>In case of urges:
- https://imgur.com/a/nofap-anecdotal-evidence-g4eGH
- Don't peek and Hold your breath for as long as you possibly can. The urge usually pass after that. If not, repeat.
- Horse stance or chair pose: Do it while clenching the abdomen and all legs' muscles, raise arms for extra blood flow redirection. Works both for killing erections or urges.
- Any physical activity.

On long clean streaks many report benefits that transcend current science like a sort of "magnetism" or higher "vibration/aura" that attracts/appeals to other living beings, a higher perception, a stronger and intimidating "aura/presence", a deeper connection with nature, an attractive BO (people usually report it as "pheromones") and more.

>Advices:
- Mental Purity 1.1: Semen Retention acts as a bio-electromagnetic amplifier. Watch the quality of your thoughts because your inner state will get amplified and manifested. Lust is the Ojas killer. Do not engage with Lust.
- Mental Purity 1.2: Keep a journal as a tool for introspection.
- NEVER watch porn of any kind.
- Remove triggers from your life. Masturbation is a bad habit. Break that bad habit.
- Focus on achieving a goal. An art, a craft, competing, etc.
- Meditate and/or Pray Daily. Try a minimum of 5 minutes to start off.
- Exercise/Gym/Sports/Martial Arts. If it is something social even better.
- Good habits like healthy eating, water fasting, dry fasting, sun exposure and cold showers do seem to speed up the process.
- Sublimation: literally using the energy.
- Transmutation: changing the quality of energy to something different. (Surya Namaskara, 8 brocades, Tibetan rites)
- Avoid stimulant drugs such as caffeine or adderall

Keep in mind that the efferent nerves attached to your testes necessarily means that any lustful thought, image, or sound is necessarily a command to your junk to produce sexual fluids and this is the reason why celibacy is first and foremost of the mind
The root of this entire matter is the mind - without conquering the mind, celibacy is a futile effort
The signals from the brain happen on the subconscious autonomic level
This is why any lustful thought, image, or sound is necessarily a command to the sexual organs to produce sexual fluids (the more intently you look, the higher amplitude of a signal gets sent: body > afferent nerves > brain > efferent nerves > body)
Therefore "Conversion of sexual energy to something" is necessarily a HORRIBLY inefficient process (Not to confuse with Sexual Transmutation)
Fluids will be reabsorbed, but the energy and materials cost to make it vs how much is "taken back" via reabsorption is SEVERELY unbalanced and super net negative
Sexual fluids are made from the cream of the crop of the body's resources - constantly generating them means that you are constantly draining away the cream of the crop of your resources.
Taoist writings said that the sexual organs will even take primacy over nourishing your other internal organs at some point. (Thus, doing a spiritual practice as a coomer is a surefire way to die faster).

Scientific evidence and interesting reads
https://privatebin.net/?0934801052b0e998#JAmesRbvvy3ZGvYaWzUuqFLtehVHfbEcoxXiwjrhR37M
https://pastebin.com/qbTd4Lai
https://pastebin.com/dzA2yCdr
https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/rebooting-accounts/rebooting-accounts-page-1/
https://www.acupuncture.com/education/points/kidney/kid1.htm
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/32356125

It’s always good to remember why /x/ is the most accurate place for this topic: SR is one of the clearest paranormal inducing topics among all discussed on /x/. It’s a sacred practice that has been the one of the main focuses in every major religion or spiritual practices. The mystical side of it is what we try to focus on.
SR can be also be seen as a political issue. The porn industry is a tool made by the Jews to deteriorate and corrupt societies. Porn works in ways that program new sets of behaviour in its audience and because of its strong addictive qualities they stay hooked. The most important goal for porn’s male audience was and is the release of their semen. As we now know, the disadvantageous consequences of releasing are heavy: a man becomes less of a man, he gets sick and weak, his mind numbed, he will have impotence issues etc. Upto the point his spirit almost dies.
SR is beneficial to make one healthier and stronger, more fit, if you will. So the topic could be discussed on /fit/. Anyone looking for more ways to get fitness gains would benefit hugely from the SR.
Also SR has so many other benefits that it could be discussed in the /adv/ board. These would be topics how it improves one’s social life, mental state, makes more time to be more productive etc.

The biggest benefits of SR are mystical in nature and the whole practice is fundamentally very close to the spiritual side of things. All the other topics in /x/ are left far behind and SR actually makes this board of any relevancy. This is also known by the enemy and they make strong efforts to suppress, hijack, twist to end this discussion.

SRX-related YouTube videos:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oby08eHpIOw
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xroX6M5BMUA
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a1Um1Njhe2Y

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# # # THREAD HYGIENE PSA # # #

Starve the shillery.
No attention for them.
No replies.
Focus.
On.
The.
Prize.

(Pro tip > Hide shill posts: Click on the arrow next to the post number, click 'Hide', Comfy.)

first nigger

>>41852312
posted by another anon. i discovered that this is a book called Female Attraction on Semen Retention - Become Irresistible

but anon leaked the whole book
https://files.catbox.moe/7c5s3s.pdf

it's the best thing i've read on semen retention attraction.
it's fucking real

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Haven't visited these threads in a long time. What ever happened to that annoying pajeet that would always spam in these threads and eventually got doxxed?

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Im 2 months out of a relationship that I was incredibly dissatisfied with and was largely sexless the past year with my ex gf.
In the past week, I’ve gotten insane sexual urges that I cannot fight. I Maybe did 15 days no fap and felt great but I feel like something is beckoning me to go out and get sex or just wank or something, it’s insane how powerful this feeling is.
I don’t like this and need help. im going through 2 emotions right now. One is I know what I am at and find myself disgusted at myself, the other is I simply do not care and I am just throwing myself out there.
I haven’t been successful in getting any sex but I just have this fucking crazy urge lads, what the hell do I do?

I feel like theres a demon pulling strings in me, I cannot describe this urge of mine. I really really need a bit of a guide on what to do lads.

>>41852704
it means that you are almost out of the trap

>>41852721
Perhaps I didn’t put across that I have been wanking and that, I just couldn’t fight it after the 15 days.

Say that was last week; since then ive probably gone 2 days max no fap. Im just feeling this like energy from my dick constantly man, I really don’t think I should be feeling this constantly…

>>41852557
Buy an ad.

>>41852738
Nah, just hold it. After 20 days urges start to get weaker.

>>41852814
I swear to Jesus in all my 27 years I’ve never had urges this strong for anything

I suppose I should repost but any of you bros have tips to avoiding relapsing? I desperately try to kick my addiction but I end up unable to really help myself over the longer term

>>41852557
is it just hyping you up saying if you don't cum then women will want you really badly?

>>41852826
>27
>2 months out of a relationship you were dissatisfied with
Are you me? My gf and I were waiting until marriage though, so it's not like she was withholding sex from me against my wishes, but still, it was frustrating and then she left me after I'd worked extremely hard to build a foundation for a future together. Now I'm tempted both viscerally and intellectually to just hook up with a girl at the earliest opportunity, which I've never done before, and it seems like such an unlikely thing for me to even be able to do that I don't feel danger in entertaining the fantasy a little bit, trying to approach it a little bit. I'm around Day 70 though, and I will say, for a couple weeks now, I've felt more removed from my urges than I ever have in life. The last time I masturbated was the middle of November, which is far enough away now that it's fair to say I "don't masturbate anymore" and I'm finally starting to feel separate from it, like I don't need it anymore. I'm sure urges will jump out and surprise me at some point again.

