My Filipino gf has been begging to get married the last couple months. She was born here it's nothing to do with citizenship. I can't really complain about her, she is cute and does more for me than I deserve, but something in my soul is tugging at me not to do it. I can't help but feel like I am trapping myself. We have both agreed to not have kids, and I live a simple lifestyle so it isn't a fear of being wrecked by divorce/child support. Idk is it just one of those irrational fears I should ignore? What happens in the spiritual realm when you are married?
>>41723519The moment that you're married she's gonna try for kids. That's probably why.
>>41723519Jesus Christ why even date someone if you have no intention of marriage? Are you just using her body for your own sexual gratification? You sound like a piece of shit, you should break up because she deserves better.
>>41723533I never said I didn't want to get married, I just said I'm suddenly nervous to now that the ball is rolling, and am interested to know what I am getting myself into spiritually.
>>41723541Youre using her youth, the most valuable thing she has, to then dump her? Thats like a fat ugly old woman getting together with a rich handsome man and then taking all of his money. But its even worse since the man can get his money back and he has life experience so he is stupid for falling for it. Your gf cant get her youth back, it is in her nature to be gullible. And you are just gonna use that for your advantage? Its obviously better spiritually to not be evil. Maybe you dont want to marry her because she is fillipino and youre white, which i understand. But dont use her like this. You either stay to marry or leave her be.
>>41723519What's important is the relationship, not how the relationship is legally called.
>>41723541If you are fucking her, you are already spiritually married to her, but you have not performed the proper social ritual to recognize her as your partner.You are afraid of the responsibility of recognizing her as an equal to you.Now some etimology to you think about, "honour" is very relate to the concept of "being whole, being umblemished".So honour her with the marriage, or let her simply go away with her life.
>>41723519My lust died the second I wrote the average feminine nature on paper and stratified it according to its moral nature. I am now convinced that the only thing you are supposed to do as a soul, as a man is to wrestle your own flesh into submission, find God and develop a prosperous and altruistic relationship with our creator in order to escape this prison. 99% of women are half humans with no souls, everything they strive for and enjoy is ultimately evil in its nature. The very core of femininity is absolute evil that seeks to devour good men with the same glee and joy youd get from stomping out some dorky kids sand castle.Once I realized why women are the way they are, it's like I've finally been enlightened as to why hermit monks become hermits in the first place. It's all a lie, its all a joke. This planet is a prison, women are archons who genuinely don't give a fuck about anything but they have to pretend to have interests beyond themselves just so men dont become suspicious and notice the huge disparity in the nature of each gender. It's not a complimentary nature, it's completely one-sided and parasitic. The entire role of women is to entrap a mans life force and pull another soul onto this false reality incarnation trap. Thats all they were designed to do. Satan takes a hold of their hivemind vessels with comedic ease and no resistance. They are all beyond corrupt, they fall apart once a month and endure pain unless they fulfill their ill-natured task. There is nothing in this world worth striving for besides Gods love. There is absolutely NOTHING in this world that is worth your place in heaven.
>>41723519Divorce rape
>>41723631Coping virgin.If you are gnostic you have to admit women are closer to God than we are. It is men that cause chaos for the sake of physical nonsense. Birth control exists so now there's no moral argument not to have sex. It's just a cope from dudes who are too retarded to have sex in the literal age of sex.
>>41723541Yeaah you are just clinging to the spiritual crap because you want something you can justify in your head why you will say no...jesus christ you are trash,hopefully once she gets done with you she can find someone decent sucks she had to waste so long with you though but thing happen
>>41723659Not that guy and i don't really agree with most of his tldr crap i dont often have sex just because i don't like people
>>41723610True, but it's important to her we get married. So therefore it is important to the relationship.>>41723615You make valid points.
Ask her why she wants to get the state involved in your relationship, obviously it's not for your benefit I would probably dump if it gets to this point
>>41723673>You make valid points.I was very sincere anon, if you love each other, marry. Many people don't have [and probably never will] this opportunity to have a structured family.
>>41723663Lol fecaloid moment
>>41723695Don't take advice from this broke loser, marriage is just used as control and leverage over the man
