Today is unironically my birthday. I am early 30s. My fiancée broke up with me last week. We have a newborn child. I am secretly in love with my 25 year old classmate in med school, but she only sees me as a friend. My life is falling apart and I want to kill myself.Please share webms for these feels, or if you'd like, write a message to help me cope with life.Sincerely,Anon
This is going to be her reaction when I confess my feelings
>>6032882
>>6032882Happy birthsday anon!
>>6032884>confess my feelingsAnon, you don't just blurt out "I love you" unprompted. Ask her out on a date and flirt.
>>6032884>oh no it's so hard for young women to have to put up with suitors>icky! he shouldn't ruin her friendship like that!>like, YIKES not again how could men do this to meeeeeI'm tired of this propaganda.For the sake of any shy young anons reading:THIS is the part of women's feelings you need to disregard. Do not be shamed into subverting diminishing yourself for their comfort as if you're trying to fit into the female hierarchy. You're not, You are a man, damn it.If you have real feeling pursue them. If she says no then cut and move on. You're not friends if you want to court her.You are not a woman. Stop trying to conform to their social norms.
https://i.4cdn.org/wsg/1763639214261977.webm
Happy birthday OP, sorry your life is turning out to be a significant fuck up. Hope it all comes together!
https://i.4cdn.org/wsg/1763642864986379.webm
>>6032882Fix your relationship with the mother of your child so they won't grow up stunted. Anyone can do that and so can you, don't live for pleasure for it won't pay off.
What year are you in now? Current 4th year and life is good right now, dreading going back to residency, wish I could've started already since this year seems like a waste
Thanks for the birthday wishes, guys. It makes me feel loved.>>6033045I've fallen in love with her, but I'm pretty sure she just sees me as a friend. I dont want to ruin our relationship. I feel like telling her that I have feelings will ruin everything because she'll see me differently.>>6033058I really like her even as a friend. Of course I want more than that, but I can't bare the thought of losing her, even if we just are friends. I guess I'm just scared to take that risk.>>6033107Thank you, friend.>>6033143Yeah I want to be there for my kid for sure. It crushes me to think he won't have a stable family situation.>>6033189I'm 3rd year
So we're doing birthday/fml threads now, huh? I see.>>>/adv/ise you to kys
>>6032882>My fiancée broke up with me last week. We have a newborn childYou almost lost half your shit. Be thankful she left before the marriage.
>>6032882Happy bday! How did you complete calculus for med school? Was it hard or effortless? What is your studying strategy?
>>6032882>My fiancée broke up with me last week. Probably a blessing in disguise. Let her go. Even if you guys get back together, having let her go in your heart will improve the quality of the relationship. >We have a newborn child.Congratulations!>I am secretly in love with my 25 year old classmate in med school, but she only sees me as a friend. let her go too or do what it takes to get her. however please avoid putting women on a pedestal. If she leaves it's no big deal.>My life is falling apart and I want to kill myself.Your life isn't falling apart. youre getting manipulated by your emotions. You have access to food and water, medicine, shelter, internet etc. You need to focus on building a perspective that actually helps and serves you. Good luck Anon. I love you becase I was you once. It's not always easy. But you can do it bro.
>>6035533P.S. Happy Birthday.
>>6033058IDK I'm a femoid, and I'm always really flattered when a guy asks me out because like I know how hard it is to put yourself out there. I try to be really really nice about it if I'm like already in a relationship or whatever, the woman in picrel is just a jerk.>>6033577I mean if you guys have mutual friends, you can ask them to feel her out for you. Like ask them to figure out if she would be open to you asking her out. It could make it a lot easier.That's how things have gone in the past with my guy friends, like they ask one of our mutual friends to see if I was interested in him.
>>6032882Hey OP, there was a time in my life when I researched literally every day the best way to kill myself. The only reason I didn't do it because I didn't have the means to do it reliably or without someone discovering me quickly at the time, and I was terrified of surviving with a disability.I can say unequivocally that I'm so glad I never did it. Life is literally all we have. I used to wish that I could just be born as someone else, but every day is an opportunity to start fresh and start building the life we want to have. I won't say it always gets better, but every day has infinite potential to be the start of something great.
>>6036252>femoid>like>I meanconvincing/10
>>6036252 (Me)>>6036945Literally what incentive do I have to lie. I could have just as easily said "this is the strategy that's worked on my girl friends" as "this is the strategy that has worked on myself and my girl friends." My advice is good advice, regardless of if I'm a guy or girl, but feel free to ignore it.
