Just the title lol.How do they stop wanting it? Surely they're not all aromantic asexuals. I've started avoiding media with romance plots entirely but it's not helping as much as I'd hoped. I've been meditating and shit too but I'm not getting anywhere.
>>41628749Priests stick it in alter boysNuns abuse the little girls they look after.
help me un-hard my pp please god
>>41628749There’s probably more than one way to go about it but contemplating the impermanence of the satisfaction you receive from orgasm helps as well as analyzing women into their constituent parts to develop disgust. Think of the snot, piss, blood, and shit in their bodies and consider how what you’re attracted isn’t so much reality as it is a illusion that elides so much in order to be arousing
They are renunciates, which is a very difficult path and takes a toll. You live in the real world, so your path looks different, and realistically you should aim for a path of balance. accept your desire, channel it into other endeavours, maybe something creative, or physical activity, and work with it.Also to expand on this >>41628791Many of these guys are not successful. why? Because they are just simply repressed. And this comes out in ugly ways. Do not repress your desires. that's the worst thing you can do. accept it, and go from there. It sems you're harbouring feelings of guilt and shame, again this is all part of the programming. Hatred for women too, can generate perversion. let it all go
>>41629088I don't have any guilt or shame about it so I'm halfway there. Don't hate women either but I do kinda hate men (bi fag lol). I'll try and stay focused on my work but jesus christ there's so many distractions.
>>41628749I just remember the commandment "thou shalt not covet", works for money cravings too
>>41628749For Buddhism, you give up sensuality.You do this by understanding the gratification, danger, and escape from sensuality.I'm practical terms, when you have a romantic desire, allow it to arise, but see how that desire is painful. Reflect on how if you give into that desire, it will make the desire stronger, and so the pain will be stronger. Reflect on how the pleasure you hope to get is simply freedom from the pain of the desire. That possibility of pleasure is only as strong as the pain of the desire, because it's simply the possibility of relief from it. If you see this clearly enough, your mind will become dispassionate towards the agreeable possibility of romance, which is how you escape it.You escape it by clearly seeing the painful nature of desire, rather than ignoring its painful nature and projecting the relief from it onto external things.Then your mind won't go anywhere near it automatically. https://www.dhammatalks.org/suttas/MN/MN75.html>Now, suppose that there was a leper covered with sores & infections, chewed up by worms, picking the scabs off the openings of his wounds with his nails, cauterizing his body over a pit of glowing embers. The more he cauterized his body over the pit of glowing embers, the more unclean, foul-smelling, & putrid the openings of his wounds would become, and yet he would feel a modicum of enjoyment & satisfaction because of the itchiness of his wounds. In the same way, beings not free from passion for sensualities—chewed up by sensual craving, burning with sensual fever—partake of sensualities. The more they partake of sensualities, the more their sensual craving increases and the more they burn with sensual fever, and yet they feel a modicum of enjoyment & satisfaction dependent on the five strings of sensuality.https://youtu.be/Y5_57craCak?si=US5tE8AqYXOJfz3ihttps://youtu.be/BQPtqBlZQGM?si=9OkgDCb3yhZyuwwf
You have one life and you're not fully embracing all your incarnation into the flesh has to offer?
>>41628749Im a flaming asexual and i think treating sex or gooning as evil or bad is retarded af especially if its not excessive, harmful, hijacking or illegal kinds
>>41629071That's kinda gay anon. I think the human body is beautiful, and only more interesting and amazing when you think of all of the parts working together, like a antique clock with a near perfect movent. its not like Doctors stop being to their wives because they know how their body works. I thin if you get turned off because of thinking of all the parts of the body you're not meditating on it hard enough
>>41628749Man is meant for building a family, but that's not enough or the best for some people: these ones seek salvation in devoting their lives to God. If they pick monasticism over marriage then they already made their choiceOf course, monasticism isn't a covenant, it's a vow. If you end your vow and return to the world, then you can still get married.
>>41630602This. Abrahamism is a bit retarded in this respect, having some naughty fun is good and it relieves stress
>>41629980>>41630602>>41631018I literally agree with all of these and I'd be a total pervert whore if I thought people were capable of respecting each other romantically and sexually. Puritanism is not the issue here. It is that I'm tured of being treated like human filth.
>>41632171You can afford to be choosy about who is in your circle, you know. There are billions of people on the planet and you're just a freaking click away from most of them.
>>41632227Literally none of them are worth shit. I've been sifting through hundreds of them.
>>41632242Fair enough, although you may just be having a string of bad luck. Humanity is 99% garbage so you are looking for the 1% unfiltered, it's like trying to find a good thread on /b/ these days...
