if you found out your oshi's home address in a publicly available online database, would you send her an e-mail and let her know it's there so that she can request redaction or would you not do it so that she doesn't freak out
>>109101143Probably best to do it anonymously and give her a heads up.She'll freak out either way. But it would be worse to find out when some fucking weirdo turns up at her door.
>>109101143Send an e-mail. Better she knows and can prepare than to let somebody else do something bad with it
>>109101143Fuckin' send it. Like >>109101319 said, the sooner she knows the sooner she can react. The poor thing would flip and chew me out if i didn't.
>>109101143Hire a van, drive there with taser, gag, rope and a weapon if things doesn't go as planned
>>109101143i'm pretty sure my oshi leaked her address while drunkenly using paypal and all i did was suggest to maybe delete the vod
She already knows mine so I figure it's a fair trade.
>>109101143It's so over for her if I found out her address, the only thing that would freak her out is me
Send email.Also start sending flowers, plushies, and sweets by the truckload.
>>109101143I'll go to invite myself her house knock at the door invite myself in take a few souvenirs such as used underwear to sell, sniff her chair and then after that I'll tell her..
>>109101143I'd do it on a throwaway with the link to the database.
>>109101143No
>>109101302>>109104283Question is if you know she'd still be really scared because you anon saw it, would you then dox yourself to even the stakes? Or is the smaller fear the lesson for better opsec?