblings cry at each other over desserts. I've seen my parents argue over stupid shit when I was 5, they make this shit as if it was a big deal when in reality it's was some kind of retarded shit. At worst, they cheated on each other over their nothingburger until they realized that it wasn't worth the war since I'M HERE. They're all like children and their threads are all lipservice. Thankfully they do mature over time. Most of the time.>>729794807This was such a genuine soiteen response it's unreal.
>>729795987The Jewdicial system has made divorce rape a valid career choice for women.
>>729796052typical umineko fan, way to oversimplify a complex social problem
>>729794807This is where I've been at since my late teens. It's served me well so far.
>>729793407>have some kind of windows 95 movie maker game on my dads thinkpad>really basic sets and 3d models>but you can record voice and watch those characters do basic animations, so kino to 5 year old me>suddenly mom loses her shit>start recording it because its funny>record entire meltdown>after meltdown ends, make animation with a guy just walking from left to right>sound of my mom's screaming plays >dad comes over with a little skip>"oh haha nonono" and closes the programThey got divorced 8 years later.
>>729796142retard
>>729794807Bullshit. You have many animals that mate for live, some of which, like parrots, outlife us.This is just a cope about how terrible your life is and instead of trying to fix that shit, you blame "systems" where you are so above with your lonely ass live.I'm married, have been for a decade. I still feel warmth and a feeling of belonging when we hug. Thats a chemical reaction, I know, but that also proofs we were made to stick together.But we also life like 3x the length we used to, sooo maybe I reconsider in a decade or 2, but thats still 3 decades of not being a miserable cunt
>>729793407>nataleighamericans shouldn't be allowed to name their children
>>729794807Immaculate bait.
>>729793407 lmao my parents at least pretend to get along and are still married
For me it was WoWAnd they were constantly screaming with my sister not about divorce.And I attribute that to getting even more addicted than I normally would, trying to “escape” into the game, which further fucked up my childhood.
I don't think I've ever seen my parente have a real argumentThey just tease each other in a sibling-like manner and laughJust not be black/brown I guess? Or don't have a stepfather.
Most fights happen because guys insist on explaining their reasoning to their wives.
>>729796551Bad news anon, your parents are fucking constantly.
>>729796574yeah because what they are saying makes no sense and when i try to explain they get even more annoyedwhat fucking sense does that makesuch illogical thinking, just hear me out and stop escalating
Not me but I associate Beast Wars with hearing my friend's parents fight. We watched the show and he had the game so we talked on the phone and he didn't hang it up properly one time so I heard like a good 45 minutes to an hour of his mom having a total meltdown.
>>729796634This is the average behavior in any 4chan argument so clearly not exclusive to women since there are only trannies and men here.
>>729796610Did you just call his dad a motherfucker?
For me, it was DMC4. They had a massive argument during the install screen.>729794421Most people who married in previous gens did so because it was seen as the “proper” thing to do rather than because it was good for them, so they just married the first person they hooked up with. This is what happened with my parents.People are less likely to do it for this reason now, but the problems marriages and long term relationships face nowadays seems to be that people rush into a relationship because they’re scared of being alone. So basically, it’s the same problem except the motive behind it has changed from social approval to loneliness.
>>729794807i dont know who is worse, you or the pathetic replies copingwe need to be more stoic it fixes 90% of society problems
>>729796634>just hear me out and stop escalatingMost common fight is the infinite "you're talking over me talking about you talking over me" loop that completely diverges from any task at hand. You gotta keep your cool. She doesn't need to know why you made a decision, just what the decision is.
>>729794807maybe you are an “advanced monkey” but I’m a sentient human. I choose my partner to raise a family and continue my bloodline and tradition. There is no need to swap around multiple mates if you grow with your wife towards common goals instead of in different directions.The fact that you then call others plebian when you admit to being a fucking monkey is hilarious.The problem is actually that marriages are not aligned in goals and peasant monkeys like you just have sex on instinct and dont give it a second thought.
>>729796513Every single WoW player I've ever met has a fucked up home life. A lot of them seem to choose living with parents well into middle age and being dangerously obese.
>>729796707Why no capitalization and usage of periods? Don't they teach that in indian workshops?
