Looking for some input. My uncle entered hospice shortly after Thanksgiving and passed in mid-December. He chose to remain at home and declined most pain medication. In his final days, he appeared calm, accepting, and at peace with the idea of death.In the days leading up to his passing, he frequently spoke to his deceased father in the ceiling. At times these moments sounded like coherent conversations; at other times his speech became fragmented, as if ordinary language was no longer sufficient. He also spoke openly about accepting the Creator and showed no signs of fear or distress.He also described seeing a young girl sitting or resting in the corners of the room. He did not perceive her as threatening—only present. After seeing her for a day or two, he asked his spouse if she could see her as well. When she could not, he asked that she be asked to leave. After this was spoken aloud, he said the girl was gone.He did not recognize the figure or associate her with any known memory or person.Would like to see what yall have to say, especially you old fags.
it crazy, its kooky, its altogether spooky. but your story is comforting thank you
Yeah and? I can talk to your uncle right now.
>>41730725You die only when it's your time. In a way, you decide when it's your time or not.Most people die a slow death over span of life when we neglect to practice harm reduction for vices and bad behavior.I think that people choose to die when they give up during times of crisis and suffering, irrational thinking. After losing a leg or developing a spinal condition, receiving cancer diagnosis, you accept the condition and the prognosis, it leads to your inevitable death.But some people know that a lost limb or a degenerative condition is not limiting. Some people know that cancer can be cured. Some people know that their spinal damage can be healed with the right exercise and rehabilitation.If you don't want to die, you need to remain calm and always have faith in the future. Choose to die symbolically, instead of physically and know that you can start again many times over course of life and never give up.Personally I don't think there is anything good or bad about dying. I refuse to believe that deceased family members have ever actually died. Death really doesn't mean anything. It's heartbreaking to lose someone to whom you are attached but if you know that they never really died you can adjust.
>>41730782Do tell
>>41730919>Some people know that cancer can be cured.Chemo is not worth it.
>>41731409Most oncologists deserve capital punishment. Not even joking.
Dying is fucking irrelevant. Its irrelevant. Its whatever you make of it as a living being with ideas of your life. Its without meaning. Either he hallucinated or actually saw them and whichever one it is makes virtually no difference. Doesnt matter he sounds like he lived a full life and died an old man not that it matters to him. I cant stress this enough. Death does not matter. Everything about death is really about epistomy or about anxiety. The only thing that matters is that youre still alive. And you will be until your dead. Put some thought into your life.
>>41731418You're contradicting yourself
>>41730725his brain was dying. very nice that he passed peacefully. some pass in a lot of discomfort, despite morphine q1. noone has answers, is it nothing, something. perhaps your uncle knows now. 6 months of intense grief in waves for a close family member is totally ok
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