How do you walk the like between properly chatting about the stream, and just outright having a one on one conversation with her?When talking to my oshi in chat I just try to give her topics to talk about and it ends up feeling like a conversation
>>111232084I don't worry about it and just talk normally
>>111232084If you aren't developing a mutual parasocial relationship with your 1view oshi you're doing it wrong. Those girls are MADE to be groomed into being your irl gf.Unless you're a broke SEA nig, then you will never stand a chance
>>111232084Chatting IS an act of conversation. If you give a question/topic and the streamer replies in a way that prompts further input from your end, you are supposed to follow through. It is only bad to do so if it's at the expense of other viewers. So see how the chat is. If it is slow then offer open ended topics that lead to back and forths. If it is full of other chatters then just hold back and offer quick observations that the streamer can bounce off of. Besides it is your oshi's job to decide how to moderate the chat's behaviour. Not yours.
>>111232471It just feels weird to say something about my life then she replies and I reply back, especially when it isn't related to the stream...
Don't watch 1/2 viewer streams. It's basically grooming.
>>111236225Then you're the stream entertainment for a moment, idk what the issue is. Are you not having fun, why is it so difficult?
>>111236471Who's doing the grooming?
>>111237592I can't believe I gave money to that whore
>>111232084 oh no, my steak is too juicy and my lobster is too buttery
>>111232084I watch in privacy mode till there are like 20-30 chatters, otherwise is too awkward.
>>111232084Worst is if they see your handle joining the chat and the first thing is they greet you. All I wanted was to check out the stream.
Just backseat whatever game she's playing. That's what I do. Never had a problem.
>>111240660I can't handle seeing her chat empty, she sometimes reads the same chat by accident because she thinks a new chat came by even though no one commented in many minutes...
>>111236225If you say something and nobody bitches about it, in and out of her community, then it's fine. If you are concern that it isn't related then try to find related things you can talk about and talk about that instead.
>>111245154Well I worry it scares off other chatters when they see a wall of text from one guy
>>111232084it's easy
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>>111232084Let her carry the convo and agree to her point or offer another view on it. Keep it simple.
>>111232084you're fine as long as you're not just attention whoring to be #1 on the youtube chat leaderboard
>>111256700It's not hard to be #1 on a low 2view stream chat
>>111250503Its kinda like a musical duet or vibes in that you can reflect the engagement the chuuba gives you. Ultimately they're the "director" of their concert so its their job to decide how to handle whoever comes to dance for the moment. As long as you're not being spammy its ok.