On pirated sims 3 and would RP me being normal and successful starting a family while my real one broke down / I became a failed shutin
>>729793717because society is a giant larp and humans werent designed to be monogamous. it never works
>>729796637fuckin love beast wars, the toys of that era were so great because they had the universal ball and socket joints which meant you could make awesome abominations by dissasembling your dudes and reassembling them
>>729793717for women? extremely hard
NSMB DS
>>729793407Donkey Kong Country and Super Mario World.
>>729796762Why not sims 2? It's better.
>>729796390>This is just a cope about how terrible your life is and instead of trying to fix that shit, you blame "systems" where you are so above with your lonely ass live.Welcome to /v/ where most anons are either shitposters, contrarians or losers. It's not even surprising that what they say here are also a farce. Since that thread was also a shitpost to begin with.
>>729796728i always keep my cool, but it ltierally cant be any more controleld one me part, its like i try to explain myself and im fine and then she gets super annoyed but like why the fuck are you bringing it up?if you dont want to hear the answer dont ask the question. simple as
>>729793717>Getting a girlfriend/boyfriend>Getting married>Getting a job>Making friendsPeople feel the need to lie about who they actually are to deceive people so that they may like them more. Basically lying that they are a better person than they actually are.The thing about marriage is that there is no lying once you're both living together 24/7 unless you try to keep the character act going permanently and go insane.Alot of people don't actually KNOW the person they are marrying and it ends up falling apart.
>>729796817>shitposters, contrarians or losersyou can be all three>>729796831You gotta fuck your wife morealso her nagging is the equivalent of you tinkering with shit idly to fix itjust let it bubble out of her and don't try to resolve shit unless what she brings to you is importantshe's functionally reporting her day to her boss (you)
>>729794807Dumb fuk, why do you think we developed monogamy in the first place? its because primally you are making your claim to each other. darwincucks gtfo, stop pretending to be scientists and readers when you KNOW SHIT
>>729796740makes sense, the combination of a fucked up family + escapism for years leads to missing a lot of growth milestones in life. Which then takes monumental effort to try and fix.I look at wow like an addiction where you only realize how fucked you are 4-5 years later when you’ve sacrificed a lot of real life things to get purple items in a guild of people who don’t really like each other that much.
>>729793717Yeah how hard is it to live with 3-6 people in the same space for decades and never fight?
Good morning!
>>729796883I mean i dont know, it doesnt feel like reporting her day, she is asking questions and sometimes if i answer she well get upset, but why though? I didnt bring it up to her, im only bringing it up because she asks. How can i let it bubble out? Ignore it?
>>729796912>growth milestones in lifeLike? Tons of adults with children even in their 40s or 50s are still just adult children.
>>729793407there is not a single action I do not associate with my parents screaming at each other.probably why I developed a habit of wearing headphones even when I could use boxes. it let me drown out the aggressive bitching.
>>729794421Marry girls who are as young as possible.This is illegal in most countries though.
>>729793717I think that generation just believed marrying means you get a slave. so both sides were pissed when they had to do even the tiniest shit, because they thought that would end the moment they exchange the rings.
>>729794807how do people who think like this, cope with the normal marriages in their lives, between aunts/uncles, grandparents, neighbors, friends, strangers. what about old couples? theyve been together for a long time.
>>729794421It's not that marriage is a lottery so much as modern culture is very self-centered and government policies prefer exploitable single people.
>>729796912For me it was 6 years but I was shitty at the actual game, instead I spent most of my time in social areas chatting to people
>>729796142it's not a complex problem. it's just roasties being roasties.
>>729794421>What can an anon do to avoid such a fate?Don't marry. In modern society, the one single card you have that you can actually play against a woman is to simply leave and let her see how she enjoys a live where she has to do everything by herself, without being able to ask for for 20 favors every single day.That's harder to do when you're married.
I WILL NEVER MARRY BECAUSE PEOPLE ANNOY ME
>>729796875I feel as though you need to see the unflattering side of a person before truly concluding that you love them. If you genuinely love someone, seeing their unflattering side isn’t going to put you off them. It’s easy to put on an act when dating, but it’s impossible to do so when you’re living together. Relationships that are built entirely off the honeymoon phase don’t survive this change.
