>Play VR Chat for the first time>Actually have an existential crisis cause i relate to nobody anymoreIs this normal or are online spaces just detrimental to your health?
total normie alienation
join a jogging club, fatty
I got called a faggot for using the default alien skin while walking around. That's all I remember about VR chat. I didn't really bother talking with anyone. Later sold my headset on ebay. Thanks for reading.
you're probably interacting with people younger than yourself. get friends closer to your age.
>>731373116get adult hobbies like golf, cycling or tennis
>>731373494No this was specifically going to servers that are less popular even other languages cause i kind of hate those US "club" servers.
>>731373116I am sure you relate to someone, but perhaps not someone you would want to interact with in VR chat.Also VR chat is gay as fuck probably need to curb your expectations for it frankly.
were you in the smiling friends lobby on vg earlier
>>731373116lol owned
>>731373116Welcome to getting olderIt only gets worse the older you get, especially if you don't like more normal activities/hobbies
Join Quest-compatible lobbies so you get to hang out with normal people instead of ERPers and cliquey faggots
>>731373116man you're so old go back to your family dude
>make an friend on the internet>it's the first one since 2017>we actually get along really well>turns out they're a tranny>again>block themnow its a pattern i try and avoid thinking about why the only people I can relate to are trannies
>>731374963>let's reject a potentially beneficial human interaction because the other person acts in a way I do not likecongratulations, your IQ is below 70
>>731373116Do you work at all? Like do you interact with the public? If not you're experiencing what they call "touching grass", you're interfacing with actual reality and the outside and it's breaking /your/ reality. You're probably just old or a shut-in. Just find a group of individuals that share an interest such as anime or gaming and then narrow it down from there.
>>731373116VRChat doesn't have normal people playing. It's like 85% faggots/trannies with anime girl avatars and voice changers moaning at each other to cum in orgy/private rooms and 15% streamers and their retarded fanbases doing weird roleplay shit and clip farming.
>>731374963>he still thinks there are women on the internetIt's always a guy. When are you going to realise this?
>>731374963they didn't become a tranny because they liked the things you like
>>731374963Name one thing wrong with being trans
>>731374963>let's reject a potentially disastrous human interaction with a severely mentally ill person because they are severely mentally illcongratulations, your IQ is above 70
>>731374963Only time I'd do that is if they're too in your face about it and start trauma dumping/spewing political jargon, but you gotta do what you gotta do
>>731375081>let's reject a potentially beneficial human interaction because the other person acts in a way I do not like"yes". Moron.
>>731375081>calling him retarded when he dodged one of the biggest bullets an individual can catchI think you're the sub-70 one here, friend. Trans people are not beneficial to anything besides reaffirming each other or acting as pet projects for real women, and that's wasted energy.
>>731375109It does have pockets of normal people but theyre like koreans sitting quietly in a corner of the map or some UK guys talking shit to each other. You basically have to look for servers and not just open Mcdonalds or Black Cat and think youre gonna get a worthwhile conversation. Not saying its absolutely going to happen but the most popular servers are the worst. Also if youre american and go into a french server they will tell you to get the fuck out which is funny.
I met my best buddy online. He doesn’t care that I’m trans. He’s always trying to convert me to Christianity tho lol.
>>731374963>>we actually get along really wellbe careful of vrc homos where you think you get along well withthey live in a bubble where they're constantly looking for new "friends" to one-up the 100 or so people in their friend lists alreadythe millisecond they get bored of you they'll ditch you instantlythem being a tranny is a symptom of their general behaviour and even if you had a lot in common it's usually a red flag (being troons)so yeah it's hard to find someone genuine that will like you and usually it's the one you have little in common
>>731375219In a world where they want to be free from gender stereotypes they become a stereotype to become a gender. In other words they're a living contradiction.
>go to crackhouse>"i dont like it here">"wtf the world sucks"retard
>>731375606Nobody is talking about Roblox
>>731375606>go to crackhouse>"I don't like it here" *purgesA shift in mentality is needed.
>>731375219they stinkthey sound like kermit the frog suppressing a coughthey are annoying and trying really hard to ape the most annoying gender they will never physically be what they want to be and expecting me to pretend otherwise is funny as fuck and not going to make it truethe one thing they can do like a real woman is ruin online spaces, that's itthey have giant fucking bigfoot hands and feet and it looks fucking stupidI could keep going but I am trying to eat
>>731375219Genital mutilation. A big reason we hate abrahamics here as well
>>731375510>In a world where they want to be free from gender stereotypesI don't think this is inherent to being trans. Many of them would love to be of the opposing stereotype.Sure, there are a lot of people who should be rallying behind true gender neutrality that are instead rallying behind trans identities, but that's another issue.
>>731373116not relating to anyone on vr chat is normal and good
>>731375748I take it you are against most Americans too then?
>>731373484I didn't want to use the default skin so I went up to the mirror in the lobby and it gave me a list of anime girls to choose from so I just turned it off and went back to single player games
>First time on VR chat>Load up the default lounge map>Hang out with some randoms, enjoy seeing the giant stupid avatars>Actually kind of fun desu>Explore the map and find myself in the bathroom>Hear people talking and poke my head through the stalls >Guy tells me to get out, he's on a date with his gf>I don't move>Guy starts freaking out and calling me a creep>MFW
>>731373116it's normal not to relate to the freaks playing vrchat
>>731375151There are absolutely women on the internet even playing games that arent diet second life they just already have a relationship or are so mentally unstable that theyd make you feel worse.
>>731376087>freaks playing vrchat
>>731376410this is a man
>>731373116Online people are a different flavor of weird. But you sound normal af, so kys
>>731375357McDonalds has some genuinely godly pulls though. A few months ago there was a disembodied Mario head and some anime girl mocking a fat fur that sounded like Andy Milonakis and making him have a legitimate spergout over his choice of avatar.
>>731373116I wouldn't use the freaks and children that are regularly on vrchat as any metric of normalcy
>>731375748So you're ok with most of them?
>Someone you have added is in an age verified only server >Cant message your own friends in-game still in this 7 year old gameIm not giving my drivers license to a game just so i can join a server.
>>731373116No one is really normal in communities like those. Second Life people were weird as hell back then, and now Neo-Second Life people are Neo-Weird
>>731376772It's almost like shame is a good thing and there is a reason people kept their skeletons IN their closets and ostracized those that did not.
>>731374963You think that's bad? I had like 5 normal friends that all trooned out a year after I meet them.
>>731376948it's a meme but that joke about estrogen hitting the online community like crack hitting black communities in the 80s/90s ain't no jokelost a lot of friends to E
>>731374963be lucky you're not a furfag, it's even worse in that community, trannies are the least of my concerns in the groups i frequentI know someone who's "plural", no pronouns(third person/no pronouns, gets mad at they/them), and if you ever ask them a question they find a random reason to treat it as a microaggression
>>731373116I've been feeling like that here for about the last year and a half. /v/ feels unrecognizable now.
>>731376447i dont see a bulge
>>731376857There is something to be said that online communities are a form of keeping your weird shit in the closet, a shared one of sorts. But that only really works if you keept it on the down low when you're in unrelated spaces.
>>731373116Quit being a faggot
>>731377114Do furries, gay guys, etc have a common threat dealing with this on a daily basis? Does any part of LGBTQ actually speak up?
>>731375219UglyForced acceptance under societal normsThey stinkThey put 0 effort into anything Makes everything about themselves Forces representation under threat of self harm or social death Insulting to real women UglyAnd worse one of allThey keep taking away femboys and tom girls and forcing them to be trannys
>>731373116both
>>731377114I am so glad I stopped having online friends and moved to having my friends in real life or through work. The last person I added to any sort of online friends list was a dude I met on vrchat in like 2019 because we were exploring maze games and shit and whenever I'm on or he's on we've usually got some cool not boring shit to explore. At least the stories from my Second Life/4chan years are worth a few laughs when we're sharing. >>731377497It's kind of like straight people dude, there's cliques and groups; gays that are normal and you totally could not tell unless you asked VS fairy fruit cake gays that talk like thissss:) and hang on to every wooord, furries that are just totally out and accepting of everything, then you've got Nazifurs on the other end of the spectrum. Since this is 4chan you're probably going to find more gays dudes that are against trans or self-hating trans dudes. I personally think they're yucky but I'm also in the camp of "you would never know". I've worked at the same place for two decades and they only found out I have a husband that I've been with now for over ten years like two years ago?