>>41852864
It looks like it encourages both edging and spouts magnetism bullshit, so yeah it's pretty much all in on memes

>>41852889
it teaches the big draw which is the best way to not relapse

>>41852960
if it was just "protocol 1" and stripped out all references to magnetism (since it's obviously not real, women only care about extraversion not how often you coom) maybe it'd be good. but touting edging as the "most powerful method" is just encouraging people to relapse because you're still releasing lots of dopamine, the main problem chemical with porn and masturbation in general

>>41852960
I find a better way is to not arouse yourself at all
whenever I do that edging big draw crap it leaves me hornier than before
I just meditate and let my energy rise to my crown chakra and permeate the cosmos

>>41853092
>>41853060
the attraction thing is real, i just think most men haven't been able to feel that energy and so weren't able to test the benefits

it's impossible to measure it and also there's no way to know if someone else is doing it correctly

so yeah let those who practice energy cultivation enjoy the benefit of female attraction while skeptics fall for redpill/blackpill slop

How to fix your sleep schedule?

>>41853144
What time you sleep is irrelevant. Just wake up at a set time. After 3 days you'll reset

>>41853106
>so yeah let those who practice energy cultivation enjoy the benefit of female attraction while skeptics fall for redpill/blackpill slop
the idea that women will be more attracted to you on SR literally is redpill PUA slop. it was invented to sell courses and shit and exists because men will do literally anything besides play the numbers game and get rejected a lot

>>41853210
Sort of true. However the magnetism with SR is supposed to attract higher quality women. Or at least, women who can sense men with "ascending spirit"
But this is an ideal, more often than not the men who get girls are the ones with lots of past success

>>41853106
I agree the magnetism on SR is real
my chances of picking up chicks while cooming is basically no existent
yet I've had girls come up to talk to me while retaining

>>41853218
>But this is an ideal, more often than not the men who get girls are the ones with lots of past success
yeah that's kind of what I'm getting at
SR can work as a template for creativity and building civilization, but any kind of spiritual practice that actually requires restraint is gonna get absolutely BTFO by the default state of any attractive, unreasonably confident guy who just caves to desires at all times when it comes to attracting women. and even for "higher quality women", they're likely to be part of that roster by sheer numbers

Man, I’ve been doing keto for a month and due to that I don’t shit as often. I’ve been having a boner every fucking time I lay down and I believe that’s due to a retained colon. Poop retaining doesn’t work well with SR. Never postpone pooping.

>>41853144
Forcing yourself to stay awake works for me, but expect the next sleep to be longer than usual.

>>41852856
I just keep trying

There is space here for both anons who wish to practise full celibacy, and anons who wish to use SR magnetism to attract high quality woman and create a family. Both can co-exist, and anyone who suggests otherwise is a shill with bad intentions.

>>41853430
SR "magnetism" isn't real, though. Being misled into thinking it is just makes you relapse when you realize that not cooming does absolutely nothing to change people's perception of you, it's more like kicking a heroin addiction than getting superpowers or some shit you're just becoming normal

>>41853445
>SR "magnetism" isn't real, though.
yes it is lmao
keep coping

>>41853445
Of course it isn't real, the schizo keeps trying to twist and turn the narrative and hijack the general.
So now it is "SR magnetism", SR with the purpose of attracting "chicks"
Fuck this man, this is used to be a good general until this guy landed.

>>41853445
SR Magnetism is tried and tested. When so many anons attest to magnetism, and it is repeatedly proven, it is practically scientific.
When anons think this is enough, that is misleading. Of course, you need to woo a woman, charm her, seduce her, etc. But the magnetism acts like a v12 engine essentially, working in the background, creating the effect of fatal attraction
Again, none of this can be disputed because it is something reported by so many anons.

>>41853452
>>41853495
The whole "magnetism" idea itself is a cope for not being able to deal with rejection. It's the idea that an introverted willpower effort alone can change other people's perception of you, without dealing with having your ego destroyed over and over again through failure. Human behavior is extremely consistent and any introverted willpower effort can only create progress in introverted efforts like art and science

Why care if it works or doesn’t work? All that matters is you don’t release. Let those who disagree on either side find out for themselves, because anyone who succeeds at retaining eventually will realize. It’s really that simple. This debate has no winners, only losers who participate in it.

Bukkake for Z****rs wife incoming!

>>41853514
As I said:
> Of course, you need to woo a woman, charm her, seduce her, etc.
No one is saying here that magnetism = woman's going to jump out of the bush, get on her knees and blow you
It is a subtle effect
Just like the ability to sleep fewer hours and still be rested. It's a subtle effect. If you slept 30 mins, you're still going to be exhausted the next day. But 5-7 hours, you'll be fine.
True transformation occurs when every thought, every word, every action you make counts. But that requires an incredible Will. We build up to that with things like SR. Conquer lust, and everything else is easier

>>41852688
methuselah? yeah after he kept relapsing to BBC nigger porn and shitting up the threads with his holier-than-thou elitist purity bullshit he got doxxed and exposed as a shitskin jeet with no real advice or wisdom to offer beyond his usual parading "I'm better than you all"

>>41853536
>Of course, you need to woo a woman, charm her, seduce her, etc
That's where all the real work is actually happening, and you can be a porn addicted degenerate fuck and still do this if you're willing to slam your head against a wall and embarrass yourself enough. That's why the idea of "magnetism" is wrong - it implies there's a way to success with women that doesn't involve a lot of pain, embarrassment and rejection, an "easy way" that does not and cannot exist. Courtship is by far the most un-enjoyable and miserable experience of modern man's life and that's literally just nature, thinking you can subvert the continuous pain and failure out of it by not masturbating just gives people the wrong idea about the actual benefits of cutting off their electronic heroin addictions

>>41853556
>Courtship is by far the most un-enjoyable and miserable experience of modern man's life
I just dont think you like women all that much. Magnetism works when you have the passion in the first place, that passion is amplified. You lack the passion and virility in the first place.
This is fine, i dont mean to insult you here. But its why you pathologically refuse to acknowledge the literal 1000s of men that report magnetism. When something is tested, and repeatable, it's indisputable. There are exceptions of course, like men with low libidos. But exceptions are not the rule.

I tend to get pretty consistent sexual/wet dreams around the time of the new moon. This has been fairly consistent for me, and the thing I find interesting is that the orgasm occurs exactly whenever I succumb to the temptation, not during any prolonged sex act. Basically, in all my dreams I'm a one-pump chump, which is not what I'm used to in real life, regardless of how long I've abstained.

The women themselves in the dreams are often uncanny, with body parts that feel excessively squishy or at times, or genitals that have a worm-like grip. I'm sure it's my own neuroses at play, as I don't think I'm interesting or energetically available enough to be sought after by spirits, but it's very easy to think of them as succubi. I definitely wake with the feeling of having been "tricked".

>>41853587
>I just dont think you like women all that much
I don't think you get it. The problem is, courtship is fundamentally miserable because if you really do like women, it means getting your hopes built up just enough to be crushed over and over again repeatedly for years, and this happens regardless of whether or not you whack off. Thinking there's some kind of "magnetism" that makes failure somehow less likely is again, just a way to give people the wrong idea about how much an objectively positive change can actually do, prompting disappointment and relapse.

