>not too long until the yearly local vidya convention >messaged the people I know who I always get a ride from>they still haven't responded days laterwhyit's literally the weekend why are they ignoring mei don't have any other way to get there why do people just ignore me when I ask a simple FUCKING question and then I get treated as weird for wanting an answer like a normal fucking human being trying to communicate
>>736889413Maybe they're tired of being your ride and have decided ghosting you is easier than explaining that they don't want to interact with you anymore.
>>736889556anyone who does this is a psychopath that should be murdered
>>736889672i agree but that's not going to change the fact that you don't have a ride to your annual vidya convention
>>736889413>messaged the people I know who I always get a ride from>i don't have any other way to get there going on a tanget here but I always forget that mutts will literally never in their lives experience walkable cities and developed public transportationwhen I go to a stinky gayming convention I just take a ride on a train, arrive on time and go have fun
>>736889413Arizona? I'll give you a ride
>>736889413Buy a car???
>>736889413Can you get a bus?
>>736891705my parents have cars I could usebut i don't have a driver's license...>>736891846it's a half hour drive and I don't live in a cityI've never seen a bus around here in my entire life besides schoolbusses>>736891846
boohoo retard fuck you imagine having friends
>>736891890Could one of your parents just drop you in? A 30 minute drive is not a huge ask.
>>736891973My dad could, but he's old and sick...He might have appointments or something on the days it's happening and it goes until really late at nightLast time I went I got ubers home because I wanted to stay longer than my ride and it cost more than the entire convention itself...
>>736891971>imagine having friends these people never communicate with me unless I initiate and even then they don't always respond, like right now...even though I made sure to send a message at a reasonable time on the weekend instead of in the dead of night at peak NEET hours...
tool
>>736889413>get a ride fromJust drive yourself.
>>736892087>these people never communicate with me unless I initiateand you have yet to take the hint
>>736889413My wife Yuno is so cute!
If you have to rely on others to get to a dumb convention, maybe you should reevaluate your priorities.You can go to conventions after you gain independence in your traveling. You know, like an adult.
>>736889413Because you don't fucking shower before hand and we have to douse the damn car in Lysol after dropping you off. Also your faggot ass don't put any money towards gas.
>>736892263>le take le the le hint lelelefuck off redditorcommunicate like a human being
>>736892424read the room
>>736892424They were never your friends in the first place and only humored you because they felt bad. You never clued into this and were a constant nuisance so they finally had enough and ghosted you.
>>736892416>Also your faggot ass don't put any money towards gasI am an unemployed NEET taking up empty space in a car that would otherwise be unused I will gladly give gas money if someone asks, but if they don't I'm not going to be a retarded charity case like my father who wastes what little money he has (none) because it's "the right thing to do"If you want a favor, ASK, and don't assume everyone is as privileged as you financially
>>736889413WHY DID MY FRIENDS GHOST ME>>736892556Also OP
>>736889413they don't owe you a ride and acting like you're entitled to it is probably why they are ghosting you
>>736892608>friends only matter if they give you money unprompted why are normalfags psychopathic?
>>736892556Holy shit bro you need to take a good look in the mirror and ask yourself why people don't want to be around you.
>>736892630>acting like you're entitledone text message asking about a yearly tradition is entitled?is communicating with people at all entitled?
>>736889413its probably because you're blogposting on /v/
>>736892676>get rides from people>don't do the proper thing and offer gas money even though they'll likely say noHave you ever heard the phrase "It's the thought that counts?"
>>736892696No, I think you need to tell meBe specific.
Do you have any uncles or cousins who could drop you there?
>>736892734A tradition to who? You? Unlike you other people have lives and are usually caught up in them.
>>736892797Why would I offer money unprompted when I'm extremely poor?You can't discriminate against someone for not doing something you don't request of themEvery time I've been asked to pitch in for gas from anyone I do itIf they don't ask I don't, assuming they don't need it and I can save some precious money for something that isn't burning fuel to the car jews
>>736889413Bro just take the Metro? What, do you live in a stinky third world country? Then take the Uber/Grab cuz it's less than USD5? What sort of hellhole do you live in where these aren't options?
>>736892894Get a fucking job.
>>736892894Maybe you should get your life in order before worrying about going to some cringe ass convention.
>the butt hurt moron who posted this objectively shitty thread is getting eternally BTFO!Imagine being so hated in real life that people on the internet hate you too!
>>736892886There is no one on Earth who is so busy they can't respond to a single line text message on the weekendIf someone messages me I always respond back as quick as possibleIf I can't I send a short message saying I'll get back to them when I have the chanceThis is what GOOD people do, people who COMMUNICATE and CARE about their relationships with othersI also make the effort to send messages myself, asking about games, events, fun discussion topics, anythingI always take the initiative to reach out and try to organize something, far enough in advance so everyone can participate How many people do YOU know who do that?