>>731374963>Find out that I share a lot in common with people I hate, and most of my interactions with them are actually nice>Block them lmaoI don't get the logic here, I truly don't. The only explanation I could think of is that you have somehow made being a /pol/fag part of your personality, and living in a reality where trannies are nice is an attack to your very own identity.>I try and avoid thinking about why the only people I can relate to are tranniesYou are autistic, they are autistic, it's not rocket science.
>>731377773I feel like gay people were the last ones asked whether or not they accept this being forced onto them but they took it because being gay was harder even just 10-15 years ago. So any kind of support is a net gain i suppose.
>>731376110G.I.R.Lguy in real lifeit's right there
>>731378104>you have somehow made being a /pol/fag part of your personality, and living in a reality where trannies are nice is an attack to your very own identity.This is probably it with anon only being able to see thing in black and white with no nuance.
>>731378104If you were wandering the wastes outside and your hands were cold and the only immediate source of warmth was a lit fuse of a stick of dynamite lying in the dirt would you grasp the stick and hope the warmth is worth having to deal with the dynamite being a depressive, mopey, clingy, emotionally unstable and draining explosion waiting to happen? Or would you wring your hands and search for a better source of heat?
>>731378318B.R.ABATTLEREADYARMOR
>>731378381>If you were wandering the wastes outside and your hands were cold and the only immediate source of warmth was a lit fuse of a stick of dynamite lying in the dirt would you grasp the stick and hope the warmth is worth having to deal with the dynamite being a depressive, mopey, clingy, emotionally unstable and draining explosion waiting to happen?I am friends with a veteran with PTSD, I think I'll be fine.>Or would you wring your hands and search for a better source of heat?Normalfags are boring, neurotypicals are also even more of a time-bomb in my experience.
>>731377497I still remember when I was at a house party and someone asked me if I'm into guys while in a group setting, and since I wasn't that close with those people and was put on the spot I said "no, I'm like normal".As a result I got a 10 minute verbal beatdown from one of the girls there, for using the word "normal".Kinda funny in retrospect, but annoying at the time.
>Furry friend wants to watch movies with me in VRC and i always decline himShould i be cherishing every cute boy before they try to become a woman? Are boys going to disappear one day?
>>731378740Being friends with a veteran doesn't do anything to deal with waste of resources, time and emotional investment squandered on being friends with a tranny. Just because you like intellectual friction doesn't mean you need to lower yourself to being friends with them, you're falling for the "All Furries Are Nuclear Engineers" paradigm. Being trans does not mean you are intellectually-gifted or more engaging as a person, all it means is you've added more factors that need to be met for me to bother investing any of my time into dealing with you. I don't give a fuck, if you're going to get mad and have a tantrum because I called you dude or guy because more than half of the English-speaking world utilizes pronominalized nouns/gendered colloquialisms in everyday conversation then you can get fucked, I am not being someone's friend to be their handler. You can find plenty of engagement and conversation with normal people, 'trans' doesn't automatically qualify them as special or containing more conversational or emotional value. It actually does quite the opposite.
>>731374963>have fun with someone>get along>block them because of their medical disordermaybe you're alone because you're a cunt
>>731378786Hahahaha sorry mate but you should laugh. Irony is hilarious
>>731373116well its full of 6 year olds screeching and furry faggots so it would be weird if you could relate to any of them
>>731379593>>731378786We had some newer chick at work try and tell on our mostly male sub-department (100~ people, 10 in our sub-department, 8 males) for having the gay son or thot daughter and trans kid or gay kid debate last week. You can't fire the only portion of your labour that can lift over 60kg in a very physically intensive environment. She was basically professionally told to keep her head out of work area and that we would be talked to about volume. I am truly lucky to be where I am as it's the only part of life that feels like it hasn't changed since I was a kid. :)
>>731375081he did the right thing
>>731379336>Being friends with a veteran doesn't do anything to deal with waste of resources, time and emotional investment squandered on being friends with a tranny.Anon I don't think you've dealt with the emotional rollercoaster that is being friends with someone that tries to kill himself every 4 months. >Just because you like intellectual friction doesn't mean you need to lower yourself to being friends with them>you're falling for the "All Furries Are Nuclear Engineers" paradigm.I don't think being a weirdo makes you smart just look at /r9k/ but I prefer neurodivergent people, neurotypicals are not only boring but are also full of the same drama you would find in a trannie discord, "noooo x say this and that and now we are group a and are mad at x and group b is mad at y" fuck that. Have you ever been friends with regular women? shit is non-stop drama. >'trans' doesn't automatically qualify them as special or containing more conversational or emotional value.This is where you are the wrong the most, I know for a fact that a lot of trannies are social outcasts, which means that they have social outcasts hobbies (vidya, anime, ttg) like myself, will I get drama? yeah, but drama is unavoidable in long-term social interactions, that's something you learn after meeting too many people.
>>731373116>Is this normal or are online spaces just detrimental to your health?Had this happen to me a few years ago, I just stopped trying and hope people can see me as the cool quiet friend they like. I really can't relate to these fucks either
>>731374712i think as you get older VR with an AI custom waifu would be better than VRchat with young ppl
>>731381372It's already at that point since young people are fucking obsessed with anal because such a large number of them are clueless virgins, faggots or trannies.
I hope its not just me but i find sleeping and/or drinking in VR in public spaces to be really distasteful. I could understand if its with a friend but its a really disgusting habit to form personally. I have to always remind someone to drink water and not just match strangers drinks.
>>731380870Done the suicidal dance bit quite a few times, had to co-manage a 'guild' of 4channers numbering 200-300 strong for about 8 years and dealt with that kms shit every week. That might be why I am indifferent to it but you get so tired of tracking people down through Skype and later Discord on behalf of other people in the group. It's been ex-military, trans, regular folks, people stuck in shitty countries, etc. Yes, I'm friends with a few women but they are mostly tomboys/potheads. Most of our production staff are women and I have to hear the "oh my god me and so and so went out to Keeley's last night and saw so and so and she said blah blah blah and then I said no way, so blah blah blah..." and you kind of just learn to nod your head and do the Solid Snake method (ie: "She said blah blah blah?" "You saw so and so there?") and you can escape most of it as a shoulder/open ear. A lot of normal people play video games nowadays and watch anime. Literally my B and C shift crew talk about fucking Jujutsu Kaisen or whatever the fuck it's called and One Piece every fucking day on top of whatever gay flavor of the month anime they're all watching.. it is so grating. A shift is nothing but football and soccer but they also talk about Nightrein/Arc Raiders every morning. There are a lot of normal people out there, folks just need to get out more and use their feelers more instead of jumping into engagements blindly.
>>731377497>Does any part of LGBTQ actually speak up?There is a small "LGB without the T" movement but it's generally very stigmatizedI actually do feel like it's harmful of legit diversity and representation when any feminine or gay dude is immediately transgender according to all social media, it's some sort of narcissism where people relate to someone and thus have to project all of their traits onto them because god forbid you relate to someone who isn't transsee: every character in every media ever who has self identity issues being called "trans-coded" nowdead by daylight has a fucking evil robot that decided to call himself "he" instead of "it" to show that he is more than a tool of humanity and gets called trans-coded
>>731375081>potentially beneficialNah those people self destruct all the fucking time and try to take you with them, on account of the fact that the multiple untreated and uncontrolled mental issues that caused them to troon out are there and are constantly pulling them towards metaphorically and sometimes literally jumping off a bridge.T. I know multiple troons in a friend group that I have as acquaintances, that I deliberately choose not to give too much attention to in order to avoid this exact scenario. (happened quite a while now with other people within the group, multiple burned bridges and total ghosting)Anon has no obligation to babysit clearly mentally ill nobodies he met on the internet over their shared enjoyment of futa loli porn or whatever the fuck.
>>731373484>sold headset after being called a faggot by a total strangeryou let the fucker get into your head and he won.
>>731374963I don't blame you, distance yourself from the schizos.>>731375219picrel>>731377582#femboylivesmatter
>>731377114I've rarely interacted with other furries solely because of that horseshit, but now I'm trying to be more social with them and the fear of someday dealing with some piercing-covered, danger-haired xenoflux aerogendered special quirk chungus with 50 different Hazbin/anime characters living in xer's head is constantly gnawing at my soul.>>731377497I guess there are a sizeable number of gays who hate that shit since they were the ones who suffered for years to get basic rights, only to have the aforementioned quirk chunguses step all over them and set our collective public perception back decades by being utter retards. For furries? There's a couple hundred minimum judging by a server I'm in, but that's a horrifically small minority in a sea of the usual turbo woketards.