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>>41853430

>>41853520
rare sane take

>>41853603
It's you who doesn't get it. Since fundamentally, you have no response to the fact that 1000s of men have reported the same thing. It takes monstrous levels of arrogance to think we're all wrong and you're right based on your contrived logic
>>41853606
meds

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lol another thread INSTANTLY devolved into shlubby black-pilled losers screeching about MUH WOMEN ATTRACTION
you guys all deserve to be miserable and alone, you're incapable of anything else

>>41853430
I agree but in my experience if I have expressed what I've found to work best for myself I have weirdos harping at me and accusing me of being a fed or a shill or a rabbi and that I'm trying to force people how to live and trying to convert young men into incels
even though I just shared experience
I try not to post here much, too much negativity

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>>41853683
>It takes monstrous levels of arrogance to think we're all wrong and you're right based on your contrived logic
But it's not contrived logic, at all, when most "reports" of "magnetism" are so colored by their narrator's internal perception and preconceived notions that they could literally all be confirmation bias. Meanwhile, if you're just trying to fix the negative effects of flooding your brain with dopamine through porn and masturbation, you can actually never be wrong because your own behaviors and habits are changing in a way that's concrete and measurable. That's what actual progress looks like, not some vague notion of "magnetism" woo woo bullshit from others with no real connection to your own inner world. There's only brain chemistry to be fixed, nothing else even exists.

>>41853749
but we are discussing these things here, on /x/ where we also talk about werewolves, ghosts, wizards, ayliums, gods, demons etc.
a little magnetism as a side effect of not cooming is not even vaguely unbelievable here

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SR magnetism go as far back as the early 20th century when it comes to testimonials

followers of picrel's school of thought were basically following "protocol 1" that was posted by anon here (which is a variation of the cool draw technique by mantak chia)

i just think edging makes it way more powerful

but i do agree most men are not gonna be able to handle it cuz we're trained to ejaculate as the finale

>>41853603
Dude, just fuck off...
Why are you even here?

>>41853830
It's a curious phenomenon of people purposefully going on a forum that daily discusses ghosts, werewolves and energies, and trying to be some sort of a "voice of reason" by dismissing everything, to feel better about themselves.

It is very strange. It's like jumping on a marxist forum where you (correctly) believe they're all retarded, and trying to argue, instead of finding your own tribe and discussing how to fight against those ideas you're so invested into fighting against.

>>41853830
>Why are you even here?
to solve a recurring dopamine problem, basically. the exploitation of the sex drive results in addictive behaviors and destructive reward pathways and you don't need to believe some stupid bullshit about chakra or magnetism or some other absolute horseshit for fixing that to be a good idea

>>41853874
>stupid bullshit about chakra or magnetism or some other absolute horseshit
>he says that literally in the PARANORMAL board

Just curious: do you believe in any phenomena that is considered Paranormal by the mainstream?
And if not, then why are you here? Other than the "laughing at idiots" cope.

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>>41853884
>do you believe in any phenomena that is considered Paranormal by the mainstream?
fuck no, all of that shit is fake. but this is the only thread on this site that discusses behaviors to fix the measurable chemical imbalances that porn usage and masturbation creates (animals literally only masturbate if they're in captivity btw)

>>41853902
>fuck no, all of that shit is fake
Good, thank you for making it so no one here will waste any more time with you.

>>41853912
>admitting that believing in "magnetism" is on par with believing ghosts and werewolves
actually tracks, honestly

>>41853423
I'll have to keep at it then, thank you anon

/x/ generals have been suspiciously hijacked by unrelated christian OPs

So i thought this was about no masturbation but is about no cumming at all not even sex?
WTF

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>>41853596
>tend to get pretty consistent sexual/wet dreams around the time of the new moon.
The women themselves in the dreams are often uncanny, with body parts that feel excessively squishy or at times, or genitals that have a worm-like grip.
There it is.
Time to deworm, friend.
The new moon and the full moon are the best times to do this.
Google parasites+full moon for more info.
(Buddhists fast or eat only vegetarian food on the new and full moon.)

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I had been frequenting this general for about a year and a half, really awesome at first, plenty of valuable information shared from every side, tricks, systems, techniques, workouts, breath work, meditations, prayers, awesome stuff that helped me greatly take this on a new level, around a year ago an anon started showing up with a particular kind of discourse, it first started with arguing about the dangers of prostate cancer and SR, starting to spam the place with the bs until he got called out, then this anon changed the narrative to "the importance of weaning off" the addiction, something which then became "structured faps", it was around this particular piece of bs that he got the nickname of "the weaner".
The pattern of posting, discourse and purpose is easily to recongize, starting from prostate cancer:
*. Structured Faps
*. Porn is not that bad
*. Be like Genghis Khan
*. Be like Alexandre the great
*. Youth of power
*. Incels should not expect much
*. Porn is still safer
*. We need women
*. We depend on women
*. Wear women's shoes to understand them
*. Dating advise.

And now in this thread it is now "SR for magnetism to attract females"
I'm not shitting it up, just go look in the archives as everything is stored there, see the posts, see the messages, notice the patterns, notice how he gets called an incel, starts calling everybody disagreeing an incel, he gets called a shill, starts calling everybody disagreeing a shill, there was talk about a discord channel and this guy goes like "oh there is a discord channel from where they coordinate attacks against me".
This character takes every single word thrown his way and twists it, inverts it, deflects it, mirrors it, just about every single technique from the disinfo playbook (see picrel), and you can see similar patterns in sites like reds-it or yt comments, but the one thing that remains constant here, every single scheme he devises has one thing in common, *it all leads to you orgasming and ejaculating.*

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>>41854150
That's a key point that helps you realize when you are being demoralized, set up or misled.

OGs of SR recommend this book
The Coiled Serpent
https://archive.org/details/coiledserpent0000cjva

This thing has been going for a few months now, one realization I have had in this time is how threating to the system abstinence/celibacy/sr is, every recent thread is now a rushed and incomplete wasteland of petty bickering started and continued by this person or group of persons with the purpose of putting valuable information out of sight, so
***check the archives***
https://archive.4plebs.org/x/search/subject/%2FSRG%2F/
https://archive.4plebs.org/x/search/subject/Semen%20Retention/

https://archive.4plebs.org/x/thread/41008073

This message is for you, the lurker, the newfag, the geniunely interested.
Only you can discern the path.

I tried it finally, did it for two weeks, then went grocery shopping and weirdly enough two women were almost stalking me, it's as if i was a magnet.
Pretty crazy experience, gonna continue and see where this goes.

If you still care about female attraction even on SR that means you still haven't gotten over your lust. And that's fine if all you wanna do on SR is to get women, at least be honest with yourself

I caved. I was on an 11 day streak when the option to go to a strip club with an ex was extended, and I went. The overwhelming sexual energy caused me to spill my seed, and I am paying the price for it. I have a highly social job and my last shift was a nightmare. I could tell people were ignoring/avoiding me, my words fell flat. My charisma was gone. Everything collapsed within a day. I have no choice but to get back on the horse and continue trying again, but let this be a lesson to others. You will regret giving in. I'm sorry God for failing you.

>>41853596
Dude they ARE usually succubi, it wouldn't feel like that if it was just from your own mind. Also I know what you mean about the texture, very rubbery and fake almost, extremely creepy.

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What's the actual point of retention at the end of the day? Get extemely tense and horny so you have no choice but to stand up and do something?

>>41854745
horny energy becomes useful mental and physical
and for most guys on here half the benefits will come from not being a basement dwelling coomer edging to porn all day

>>41853874
If you reject the premise of semen retention from a mystical standpoint, then this is stupid as fuck. You have 100 other bad habits that's fucking up your dopamine, and spending your time here ironically is worsening your issue. Leave

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Nature intended sperm to be cheap and the male gender to be disposable. Men are meant to chase after women and sex. By retaiting your seed, not only are you artificially increasing the value of it, you're also spitting in the face of nature by flipping the script that was written for you.

>>41854813
This is true for all forms of asceticism.
Schopenhauer based his entire philosophy over this principle.

True freedom is to say fuck it to the "Wille", your script.

