whats the /x/ explanation of being so different to your parents? >1 how can you be good if your parents are bad? >2 if you have kids wouldnt you try your best to be the best>3 how to avoid being like a bad parentI am literally stuck thinking about this, theres cycles within my family that repeats, its some good but the bad and negativity outways the good, families are so complex, why can't everyone get along and be good, where does the hate, jealousy & envy come from within own families if we are all family? it makes no sense.My family is extremely dysfunctional, nobody even gets along. i always try to really make sense of this, it makes no sense, how can you hate your own blood? everyone just hates each other and splits away, its like an issue that can not be solved.
>>41772019>being born in an ugly familySucks to be you OP, try not being born ugly next life loser
Don't make friends, on spawn just punch a nigga in the nose. You can't trust anyone in here.
>>41772019I have a family who want to be "a family" so to speak, but their idea of family means being crabs in a bucket and controlling behaviors.I don't care about an inheritance or respect from my parents and family, the best gift they can give me is their day of death and the fact I don't have give them my attention anymore or that they are existing on this planet tormenting others.Yes I sound very resentful and bitter, but I wouldn't be if I didn't take coercive debt a few years back that kept me saddled with them for longer than needed. Never again.
You'll be okay anon you'll make it just focus on your inner journey and work out the traumas to break the cycle. As to why? Some part is nature, some part is nurture, and even when it comes to nurture every child is different(something very traumatizing for one child might barely affect the other) and it is impossible for even the best parent to guard their child from trauma, and conversely it is impossible for the worst parent to deprive their child of their will to persevere for the rest of their life. Just be lucky that somehow the cycle broke with you, and that you're aware of it and do what you can.