>>731377582>have some classes with a bit of a butterface tomboy with the widest, fattest, juiciest, GIRTHIEST fucking toned ASS and THIGHS I have ever seen on a woman irl ever>she's "genderfluid" and "dysphoric"Stop tomboy genocide. Enough is enough
>>731375709I don't think this would work without a funnel sealing the space from the helmet to your mouth, and even then the suction force needed to take a pull of that many at once is too strong for you. You need to get a helmet with fewer holes in it.
>>731381609Seeing /v/ turn its back on characters like Vivian or Bridget is horseshit and its gonna keep happening all because some lunatic online has to personally connect with a character they have nothing in common with.
>>731382214this hurts me and i wasnt even there
>>731374963you could have saved him, but you left him to rot
>>731374963happened to me in 2019, I just avoid interacting with people online now
>>731382214Trannies have done so much fucking damage to actual non bullshit body positivity it's insane.>do you like being fit>do you hate looking """manly"""?>do you even slightly dislike that you don't look like a turbo stacy or an anime character despite being born a woman?>congratulations, that means you are a man!!! (non-derogative) contribute to the pharmaceutical industry right now :)It's genuinely evil to play with people's insecurities like this.
>>731374963>>731378104I don't think people like you understand how trannies operate. They're "chill" at first, then they start trying to moralize you over everything (except the things they like, obviously) or get insane how they're still not a woman on discord, just random neurosis every other week, it's exhausting. Also, that guy sharing he trooned out is a major red flag, he should not share too much personal info about his life. If you sound like a guy, I'm not gonna pretend you're a girl just because you're in denial with reality.
>>731382214you can save her, she in actuality enjoys being cute and feminine, i know from experience with these types
>>731382542As a kid I used to hate playing sports or getting dirty, dressed in elaborate outfits, and was constantly mistaken for a girl even when I had short hairI'm just a regular red-blooded plaid-wearing nigger-hating american man now, but if I were born just a little later I would almost certainly be a tranny. Scary as fuck to think of how twisted it's all become
>Type femboy or twink into twitter >Some of the sexiest smooth bodies ever who can cum buckets>Their pronouns on their profile are she/theyIm tired boss
>>731383174fuck off faggot, you're just as bad
>>731383317Where do you think you are
I was trying out my FaceBook Quest 2™ that I bought for 50 dollars second hand, and decided to see what VRchat was actually like. I'd heard the stories, you see, and I was sure it was full of the usual assortment of losers, freaks, rejects, etc etc. You know the kind of person I'm talking about. What I was not expecting, however, was for it to be completely full of CHILDREN. It's insane. So, eventually I'm standing around in one of the most populated instances. It's a bar of some sort, because of course it is. The point of this game is to poorly mimic real life. The people, too, are poorly mimicking how people act in real life.So I'm standing there, eavesdropping, just being creepy and weird, when suddenly these two little black kids run up and start harassing me. I'm pretty sure there are a lot of niggers in VR because it's a low cost way to entertain the kids, but it sure doesn't fucking shut them up. "Hey nigga, why are you all alone? Why are you just standing there? Don't you have any friends? Of course not, fag, hahahaha" The usual stuff. You've heard it all before. Anyway, I sit there for five seconds before deciding to do what any well-adjusted 36 year old man who lives in a trailer in the woods would do. I unmute, and I just let this 7 year old child have it. You stupid fucking nigger, fuck you, who the fuck do you think you're talking to, I'll kill you, so on and so on. For the first few seconds they tried to talk over me so I just got louder and louder. Then they just stood there and took it. After an appropriate amount of time I stop and the kids are just sitting there, silent. I hear one sniffle, and the other says "Y-you can't say stuff like that, man" really quietly. I realized I had made an incredible social faux-pa and got the hell out of there with prejudice. Of course I tried logging in the next day and I was banned. This was the point where I realized that VR might not be 'for me', and I put my headset down and forgot about it in a closet.
>>731373116VRchat isn't exactly made for "normal" people
>>731383371oh, you know somewhere else I can go to get away from fags?
>>731374963>Trans female?Dodged a bullet. Smart move.>Trans male?Cut ties with a potential bro. Unfortunate.
>>731383407>I realized I had made an incredible social faux-pa
>>731383524>Cut ties with a potential broI've been on several discord servers, tranny guys are never ever bros.
>>731375219of the 10 trannies or fem presenting I have met online all 10 of them have been the most mentally ill fucks I have met. scammers, cheaters, annyoing retards, and severe autism. They usually have a blend of just awful personality traits that I want to avoid.
>>731383407Well, at least you stayed true to yourself. Fuck them niglets
>>731383407this thread is pretty funny
>>731374963This is how it feels most of the time when you add someone on TF2 unless theyre just a gay furry. You get used to it and if you dont want to play or associate with them anymore then you can kinda just disappear unless youre more than friends for whatever reason.
>>731373116You're just getting older, anon, VRchat is a kids game. If you want to talk to some adults join an IRC server or play second life.
>>731374963Why wouldn't you just pound her bussy on the DL? I'm a MagaChud but even I've done this
>>731375219name one thing right with being trans
>>731384629I can name one right, trans rights are human rights.
>>731384496People keep saying this but there are tons of servers without kids its just the fact finding that middleground of "adult whos not totally mentally ill" but also "enjoyable to talk to" is impossible without trial and error. Also if youre age verified you will literally be able to avoid kids but nobody wants to do that.
I'm 23 years old and I can't relate to the people of my generation neither.
>>731384819Have you tried acting like a nigger?
>>731374963trannies are usually pretty bad since they trooned out due to a mental disorder, it's very rare for it not to be a problem
>>731373116In my opinion, you just need to be extremely extroverted to enjoy something like VR chat.It's very exclusionary to introverts. Introverts who join expecting to be chatted up by someone are in for lots of standing around watching people talk, wondering why they wasted their money on a VR headset.
>>731385381>introvert who buys a VR headset for VRchat and not immersive single player gamesthose people don't exist
>>731385381Its happened to me a few times but its also cause i use funny avatars like a headcrab or i micspam something and that can get a persons attention. Which by the way how the fuck do you make an optimal micspam setup so that people can hear it but it doesnt blast so loud the bitrate dies? I use a virtual cable so that part i understand.
>>731385381you really just need to get drunk first if you're an introvert but zoomies don't drink
>>731374963Nerdy white guy death
>>731375219welp, lets pull out the classics
>>731383174>gay man upset that gay men are not gay enough
>>731373484i want to try vrchat when the frame drops and i'll even make an avatar for it but getting a vr set for only one game seems like a mistake.
>>731384662are they, though?
>>731386146I think the point is if youre a twink youre not a girlNot that this board gives a shit these days or wants to differentiate anything anymore
>>731373116From what i've heard the real autistic gamers, older players, and erp people go to private worlds you have to get an invite to. Public lobbies are invested with kids that got a quest 3 for christmas
I'm an extremely autistic 28 year old shut in with no life experiencewhere do i find people like me to be friends withanime cons are just normalfaggots in disguise now
>>731386208If youre gonna dump money on a frame then youll play Alyx and Boneworks probably at the very least. Tetris Effect and Rez are great in VR too.
>>731381835>and the fear of someday dealing with some piercing-covered, danger-haired xenoflux aerogendered special quirk chungus with 50 different Hazbin/anime characters living in xer's head is constantly gnawing at my soul.You're lucky you're likely to only encounter people like that online, at least. I on the other hand have to work with someone like that IRL.
>>731386956My condolences
>>731373116I'm stuck going into furry vr trash stuff. i can't fit in with normal people.
>>731386336Yep. Death and taxes, they both human rights
>>731387195And hows that been working out for you
>>731386596>28 year oldThere is no hate at all in this following statement: You have to realize that this (you are close, but really 30+) is the point in time where it starts getting "creepy" if you interact with average internet users. If you havent found people who are your similar age or have been with you forever already, you become a ghost, you disappear. No more chats, no more trying to make friends. You can use the internet and play games, but you become the background and dont use the social features anymore. Way too much risk nowadays.
>>731387317I don't fucking care I'm an autistic shut in, I'm a teenager mentally at bestI will talk with whoever I want I don't care how old they arethat shit doesn't matter in real life and it doesn't matter on the internet
>this fucking threadIf you dont fit in on VR chat you are more normal than the people on it. There are people who sleep with their vr headset on whilst in game and claim to feel phantom pain when their avatar is touched. I could not think of a more unadjusted playerbase.
>>731387649>"Haha, you are really funny anon! By the way, how old are you?"The question always comes up, and it always ruins everything. Unless you lie, but even if you do, the more you get involved with them, the harder it is to hide.If you can live that lie, more power to you. But it's wrong. and you know it. Time marches on.
