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I struggle talking to others when any sort of disagreement occurs
If there is any tension felt when talking to people my speech and communication will become blocked and I usually freeze up and its hard to bring things back to peace
Will learning how to balance my throat chakra help?
Or praying?
Do I have PTSD?

>an example
I was traveling and met some turkish guys and I genuinely asked if it was mostly muslim and one says "yeah but the youth are not as strict at following it, so its changing" and i said "yeah like whats changing, are the women becoming less oppressed"?
Which I know sounds like a provoking/loaded question and maybe Im ausitic and should realize that it could sound offensive
This triggered one of them and his tone got harsh and he was like "have you ever been there? I dont think you know anything about it"
And I just froze, did a 360 and left instead of saying "no sorry I know nothing about it, and i didnt mean to imply that the women are treated poorly, i just meant to ask if any of the values and cultures about traditional roles has changed"
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>>41244808
Find it funny
It might be ptsd or poisoning from mk ultra media, etc
It could be past lives where many were burned for speaking out or maybe you’re from a non conflict type planet originally
Easiest way to break those habits is not giving a fuck. Use meditation or psychedelics (those who want the easy tool), cognitive behavioral therapy works but takes longer. Stay away from controversial topics with Muslims they love to argue
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>>41244871
>not giving a fuck
>stay away from controversial topics

Yeah I need to realize to avoid talking to random npcs about anything like this and I also think it could be an "insecurity" that threattens me so If i simply just dont give a fuck. I will be secure and confident
>mkultra type shit
Yeah It could be something like this because I think this stuff all got worse around covidbullshit era
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>>41244808
You did sound like an autistic brainlet anon, but that's just how most people have been taught to talk lately, that's why so many are completely socialy inept nowadays. You just need to practice talking to others. Go for walks everyday, strike up conversations with others, learn your small talk and you'll be fine.
Praying and meditating would definitely help too, going to church even more so.
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I would say in this Situation with those harsh reacting guys it is quit normal to feel such tensions.

Could be that you have PTSD, if you are an Autist, it is easy to become various kinds of traumas, cause as an Autis it is very hard with Feelings, what is that Feeling, strange it confuse me i cannot really describe it.

Forgeht the Situation with this Guys and maybe let you testing if you are an Autist also PTSD. Both to knowing is essential, for your reacting in Future happenings.

Sry my bad english, i could not good describe such things, i am an Autist ^^ fr!
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>>41244891
Im sorry anon but if other people are npcs you're beneath npc level, npcs can at least talk with proper dialogue. And give quests
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>>41244808
this is called a microagression
>le woke
it's just a label for the comment
you should have reminded them of Aisha's age and spit in their general direct
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>>41244940
The Cunny Commander's sexual and homosexual preferences are the weakest arguments you can use against them.
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ya i do this shit , it gets worse if you shut in (which i tend to do). do as the other dude said & try to just force yourself to talk to ppl. that or just say fuck it and isolate more, throw some weed in to make the autism more severe >:3
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>>41244907
>autistic brainlet
Yeah I often times forget about some topics being offensive or tabboo
>>41244912
>normal to feel those tensions
Ok thanks for confirming that the tension part is felt by most
>>41244926
Yeah I suppose I am NPC in the sense that I am letting something so simple cause me to run a script of "freezing"

Will a charm or talisman protect me or give me added charisma?
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>>41244961
smoke proper cigarettes at least. a lonely person smoking a cigarette is an introspective noircoded thinker. an isolated fag smoking weed is jusy gay bum
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>>41244940
>Remind them of Aishas age
Lmao this would of been epic
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>>41244907
>exposure therapy without the therapy or forming a plan
>go to church
Horrible advice
I found aspects of your advice made my anxiety worse when in a similar situation
I’m sure your advice is good for normies but I found dmt much better at helping me than church or praying
Everyone will be different though and most npc’s probably don’t need psychedelics and church probably helps them. Church just doesn’t do shit for me and I’ve been many different times to many different types of churches
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>>41244970
Venus/Aphrodite venetarion, altar keeping, and talismans would work wonders. The thing is, they're most efficient when you know what you're doing, and to know what you're doing you must learn the basics, which are meditation, visualization, trance states, and basic theory, and learning all of these will, by themselves, change who and how you are, you'll learn how to control your mind and actions, and, by then, in your specific case, I don't think you'll be having the same issues anymore.
I recommend looking into David Conway's Magic an Occult Primer. You can find it online.
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>>41245006
>must learn the basics
Thanks man I will look into all this
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>>41244988
Fair enough, but I've seen what I mentioned work for people who definitely weren't normies and/or neurotypical AT ALL. Not to imply I know what you went through, but I myself am autistic and have seen this stuff work for people much worse of than me. I don't think it would hurt for anon to try it at least.
I'm wary of pychodelics cause they sometimes seem to be too "easy" of a solution, and a potential crutch later on, but I do know people whose lives were changed for the better by taking shrooms and acid, it appareantly served the same purpose spirituality and spiritual practice served in rewiring my mind.
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Hello op, I am Turkish myself. Excuse my kin. You see, the programming, corruption and demoralisation agenda has escalated these 10-20 years even more so than from most of the countries. People are becoming more and more confused, aggressive, and selfish. Though there are some that retain the Turk ideal, just how every little community should retain their own in these harsh times.
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>>41244970
A few weeks ago some tarted albanian Guy was willing to stab me (he owed me Money i forced him to answer my Questions where it is), i was so full of Adrenalin i had him so easily defeated, without knowing what happend to him. Cause i had could reacted physically as he was babbling his shit to me and i had some Streetfights as i was younger and i am a bit trained in selfdefense technics. I simply said gtfo leave me alone and walked away cause i am not willed to do harm to others if i can avoid it.