>>41854813
jewish fingers typed this post

>>41852888
Hey, sorry to hear that fella.
I left my ex cause she was a mess over body and mind and I just got sick of it along with her just being a crappy gf and I was sick of myself too with everything. But honestly, you might find yourself better for it and all that, youll meet YOUR lady soon enough!


Like, counting the whole year, last year till about October, I could count how many times we had sex in the year on two hands which did bother me quite a bit and sex sort of became a “reward” of sorts.
Anyways, it’s all beyond the point. Have you any tips on sort of diminishing these urges as someone who’s in a similar boat?

Im lucky I have a bit of work today so I’m socializing with a few of the lads and it’s good, can help me take my mind off things but even driving away from the site for my lunch there I was like scared of what this evening is gonna bring.

>>41854764
>and for most guys on here half the benefits will come from not being a basement dwelling coomer edging to porn all day
This is why all the anti-magnetism shills are so pathetic
They dont want young powerful men to chase women. they think women are a waste of time and energy
but these are 40+ year old fucks, or incels, who cant stop jerking it to some drugged out 18yo girl getting fucked by an african. Or whatever degen stuff theyre into.

compared to this, pursuing women is FAR FAR healthier. And yet they discourage this.

Actually, you should be pursuing women, since that is how you rewrite your brain. You go from coomer mode, where sexual gratification is fulfilled via fucking your hand to porn, to... normal mode. Fulfilling your sexual gratification by wooing a woman and sleeping with her. Only THEN, can you transcend the sex instinct altogether.

>>41854837
jessica just shut the fuck up and leave already

>>41854813
but the script which you dumbasses in here latch onto isn't even about semen. it's about the body and mind entire package. you aren't neither of them which is the actual truth. giving a shit about semen level is retarded, higher levels is just a consequence of flipping the actual script, you retard. so many fucking pseuds on this fucking website like you retards

>>41854745
When you get horny, you tell yourself it is a lust for life. This reframing of things immediately gives you a superior perspective in life.
Art becomes more beautiful. You feel more self-possessed, you go into automode, doing the shit you need to get done. By developing this restraint, you can unleash your instincts that desire for greatness. Without restraints, your instinct is just blind hedonism. It is only through restraint and discipline, does your instinct become attuned for higher things, with great focus, you can attain them.

And worst case scenario, you relapse, but it'll be spraying inside the womb of a beautiful woman, instead of in a tissue after watching some poor drugged out LA girl being raped on camera.

Well anons I had a good few days off in a row where I could have really been productive and done some shit I have been meaning to do for ages but I fucking wasted it by gooning in chat rooms until I just coomed a few hours ago. I generally never masturbate. I went for a long, long time once. Even now it's like, once a month tops. But I don't know why I keep doing this it's pathetic. Literally wasted my days away on nothing. Only good thing is I at least forced myself into the gym but still. Now I probably won't have this much free time in quite a while and I'm just kicking myself.

Not sure what I wanted out of this post. Maybe some anons can tell me how dumb I am.

>>41855133
just accept that its over once ur in gooner mode. the autistic definition of a streak being "not cumming" is stupid as fuck. you're gooning, your brain is leaking out your ear, the streak is done. the best thing to do then is to cum. giving yourself blue balls, edging all day, this is how you perma-fuck your dick till it breaks. so just orgasm, let the post nut clarity set in, and start again.
anyways, what's done is done. you can forgive yourself, ask forgiveness from god, but god would much rather you simply stop than ask for forgiveness

>>41852312
>judaistic propaganda

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>>41854076
Spilling seed is harmful whether with a partner or not.

>Ejaculation is often called "coming". The precise word for it should be "going", because everything-the erection, vital energy, millions of live sperms, hormones, nutrients, even a little of the man's personality-goes away. It is a great sacrifice for the man, spiritually, mentally, and physically.

- Stephen Thomas Chang 'The Tao of Sexology'

>>41855176
basically lol

>>41854036
They're following the script. The billionaires want you to be "traditional" and "Christian" now.

>>41855183
if you've actually had sex before, incel, you'd know that that only applies to solo masturbation

>>41855183
>Having sex with a partner that you love and deeply care for is the exact same thing as jerking yourself off while watching an 18yo drugged up girl get fucked by 5 guys!
Incels actually believe this, unironically

>>41855188
>>41855193
As is evident with posts such as these, sex with ejaculation leads to brain damage.

>>41855199
Go away shill.

>>41854529
>You will regret giving in.
Truth.
I have always regretted spilling seed.
I have never regretted not spilling seed.

>>41855199
Just ignore it. Why do you care about coomer opinions?
Is like a normie talking about politics. Completely irrelevant.

>having sex with women makes you a coomer
>but jerking your dick to stepsis porn is fine
>its better to watch porn than have sex with women
this is how incels think
everyday in the real world they are humiliated merely by existing
so they come here and ruin this general to get a semblance of dignity

>>41855226
and yet true sex havers in here all know they're just coping like you said, it's just a ruse

>>41855193
links, for research purposes

>>41855247
oxytocin is released after orgasm which is meant for a man and a woman. if you blast your load with a lone hand to porn you're pair bonding with your computer and hand. that's fucking embarrassing at the highest level

You can literally become a tranny by watching porn. There are trannies who became trannies because they watched so much porn they started fantasising themselves as being the woman getting fucked.
But incels here will tell you having sex with women is the same as watching porn.

>>41855290
yea exactly they're trying to change this place into an incel only club so they can theorize about how to use their 'sr powers' to get a girlfriend in peace. sad lot honestly

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>>41855263
>oxytocin is released after orgasm which is meant for a man and a woman.
False. Oxytocin is triggered by closeness and touch. Orgasm is not necessary for this and it actually counteracts Oxytocin.
The reason mother-child bonds are life-long is precisely because they aren't having orgasms with each other. Orgasm's natural function is to disrupt pair bonds after some time to ensure that genes spread.

Anons in this thread should read "Cupid's Poisoned Arrow" which explains this in detail and the methods to increase bonding with your partner.

Can someone explain the random people making small talk with you when on a streak?

>>41852312
Samson didnt exist. The jews just stole the story of Hercules from a superior culture.

>>41855297
where you been? haven't seen this dumb bullshit posted here in a while. wherever you were, please go back, these threads have gotten shitty enough without your retarded foid slop

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>>41855066
>some drugged out 18yo girl getting fucked by an african
go on.....

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>>41855536
Magnetism is real. People feel your good energy/aura on a subconscious level and want to interact. It's the same with animals.

>>41855290
The reason this happened to you is because your sense of self and sexuality was already shaky to begin with. This thought never comes across a normal, straight man's mind

>>41854813
>Nature intended sperm to be cheap and the male gender to be disposable.
Not nature, society. Nature intended for men to have an incredibly long window to be able to reproduce. While women have a very short window to reproduce and limited number of eggs.

>>41855066
From the amount of posts this guy makes about this, you'd think he'd actually get a girlfriend by now with all this big talk he's been typing. Nah, way easier to tell other people to do things than to do it yourself

>>41855911
Look how hard these loser old fuck incels try to defend porn. Look at how willing they are to manipulate narratives and besmirch the character of others to defend porn. Disgusting.
>>41855975
Again. Projecting your own weakness onto others. Ask yourself why you're so keen on defending porn while thinking having sex with women is the worst thing ever, despite never having had sex ever in your life. Pathetic loser

>>41855939
Complete cope. Dont be a retard and waste your youth because you believe in retarded delusions like "men peak at age 40". No. Your body begins to deteriorate after 30. Aging is extremely tragic.

And once you're 50, you're practically senile. It is highly dysgenic for 50yos to reproduce with young women. Any old fuck that feels entitled to the wombs of young women deserve to be cuckolded by youthful men of power.

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>>41856034
>Aging is extremely tragic.
for Onanists.