>>731387298lol i'm weird. oh well i guess. could be worse.
>>731387317>it starts getting "creepy" if you interact with average internet users.This is because they're fucking 13 years old. If you're 25+, then you find a group of people around your age and nobody cares.
>>731387768What even is phantom touch in the context of VR
>>731375081>because the other person acts in a way I do not likethat is actually a perfectly valid reason not to be friends with someone
>>731387831I have interacted and played video games with people twice my age or more for my entire lifeI don't fucking careno one cares
>>731387892Modern VR is real enough to trick your brain if you haven't been exposed to it. It's essentially your brain expecting there to be something around you that isn't actually there. I'd feel it as a 'tingling' in my face or hands if someone was really close to me. It goes away as your brain adapts which really kills your immersion. People who freak out about it are autistic or fishing for attention.
>>731386596Once you're out of college, you don't make friends. And even in college, most everyone just wants to be left the fuck alone and go home after class, so you probably aren't going to make friends anyway unless you dorm. Realistically, your only opportunity at having "friends" now is a girlfriend. I know that isn't what an autistic 28 year old shut in wants to hear, but that's really your only option now.
I’ve literally become delusional like Dutch van der Linde or something and that I’m gonna escape to an isolated island with all my valuables right before the happening happens and I’ll live like a king. That’s how deluded I’ve become since 2019 when Covid started and I’ve come to stop relating to people completely.
>>731387317>You have to realize that this (you are close, but really 30+) is the point in time where it starts getting "creepy" if you interact with average internet users.Absolutely pathetic projection anon. This is only an issue if you are a grown man playing fortnite or Roblox. I bet you've never asked out a woman before either because you were afraid to be "creepy". Anybody who likes to throw around that word is filled with shame.
>>731386596An IRL hobby where you can meet fellow autistic dudes like warhammer 40k, model trains, power metal concerts, civil war reenactment, etc.
>>731387208neither of those are rights. unless you're joking i'm not sure what you're saying.
>>731388178I think you are the one projecting, because you lashing out at me for saying what any sane person would if some 30+ year old walked into a traditionally 25 and under space is very telling.Absolutely insane self report there.
>>731388117I hate womenthey are fucking boring and retarded and not human beingsi never went to college
>>731384662and this needs to be affirmed vocally because they aren't human, i assume
>>731388163When covid happened all the normies were having a panic attack that they couldnt hang out every single day outside while i was finally feeling at peace knowing how little i actually need to be content. Not that being by yourself isnt lonely but its easier. Insert adachi image here.
>>731388178at a convention i hit on a girl dressed like a slut right in front of her gaggle of "boyfriend" orbiters and she let me rub her thigh while i was looking at her phone and then when she went somewhere else they all cornered me and said i was making her "uncomfortable"then I saw her later and called out to her and she smiled and waved and then her gaggle of orbiters appeared behind her like that gag in sailor moon and gave me an evil lookshe had fat fucking veiny tits and i stared right at them while rubbing her fat thigh and it was awesome
>>731373116>are online spaces just detrimental to your health?It's this
>>731375219it's a square telling you it's a triangle and telling you you will lose your job if you don't force it through the triangle hole
>>731376948Anon... there's a common denominator in that story...
>>731385381>the chatting game only really works if you chatwowee, revelatory >no no i striked a conversation up, kinda, maybe once or twice, that's enough effort for people to approach melmao
>>731388486I dont know the moral of this story but i just know i like fat veiny tits
>>731388857it is though
>>731374963>now its a pattern i try and avoid thinking about why the only people I can relate to are tranniesthis is not going to end well
>>731388857If you sit around long enough and have a weird enough avatar eventually someone does ask how youre doing. Still worse than starting it yourself but theres mute people who get asked questions in this game so.
I thought I was just shy but I realized i'm antisocial after spending like a year talking to people i met on a hobby discord. too many times i'd put effort into a reply or conversation only to be flatly ignored or get a 2 word reply. but i suppose logically if i have the same problem with a bunch of people, it's likely there's something wrong with me. video games
>>731374963>again
>>731388486i'll take things that never happened for $500, alex
>>731389893I think im better at holding a conversation 1 on 1 with someone than with a group and even thats sketchy since i dont understand the natural flow of asking a question to further a topic i just stop until they ask me something.
>>731383407I kind of feel bad for the niglets, but at the end of the day, you taught them a valuable lesson about being vocal and active on the internet, and one better learned from a mildly racist redneck then some child molester with jungle fever.
>>731373484>VR chatAnon if you buy a VR headset only to play VRChat, you ARE a faggotThere's a lot of great games out there, like Into The Radius (and ItR2) and you chose faggotchat? Serves you right
>>731375081>acts in a way I do not likeThat doesn't sound super beneficial>let's avoid eating this food because it tastes like fecesI mean.. yes??
>>731383407Based if true.
>>731373116Smiling Reddit friends failed normalfag thread
virtual reality is literally satanic
>>731391071thelemic* but I wouldn't expect an ev*ng*l*c*l to understand the difference
>>731375219I'll do you one betterthe entire culture around being trans is harmfulIt too readily accepts a person's upheaval of their entire lives, seeks to invalidate people outside of gender stereotypes with the goal that they fall into transgenderism and are so insanely hypocritical that they'd get called out constantly if that didn't mean brainwashed """allies""" would harass the ones doing the calling out. The only "people" who are trans are either transtrender theater kids mutilating their entire life to be special, or niggers that are realizing that being a nigger isn't special anymore but they NEED that validation.
>>731390658it's like dancingfor some it comes natural, for others you got to practice, practice, practice
>>731374963Yeah man, trannies ruin every conversation. Like one time me and my mates were talking about the optimal way to suck cock, would you rather fuck a dog and noone knows or you don't fuck a dog but everyone thinks you did, stuff like that, and one just entered vc bitching about their real life, like, shut up man.
>>731378104>most of my interactions with them are actually niceif only that were true, I've only met one nice mtf and he was still constantly going on about his depression, how much life sucks and how he wanted to die every day. finally I couldn't stand being his therapist anymore and blocked him. and that is the best case scenario, the others have all been borderline personality disorder narcissists or psychopaths.I think someone being trans is a fair red flag for people to have proven out by experience with them.
>>731374963Ever notice it's mostly the MtF trannies that are unhinged maniacs?The FtM trannies are usually mellow and just happy to still be alive at this point
I haven't had a friend, Internet or otherwise, in 20 years. I have become one with my solitude.
>>731373116I have a friend who lives alone and spends literally all his free time in VR chat. It's basically his entire life outside of working and sleeping. I feel bad for the guy but apparently he meets all sorts of girls on there and even has cybersex with some of them.
The novelty was nice when it first came out. People made some really impressive skins and worlds which was cool but the novelty runs out fast imo.
>>731393561I used VRchat three times, and one of the times talked with a girl all night where that is her life. Work and VRchat. And in her case she didn't even interact properly with people because she was scared of crowds or people speaking too loudly.Spent the whole night talking with her and felt very sad for her. She was this autistic as fuck girl with no social or even a proper virtual life that just poured everything about her life because finally found someone willing to pay attention.
i found it easier to get my friends into VRC and hang out in our own group than join any of those "community" worlds, jesus fucking christ you think this place is hyper autistic? you havent seen SHIT.
>>731373116going to VRchat to find people who aren't faggots is like going to Roblox to find geriatricsor also people who aren't faggotsits simply the wrong place to be
>>731393403That's fine, one day you will become so socially inept that even the embarrassment of rejection will feel foreign to you and you will start approaching people again
>>731373116ayo dis the oney thread
>>731373116Had an interesting experience with vr chat my first time but that was also 7 yrs ago so its probs different now>gf ditches me out of no where, leaves all her stuff including her pc with vr setup>(wasn't out of no where i just ignored all the signs)>decide why tf not enjoy it, play lots of hotdog, horseshoes, handgrenades >try out vr chat, choose some default sw imperial officer outfit>stumble around drunk most the time chatting with randoms>was actually fun till i couldn't stand straight anymore and had to get off>come home from work one day to all her stuff gone, guess thats it for thatI could relate to plenty of fools in 2019, it was quite fun doing some old gary's mod style minging in vr. Lots of people just took it for that whole two weeks i was out there dicking around. Moral of the story? Uhh don't get involved with bpd bitches it aint even worth the puss, internet anonymity is the best
I tried VR chat and it was so fucking weird.I'm not into second life, or any of that stuff. RP through voice is a bit weird outside of DND, especially with how promiscuous those people act.I'll stick to my text RP slop.