>>736892934Okay, how? Are you hiring? Do you know someone that is hiring?>>736892938maybe you should get the fuck off my website normalfaggotno one cares about you or what you think
>>736893010>There is no one on Earth who is so busy they can't respond to a single line text message on the weekendyou are completely disconnected from reality
>>736893010entitled
>>736893076>my website>my website>my website>my website>my website
>>736892860My entire family is 40+ years older than me and lives all over the countryNo one else in my entire family cares about video games or the things I like
>>736889413A faggot keep messaging thinking I'm their personal taxi, that is literally all they use me for. Poor ass bitch doesn't even offer gas money or a meal either. Maybe it is time for you to take the fucking hint, you aren't friends. You are just a fucking leech.
>>736893139dude is apparently crazy too, it's no wonder everyone hates him
lmao I love threads like this where everyone dunks on the OP
>>736893010What fucking relationship lmao? Begging for a ride once a year isn't a relationship. These people owe you nothing.
>>736893139Why are you so vapid and materialistic?Why do you care more about the monetary value of your "friends" than your relationship with each other and the activities you do together?
good thread hehe
>>736893076You can literally find a job anywhere if you actually try. But you don't put effort in anything you do. Enjoy your parents dying and your ass winding up on the street where you belong.
>>736893173WOW IT'S ALMOST LIKE I PUT ALL THE EFFORT IN AND THEY NEVER REACH OUT TO ME THEMSELVESIT'S ALMOST LIKE I'D BE WILLING TO HANGOUT AND DO ALL SORTS OF FUN THINGS IF ANYONE WHO I'D KNOWN FOR 20+ YEARS WOULD BOTHER TO PUT A MODICUM OF EFFORT INTO COMMUNICATING AND MAINTAINING OUR FRIENDSHIP the normalfag completely fails at social relationships and strikes out at the autist for daring to try and be amicable despite it taking a Herculean amount of effort on their partwhat a sick joke
this series is shit and only moetrannies like it, so of course /a/ adores it.
I think you people are being too mean to the op. He obviously has a shit life and this convention is one of the only good things he gets to partake in. Anyways I dunno what to say to you op. It seems like those guys wont be driving you there this year and you said you have no nearby family relations and that your father is too old and sick to drive you there. You didn't mention your mother but I suspect you don't get along with her so I assume she is not an option.
>>736893282>You can literally find a job anywhereOkay, where?I walk outside and it's rows of houses for miles, are they hiring for jobs? You must know all about the jobs here and be able to give specific examples and steps, because you're SO knowledgeable, right?
Reading threads like these make me glad I don't have autism or parents who enabled manchild behavior.
>>736893286 No you wouldn't you lying faggot or your lazy ass wouldn't be a neet in the first place.
>>736893335There's no way this kid isn't trolling
lil nigga is crashing the fuck out LMAO grown ass unc throwing a temper tantrum cause hes too retarded to get a license or a job, no wonder your friends ditched you man its kinda shocking you ever had friends to begin with.
>>736893328maybe he should take a moment to reflect on why this happened to him so it doesn't happen again instead of lashing the fuck out
>>736893341You're supposed to beat the autism out of your child (you can), but the West decided to invent a narrative that beating your kids is wrong.
>>736893335How about using the fucking internet that you're using right now you vapid cunt?
>>736893430>You're supposed to beat the autism out of your childI'm glad someone acknowledged this because nobody else fucking does. Most problems can be solved with a beating.
>post thread>check back later>some mean person is spamming posts>all the replies think it's mewhy is this site so mean...>>736893328my mom drinks a lot so I don't feel safe having her drive me on the highway...
>>736893468>my mom drinks a lotWith you as her child who can blame her. It's a wonder she's even still around
>>736893468Ah it's the classic it wasn't me guys! Damage control, you love to see it. Enjoy the maggots in hell fag.
>>736893468LIAR
>>736893423Well I'm trying to look more favourably on the matter and see that op likely grew up in a hostile family and lives in a hostile home environment and that this convention is just one of the few things that lets him escape and have some fun in his life. I hvae no idea how he can actually get there though as he said no bus and cant drive and wont ask parents due to sick father and alcoholic mother. I'm out of ideas.
Your parents are dying OP. It's time to face your reality head on and man the fuck up or perish. Either way nobody cares, it's your life, and the clock is always ticking down.
You ever feel friendships dont exist? I can see it in people's eyes sometimes, they're trying to figure out the pros and cons of dealing with me. Everything I feel someone is slipping away, I stroke his ego a bit and we're back in order.