>>41856026
hah holy shit, neither of those posts were defending porn in any way

>>41856065
Cope
Just look at you
Entire shtick is deceiving young anons
>>41856091
Both posts trivialise the demonic nature of porn.
>its not that bad!
coomer cope
Meanwhile these losers are desperate to claim its the worst thing in the world to have sex with a woman
Losers

>>41855176
>>41854036
its semencollector/jake
he was pretty open about wanting this place to be christfag only
dont be surprised if he slowly starts editing the OP and removing anything that isnt christfaggotry

>>41856065
me on the left

>>41855297
Correct.

Fucking a beautiful woman and denying yourself an orgasm in the end is one of the most powerful experiences you can have.

I think I'm going crazy
2 weeks in and all the people I've been thinking about have been texting me, reaching out to see how I am and shit
I'm getting freaked out this never happens to me

>>41856380
the magnetism is real, ignore the shills
>>41852557

finna jerkola

>>41856380
This is common i've heard, haven't experienced it myself as I essentially became a ghost to old acquaintances and friends and don't use social media, use discernment to ask "is this person gonna help or hinder me on this journey?"

God uses people, some people can be agents seeking to disrupt your path and tempt you however and that's where discernment becomes important

>>41855290
This. Although it sometimes starts with anime, or even just the "what if I was a girl?" fantasy. Both are still as bad.

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>>41856414
>the magnetism is real, ignore the shills
magnetism is literally a shill meme invented by people who want others to relapse once they realize it's fake
>picrel: the usual suspects who want others to believe in magnetism and edge instead of actually channeling their creative energy into something good

>>41856939
>acktually da jooz want you to fall in love and create a family

Oh, it’s the semen retention general! I heard you guys know everything about having sex. I’m a virgin and I would like to know how to put my penis in a vagina. Does anyone have a lot of experience to tell me how to open the legs of a female?

I tried Reddit, but they all told me they’re virgins and all the gigachads moved to /x/ on 4chan. Thanks.

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Lotta shills today

A lot of incels are saying magnetism isn't real. And in a way, they're correct. SR Magnetism acts as an amplifier. So if you're a 7/10, magnetism will push you to an 8/10.
But if you're a 2/10 incel, magnetism is only going to take you to 3/10 at best. This won't "feel" like anything because women are still disgusted by you, but maybe theres a couple of slampigs out there who might notice you.
If you're an ugly loser, then its because you have bad karma. Engage in noble acts in this life, and maybe you'll be reborn beautiful in the next life.

>>41856964
you don't "fall in love and create a family" by edging like a dumbass and retaining your coomer mentality while doing everything besides actually busting

>>41857069
Correct. You're learning. Good boy.

>>41857135
so, then you realize the "magnetism" concept as a whole is just an extension of coomer mentality. even this guy accidentally admits to it, clear as day: >>41857019
people who cling hard to the magnetism concept reveal that it's not really about channeling the libido into productive ventures for them, it's about trying to apply concepts from mysticism into getting women to fuck you

>>41856964
The Jews want you to be a sex addict having premarital sex with both sexes + trannies, get STDs, impregnate a girl who's kid you have no intention of raising if one of the flings you have isn't a pro abortionist jezebel

(((They))) need the pussy as a carrot on a stick to keep the goyim in line for satan's kingdom for chasing girls, gold and glory instead of God

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People calling eachother shills when they forgot that over half of the users on /x/ are (pic related) is quite silly. Take a look at other threads. They are everywhere. They don't care about any practice as long as that gets them laid with any woman that's not a whore (otherwise they'd just go spend 50 dollars at a brothel). I can bring up demographics as proof, but we're not on /pol/.

*taps sign* (sign: >>41852354)
Focus on YOUR prize. The prize of another anon is not the same as yours, especially not the shill or someone wrongfully accused as one.

Just ask yourself why you're here.

>>41857153
So, you admit magnetism is real?
Great
I win
You lose
>>41857168
>da jooz are super evilzzz
>you must worship dead joo on a stick

>>41857209
We all know you’re a welfare immigrant larping as a paid shill, because there’s nothing for you to live for, except porn and “beating the chuds”. Get a job. At least that would make the people you love proud, if there’s any left at this point.

>>41857209
The Synagogue of Satan fake jews who oppress Palestine and promote sin treating evil as good i'm obviously talking about not based Jews like Jesus and King Solomon

>>41857259
I work for one of the largest professional services company in the world
We all know the retards online who cry about da jooz all day are NEET losers. Take your own advice and be productive instead of being a parasite to your poor parents.

>>41857280
Nobody believes you here. Just stop embarrassing yourself any further and apply for a job.

>>41857268
Say fuck allah and fuck the quran. NOW

>>41857268
If you do what >>41857299 tells you, you’re his bitch. Would you rather be seen as a muslim or his bitch? Think carefully.

>>41857298
You don't believe me. That's fine. I understand to a neet loser to you I sound impressive. My aura makes you jealous.
Just get a job. It's not hard, incel.

>>41857317
Job. NOW

>>41857299
I denounce islam and all false religions

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>>41857426
>not a bitch nor muslim
My man thought carefully!

>>41855164
no I disagree
catch yourself in gooner mode and end it as quickly as possible
get dressed and leave your house, go for a walk and reset, pretend it never happened
be grateful you caught yourself before you lost all control and spilled your seed

>>41855536
probably the most annoying part of it all
especially the elderly women

>>41855290
Porn also trains you to be passive,submissive and a cuck. There is nothing gayer than sitting in a chair for an hour or two playing with your dick and then coom to fucking pixels. Nothing gayer.

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>retain for like 40+ days
>everyone around me is either way more kind to me, or way more vile toward me, barely any in-between
Interesting...

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Day 12.

It's the only day I have counted, due to calculation, it's also the last day I'm ever gonna count.

Don't count the days, make the days count.

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Aspiring SR practitioner here. These threads have helped me get serious about the practice. I was "trying" for a long time but not actually really trying, if you get me, and now I'm really trying.
Just went 6 days without porn/masturbation/casual sex/etc. Not much to you anons who are much further along, I know, but the longest I've gone in a long time.
I relapsed last night so I'm back on day 1.
The funny thing is, the relapse didn't provide the sense of "relief" or "release" that I hoped it would.
Funny enough, I still have a distinct sensation of blue balls right now. Literally aching, not trying to vulgar but it's the truth.
So my question to advanced SR'ers is, what do you do about blue balls? Are there exercises, stretches, breathing exercises I should do? Do you just have to ride it out, and eventually it goes away?
If you got this far thanks for reading my blog

>>41858251
I meditate multiple times a day, my third eye throbs strongly for the whole time, I feel it moving around and pulsating and clenching, all my sexual energy goes there, I don't get blue balls if I meditate an hour a day (you can break it up)
but you have to just put yourself in a zen state and let the energy travel upwards, if you're always actively engaged and doing things and thinking the energy will just stay in your balls
let it rise, meditation is like a flame under a pot of water and the energy is the steam

>>41852424
Hopefully the last.

>>41858284
Good tip anon and very well put description, I can certainly visualize that.
I actually was trying something like that at the gym today, taking deep breaths and imagining the "trapped energy" in my nether region being freed and released up into my body.
But, I'm not very practiced in meditation and I was having trouble keeping focus on it, so I don't know think it was very effective.
Probably worth continuing the meditation and visualization practice, though, as I imagine one's skill at it improves over time, same as anything else.

had a DEMONIC relapse a few minutes ago. I felt like during this I had some entities within me encouraging me to do this and saying some sick things I do not even believe in. It was horrible. I feel so bounded right now. This internal struggle is real even tho I know this wasn't part of me

>>41858251
For me it’s never blue balls, but this sparky feeling in the tip. What I usually do is patiently wait it out standing. Maybe it’s because that’s also a form of meditation, so I guess the anon above me is more onto something.