>>731379336>Being friends with a veteran doesn't do anything to deal with waste of resources, time and emotional investment squandered on being friends with a tranny.I mean, they could up and kill themselves. They might even do it while you're in the room. Are you retarded?
>>731374963>>731375081Honestly, it's pretty funny for /v/ to talk about who is or isn't "a beneficial human interaction".I've run multiple groups and servers with /v/tards, and you people are among the worst I've ever hung out with. I still keep up with guys from /a/, or /tv/, or /fit/, or even fucking /lit/ and /cgl/, but I regret every single person I met on /v/. I know actual trannies IRL due to /cgl/, and they are preferrable to anyone I've only had to speak to ONLINE on /v/. All of you fucking people fall into the same groups.>autisitc, unfunny spammer whose sole personality is whatever is the prominent shitpost on /v/ right now>political sperg who won't shut about politics, constantly talks about raiding "normie" servers (will never say normalfag because they live with their mother)>quiet (often literal) kid who tries desperately to fit in and just comes across as depressing to listen to>the worst kinds of dramawhores who will post the doxx of whoever they decided they dislike that day >Germans (these are, without a doubt, the absolute worst breed of people to interact with and they are predominately exclusive to /v/ for some fucking reason, only exception is the occasional /tv/ appearance) None of you are likable or beneficial.
>>731381609i called someone a retard for insisting peppino from pizza tower was a ftm trannyyes peppino, the fat greasy italian manworst thing the fag community couldve done was let even bigger faggots take it over and use them as a bludgeon
>>731376447and?
>>731373116how old are you unc?
>>731376447Hard to tell, but probablyYou notice it far easier when they're in natural positions, as their fat pushes their arms to the side
>>731386208I assume you're like me and have never touched PC VR before, just do what I'm doing and make a list of every worthwhile VR game that came out since its inception and get ready to try them out.Nigga am even gonna try out boneworks and I haven't thought about that game in like 6 years minimum lolAlso I think the whole virtual screen in an environment thing sounds really comfy for general browsing.
>>731396034I'm none of those but I go out of my way to not meet people off of /v/
>>731373116are you older OP?I've ran into this issue too, I'm older than the vast majority of people online, don't relate to them at all and they even kind of annoy me with their cynicism and I just see the same old patterns in their behaviour and it makes me tired to think about dealing with it.Normal people our age seem to move on from the internet but here I am stuck in failure to launch and full on neetdom, I have been considering getting part time work just to make myself go outside and get more money in so I can maybe use that to go outside more too, there's little value here online anymore, if the companies haven't shat it up, it's constant gooberment and politics making it miserable or just not relating to anyone anymore, I used to feel like a member of a community online and now I feel like an outlier, I even come here less and less now. I was gonna try VR chat when I got a steam frame but you've given me pause, unless I can find lobbies with actual adults I think I'll find it a miserable experience just like everything else online.
>>731381551>young people are fucking obsessed with analwait a sec they are? maybe I can find an anal slut on VR chat...
>>731386470its the same with discord and pretty much every other online communication thing, all the normal healthy people stick to groups because it's the ones their friends invited them to
>>731373116Faggot
>>731397417>I'm le old>le don't fit inYou are not special, faggot. Even vrchat is full of 40 somethings. What you are is a fucking vain cocksucker too full of himself to get along.
>>731373116>have an existential crisis cause i relate to nobody anymoreThat's supposed to happen at the point where you realize you're no longer human and your life is just over.Being alone even for just 2 years seems to damage you beyond repair to the point you're missing something fundamental.look on the bright side I realized this when I went back to work Only I stayed at that job for 7 more years and didn't make a single connection.It was like living in limbo.
>le existential crisisImagine being such a huge faggot. Please go back.
>>731400753>full of 40 somethings.flat out not true
>>731401209Kill yourself
I don't understand most of the new lingo and things move by too fast. I guess I'm "old" and I'm closing in on 30. Talking to people younger than me feels weird, I don't know how to communicate with them, it's as if I'm talking to an alien.
>>731374963>can't instantly clock themthat's on you man
>>731383407>deciding to do what any well-adjusted 36 year old man who lives in a trailer in the woods would do. I unmute, and I just let this 7 year old child have it. You stupid fucking nigger, fuck you, who the fuck do you think you're talking to, I'll kill you, so on and so on. For the first few seconds they tried to talk over me so I just got louder and louder. Then they just stood there and took it. After an appropriate amount of time I stop and the kids are just sitting there, silent. I hear one sniffle, and the other says "Y-you can't say stuff like that, man" really quietly. I realized I had made an incredible social faux-pa and got the hell out of there with prejudice.fucking lmao
>>731401516It feels like things changed just for the sake of differentiation.New generation, new rituals, new consoomable products. In a decade or two, my opinion won't matter at all because I'm no longer anyone's target demographic.Will I see more artificial bullshit then, or none?
>>731382395>The suction force needed to take a pull of that many at once is too strong for you, traveler.>Cigarette seller, I am going into battle *tears up* and I REQUIRE your most plentiful pack!
>>731386029I drink, it doesn't help much. It usually makes it easier for me to stay totally quiet around people
>>731384540explain the appeal you fag
>>731373168>normie
>>731388327A boyfriend, then.
vrchat is for fags and troons
>>731373116no dumbass, ask normal people at your work or school if they know about vrchat. chances are they dont but if they do theyll tell you everyone on it is a sickly loser faggot. no one who plays that game regularly is functional. you should be jumping with joy you dont identify with these "people"
>>731387892If you get too close to a face in VR you may "feel" the air from them breating
I’m going through an existential crisis of my own. I struggle greatly to have and maintain friendships. I just don’t know how to deal with people. Every little thing I do feels like I’m doing it for attention. Like I’m manipulating people into making me feel better about myself, and I’m just lying to myself about actually caring about them on a personal level. It makes it hard to connect with people. Like there’s this sort of spiritual barrier between me and everyone else that makes it impossible for me to connect with someone. I have one person I can vaguely recognize as a friend and several others I call people I get along with, and I want to do right by them all, but I just don’t know how. And most of all, I don’t want to be alone anymore, but being close to others hurts so much sometimes. I think I realized the best way to “manage” my friends is to perform acts of basic kindness towards them but avoid getting too emotionally invested in them. If I sink too much into another person I’ll drown
>>731374963You dodged a bullet there. Trannies are experts at seeming okay at first but slowly becoming increasingly unhinged and dramatic and callous. Never met a tranny that was a well adjusted person
>>731376447hot
I honestly think that people who have friends are fucking gay.Don't get me wrong, I used to have friends. In school, because if you didn't have any friends you were an easy target. I don't hate talking to people or anything, it's just not really worth the hassle. All of my social needs are fully met by jumping online, posting garbage into the void, and getting the occasional replay from another retard. I don't have to maintain a fucking relationship, I don't have to avoid saying X or Y because it's just going to make a weak faggot cry, I can be true to myself 24/7, and when I say something fucking stupid, it disappears into the ether, nobody can bring it up 2 months from now.Maybe it's different for zoomers who grew up with e-friends. I had a couple back in the day on MSN, but you lose contact. I still have a few former childhood friends blocked on Steam, and no real desire to unblock them because what the fuck are we going to talk about after 20 odd years? Like I said, I don't get it. I don't get the need to talk to the same retard more than once.
>>731375219Recently left a discord server because of two trannies that were in there. Every fucking day they’d bitch about how the entire world was out to get them. About how every single instance of drama in that server involved them as if they were victims of constant persecution and not just incredibly annoying retards that constantly get themselves in trouble. What pissed me off the most is they had problems with me insisting I was transphobic when I’ve never done anything bigoted against them. I even reached out to another friend who’s known them for longer to ask about them so I would know how not to offend them, and they still got offended. One day when they were going on their usual dramatic rants I just got fed up and said fuck this. I don’t want to contribute to a friend group with such vapid and toxic retards. Trannies are literally just incels all over again, self-destructive retards with absolutely zero sense of self awareness
>>731405823What a sad, pathetic life
>>731383407Most based post in this entire board. Fuck them kids
>>731405383You're just bored. Get good at your job, get good at hobbies that allow self-expression. No, VRChat doesn't count as a hobby. The creative self-expression within doesn't make room for being "good" in a way that promotes growth.