>>729794421The moment i knew id never marry was hearing about japans insane colloquial marriage results, where the man hands over his salary to the wife immediately and she manages ALL the financesabsolute insanity
>>729794807People marry so casually. It's such an insanely massive decision, "I am going to commit myself to this person for the rest of my life," but they're told to do it by Zales and Hollywood, so they do it.And then they learn enough about their partner that they realize they never would have married them in the first place if they hadn't rushed into it.Buy the diamond.Diamonds are forever.Trust me bro.
>>729797235The problem is only like 20% of men are hot enough for women to accept ANYTHING unflattering (ick). So the 80% fake it. This would be fine except women are allowed to get knocked up and then steal money from men through the tax payer system.
>>729796998I can only think by "growth milestones" he actually means "Social Expecations/Milestones"That bullshit where everyone (like you as well) consider people "Adult children" or losers if they haven't had>First kiss by 18>Moved out by 18>Sex by 20>Girlfrend/Boyfriend by 20>Kid by 30>House/car whatever by 35It's an extremely old and outdated expectation cliche everyone has been programmed to think.These days it's actually more financially sound to stay with parents until you can afford to move out.But people still consider you a loser because of that internal programming, even if they understand the financial/housing problems going on.Even people that make a reasonable decision never to get married or have kids, have this constant pressure and sometimes an internal voice telling them they are losers because of this programming society does to people.Not having sex by [x] age doesn't make you an "adult child", especially when trauma is involved.
>>729793407One of my dad's biggest accomplishments, someone who hadn't touched a videogame since the Atari era, was picking Wii Sports Tennis for the very first time and defeat my brother, who had maxed the game's difficulty, in his very first try.
pinball on a famiclone
>>729797078Marriage was always a lottery and prone to creating unhappy relationships that people rush into blindly. All modernity did was make it more socially acceptable to talk about the problems and also make it easier to walk away from those relationships through divorce. In the past, those problems were swept under the rug and you were just told to deal with it, which is where the boomer “I hate my wife” sentiment came from.
>>729797342>societysex and relationships predate society by billions of years you retard>outdated expectationbeing deprived of any of these youth milestones will permanently cripple you
>>729794807Woah Easy Joe Rogan.
>>729796998for example all kinds of socialization are easy to avoid when you have a pseudo-socialization game at home. Instead of actually going out and making friends or talking to girls you can just log onto your account and get a pseudo-friendship instead.Things like joining a club at school and forming meaningful relationships because you are bored, well you are never bored if you have this dopamine drip at home ready to go every time you get back from school.I missed out on entire summers of my youth grinding dumb shit in WoWAlso the family screaming part seems mostly like it warped my subconscious opinion of families and intimacy more than missing a milestone, but that also caused me to bail on relationships as my mom + sister (and first gf) were batshit insane and made everyone’s life miserable. The combination of those two, is hard to dig your way out of if its even possible.I expect a lot of younger people will have the same experience with e-celebs.
None of you understand the difficulties of being raised by a single mother with psychosis unless you've lived itTotally destroys any possibility of ever having a relationship
>>729797342The redpill is that seeing people as losers or not has mostly to do with how much they like you and not your social status. It's so easy to find reasons to see anyone like a loser and to excuse anything if you like someone.
>>729797342I really think Hollywood and western media did enormous cultural damage with these kind of age milestones. The entire incel epidemic comes from the insecurity of being “behind” on these milestones. People want their lives to be a romcom, when in reality, things are rarely so easy and clean-cut.
>>729797578It doesn't. You're just using it as an excuse.You can change the narrative at any time.
>>729794807Heathens like you will not see Heaven
>>729797548These activities didn't cause you to miss out, you missed out because you are inherently unsocial and broken. That's why it's hard to fix things. If you had the actual desire and social constitution then it would be easy to fix. But you don't. That's why there is nothing to fix for you, you're wired differently to begin with.
sagethis thread is why everyone hates soillennials and the oldest zoomers
>>729797638Easy for you to say. You haven't lived my life. You don't know how I've been whittled down and broken. I feel like I'm shattered into a dozen pieces
>>729797531>deprived of any of these youth milestones will permanently cripple youI think you can still be “normal” being deprived of some of these as long as you’ve had normal experiences in other ways. It’s once these deprivations begin to stack that it becomes increasingly harder to crawl back from. People who had a rough or slow youth in general tend to be mentally wired differently from people who had a good youth.
>>729794807You can’t have a polygamous society without rape and pedophilia also being normalized.