You can also try 2nd post above where it states urges.

>>41858284
true old school siddhartha level meditation or whatever the fuck you wish to call it was never ever about maintaining energy retard and clinging more and more to bullshit like sr in life. it was only ever about exiting retard. energy is as useless as the rest of the body and mind

>>41852312
Fucm off juden

Magnetism is real. Looks do not matter when you awaken the kundalini and preserve your semen./

>>41858400
you sound very enlightened lmao

>>41858309
definitely continue, at a point it becomes blissful and like the raging anon put above it really is about exiting, truly
but there are subtle and gross side effects along the way that can be enjoyed
practice definitely yields results, it can be difficult in the beginning because you are battling your mind, especially because you probably think you are your mind
you will come to see that you aren't your mind, it is just an aspect of reality to observe
my advice is find a good meditation cushion, sit cross legged on the floor, close your eyes and try to do nothing
let breath happen naturally, let thoughts come naturally, let all things just happen
be aware of it all, no need to force or cling to anything, sometimes the mind will be quiet, sometimes it will be active, try not to chase thoughts but let them pass
good luck, there are many guided meditations and many teachers out there, try whatever you like there really isn't any right or wrong way, as long as your intention is there

>>41858400
>true old school siddhartha level meditation or whatever
>or whatever
Why don't you actually get educated first before speaking on these things, you dumb nihilist
>ur durrr you don't need energy to escape samsara
Retard

2 days in feeling much better bros stopped the porn found myself a cute milfy gf

Doesn't do anything to me. Didn't have any wet dreams or anything. Was a little stressed and the first nut was a decent one but semen retention does fuck all. They are trying to get you to get more interested in women but women need to stop being such dicks as well. People are running psyops to get men more interested in women and to have no children but no ones running psyops to make women less hostile and money driven.

>>41860637
>but women need to stop sucking so much dicks as well
ftfy

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I have been addicted to masturbation and weed for 10 years now. I want it to end so badly.

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>>41861313
you will break the habit, I believe in you

>>41861313
What worked for me was quitting masturbation first. After that I noticed that weed isn’t as enjoyable and gradually felt like smoking less and even cut out the people in my life that smoked weed as well.

Wish there was more going on in my life today. I've been off the fapping long enough now that I'm not really tempted, but I'm just bored and unable to settle to anything. Everything is either an ambitious undertaking that I need way more time than I have right now to do, or a tiny thing that would be busywork that I don't even really want to do at all.

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>>41858313
I've experienced this too anon. Makes sense, you cast out your demon of lust and it wants to return with vengeance and maybe bring some cronies too.
>When the unclean spirit has gone out of a person, it passes through waterless places seeking rest, but finds none. Then it says, ‘I will return to my house from which I came.’ And when it comes, it finds the house empty, swept, and put in order. Then it goes and brings with it seven other spirits more evil than itself, and they enter and dwell there, and the last state of that person is worse than the first.

>>41861557
>Wish there was more going on in my life today
Me too, it was much easier to not fap back when I was in high school and would experience the magnetism benefit every day.

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>>41852312
>Lucid Dreams
Whats the connection between SR and Lucid Dreaming. I've never done lucid dreaming but have always wanted to try. Will SR help me with that?

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>>41861912
funny enough, I also try to have more lucid dreams and I guess SR can help with this because the brain fog that is produced by porn and other stimulating and dopamine flooding habits will decrease, thus making you moer receptive to your surroundings (and then realizing faster when you are in a dream). also bought stephen laberges "exploring the world of lucid dreaming" but there are enough resourcess about this o the net

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>>41861912
SR is the only way for me to have lucid dreams.
I had a dream where i was flying through the air and kicking the air for boosts. Also customizing a girl, changing her age how she looks etc.

>>41861938
Thanks for the advice. As a creative the vivid dreams I'd get while on no fap streaks were always my biggest motivations.

>>41862033
checked may you be blessed with long streaks and lucid dreams

>>41861912
I don’t know how, but my I’ve been steadily dreaming epic stuff (unless it’s a wet dream, which turns really boring if you don’t engage into the sexual bait. Seriously, what the fuck am I supposed to do in a room full of women and I don’t want sex with them? Talk lol?)
Anyway, I’ve been able to lucid dream over time for some reason. I keep getting better at it, but once again, the sexual bait dreams are a real test. I recommend trying to “kys” during them as it wakes you up, because these demons are so fucking boring. I tried having a conversation with the “women” in these dreams and it’s like you’re surrounded by retards.

>>41858655
lmfao okay dumb incel. looks are everything. they even overpower your little semen load you've been preserving. not to mention your theory goes out the window considering you and every other long term retainer in this general have self admittedly had wet dreams. you aren't awakening shit. awakening anything starts in the mind anyway not in the semen preservation realm. looks are everything and always will be. the proof? even when i'm completely empty sacked either through fucking my gf or my bed during a wet dream and i mean completely empty sacked, i get attention and flirtation everywhere i fucking go. it's nonstop. it's because my looks are on point and i've always devoted effort towards maintaining that through impeccable skin care and it shows. women want looks. they could not give a fuck less about semen because they know you just ejaculate it out anyway and you're depleted and it's done. you're so retarded that you don't even recognize how retarded what you're saying is when you actually break it down

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>>41858655
I've been doing this since early august last year, maybe im an outlier but I've never had anything close to the magnetism i've seen described by some.

Overall there really haven't been many changes aside from me not wasting my time jerking off. Other than that my life still sucks. I still never feel well-rested even after 10 hours of sleep. My reflexes or physical abilites haven't improved, I still have no motivation to finish any project I start. And absolutely zero change to the way most women interact with me. At least nothing I can't attribute to me actively trying to be more outgoing and sociable.

I wasn't expecting any of this to happen. I began SR for religious reasons and only discovered this general a few weeks after I began. This thread gave me a bit of hope that things in my life might get better. But I haven't really seen any changes. Never once did I experience anything close to these mythical superpowers i hear everyone talking about. Maybe I do have a bit more energy at work. Fine I guess.

I never thought i was so ugly but maybe I am? I'm 6'1" and have a naturally athletic build. I've had numerous people ask me if I go to the gym. I've been to a gym a grand total of two times in my life.
But the only time I interact with women my age is my shit wagie job. And they almost universally refuse to make eye contact with me for more than a split-second. So maybe my face is so horrendously ugly that I can't even get a courtesy smile.

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>>41862508
Anons, why is there such a big difference in experiences?

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symbolically, 'pi' the perfect circle, the infinite pattern, is the mathematical representation of the metaphysical saturn, the lord of the rings. also known as cronos, satan, santa clause, yahweh etc. the natural law, the way the reality works & the judge.

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there are many ways to perceive this 'story' encrypted into the reality

>>41862508
>I'm 6'1" and have a naturally athletic build. I've had numerous people ask me if I go to the gym. I've been to a gym a grand total of two times in my life.
notice how you never mention your actual looks, your face. retard.

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we have to look beyond the language and at what the language is pointing at, and beyond the apparent linearity of time, knowing that things that are 'far away' in time are not any less relevant to our understanding of the whole. what is in our memory is not an accident.

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i am the youth of the nation and the bright & morning star

>>41862665
You people really need to work on your reading comprehension. I mentioned all those things because I was speculating if my face was unnatractive you blithering idiot.

>>41862929
Brother, they do this on purpose. That’s how they bait you in useless conversations.