>>6036978>LiterallyGirls are fucking retarded. I’m surprised you didn’t go with ‘irregardless’. You’re truly a diamond dozen.
>>6032882Roflmao, enjoy being a lonely faggot OP
>>6032882Did you ever forget who you are ? .. be real, be yourself, never give up.
>>6036252If you are a lass, i hope you keep this atitude. All this gender war stuff is dumb as bricks and your take is fresh. Good on you
HAPPY BIRTHDAY
>>6033577What do you mean a friend lmfao? YOU HAVE CHILDREN WITH HER. You need to naturally raise your testosterone levels, that will fix most of it.
>>6036252Why do you weirdos need this bizarre vicarious rituals when you can just stop taking things out of proportion and do them by yourself? Are you all mumbling zooggers struggling to keep eye contact?
Kek
John Delony videos on youtube helped me a lot. He uses a lot of helpful language and will help you see how much of a pussy you are. Happy Birthday
>>6032882Lmao, what a loser. I would tell you to kill yourself, but I feel bad for your child who'd grow up fatherless. Although it probably will anyway, since you sound like an immature retard who can't handle any responsibilities.
>>6039625This, I'm also early 30s and I have no idea how OP managed to survive this long while being this much of a faggot
>>6032882You remind me of the babe.
>>6032882happy belated birthday friend. always remember, you are never alone.
>>6041731>>6041827Happy B-dayCheer up, Charlie
>>6032882Condoms are cheap. You could have and should have used one.
god help us, keep these low IQ retards out of med school
never take dating or friendship advice from women, that's all you need to know. they have been coddled their whole life and the real world is beyond their purview. they are children and you have to use psychological tricks to train them like you would a dog
>>6032882>Waaaa I'm a piece of shit normie!!! WaaaaaFuck off faggot
>>6032884More like "casually talking to my beta fallback orbiter choice that I don't need yet".
>>6032882>in med schoolbro if you are actually in med school (which i doubt), stfu, quit drinking, lift some weights, do some cardio, sack up & put your nose in the books and study, and quit being a gigantic bitch. soon you'll be in an environment with the sluttiest of hoes (a/k/a nurses and med techs). also, i guarantee once you actually perform at school and your job, this doctor hoe will notice you more. and if you follow my advice, you won't be such a fatass dipshit.>t. licensed professional, graduated with honors from top 20 grad school
>>6032882>Today is unironically my birthday.Ok, but how the fuck can it be your birthday ironically?
>>6043765he doesn't want to celebrate it?
>>6043257this
>>6032882Secretly inlove with a 25 year old? Shut up, you don't know what love is if it slapped you in the face. You are lusting to bust a nut, do yourself a favor and go to a massage parlor, stop destroying your own marriage over pussy like a simp beta boy. How about you make your marriage work so that your child has a happy family with two parents? Thats a sacrafice for your child, thats what LOVE is, not some degenerate sex toy in your class that you wanna bang. If she had a penis hidden in her dress you'd suddenly lose your "love", meaning its all bullshit you tell yourself. Dont breakup, make the marriage work, and both of you do it literally for your child, stop being narcissts and keep the peace, and become religious to help keep the family stronger.
>>6047556Also happy birthday anon! But seriously drop the ego and be a good father for the baby, stop worshiping random pussy that blows through your direction
>>6032882happy birthday>my life is falling apartnobody's life goes according to plan. i'm 35 and never even had a girlfriend. you won't be happy if you can't appreciate what you've had
>>6047556he's not married, he said fiancée, he was engaged to be married but not yet married.otherwise i do agree, op should make more of an effort to save it because he had a child, ones' child should come first, and that includes being a complete family. have you ever seen someone happy their parents were separated? i haven't.
>>6032882You should be happy, you got a kid. That's more than most will achieve around these parts.
>>6032882>>6032884>she only sees me as a friend>being friends with the opposite sex; everThis is one of the biggest tricks those Communist jews pulled on Christian Western Civilization:Be a man; not a faggot/eunuch. Don't ever befriend women because they don't have even a particle of a mote of loyalty. Don't ever listen to women because speak with forked tongues which Satan gave them.I denounce the Babylonian talmud and it's "jewish" adherents.
>>6032882>help me cope with life>I want to kill myselfPick one you fucking faggot. Do you want to live or not? God hearing you bitch is pathetic.
>>6032882>My life is falling apart admit that it's your fault and start from there
>>6032882This is how I feel everyday, except I’m not a cute jirai girl but a 90kg man who’s possibly autistic, can’t talk to a woman to save his life and has a penis that brings me profound sadness due to its tragically small size
Why wasn't this thread already deleted? I will blogpost my morning dump tomorrow.