>>729795065the issue here being men especially have to put on such a ridiculous song and dance to keep a woman interested enough she'll accept a ring. every guy runs out of steam eventually, and the minute after is when she turns into a screeching harpy who eventually serves you divorce papers. and you can't just "Bee Itself" because women find the vast majority of men to be repulsive.
>>729797620I strongly disagree, I think incel “attitude” has been born out of men who believe in Love capital L discovering they’ll never get to fuck the women they’re most attractive to (16-25 year olds) without paying for it, and if anything there’s an attempt in media to try and reprogram guys desired age range
>>729796991give an example because either you're full of shit or she's full of shit
>>729797796I have. It took me years to climb out of the pit, but I was there.Raised by a single mother, never even met my father. Shamed for everything. Shamed for liking women. Shamed for speaking up. Constantly criticized, ridiculed. Expected to carry her from my early teens so she could quit her job and stay at home on the couch all day.It does a number on you. I know.It doesn't have to define you. It doesn't have to shape the rest of your life.Unless she permanently disfigured you, nothing she did is permanent.It's time to let yourself heal. Time to grow into the man you were meant to become.Let go of the shame and be free.
>>729796674a significant percentage of anons are effeminate wussies. that's why they're here rather than out in the real world.
>>729793407Lego RacersSpecifically the Castle level.
Tranime is the number 1 reason men are cucked and broken.
>>729797735I feel this is a brutal truth in a lot of ways. I’m able to talk to people and communicate with them easily and I’m quite handsome according to some people, but I still have barely any friends and am a virgin because I’m an autist who feels that going out to meet people is a hassle and whenever I am out, I don’t want to be out for too long. It’s a strange and almost cursed feeling to know that I’d likely be a normie if it wasn’t for my brain just being wired differently.
>>729793407Not fighting, but I was playing Fight Night Champion when my parents got news that my older brother got killed in a car accident. I remember them both sobbing and them telling me to go back to my room for a little bit. So I went back and played some more.
Mega Man 10. My mom was a pillhead, hydrocodone. Lortabs. She couldn't hold a job but she always needed money so she started taking what she could from me when I was really young. When I caught on I started hiding my money. I'd go to the local pawn shop a couple of times a week just to see if she'd taken anything of mine and sold it. I had to buy back my own videogames a few times. I never believed any of her bullshit stories but I would still occasionally just give her money because I wanted to be left alone and she wouldn't stop screaming. If I spent a day without hearing my mom's voice it was a good day. Anyway, I finally got sick of it. One day on summer vacation she was going through bad, bad withdrawals. I didn't make any excuses or lies for why I didn't have any money, I just told her straightforwardly that I wasn't giving it to her and then shut my bedroom door in her face. I was on the final stage of MM10 and I wanted to beat it and have fun but she wouldn't quit beating on my door and screaming her lungs out and threatening to shoot me or my dad or herself. I beat the game. Watched the credits roll with the volume on max but I could still hear my mom dry-heaving into the toilet down the hall.I love this game but I can't hear this song without hearing dry puking noises in my head so it's like she ruined a part of this game for me forever.Good game though.https://youtu.be/Nzr6VhFfaTA?si=eI3c1EOc2Wvu4kZP
>>729797620>always blame the men"the beatings will continue until morale improves"
>>729797928What you’ve described is a milestone thing. The fact you frame it as a window of time proves it. The entire belief system centres around windows of time and the belief that “missing” these windows means you’re doomed.
>>729796897monogamy was developed so every man would get a women and thus want to contribute to society, but society is finished and all of our values are too. There's no consequences for being a whore or divorcing nowadays. Most men are unable to get a women so they opt out. The social contract is broken
>>729794421Go to the gym with your wife. Unhappy couples are always the ones that stop trying and just get huge and fat. Or worse, one of them gets huge while the other doesn't.
>>729798269There is nothing wrong with getting fat and comfy and I'm tired of pretending otherwise.
>>729798269Physical fitness has nothing to do with it considering you have couples that get fat and are fine. The real problem is communication.
>>729798269The one couple I know that does this are passive aggressive bitches that make everyone uncomfortable with their invisible war. Gym can't fix bad eating habits anyway
>>729798316True. In fact, it’s the fate of a lot of happy couples. For a lot of long term stable couples I’ve seen, both of them are at least chubby because they’re comfy with eachother. It’s the usually the stick thin couples that are unstable because they’re so vain and obsessed with appearances.