Day 300

>>41862624
Its almost as if its a meme and everyone is lying. They jerk off to the idea of a bunch of weird losers thinking that not nutting is going to improve their life.
The ghouls who start these threads feast the misery of the loser.

My skin is so rough and blemished, even when I eat healthy and have good sleep hygiene and all that shit. SR has no impact on that whatsoever. I'm 27. I don't need this shit.

I just get these feelings that are so strong, that I want my life to be more than it is. It makes me want to scream, to run, to never stop working. And the thing is, I generally do work all the time to pursue my goals, certainly to a point that other people remark on it regularly. I think what I'm trying to say is, my biggest fear in this world is that I will work for my goals for my entire life and still fail to accomplish them. Certainly nothing seems to work in my favor aside from my own hard work, and God who assures me that things will be all right in the end despite His distance. But that I might work for certain things as long as I'm alive and never see them come about seems more than possible, and it's almost unbearable.

>>41863064
Can't get laid power level 3000

>>41863693
*choosing not to get laid

>>41863406
any vegetable oils in your diet? or oils in general?
when you say you eat healthy you mean food you cook yourself without any ingredient list right? anything processed or with an ingredient list is not considered healthy

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>>41862624
>why is there such a big difference in experiences?
because that's how life works, in general
the most a long streak of not jerking off can do is fix the brain pathways that have been created as a malformed replica of sex through porn and masturbation. "magnetism" is a meme invented by people who think it's as easy as "not strokin' it = effort-free attraction from women" but really, it's just the absence of an energy drain. you can see through the experience of people like >>41862508 that it's basically a crock of shit, if you cut out a negative, energy draining habit, you still need to improve your situation with the energy you're no longer wasting

or this one, time 2 goon fuckheads

>>41861313
just smoke yourself out until you get a panic attack every time you're high. worked for me
(the strategy didn't work at all with masturbation though; in fact it made the problem worse)

>>41864340
>>41864350
>troll goblin
is this from one of your dungeons and dragons games?

>>41864340
>>41864350
>>41864359
>When shills get impatient

Report the shills retards, stop tolerating satanist reddit trannies.

>>41864429
imagine having an issue with touching yourself you annoying fuck incel. no wonder you're here

>>41864340
>>41864350
>bobblehead midget industry plant
yuck

Question for anyone doing this for real and not the shills, has anyone experienced any bad side effects within the first week? Like something trying to fight back or triggers?

>>41864980
just the usual withdrawal symptoms though not in the first week

>>41864340
>>41864350
What's the big deal about this bitch?

>>41864980

Nutting releases serotonin which helps the body relax, among other things. If you jerk off routinely then suddenly stop, your body has to adapt without it's expected stress relief, that's where the first week gets challenging, because the urges are essentially your bodies signal for stress relief. It's an addiction at the end of the day, the same logic applies.

>>41865179
I agree. Thanks for a real answer. Is just that I wish there was a better way but after I was done smoking weed the same triggers came the same way as this. Is hard but I'm willing to keep it up just to give a real answer to see if this works.

>>41865087
it's a tranny

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>>41864340

Haven't posted in a while, but after posting in this thread, i realized this place got even worse somehow than the last time i was here.

>>41864350
M-m-m-must n-n-n-ot t-t-ouch pee-pee

>>41852312
keep the seeds flowing

>>41862624
Because anons are doing it wrong. SR does not fix all your problems as >>41862508 seems to think. In this anons case, their body is weak. If the vessel is weak then it'll be limited in its capacity to RECEIVE
Magnetism, in its true form, is about purity. When you go through alchemical purification, getting rid of negative traits like lust, you attract Goodness, good people, good circumstances etc

>>41862508
>Overall there really haven't been many changes aside from me not wasting my time jerking off. Other than that my life still sucks.
Bro that's the problem. That. Right. There. You have it backwards and you're looking for a woman to come save you from your wretched, boring lifestyle. This is something they can sense, because women the ones that are looking for a man to come save them from their wretched, boring lifestyle. The reason you do SR is to use that energy you were wasting on porn and fapping and upgrade your life to the point that a woman can come tag along and it'll make her life better. Ultimately, you do SR for YOU and none other.

>>41862290
>women want looks. they could not give a fuck less about semen because they know you just ejaculate it out anyway and you're depleted and it's done.
Shut yo bitch ass up. Men care about looks and you're projecting how you think with how women think. Looks in a man are nice but they don't have the same power and weight that a woman's looks do for us. It is very easy for a man who's nervous and shy and a 10/10 in looks to stay an incel because of this reason. And they may not care about semen or retention but one thing women do admire in men is strength - if you're busting nuts all day because you can't control it that weakness will leak out to how you carry yourself IRL

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>>41852312
Lying cultists fuckwits(It was his hair cut ffs).

May you die in the same flame of lies that the modern phillistines wish upon all of us non muslims(Your a fucking CIA SOIENCE MALE FEMINIST KEK REDDIT NIGGER CULT).

T- ozanon who looks like sampson and got no benefits after 5 years lel(I got hate and disparaging).

Currently on day 2. Kept on relapsing because I had a retarded loophole. I would not watch porn, but instead gooned to softer materials. Often just edging, but would fail every 3 days or so.

Yesterday I added these sites to a blocklist.
The strange thing is that even after 3 days I already started feeling some effects, the periods between urges would be more calm/relax.

If I can keep my current determination, I will smash the 10 day barrier this attempt.

>>41852312
Can you sell it to me?
I'm a coomer but since the start of the year I drastically decreased the frequency (from 1/day to maybe 1/week or 2 weeks which is as much as I can manage right now)
When do I start seeing benefits? My experience as of now is the opposite of what's described: Doesn't help with focus or meditation at all since I'm horny and depressed all the time, feels absolutely fucking awful.

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>>41865566
dubs of truth. as long as you're not malformed with insanely twisted features, looks mean nothing as a man.

>>41858400
>calls you a retard but gives information
>>41860576
>calls you a retard for retards sake

>>41865659
>looks mean nothing as a man
cope

Anyone else at the point you can have sex and just hold the cum in and not need to eject but optionally can (but see it weakens kundalini)? It becomes easy like rings on your dick near the tip when you're about to cum and you can control it and stop for a second then keep going and fulfilled without needing to cum ever, though I still do at times usually if emotional connection though like saying how much I love her or whatever.

>>41865558
>you're looking for a woman to come save you from your wretched, boring lifestyle
No im not
As I said already, I started SR for religious reasons. It wasn't until a few weeks after I began that I found this general and all the supposed benefits of SR people were discussing. Benefits that I personally have not seen.

I also do not have a "wretched, boring lifestyle." Don't know where you got that impression.

>>41865706
>>looks mean nothing as a man
>cope
Men fall in love with what they see and women fall in love with what they hear. 100% truth.

>>41865749
>I still do at times usually if emotional connection though like saying how much I love her or whatever.
Sounds ghey as hell bro. But you do you

>>41865771
>I also do not have a "wretched, boring lifestyle." Don't know where you got that impression.
Oh word, just took what you said at face value:
>>41862508
>Other than that my life still sucks.

The reason why women aren't giving you attention is prob because you think your life sucks. They are naturally leaches my dude. If they are interested in a guy they want to at least get something out of it. If you think your life sucks they can tell and they won't stick around long enough to find out if it's true or not

>>41865779
>just took what you said at face value
I was being hyperbolic

What I meant was that where my life has improved, SR was not the factor. And the things it supposedly helps with (energy levels, concentration, motivation) have not improved. Those things indeed still suck.

But no my life is not boring and miserable. I have an active social life, several hobbies, and skills which I pursue at a high level. But those things did not get better because of SR.

