Today is unironically my birthday. I am early 30s. My fiancée broke up with me last week. We have a newborn child. I am secretly in love with my 25 year old classmate in med school, but she only sees me as a friend. My life is falling apart and I want to kill myself.Please share webms for these feels, or if you'd like, write a message to help me cope with life.Sincerely,Anon
This is going to be her reaction when I confess my feelings
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>>6032882Happy birthsday anon!
>>6032884>confess my feelingsAnon, you don't just blurt out "I love you" unprompted. Ask her out on a date and flirt.
>>6032884>oh no it's so hard for young women to have to put up with suitors>icky! he shouldn't ruin her friendship like that!>like, YIKES not again how could men do this to meeeeeI'm tired of this propaganda.For the sake of any shy young anons reading:THIS is the part of women's feelings you need to disregard. Do not be shamed into subverting diminishing yourself for their comfort as if you're trying to fit into the female hierarchy. You're not, You are a man, damn it.If you have real feeling pursue them. If she says no then cut and move on. You're not friends if you want to court her.You are not a woman. Stop trying to conform to their social norms.
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Happy birthday OP, sorry your life is turning out to be a significant fuck up. Hope it all comes together!
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>>6032882Fix your relationship with the mother of your child so they won't grow up stunted. Anyone can do that and so can you, don't live for pleasure for it won't pay off.
What year are you in now? Current 4th year and life is good right now, dreading going back to residency, wish I could've started already since this year seems like a waste
Thanks for the birthday wishes, guys. It makes me feel loved.>>6033045I've fallen in love with her, but I'm pretty sure she just sees me as a friend. I dont want to ruin our relationship. I feel like telling her that I have feelings will ruin everything because she'll see me differently.>>6033058I really like her even as a friend. Of course I want more than that, but I can't bare the thought of losing her, even if we just are friends. I guess I'm just scared to take that risk.>>6033107Thank you, friend.>>6033143Yeah I want to be there for my kid for sure. It crushes me to think he won't have a stable family situation.>>6033189I'm 3rd year
So we're doing birthday/fml threads now, huh? I see.>>>/adv/ise you to kys
>>6032882>My fiancée broke up with me last week. We have a newborn childYou almost lost half your shit. Be thankful she left before the marriage.
>>6032882Happy bday! How did you complete calculus for med school? Was it hard or effortless? What is your studying strategy?
>>6032882>My fiancée broke up with me last week. Probably a blessing in disguise. Let her go. Even if you guys get back together, having let her go in your heart will improve the quality of the relationship. >We have a newborn child.Congratulations!>I am secretly in love with my 25 year old classmate in med school, but she only sees me as a friend. let her go too or do what it takes to get her. however please avoid putting women on a pedestal. If she leaves it's no big deal.>My life is falling apart and I want to kill myself.Your life isn't falling apart. youre getting manipulated by your emotions. You have access to food and water, medicine, shelter, internet etc. You need to focus on building a perspective that actually helps and serves you. Good luck Anon. I love you becase I was you once. It's not always easy. But you can do it bro.
>>6035533P.S. Happy Birthday.
>>6033058IDK I'm a femoid, and I'm always really flattered when a guy asks me out because like I know how hard it is to put yourself out there. I try to be really really nice about it if I'm like already in a relationship or whatever, the woman in picrel is just a jerk.>>6033577I mean if you guys have mutual friends, you can ask them to feel her out for you. Like ask them to figure out if she would be open to you asking her out. It could make it a lot easier.That's how things have gone in the past with my guy friends, like they ask one of our mutual friends to see if I was interested in him.
>>6032882Hey OP, there was a time in my life when I researched literally every day the best way to kill myself. The only reason I didn't do it because I didn't have the means to do it reliably or without someone discovering me quickly at the time, and I was terrified of surviving with a disability.I can say unequivocally that I'm so glad I never did it. Life is literally all we have. I used to wish that I could just be born as someone else, but every day is an opportunity to start fresh and start building the life we want to have. I won't say it always gets better, but every day has infinite potential to be the start of something great.
>>6036252>femoid>like>I meanconvincing/10
>>6036252 (Me)>>6036945Literally what incentive do I have to lie. I could have just as easily said "this is the strategy that's worked on my girl friends" as "this is the strategy that has worked on myself and my girl friends." My advice is good advice, regardless of if I'm a guy or girl, but feel free to ignore it.
>>6036978>LiterallyGirls are fucking retarded. I’m surprised you didn’t go with ‘irregardless’. You’re truly a diamond dozen.
>>6032882Roflmao, enjoy being a lonely faggot OP
>>6032882Did you ever forget who you are ? .. be real, be yourself, never give up.
>>6036252If you are a lass, i hope you keep this atitude. All this gender war stuff is dumb as bricks and your take is fresh. Good on you
HAPPY BIRTHDAY
>>6033577What do you mean a friend lmfao? YOU HAVE CHILDREN WITH HER. You need to naturally raise your testosterone levels, that will fix most of it.
>>6036252Why do you weirdos need this bizarre vicarious rituals when you can just stop taking things out of proportion and do them by yourself? Are you all mumbling zooggers struggling to keep eye contact?
Kek
John Delony videos on youtube helped me a lot. He uses a lot of helpful language and will help you see how much of a pussy you are. Happy Birthday
>>6032882Lmao, what a loser. I would tell you to kill yourself, but I feel bad for your child who'd grow up fatherless. Although it probably will anyway, since you sound like an immature retard who can't handle any responsibilities.
>>6039625This, I'm also early 30s and I have no idea how OP managed to survive this long while being this much of a faggot
>>6032882You remind me of the babe.
>>6032882happy belated birthday friend. always remember, you are never alone.
>>6041731>>6041827Happy B-dayCheer up, Charlie
>>6032882Condoms are cheap. You could have and should have used one.
god help us, keep these low IQ retards out of med school
never take dating or friendship advice from women, that's all you need to know. they have been coddled their whole life and the real world is beyond their purview. they are children and you have to use psychological tricks to train them like you would a dog
>>6032882>Waaaa I'm a piece of shit normie!!! WaaaaaFuck off faggot
>>6032884More like "casually talking to my beta fallback orbiter choice that I don't need yet".