>>729798172There is a window of time, our entire lives are on a time limit. My dream of having a girlfriend to fuck after school is never gonna happen because I’m not in school, and fucking young girls is harder the older you get
>>729794807I am a monkey and my instincts are telling me to cave in your skull with a rock. Society not letting me do this is anti human
>>729797928I am 35 year old kissless virgin and do have my life in order in other ways, but I really, REALLY regret not trying harder to get a girlfriend when I was in high school and college. Trying to enter dating for first time now that I am 35 and still need to figure out basics starting from holding hands feels literally impossible. It feels like I really need lottery tier luck to find any woman who would put up with being the first girlfriend ever for a man like me whose idea of relationship and sex still are limited to pretty much exactly same hunches and fantasies I had in my teens.
>>729798526A lot of younger girls have a thing for older men. It’s a near universal phenomenon, no matter how much liberals try to shame it.
>>729798008>>729798108The most honest posts out of the sea of dogshit that is this thread.
>>729798526Young girls are the ones easily impressed by an older man with world experience and spending money. Broke college boys can't compete
>>729794982>Shitty marriages are literally mainly born when people marry because they were "forced" into it, throught they "had" to or thought marriage would fix their problems. No nigga if you have no connection or love for the other person of course the relationship will be a disaster and only enchance your problems.It's got to be more than that. People don't live in a community anymore where they know their neighborhood and kept each other in check. Most people are not going to have marriages where they're infatuated with each other till death.
>woman hates her parentsYou just know she accidentally says "Daddy" to her BF
Reminder that nearly all divorces are caused by marrying non-virgins.
>>729798680You can sincerely love a person without being obsessed with them. A healthy relationship reaches a point where eventually you see them as family, like a loving parent or sibling. The shitty relationships are the ones that breed resentment after the honeymoon phase dies or when the infatuation is so strong it leads to toxic co-dependency.
>>729793407>What video game do you associate with your parents fighting at the background?starcraft, mostlyi was so happy when i got a hack that let me control winamp from in-game, because drowning out the arguing with music was hard with a game that hated alt+tab
>>729798825
I guess I'm lucky, my parents didn't fight around me and is still married
>>729796924my parents were together 12 years when they divorced and threw my sister and I into split custody nonsense.my wife and I have been together for 17 years. our biggest fight was a decade ago when she brought a dog home without my permission and so I went and spent the evening out doing whatever the fuck I wanted without her permission (intended on spending $100 at the casino but i won $200 within 10 mins, so I left and got ice cream and visited my sister)ignored her calls and voicemails and the dog was gone when i got home
>>729797342>moved out as a teen>house sometime in your 30'sthis has always been a jewish trick to get people paying landlords for half their career
>>729794807Civilization in general subjugates our primal urges for the benefit of the majority. We've been successful at it for millennia now, increasingly so thanks to Christianity.Marriage is the bedrock for any functioning society and monogamous marriages that couples CHOOSE to enter in is the supreme version that powers the most equitable and peaceful civilizations. What marriage does is give each participant a chance to start a family which, by the act of having children, gives them a vested interest in the future of their community and society at large. It makes people care about the future beyond their own personal interests.The way people managed their base desires was through regulation of behaviors. The most powerful way to do that? Religion. Marriage works, but it works only in tandem with a community that is involved with regulating people's behavior and not letting them do whatever they want whenever they want however they want.
>>729797638no, not at all. these women are adept at making sure that nobody ever believes your narrative.my dad remarried one of these single mother harpies and it fucking ruined my teen years. I didn't regain control until I was an adult with my own kids and I saw how she talked to them, or worse, how she talked about them to other people. Had to essentially disown my father to get that control back.
>completely missing out on formative upbringing isn't permanent
>>729798660Young attractive women get all of the money and attention they could ever want just by being Twitch streamers and Onlyfans models now.
>>729793717>humans who live together for extended periods fight sometimes>asocial retards who've never lived with another person are surprised to find this out
>>729793407CS 1.6 for sure
For me it was playing with my Chao Garden in Sonic Adventure 2 while my mom got domestically abused
>>729798825>>729798983It's almost like the past can predict the future and "life experience" is the biggest cope.
>>729793717Women are insane, anon. Some of them are just more subtle about it.