>>731396034keep telling yourself that anon, one day it might be true
>>731403981kek
>>731374712>be weird kid in class>can't relate to others>be weird in class throughout high school>still can't relate to others>finally find people I can relate with in college>that's just 4-5 years>after that it's back to being unable to relate to others>now I can't even fall back to the edgy "I don't care what others think" because I need to interact with others>so now I still can't relate to others but I have to act like I do>mfw only 29It's over, isn't it?
>>731405823What a blissful, based life
>>731406594Interesting point. You might be right. I often find that I have nothing going on in my life except videogames, and I end up obsessing over the lives of others instead. I think I just need a life of my own. Food for thought. Thanks, anon. Have a blessed day
>>731385381life imitates art
>get invited to a discord>haven't used a chatroom since 2016>not social enough to keep up with anyone>will never have an "in" with the people who've been there for years>end up feeling more isolated than ever
>>731376447...out of ten!
>>731386776>Tetris effectFuck I forgot that has vr. Recently got a headset and need to try it.
>>731407686Why's in there?
>>731407456>just put yourself out there broI JUST FUCKIN DID
>>731384662Human rights were a mistake
>>731374963Honestly I don't make friends anymore at all because I'm weary of mentally unstable people. Sure a tran is more likely to be unstable, but that doesn't mean joe-shmoe down the street isn't gonna snap one day and start ranting at everyone that passes by him. Everybody sucks. Even if they aren't unstable, dealing with other people's problems is annoying as fuck and if they consider you a friend they will definitely bring their problems to you for help. Plus maintaining friendships is annoying because people get pissy if you don't reach out even if they never did either.
>>731378786KEKmy cousin landed a job in an office, and first week they came up to him to give him a laniard for his goy check in card, they offered him a plain one or a fagflag coloured one. he had to stop himself from saying “no gimme the normal one”
>>731377114this nigga multiboxing irl
>>731379593what a load of drivelyou stop "transgenderism" by KEEPING HIM AWAY FROM THE MOTHER (OR GRANDMOTHER etc.), all the other stuff is collateral>>731373116can't say I understand you but since I played some games in 4K everything below 4K seems blurry to the point that I'll play in 4K with everything low or medium than 2K/1080p on ultra
>>731379593https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7YxnVzyrECo
>>731379983>gay son or thot daughter and trans kid or gay kid debatewhat was the consensus?
>the tranny defense brigade ittive known it for years, yet it still hurts to see my hobby get completely overrun by degenerates and normalfags
>>731373116Just create a fake personality or two (maybe three) and interact with people, bro.You probably already do it in real life so it will be quite easy.
>>731376410Are there really people who get off to VRChat porn?
>>731410494human beings do that by default, although not necessarily concerning social interactions... the switching is automatic and almost transparent (see pic rel or listen to https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_jeSRQhRZ_c&t=120 )but doing it intentionally... that may degrade the glue holding your psyche together or end up a schizo or worse (a tranny :P)
It's only really enjoyable if you hang out exclusively with friends instead of joining public servers which are either filled with kids, degenerates, or both.
You don't need to have a 1:1 identical life experience as someone else to become good friends with them. You can have friends half your age and twice your age. It's ok. Just be a person and talk to the people around you.
>>731410159have games only devolved since then?pic rel is also lovely, basically Sims made in 1986, all kinds of social situations, can have sex but YOU CAN'T BE GAY lol
>>731383407
forgot pic :<
>>731373116You're either too old or not autistic enough.
>>731411325>You can have friends half your age and twice your ageIf you are 60, sure.
God damnThe people on this board truly are patheticI think my favorite posts are people whining that nobody likes them while also laughing about the public use of slurs Just hopeless.
I like going to VRchat and behaving the same way i do here, which is antagonizing and trying to rile up people. It's pretty fun.
I've never felt like basic social skills were a superpower but reading this thread you'd be forgiven for thinking so.The internet really did ruin you kids.
>>731382214just date her anyway, 50% of the time they revert back
>>731382214>The question of whether anon actually likes this person and enjoys spending time with them isn't even on his radarYou don't stand a chance either way
This thread explain why this website is so fucking garbage now.We were just a bunch of normalfags having fun for years pretending to be retarded until the unironic friendless nutcases started joining en masse.FUCK
>>731413098Other way around. We used to have fun being weird but funny rejects and then you came along thinking this was some place like Facebook where you could virtue signal and shit like that.
>>731413624I don't even have the energy to refute your garbage. 2008 iphonebabs and the generation that followed fucked all online communities.Kys yourself.
>>731413098>>731413624Internet demographics changed in general. Internet communities were mostly used by the kind of people who spent a lot of time on their desktop pc/laptop and required a stable internet connection (which wasn't something every single person on the planet had back then), it was a huge filter that meant that only certain kind of people would be active in online communities. Nerds, bored first world middle class teens, college kids, adults that needed a computer for work, these were really the only kind of people who had consistent access to internet communities back then.
>>731413624>>731413098You're both complete fucking faggots.This place was mostly nerds that LIKED being forever alone on the hobby boards and somethingawful ban-receivers on /b/Unironic stormfags and foreigners and normies and pathetic faggots that hate being alone but lack the self control to avoid screaming nigger at the grocery store came much later.
>>731413821It's because can't refute it.>2008 iphonebabs and the generation that followed fucked all online communities.Even this is just saying that technology becoming more accessible ruined our community by enabling the normal kids and teens to join in.
>>731413881You know you're just agreeing with the first anon, right? You basically just called yourself a faggot.
>>731413870Anon this site opened in 2004. Everyone in the US had stable Internet by then, AOL was old news.The demographic changes on this site correlate with smartphone prevalence with two massive major spikes: project chanology and the 2016 election.
>>731413985>LLM poster has no context window Hilarious
>>731413993>Anon this site opened in 2004. Everyone in the US had stable Internet by thenonly abut 50% of people in the US were using the internet in 2004
>>731413098>We were just a bunch of normalfags having fun for yearsWho do you think was here before smart phones
>>73141432366% of adults regularly used the internet in 2004Broadband was widely available through DSLYou're imagining the mid 2000's to be the mid 90's. The 90's was the era of prodigy and AoL and the last real barriers to entry.
>>731413993>Everyone in the USWhen he said "on the planet" I take it he meant it literally because posters from the 2nd world are complained about all the time.
>>731414505>the last real barriers to entry.If all the real barriers were gone why did it change so much with smart phones
>>731414505that statistic is 66% of people who lived where internet was available. it's not including the swathes of rural areas that had no internet back then.
>>731413881I never got banned I just got sick of the catladies in charge
I played VR Chat once during the pandemic and thought it was a fun enough experience. Played it again a year or two ago and it sucked, full of cliquey virgins who were paranoid why I was talking to them.
>>731415281it's their grocery store and you have to respect it
>>731413881Yeah we liked it so much that's why we made fucktons of groups to be sociable on every hobby board.Go fuck yourself you weren't even there.
>>731373484shouldve kept it to play h games
>>731416012I was here for the fucking Hal Turner raids you little shitI was here when you were just a twinkle in that homeless man's balls.
>>731415460It's absolutely full of insane furfags nowadays
ITT: 35 years old grown men calling each other newfags because they had complete different experience on 4chan for the past 20 years.
>>731396034>I know actual trannies IRL due to /cgl/, and they are preferrable to anyonecan you type this first the next time, would saved me reading the shit before it, anyways kys tranny
>>731373484>I got called a faggot for using the default alien skinhe sounds pretty based
>>731381612this, they will drag you down with them. not interacting with them is for the best, much like your neighbors across the street who do meth in their garage, its best not to get involved
>>731396034This is true. /v/ermin have always some of the worst people on this website, second only to stormniggers and /pol/ tourists. Out of every single person i've ever met from this place, /v/ermin have consistently been insufferable.
>>731374963>anon actually engaging in prophylaxis to prevent drama rare above-90 IQ sighting
>>731374963Lol
>>731415972eh lowtax suckered me in pre-tenbux, catladies didn't come til later like that death of a hobby comic
>>731396034I just want to take the chance to say fuck you Negi you piece of shit, you're 4chan incarnate, as in fucking unfunny and the only reason you're still around is because you haven't pissed the one discord admin enough and somehow you keep playing wakfu and dofus nonstop which is more than can be said of the rest of the groupthat said the rest of the group is ok and very good people, again fuck you Negi
>>731374963I saw a guy with abusive parents getting kicked out with literally nothing on his back and offered to pay or house him as a good deed. Found out later he was a fucking commie, Had to cut contact. Can't believe I nearly helped that fucker.
>>731411325All my friends have always been older than me.It's a miracle I didn't get raped as a kid. Or maybe I did and I just don't remember it.