Microdosed Cannabis can help to interact moire easiyl with others, but mostly i have than no interest to interact with otherrs, but Sex is awesome on Weed :D and don´t smoke that Shit, smoking is the baddest shit, i am very Nicotine Addicted ^^ quiting Weed is very easy not nearly problematic but Nicotin is like Heroin.
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>>41245075
hylics gonna hylic

they exist to serve and die for archon systems
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>>41245075
>escuse my kin
Like I said I should/could of just went full circle and said something to let him know I should of said something different then oppressed but his slight aggression caused me to freeze
Kind of like when I say something that offends women and have to explain that i didnt intend to be rude
>>41245086
>i could react phsyically because ive had some streetfights
Yeah I also need to remind myself that I am way crazier and could slap the shit out of these fools if i needed to. But I think the adreneline would still be activated and bother me
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>>41245137
It is hard to be calm minded in such situations but totally possible, it is complete normal that one will be flooded with adrenalin you must simply stand/accept that feeling. Maybe you have an Martial Arts School near by you, training would help you, in many ways.
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>>41244907
>go to church
kek. what a strange way to address anxiety.
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>>41245159
>martial arts will help
Good idea, i want this
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>>41244808
Try Emotional Freedom Technique also called tapping
Step 1: Identify the Issue

Be as specific as possible. Instead of "I'm stressed," try "I'm stressed about the presentation I have to give to my boss tomorrow morning." The more specific, the better.

Step 2: The Setup Statement

While continuously tapping the "Karate Chop" point (the side of your hand), you repeat a setup phrase three times. This phrase acknowledges the problem and accepts yourself despite it. The format is:

"Even though I have [this problem], I deeply and completely love myself”

Step 3: The Tapping Sequence

Now, you tap about 5-7 times on each of the following points while repeating a short "reminder phrase" to keep your mind focused on the issue. The points are:

1. Top of the Head (TH)
2. Eyebrow (EB) - at the beginning of the eyebrow, near the nose
3. Side of the Eye (SE) - on the bone at the corner of the eye
4. Under the Eye (UE) - on the bone under the pupil
5. Under the Nose (UN) - between the nose and upper lip
6. Chin (Ch) - midway between the lower lip and the chin
7. Beginning of the Collarbone (CB) - about an inch down and out from the u-shaped notch at the top of the breastbone
8. Under the Arm (UA) - about four inches down from the armpit (on the side of the body)

You can use either hand and tap on either side of the body.

Reminder Phrase Example: While tapping through these points, you'd simply say, "this anxiety," or "this tightness in my chest.”
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>>41244907
>Go for walks everyday, strike up conversations with others, learn your small talk and you'll be fine.
Expose yourself to evil spirits, monitoring spirits and malevolent spirits
>Praying and meditating would definitely help too, going to church even more so.
Subscribing to a fear-based shame-based cult like christianity is the last thing that would help your anxiety lmao

Stupid normie bullshit
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>>41245424
Whats your reccomendations wizard? What level are you anyway?
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>>41244808
hey anon you can practice with me, im the opposite ans get very blunt and even aggressive
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>>41244808
OP I guarantee you that what I write is 100% the case. How do I know? Because I once suffered the same exact thing you describe to a tee. It stems from having really really really really low self esteem and self worth, which itself stems from PTSD, stemming from verbal/physically abuse and bullying. The PTSD causes you to freeze both physically but even worse mentally: first of all your mind blanks and you struggle to assess the situation and think of a fitting answer. And even in the rare cases where you would know what to say the physical freezing makes moving your muscles that allow you to speak basically impossible.
Things that help? I also tried a lot of supernatural bullshit, maybe I didn't do it right but it never did anything significant for me. What really helped was therapy, medication but most importantly, as horrifying as it will sound to you now: confrontation therapy. The going into blockage and freezing is a learned behavior which is the default reaction of your body and mind to this type of confrontional situations. You want your body to unlearn this reaction and replace it with your desired one. But this can only happen if you continously seek out this situations, and retrain your body. Maybe you can try debate clubs if that's a thing in your country/place of living. Here you are supposed to disagree on a topic but in a controlled and in itself non hostile setting.



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