>pic mostly unrelatedthere's one guy whose memba messages always get completely ignored by our oshi. i understand why, he's pretty awkward, possibly genuinely autistic, and he tends to stick out a bit. i also happen to know he already got banned from his first oshi. he seems to genuinely regret his actions, but maybe he just regrets the punishment and hasn't learned anything? who's to say. he seems to have trouble conforming to our community.in any case, it rubs me the wrong way that she's willing to take his money, and treat him like a lesser fan. i get having favorites, but this is almost like anti-ing your own fans.am i being a dumbass for over-thinking it? is it on us fans to do more to make this kid not act out retardedly? should our oshi just ban him?
>>109030634I bet you're the guy you're talking about. lmao Upset money can't even buy your oshi's affection? Sad that normal chatters get more attention with less? Maybe even greys? Fucking faggot. kek
>>109030836nah. i'm a little older and mostly behave. i'd say i'm funny/interesting enough that i get a reasonable amount of attention. but maybe he reminds me of past me a bit?ofc greys get more attention, that's part of the onboarding process.
Caring about other fans unprompted is how communities start to collapse, just focus on your oshi
>>109031169interesting hypothesis. could you elaborate? cliques?
>>109031169There's a difference between "caring about other fans" and "caring about your oshi's morals." If your oshi seems to be an asshole, she doesn't deserve support.
>>109031913i think this is kinda what i'm after. maybe >>109030836 is right and i'm just taking this personally. or maybe i'm legitimately disappointed in my oshi's morals. i suppose ultimately i'm the only one who can make that call.