>>731408905because of causation
>>731387649>I don't fucking care >I'm an autistic shut in, I'm a teenager mentally at best>I will talk with whoever I want I don't care how old they are>that shit doesn't matter in real life and it doesn't matter on the internettake a seat anon
>>731373116When you go online you can just join your little comfortable niche and not have to change or develop skills, this does in fact come back to bite you in the ass later.
>>731386596Unironically Tabletop RPGs.You have autistic mechanics and a narrative as a facilitator for social interactions.There are many sites where you can find TTRPG games, the kind of audience you'll find will also depend on the system (like D&D 5e you'll find a lot of normalfags, but other systems might have more people like you). I'm also not saying you'll find a top-tier group in your first attempt, it's trial and error and you have to accept a rough start to find some cool people eventually.
>>731420595I think americans universally want to fuck children supress it. They project to everyone like they're moments away from devouring kids like feral animals and have to take measures not to act on it. Interacting with children non-sexually is inconceivable
>>731406945your best bet is getting a gf (easier than getting a friend imo) then adopting her friends - which you'll eventually resent due to your lukewarm relationship since you don't really like them that much yet still have to pretend you do.t. a fellow 29 year old friendless anon
>Ah, time to spend yet another Friday evening playing video games and not speaking to women
>>731373116Genuinly. To enjoy vrc you NEED to get into private groups. We have a general in /vg/ just for this. Go join some instances and i promise the experience will i.prove drastically. /vrg/ isnt the best to everyone, but anything is better than publics
>>731421334>We have a general in /vg/ just for this
>>731421569Every new vrc player says "where do I find groups" Thats the only place you'll find a 4chan group currently and get away from normies.
>>731421334/vrg/ is the worst 'private' group in the game and they're just a bunch of failed normalfags.
>>731421569>We have a general in /trash/ just for this
>>731421334Do NOT go to /vrg/. It is full of homosexuals. You have been warned.
>>731421893>frequented other private groups for years The only groups that were decent over vrg were nippon, and the biggest groups got cut, the new ones demand nippon only
>>731421993>full of homosexuals Anon its vrchat. You're complaining about gays in a gay bar/leather club >>731421936Don't do this
>>731373116>go to a place filled with underage retards and adult social rejects that prey on them>feel alienated because you can't relate to these peopleAnon, I think that's a pretty normal reaction to have.
>>731421893Unironically its still one of the better groups for English speakers.Yes its that bad
>>731421893If those are "just failed normalfags" to you.How fucking bad are you mate
>>731422189fucking grim
>>731381612this, my friend trooned out and now he has an OnlyFans, smokes, cuts himself, and has a xitter account where he posts bizarre porn
>>731374963Made the right choice, ignore all the seething trannies replying.Literal genuine parasites who try to get you to join their depression suicide cult
>>731422564How bizarre
>>731396034why are you here?
>>731373484I don't mean to insult you but you are kind of a faggot for reacting the way you did and making it a blog post.
>>731396034What’s funny is literally all of those people you described are almost always trannies
>>731406945It gets much MUCH worse.If you don't have the right income and mental discipline, you will eventually kill yourself.Please be well.
>>731407456>>731409217This but unironically fucking hell I hate being autistic bros
>>731409712Sounds like you need to just learn how to indentify an unstable incel at face value.It's not normal to have encountered this much mental illness throughout your life.
>>731378786I would not have tolerated that pathetic shit but I'm also an absolute unit so no one dares talk to me like that and will often hear me out when contention arises.You should lift more. Or at least increase your visible size somehow.
>>731410249consensus?
>>731387317Sounds like you simply take life too seriously and can't enjoy some bants with the little whippersnappers increasing your kill count.
>>731374963You did the right thing.I suggest lurking in right wing groups
Having knowledge in a variety of topics and hobbies lets you start up conversation with literally anybody and i realize that now more than ever especially after covid.I talked to a japanese guy who spoke a bit of english and he liked cars. I like cars but not enthusiast level, just enough to discuss it. On the polar opposite spectrum you can show your distaste for a show or movie which in turn gets others attention to talk about it.
>>731424315I used to know nothing about cars, but I learned a little bit about them because it's a common interest among dudes and I could at least keep up with some light conversation on the topic. And I can vouch that it works well and you learn a lot from people who know more than you.
>>731375219So transgenders fall into three distinct categories, those categories being Sexual Deviant, Mentally Ill, and Victim of Grooming.>Sexual DeviantThis is the retard who gets off on the idea of being a woman and the worst perpetrator of this shit. Genuinely a disgusting creature who's using and actively harms others as a means to get themselves off in a public setting.>Victim of GroomingUsually a victim of the Sexual Deviant, they're usually someone who was originally uncomfortable in their body (As most people are at some point in their teenage years) or uncomfortable in their deviation from expected societal norms for their sex (A boy who likes fashion, a girl who likes monster trucks). They get groomed to believe they're trannies because of this, where they would otherwise have simply become tomboys or a flamboyant male. It is not neccissarily their own fault, but often they become Sexual Deviants themselves.>Mentally IllIndividuals who actually suffer from clinical gender dysphoria are the smallest group of the three, and while I could accept transitions for them if it were treated as a barbaric temporary treatment while we research an actual cure (There's been some studies to suggest the same treatment for Schizophrenia works), but we don't. Instead it's treated as the end all be all solution to the problem, often resulting in them still dying early. I do not hate them specifically, but they end up acting as the face of the systems they're a victim of, so unfortunately they tend to be the target of ire.tl;dr: Sexual deviants create victims and shouldn't be tolerated, while the mentally ill should be researched to find a proper cure.
>>731373116>I can't relate to a bunch of terminally online freaks that's normal anon go interact with real people
I never maintained any long term friendships because I stop contacting people after stopping being in the same physical space with then (i.e. school or workplace). How do I stop being such an antisocial faggot?
>>731421734do I really have no chance in public lobbies? generals on this website are simply never worth engaging with
>>731424994Friendships are a two-way street. Still, you need to have something in common with them in order to keep in touch.Either search for that something, or you'll naturally drift apart, which is normal.
>>731425086Publics are that bad yes
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>>731425086Publics are where all the stereotypes and Le funi troll videos come from. Once you leave Publics and find people you like. the game becomes really nice. Vrc is basically vr gmod when it comes to extra games and experiences ect ect. Publics end up being the fish bowl you waltz through like a zoo when bored
>>731411369I remember playing a web based version of this game years ago, man it did not hold back if you decided to act retarded as a kid.
>>731425086>thread is awful >ingame is great The schizos dont socialize so you dont see them ingame
>>731425086You get an avatar you actually want from prismatic avatar search then look for uncommon hobbyist or language worlds that arent english and try to mingle from there. Trying to go into like Sunset Bar or Black Cat or whatever and having a meaningful conversation is a waste of time. Not saying it cant happen but its obnoxious.
>>731375219I had a chud friend who never opened up to anyone, he vented exactly once and a tranny took the opportunity to groom him. It was so upsetting to him he resolved to shut himself off forever.I've also seen them try to groom other people into their illness "for sport" like 3 or 4 times.I don't think think they're evil per say, There's obviously something neurologically compulsion them to groom the children and the vulnerable. But I do think they should be put down like sick dogs for doing it.
>>731396034so you're German?
>>731425628>look for uncommon hobbyist or language worlds that arent englishi dont understand explain pls
>>731425774You can type in the search bar stuff like "chess" or "liminal space" or whatever to find worlds that 90% of the playerbase wont go to. Or other language worlds like german, korean, japanese, etc so you have other cultures to listen or talk to. Youd be surprised how many players are bilingual and can speak english.
Normie online spaces are the worst; They idolize niggers. Everything is niggers to them.
>>731373116Thats not a good place to see if you still relate to people when the people there may aswell be aliens.
>>731375219they are all narcissists
>>731413881yeah hekking stormfags saying le n word and ruining our wholesome communist chungus circlejerk
>>731409217>I JUST FUCKIN DID*ONCE ftfynow do it again, and again, a lot, and don't stop
>>731424315i envy japanese hobby autism so much.they seem like they have much more fun
VRChat is a legitmate social cognitohazard cesspit shit hole, but I met this (female) cute girl at the lowest point of my life (was actively drafting up suicide plans).We've been vibing together for months now outside of VRChat and we both clearly like each other a lot, it's made my life worth living.So I can't say I wish it never existed.
>>731406945>finally find people I can relate with in collegei fucked up so badly by not going to college
>>731373484He got bullied off vr chat lmao
>>731383407>I realized I had made an incredible social faux-pa and got the hell out of there with prejudice.