>>6032884>>6043257>>6046535Men should stop being overly apologetic servants to women who don't respect them. They should stop apologizing for everything and start acting like men. They shouldn't care about what random women think of them.Do you hate a lot of men in real life? Yes, because as a man, you have many opponents.Does that make you anti-men? No.So stop caring about random women.It doesn't make you a misogynist; it makes you normal. Only an idiot thinks about what a stranger or enemy is thinking about him.Do women think you're creepy? Who cares? They can't even control their own hands well enough to avoid making mistakes and need men to correct everything they do. Who cares what a mentally unstable woman is thinking?They're overly emotional and can't judge things based on their actual meaning, but rather on how they feel about them. No sense of consequence or no sense of current state.Man up! You will be judged by God, not by some mentally unstable woman who posts illiterate TikToks.
>>6048354Be a man - Mulan
>>6032882You might be a whinny fag, but you are OUR whinny fag.
at least you had it at a time, and didnt live an unlucky life. rejoice
>>6032882> We have a newborn childEvery fucking time they have to bring a kid into their shit lives. Why do sub 80 IQ retards like you and your bitch can't use a contraceptive or even better sterilization
OP here. Holy shit, this thread is still up?? I'll respond to some posts in a few hours before bed. Thanks for keeping it alive.
>>6032882Happy late birthday anon, just turned 25 last week myself.The older I've gotten the more I've begun to realize that pining for that which we no longer have is just hard wired. I didn't grow up well, yet I still feel nostalgia for those times. Personally I've been trying to work on passion projects to dull the pain, or at least bury it for the time being. The most profound creations are those wrought in misery.
Happy belated birthday, OP. I am turning 21 in the first week of next month. I will share my own sob story, both to get it out of my system and because, perhaps, somebody reading this may find comfort in it.I'm too much of an eccentric to lead a normal life. I gradually grow to loathe anyone I see often, not because they are flawed by any stretch, but because I am yet to properly feel that they have connected with me on a psychospiritual level, beyond the surface, "you're funny" type of appreciation. Indeed, even my own immediate family is detached from me.Moreover, my passions are unusual. I enjoy reading and writing, particularly making it as avant-garde as possible (not unlike the Dickie Spence webm posted earlier in the thread) and I totally lack any interest in what could be used to make small-talk; I don't play videogames, I don't watch TV, I don't listen to music that anybody else does, etc. This is not because I view it as beneath me, but because I was never interested in these things, even as a toddler. All I want to do is make and consume artistic works and develop myself intellectually. I'd also like to get married and reproduce, but alas, my circumstances make it seem quite unlikely. However, I am connected to a few large and dissident names, all of whom seem to be fond of me, which provides me with that little shard of hope because it may provide me with the chance to engage with that which I truly want; to either work towards acting in a way I view to be conducive to the overall common good, or (in a largely wishful but quite unlikely scenario) to perish in a beautiful way and whilst protecting or acting in a way I view to be quite scenic, for lack of better term.I apologise if this is too morose. The ultimate point is that I am thinking like this and I'm 21. I have a life ahead of me and, although you are in your 30s, you are still only about 1/3-1/4 of the way to the end. It is easy to develop this feeling, but your heart still beats.
I'm doing intermittent fasting to lose weight and get sllim but boy, my body is fighting back like a bitchhttps://youtube.com/watch?v=WcnxHW1XU8Y>>6052429>>6053640Hey man. It's ok. Your time will come.
>>6032882Hey man, happy late birthday. I cant help you with empty words on how this life works and how life can improve if you try hard enough, because it wont.I'm a 33 years old, kissless virgin who tries every day to get out of bed. I can only say one thing to you, maybe your dreams wont come true, but they're worth fighting for. I have only one dream. I want someone to love me sincerely and give me a hug at least once in my whole life. If someday I got it, i would be happy at least once in my life and I will die in peace. If an idiot like me can survive in this fucking world, so you too. Keep fighting, There's plenty of people who cares about you and your situation, even if you don't know them now, like your son/daughter.
>>6032882Happy birthday dude.I'm 36 and recently went through some wild shit myself and what you need to do is stand naked in an empty room and consider that your baseline. You have nothing else but your body and mind. Nothing else matters and everything else is temporary. Learn to truly appreciate those two things and consider everything else a positive experience that will end. This is one way to stay alive.
>>6033035kek
>>6032882Again?