>>41628749Stop consuming porn. Stop listening cuckold music. Stop watching hollywood movies. Stop watching shounen animes. Fap for game waifu. Listen to extreme black metal. Watch old black and white movies. Watch psychopath animes. It is cultural. You can do it.
>>41632325I haven't watched porn in 10 years and I'm literally a film student who does nothing but analyze and write artsy bullshit films about hating your spouse or whatever. Also you will never get me to watch anime. I am 100 steps ahead of you brother. The impulse to desire love is a deep one. Maybe I should start cutting myself.
Many different techniques are out there:>connect to a female deity (Om Mane Padme Hum, Hail Mary, etc) to experience far greater love and happiness than could be attained by chasing a material woman. Venus gayatri mantra is ironically said to remove desire for woman, because it gives you insight into their nature, and that's its not worth it, especially when you are tapping into an ocean of female energy with the mantra.>destroyer deities like Shiva: Shiva teaches one ascetic yoga and meditation, and removes romantic desires. >yogic techniques such as asanas, mudras>semen retention (vajroli mudra): Mastering the release of semen, also gives tremendous power over not simping for woman. You realize losing the semen is losing life-force, and you do not need a woman for the pleasure. >vegan diet, sattvic diet, fastingProbably many more ways as well.
>>41628749don't know how monk/nuns do it, but for me, there is no desire in post nut clarity
>>41628749They don’t. Suffer till death. They’ve made peace with that.
>>41632258If you think the majority of people are garbage then the problem is YOU. Grow up and start engaging with people IRL instead of your online bubble. You pathetic gimp.
>>41634024Fuck you retarded faggot. It's called having standards.
>>41634024tfw he doesn't know
>>41634024>namefags on /x/>thinks he isn't bottom of the barrel trash himselfOh I am laffin
>>41628749I've started avoiding media that involves romance too not because I'm religious but because it's just so excruciating to see it when I'm autistic and can never experience it in my life. And any time someone in my proximity is in a relationship it causes me to get really reckless, drink a lot, and fuck myself up in some way. I feel like I'm going to die in the next five years from this, if not intentionally than just from getting physically damaged from my depression and recklessness as a result. I am thirty one now and am the worst and most unhinged I have ever been. I told myself that I had gotten over it a few years ago, but I was lying to myself. I was only holding it off for a few years. Then the excruciating psychological and mental suffering came back pounding down on me with a vengeance. I think I'm going to die because of it.
>>41634341Brother, I just want you to know that you are not alone in this pain. If we do not take our own lives may we find reason to rid ourselves of such despair and find meaning beyond human connection.
>>41628791yes, but monks are based>>41634024lmao watch out we have a reddit tough guy here
>>41628749Vegetarianism and veganism. Lack of cholesterol (the pre-cursor of testosterone and other anaboloc/sex hormones) and nutrients make humans less sexual. If they abstain from fastfood, highly processed crap and sweets, they won't be driven into homosexuality (worms n shiet love those kinds of foods). Also, being obedient to lord Jesus Christ and following the scripture helps immensely...this might be the biggest part as you understand how futile it is to follow your fleshly desires. Food adds a safety buffer
if you are talking about christian pastors, priests and nuns. they really don't. they're degen perverts behind closed doorsalso abstinence is anti-human (which is why biblical rabbis tell you to do it)don't be a coomer but you unironically need to clear your pipes or your body will start hurting
>>41635725Some are, that's true. The Bible warns us about this. There are many wolves in sheeps clothing and in the end times many are going to be deceived. Check out Nathan Reynolds (the linnen railroad). He talks extensively of Christians who he has encountered who've turned out to be satan's agents. It's quite easy (and hard too) for him to talk about this as he was involved in satanic ritual abuse from his parents giving him up to perverts and he knows this sort of thing. The crazy part? His parents were a Christ loving family on the face and persona they put out for the world to see. There are countless of others too who are willing to tesyify. You can find themThis doesn't negate that there still are many God-fearing Christians out there who serve Christ wholeheartidly. I hope you get to meet them but more importantly, I pray that you get to know Christ
>>41635742>biblical failurea house divided cannot stand. stop falling for a demiurge psyop
>>41635803Gnosticism is a herecyYou can't really expect for the world to be perfect, can you?
>>41635817>perfect creator>imperfect creationadd things up before you get eaten by an archon
>>41628749You don't remove it you integrate it like all things. How is that done alone? An imaginary friend of course. A psychic projection to be your ideal partner. If you don't spend time cultivating an inner world there's no point even wondering about the nature of existence.
>>41629147You called?Touch grass and put Tabasco sauce on your pp