>>731393349FtMs are some of the biggest narcissists I've ever met. Many attempt to be the annoying bitch boy but as a women.
>>731373116Literally the only people I've been able to relate too in my entire life are a small group of /v/ermin that I've known since highschool. Normalfags where always alien and nasty, but now that the average normalfag that I encounter is younger than me its gotten even worse >>731396034How do you even meet people from /a/? Meeting /v/tards came naturally as the result of fragging together. I would cut off all of my fingers and rape my sister for a female /a/sshole gf.
>>731383407Out of all the retarded posts on this site, this is the one I hope actually happened the most
>>731373116I never played VR Chat, what do you even do in there? Do you just join random servers and randomly talk to people?
>>731383407>I hear one sniffle, and the other says "Y-you can't say stuff like that, man"
>>731428517Hop around random worlds and look at stuff, gawk at autists/furries/trannies, play janky dogshit games, and yea sometimes in a blue moon actually talk to people (but 90% arent worth talking to).
>>731373116If you're over 30 then just don't play online for your own sake.
>>731379219As you grow older you realise that humanity is a tide of people you literally cannot relate to and that most of human interaction is a compromise.If you have ANY good relation with a person and it doesn't actively damage you, then you really should just overlook their flaws. The danger is being too ignorant and ignoring obvious red flags. It's just a balance.I hated furries when I was younger, now i just poke fun at them and I don't have to arbitrarily decide I don't like people who might otherwise be fine.
>>731393349Only FtM tranny I met was was a full on menhera escaping her mom and sleeping with random men for attention. I would later read a certain manga I'm pretty sure she copied from
>>731427794>Being able to find a girl so degenerate and stinky that you can both discuss your favorite tags as if its a CNN debateThis is why i continue to exist
>>731428996>Being able to find a girl so degenerate and stinky that you can both discuss your favorite tags as if its a CNN debateYou do you anon, but she's very normie and honestly it's refreshing to not feel like a 4chan user. This is my first time posting in months.
>>731373484Thanks for posting.
>>731429203Normie can be good but sometimes i just want to talk about freaky shit but not necessarily in a relationship way. I guess its a friends with benefits way if its dirty?
>>731379219>Should i be cherishing every cute boy before they try to become a woman?yes actually
>>731429432Yea I get it, it feels good to talk freak shit with someone other than sweaty 4chan gooners (male). And it kinda demystifies the female experience since a lot of times women can be even freakier.
>>731373116The thing about making friends is that you can't make them on purpose. People can sense intentions rooted in desperation for connection, and it's generally off-putting. To escape loneliness, you must first take the opportunity to get to know yourself. You cannot relate to others if you don't actually know enough about yourself to draw those relations. Introspection is THE most important part of developing extroversion. Trying to make friends without first looking in is like trying to land a helicopter without knowing where the ground is.
>>731373116When I played it I just ended up avoiding all the US based instances because they were full of faggots, trannies, and furries. I chill with the Japanese and South Koreans even though I cant understand them. A few of them even started a conversation with me.
>>731396034>(will never say normalfag because they live with their mother)>>quiet (often literal) kid who tries desperately to fit in and just comes across as depressing to listen toyeah, that's me.games for this feel?
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>>731430662Yup this is how you actually enjoy it. Not to say other cultures cant be obnoxious and its anecdotal but americans will literally barge into a server and bother people minding their own business just for attention. I say that as an american that even russians are less horrible in VRC but thats probably cause theres no competitive aspect they can cheat in.
>>731431278I appreciate the art and the worlds they create. I use VR chat as less of a social game and more of a walking simulator just exploring all the cool/interesting shit people make. I enjoyed that Serial Experimental Lain virtual museum as it explains a lot of concepts I did not understand as a Westerner. I do play by the rule of 'do not speak unless spoken to' as a foreigner.
>>731373116VR Chat is mainly for furries, troons and pedos (they all the same people)
>>731375081YOU'RE A FUCKING TRANNY AND PEOPLE WILL NEVER ACCEPT YOUR ILK.THEY WILL PRETEND TO LIKE YOU, THEY WILL TOLERATE YOUR PRESENCE FOR SHORT PERIODS, BUT THEY WILL ALWAYS HATE YOUR GUTS.BEHIND CLOSED DOORS WE ALL SHIT ON YOUR KIND AND YOU WOULDN'T BE MISSED IF YOU HANGED YOURSELF.
>>731375219Name one thing right with being an eunuch.
>>731374963The reverse happened to me. I made a friend on the internet who repeated a lot of stuff here and was borderline chud but I was pretty centrist and also his only friend and he ended up gravitating more towards being a centrist over time.
>>731383407exquisite post
>>731373116I only ever played VRchat to shit up random places wit raining ponies, MLP-themed tanks with working guns, and kaiju-sized ponka.Lost interest when they started to block the fun avatar exploit.
>>731431989This but less autistic. Your acceptance strat was being as invasive and annoying as possible. You are barely tolerated, definitely not liked or appreciated. At best you'll get mentally ill leftists worshipping your illness but they don't really see you as human and will eventually betray you when it suits them.You will never have friends.
>>731413881>pathetic faggots that hate being alone but lack the self control to avoid screaming nigger at the grocery storeI had to get pwned a lot to realize that not everyone is like me in the sense that they enjoy being forever alone. I hate /r9k/ so much
>tfw 36 and never made a single lasting friend my entire lifeIt's actually fine when I can keep myself distracted from life, but every so often I find threads like this and I'm forced to face reality once againHaving someone to share cool stuff I find and getting a fun reaction and some discussion in return sounds like it could be cool but I guess it was never meant to be
>>731433349Ive been friends with a guy since nursery school, and now its awkward because he went to collage a few years back and came back gay. So now people think Im gay, because we hang out all the time, or use to.
VRChat is fun although im a furfag.The one anon who insulted people from /v/ is right though, you guys are mostly neurotic retards and even the weirdest trannyhon is a better person to talk to than 90 percent of this thread
>>731428996>Tfw I found her>But she was just pretending to be a degenerate like me and decided to actively get enraged at any otaku mannerisms I that I displayed>but only AFTER we started datingWomen. Not even once
>>731374963A lot of furious replies from people who are one wrongthink away from doing the same to anyone they know, including their family members.
>not relating to autistic tranniesgood for you
>Add someone whos poly on VRC and every time i open my friends list on the browser their status is about how lonely they are or how they want anybody to join and cuddle them
>>731374963>you need to cut people out of your life if they're toxic or bad for your mental health, even your parents>YOU UNFRIENDED A TRANNY ON STEAM? HAVE YOU EVER STOPPED TO THINK THAT MAYBE YOU ARE THE ASSHOLE????
>>731434193You can be friends with trannies. The world isnt /pol/ memes.They can be nice people. Probably mentally ill, yes. But who here isnt
>>731428996>tfw imagining I found that girl every day after I finish fapping
>>731434425I don't even disagree, I just think some of the reactions are a bit fucking rich when every single person ITT knows trannies will cut ties with anyone at the drop of a hat if they hear something they don't like.Trannies being uptight aspies is why most people find them annoying. Nobody on 4chan gives a fuck about sports locker rooms or public bathrooms. The hate comes from knowing some autistic sperg who shows up and makes life miserable with their post post post post ironic meme spoutage and moderator-brain NEED to control what everyones thoughts on everything are because they CANNOT chill if they don't know everyone there thinks the same way as them.The "biological" side of the argument, who cares? I think they should feel free to be whoever they want, dress how they want, whatever. But if you're just fundamentally an annoying cunt it really doesn't matter what your opinions or beliefs are. And the sad truth is trannies have an extremely bad hit rate for being the exact same kind of terminally online annoyance.
>>731431989I'm no troon lol. I just learned with time that I would've missed out on genuinely great people if I remained homophobic and transphobic. I still say some shit like I wish all gays and trans people would die etc around them but it's not with the same tone or seriousness I could have used years ago. At the end of the day people will be people. That anon complained about finding someone they could relate to and connect with only to throw them away for something as insignificant as identity politics. If he went past that useless barrier he'd probably have a good friend. It's just regrettable
>>731373116You just need to find fellow likeminded retards to hang out with Anon.
>>731377497These sub communities often find a circle of people they are chill with and largely never interact with the "normalfags" of that communityt.furfaggot
>>731434425I had a Tranny friend from New Zealand who cut her tits off before it was cool. She mentioned that she does not respect the new aged trannyism since they are posers who do it for social approval. I hate trannies because the ones these days are toxic as fuck, not because they are body modders.
>>731431141thanks for the recc, this shit looks good.