>>736893456Be specificI'm using the Internet RIGHT NOW but I'm not getting closer to finding a jobMaybe you should actually be helpful and communicate instead of being subhuman?
>>736893616bro should become a lolcow gambling streamer like bossman jack
You said you used an uber before but that it cost you a lot of money. What if you say got your father to drive you in but dont have him pick you up but get an uber to drive you half way home so it wont cost as much and then from that half way point mater your mother could pick you up there if your father is too sick as it wouldnt be as dangerous only going half way with your drunk mother
>>736893687>open google>google "entry level jobs in [my area]">see whats avaliableMaybe you even live in one of those places that has a job center or gives benefits to retards who should have died in early child hood.
learned from this thread that retards who were beaten as a child are permanently angry and get upset when people are having fun
>>736893707>matermaybe*
>>736893616He doesn't care about his own life dude. If he did he would have tried seeking mental help years ago, but no he just lazes around and does the easy thing, escapism.
>>736893707That might work, but my parents are really old and don't use smartphones so it would be hard for them to find me at some random halfway point at the dead of night...My mom also would never drive at night regardless...
>>736893687How about you put a noose around your neck or jump off a building? How about that job?
Are you the same guy who used to post with the black and white anime face and had squirrels in your attic and shit coming out of the garden or something?
>>736893776I did go to therapy onceall it did was make me lose my faith in the entire medical systemtherapists WILL NOT HELP YOUthey DO NOT KNOW ANYTHING
>>736893841Yes, you are correct! It is I, POOPDICKSCHIZOIT'S ME ANONYMOUS IT WAS ME, ALL ALONG ANONYMOUS!
>>736889413I feel bad for you anon, but no idea how to help. Maybe these people will respond later, maybe they did ghost you, or maybe it's just a bad coincidence and they're busy/something happened.
I'm like OP but im much more guilty about it and I tried to kms. Tried several years of therapy and it didn't help. They told me to stop coming as they said that while I was polite and engaging with them that they didnt really see anything they could do to help me. Which just made me feel worse than I was before getting help as I had just wasted my parents money paying for pointless therapy.
>>736893827This is proof OP will always be in the position he's in because he just keeps making excuses for everything. There is no helping these people. All they do is waste your time and your good intentions. Just close the thread and ignore this absolute buffon.
>>736893196People gotta eat and want to buy new shit too. The ability to think about others is important and anyone who lack that ability shouldn't be questioning why they lack friends. To understand a friendship should be mutual and not one sided is something I thought should be an inherited concept to everyone. How would you feel if someone used you exclusively as a taxi and never do anything in return? You likely wouldn't see them as a friend either. So no fucking wonder they wouldn't see you as one.
>>736893874The medical system is a business and you are their customer. They don't make money curing you, they make money "treating" the symptoms and/or keeping you in the system as long as possible.
>>736893430>>736893464My parents were both violentThey stopped when I grew big enough to defend myself Now our entire family is destroyed and we all ignore each other as much as possible even though we live in the same house
>>736893776>>736893874>fell for the therapy jewjust subscribe to my pharmaceuticals, goy
>>736894005I feel obligated to try and always help people
>>736894067Abuse =/= discipline. Discipline is used to teach rules, abuse enforces the lack of them.
>>736894041>To understand a friendship should be mutual and not one sided is something I thought should be an inherited concept to everyoneSo why is it all of my friendships were ALWAYS one sided, with me doing all the reaching out, organizing, taking the initiative to communicate and bring other people into my life, who ultimately just used me and then abandoned me with no trace one day? Please explain this.It's almost like I have made the EFFORT to reach out to people, and I always say>Hey, if you ever wanna do something, reach out to me I'll be available And yet they NEVER, EVER DO? And it's MY FAULT?
>>736894114Not that person but the psychiatrist I went to actually wouldnt put me on any pills as she said I had no actual mental condition and that my depression was purely caused by situational factors in my life and I like well yeah obviously I knew that already.
>>736894127Then help people that want help not retards like OP that just want to waste your time. Or you'll wind up never helping anybody.
>>736894068>I even offered to let him stay rent free in a spare room in my house back in 2021You are full of shit
>>736894254Then get a job there's nothing wrong with your lazy ass.
I don't know why the mean person keeps messing up the thread I wish they would go away...>>736893965I can't stand the uncertainty This is why I hate communicating by text or over the internet Every time I don't get a message back I feel like I did something wrong and hate myself...