>>729795556Why do you keep pretending to be a person?
>>729794807lmao, yeh cuz it worked so well in antiquityall this leads to is jealousy
>>729795123>That's why anticonception, responsible dating and living together as a trial is important and cannot be neglected.Anon, this all sounds logical but the problem is each guy a woman sleeps with alters her DNA through male michrochimerism. A girl's ability to pair bond weakens with each new guy she sleeps with. Most importantly, contraception removes the biggest motivator for women to be choosy on who they sleep with in the first place.There is no compromise here, you want a stable marriage, you have to fully commit to who you sleep with. This whole "I need a practice wife"/"I have to test the car out on the road" bullshit is exactly why marriage is in the shitter right now.
>>729796210The animation sounds fucking hilarious
>>729799947And the thing is we used to have laws in place to guide and protect people every step of the way; getting them to marriage, and even protecting marriages from homewreckers.https://psyche.co/ideas/how-the-law-soothed-broken-hearts-in-19th-century-americahttps://www.aaml.org/wp-content/uploads/Belleau.pdfhttps://www.smithsonianmag.com/history/how-heart-balm-racket-convinced-america-women-were-no-good-180968144/
>>729798991>she brought a dogLet me guess, pitbulls.
>>729798269JUST GO TO THE GYM BRAHLmaoo i know you get zero bitches
>>729799335Lesbian parents? Since usually lesbian couples are more often than not are killing each other.
Relationships most often not work out because a lot of men are closeted gay their entire lives.
>>729794807Here's a (you). You're simply a degenerate. I guess I'm more evolved than you since I don't want a cucked lifestyle and have no interest in being a/with a whore. I don't fear being with one person for eternity the way you monkeys do.
>>729800945if you were one of the first posts in this thread this woulda been 10/10 bait
>>729801190Are you denying tons of men are closeted gay?
>>729798991Kek>Get mad and decide to make WILD and CRAZY decisions>Win $200 and buy an ice creamYou son of a bitch, she doesn't know how lucky she is
>>729793717It's mostly just boomers that do this
>>729793717Parents that don't really love each other, but got married because mom got pregnant with (You)
>>729801181you didnt understand what he was trying to say retard
>>729793407Pokemon Mystery Dungeon: Red Rescue Team
>>729793407Not my problem
>>729801939Marriage (and to extension, monogamy) is bad because humans are meant for war and destruction. Don't you hear how dumb it sounds?
Spyro 3. My mom was going out with a new guy that summer and one afternoon I was playing one of the skateboarding minigames when my mom suddenly shouted for me to come into her room immediately. Paused it and walked over, and as I passed the front door I saw some blonde chick walking up towards the house. Went into my mom's room and she closed and locked the door, I think she covered my ears too because I don't remember hearing anything other than "WHY IS THIS LOCKED" from the other woman outside.Apparently he was cheating with some other bimbo and yeah, by the end of the summer we were out of there and living at my grandma's house for the next school year.
>>729793407my parents were divorced before i could form memories
>>729793407They will never know this because white millennials aren't getting married and niggers don't stick around for their kids.
>>729793407I got along really well with my sisters growing up. My parents hated each other but it’s cause my dad was. POS early on and cheated on her. His side bitch called our house and I picked up the phone and i wasn’t sure who it was they asked to talk to my dad but he wasn’t home so i gave it to my mom lol. My dad regretted it but my mom never forgave him so he wasn’t getting laid for awhile. Then he said fuck it and just unofficially left the household. He paid for all our bills still which I guess I’m thankful for. Later in life they got a full divorce after my sisters moved out, and I had a good job banking cash after college. I can’t hate my dad although i have zero good memories with him, not that he was mean to me all the time, we just spent 0 time together. He gifted me 60 grand for a house down payment a couple years ago so I really don’t hate him at all, it just showed me marriage is an enormous waste of your time and resources, and it destroys you mentally. If you got a strong relationship with a girl you been seeing for 10+ years before the marriage you probably can make it work all the way to the end, but my mom was really fucking nasty to my dad by the end of it all.
Why are so many niggas so broken?
>>729802271because god isn't real, humans are made to suffer
>>729802375You gonna be in a for treat when that niggah god poofs you into a poojeet with deformed limbs on your next play through
>>729802271they are either fabricated or they're from third world countries.