>>736894312I think you might be confusing me with another person in this thread. I was just a random person jumping into the conversation.
does anyone want to rewatch hs with me but not op
>>736894220They be ghosting you, a common way to "politely" ditch someone you don't want to be with without looking like an outright asshole. Sadly completely acceptable compare to just being blunt and honest. I had a "friend" for four years just to ditch me completely once I said no to something. If I knew what I knew now about them I would had said no a lot sooner as I sacrifice a ton of my time for them. Sometimes people know how to make "friends" just to use them. "friends" as in coworkers, facebook groups or whatever. Finding true friends sadly take two and often that is one too many by default. For every real friend I had made and kept for over 10 years I likely met 30+ "friends" who want nothing to do with me at the end of the day if it doesn't directly benefit them. That is just how the world is.
>>736894389Uncertainty can be really scary sometimes, but I am not sure what to suggest. If you have no way of reaching these people, you can look into other ways to get to the convention if you can afford any, and try to ask these people if something happened later.
Not op but I wish I was American so I could shoot myself. Other methods seem like they are too high of a chance to leave you alive with a disability like taking pills.
>>736892035>My dad could, but he's old and sick...>>736892556>I am an unemployed NEETHey buddy, you do have a plan for after your pa bites the dust right?
>>736894649I texted them directly I'm not sure what else I could do...I mean is it weird that they haven't replied over the weekend? Am I weird for feeling like it's weird?AAAAA I hate thinking
>>736894716Nowhen he's gone my life can actually starti won't have to tiptoe around the house to avoid him anymore
damnit why was it the clingy faggot who cant even drive a car who started a thread with hidamari sketch
>>736894462starting a weekly stream of each episode on /a/ sounds like a great idea actually
The only convention I still go to locally is one where people just meet up with friends they don’t see the rest of the year and drink and do drugs. No one even cares about the hobby the convention is based around except for guys who want cosplay gfs and girls who want attention.
>>736894741Sometimes telling how others think and what is seen as weird/not weird is hard, but I'd say that it is odd that they haven't replied at all.
>>736894462I actually have thought about it since I am rewatching Haruhi. It's making me nostalgic for those times.I also still use Yuno's phone sound as my own phone notification so I can probably get a better quality snip of it from the new releases.
>>736894945Now I don't know what to doIf I pester them then I AM going to be a jerkBut I just asked what their plans were for something that's coming soon...If they aren't taking me I need to know so I can figure something else out!! AAAGhh I hate interacting with peopleI just want to go to the one event I get to have fun at for the entire year...I already bought my ticket online...
>>736889413OP, unironically watch this. If you make it to the end you will understand why no one can help you on this thread.
>>736891705NTA but a car to a convention Are you insane? Most conventions take place in hotels or halls and the parking there is not only nonexistent due to every spot being full even to the roof despite it being a massive parking structure but the price so exorbitantly high I dare not even post it here.
>>736895140I am sorry, anon, but in case of them not responding, try thinking of how else to go about it right now, so it might be possible for you to go if you figure something out. If they reach out to you after, you can politely talk things out.
1) Get your license.2) Get a job.3) After 6-12 months, get a better job.4) Repeat steps 2-3 until you are comfortable.
>>736895337>get your license just going into a store to talk to a cashier makes me freak outdriving a murder machine around a bunch of other murder machines is impossible
>>736895275>but the price so exorbitantly high I dare not even post it here.you mean 20 dollars?
>>736889413>it's literally the weekend why are they ignoring methey're busy having sex
>>736895379Please tell me your name isn't Angela. If it is then it is because you refuse to go to a doctor and get your borderline disorder fixed. As long you are being "normal" (unmedicated) you will never have real friends. Literally no one like that version of you. If you aren't Angela then go see a doctor if it is THAT bad, if in the US you might even get NEET bucks.
>>736895442It is to a neet.
>>736890246I wonder why you're importing the reason public transportation didn't work for us after all that
I go to Anime North every year. Shitty convention but it's the closest one and I've met a few cool people there, including anons that browse /v/.
>>736895379I didn't want to start driving either, but it's not optional.
>>736895716Acenfag here>>736895442I meet so many 4chan and /v/irgins there. Even in the ancient days moot and snacks themselves were there
>>736895907>moot>snacksLITTERALLY WHO?even the joke is too old for nu/v/ now
>>736889413Drive there yourself.
>>736894462/v/nons will just lewd yuno
>>736894462This is literally already happeningIt's meant to be a comfy place though so please be nicecytuDotBewideamari
>>736894882See the above post
>>736897553didn't expect this to be the way I found out the button was gone
>>736897737Yeah........
>gets stretched
>>736889413Why don't you just like... walk? cardio is healthy
>>736894779You post like a fucking woman
>>736889413i saw walter day at it last year lol
>>736889413Why not just drive yourself?