I am not looking for a woman to come and "save me." I would like a woman because that's the kind of thing a man my age wants. And I think it would be nice.
Please do not confuse me for the typical basement-dweller this website attracts

>>41865836
there’s some weird people in this thread get really defensive when you point out that SR doesn’t really have some kind of mystical ability to make women want to fuck you. almost like, maybe that’s the only reason they’re doing it in the first place, and the boring reality of just making your brain less hypersexualized isn’t enough for them

>>41865836
Bro it sounds like you're already good. Learn to enjoy your own company man, woman or not.

>>41865898
Agreed.

>>41865898
maybe we all have our own unique experiences and its pointless to try to tell other people wht they will or will not experience

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>>41864980
The hangover lasts two weeks so everybody has bad side effects in the first week.

>just had a wet dream last night
Is it over bros?
past 2 months gone :(

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>>41865566
>Looks in a man are nice but they don't have the same power and weight that a woman's looks do for us. It is very easy for a man who's nervous and shy and a 10/10 in looks to stay an incel because of this reason.

Women care more about looks than men. They just lie about that more than men. Most women care more about social status than looks, but a significant minority prioritize looks and if you are an attractive tall man who isn't a total shut-in the only way to stay "incel" is by actively rejecting those women.

Nutted last night and feel no different than when I was retaining for 7 weeks with no urges.
I reckon the optimal thing to do is have a wank w/ imagination every 2 weeks. Anyone who calls me a shill is a delusional dumbfuck. I was one of you. It aint shit (from my experience *)
*experiences may vary

>>41866634
If you go a number of weeks without ejaculation, one fap isn't going to set you back down to zero. In fact, like you, I've at times thought I noticed no differences. The problem is when you fap two, three, four times over the next few days, and doing it once makes it significantly harder to stop yourself doing it again. The moderation method is more or less proven to not work for the vast majority of people. For me, it certainly doesn't; I've never once relapsed after a streak of weeks or months and it didn't ultimately lead to fapping daily again for some amount of time. If you can resist urges and only do it every couple weeks, more power to you I guess, though the benefits can only be stronger if you just keep retaining indefinitely.

>>41866775
yeah this has been my experience also. after a relapse you might feel relief for a day or two, then the urge comes back twice as strong and you're eventually back in full gooner territory.

>>41866775
>The moderation method is more or less proven to not work for the vast majority of people
Skill issue + *experiences may vary type shit tbdesu

>>41866600
Wet dreams are normal, don't fret too much over it, if you're a follower of God let him lift you back up and rebuke succubi/lust demons in Jesus' name, that's the reason I bounce back so quickly the times i've relapsed and porn has lost it's power cause i'm way more aware of how self sabotaging it is physically, mentally and spiritually, don't get obsessed with how long your streak goes either

>>41866627
Pic is about attractiveness, not looks. For men our attraction is pure appearance, maybe personality matters somewhat, but it'll be physical. But for women, that attractiveness can be non-physical. For example, the motorcycle riding bad boy with tattoos may be a 7/10 facially but a 10/10 in SMV in her eyes. Vs for us men we'll focus more on the face than the story behind her

time to trigger you guys with some hard learned truths
>wet dreams are a massive waste of ojas and they can be avoided if you meditate and learn to control your dream self, wet dreams are your fault and should be avoided
>magnetism is real and it's not good because the dark forces that want you to stay as a normal human are coming after you for your seed
>jerking off is better for your psyche and soul growth than casual sex - but is still bad and should be avoided obviously, but if you had to choose always choose jerking off to avoid the problems that come with sex
>if you want to become enlightened SR is just a step on the path, a building block, it's not the end all be all but it's basic, like breathing in order to survive
>if you are doing this to attract women you will fail

>>41865423
Did someone post pr0n and it got removed?

>>41866627
Can attest to that
Know a man in his 30s who is literally jobless, and shy as fuck so he only talks to man. Not eve. Super tall. Maybe 5 8
Yet got a good masculine face, and women pay so much attention to him
Hell, there were women who wanted him, and don’t care about his job status “money is not everything” they said
Hell even once appreantly a girl made out with him, he told them he is a loser without a shred of confidence, and yet she said that she doesn’t care about any of that
Life is just easy mod for some guys
You can be an absolute coward and women still hide beyond you, ask for your help
You can be weak at any sport and women ask you to “teach them” and “play with them”
You can be literally the worst man on earth in any dance, and women will go out of their way to dance with you and if you fail? No worries they will teach you HAPPILY!
You will be invited, perused even, to be around them, and hangout with them and they would love you for it
Women almost always makes excuses for good looking men, without exceptions! Way more than us EVER do for women. I genuinely think that we as men care way more about personality that women do.
What wouldn’t I give to be treated like like a handsome man
Isn’t it weird? A woman is always pursed, but when you are pursued as a man, it just feel 10x better
I am pretty sure a girl hanging out with a handsome guy who likes her only give a tiny precent of the happy hormones we men recieve if we get to hangout with a good looking girl that like us.
But oh well, life ain’t fair, and fuck anyone who says it is.
Sorry for the doomer/blackpill spewing, but I been really REALY felt bad this week.

>>41865558
FUCK OFF RETARD
We are social animals
We LOVE connections and we love to be liked and pursued and be valued sexually
Infact, it is YOU who got it backward
No successful man EVER been a loser in sexual market before reaching greatness
All the men with interesting fun lives ALWAYS been validated sexually and hence why they went for more and more adventures and became more interesting
And no, women can’t sense shit
I mean look at me, exhibit A
I am a super shy person, and yet in the past year I build myself up a ton, I started to go dancing, clubbing, took lessons in dancing even (shit I never had the balls to do) went to concerts, trailered, visited new places, got new cool hobbies. I built my personality as a COOL fun person who is always out and about, who is doing shit, someone who is never shy away from doing something new and exciting, to the point that people think I am an extrovert. I don’t even enjoy concerts and yet people think I just a party head
Want more excitementment than this??
And yet? Nothing! People who are shy as fuck around me get invited by girls that didn’t care for me. Anytime I am somewhere doing something, I am guaranteed to come home alone, or with a number that doesn’t go nowhere
I am ALWAYS CHASING, always texting, and yet, other guys get to be chased and texted. Like I don’t remember ONCE in my life, from my shyself to my activeself, not even once I remembered talking/texting with someone I like, and it be effortless. It’s always felt forced, it always felt like I am bothering them
You can be shy, you can be a mess, you can boring as fuck, and women will make you look outgoing, cleaned up, and cool…only if you look good
Again, sorry for blackpill shit, but I am really pissed at this bullshit idea

>>41868338
Oh and I am DOING ALL OF THIS, by myself.
You ever seen anyone who NO ONE WANTS, go to a club by themselves and dance? That’s me!
Got bigger balls than lots of other guys, and I deliberately put myself in these situations and I still get nothing
Meanwhile if you look alright you gonna experiance life effortlessly with a beautiful woman on your side, you get invited to clubs, and parties, and concerts, and lots and lots of fun events and got to turboshot your social life (something you can also do if you got my type of balls, aka doing it alone)
Hell and I am not even talking about sex, like women avoid me even as friends
You ever got to see people invite other “friends” to a party infront of your face but forget you “accidentally”?
Or plan to go to a bar and just pretend they don’t gonna go? (Still going)
Or you go to a club and women are ALL playful with your other male but NOT with you? (Twerking, lap dance etc)
You know what I always fucking envy? Those little groups (their own dance pocket universes) people usually make dancing with their own friends group in clubs. I never got one, cause no one even bother to invite me
Oh and it’s both during my shy period, and in my active period
I am pissed yeah, if I was just handsome life would have been so fucking great

>>41852312
Doing something as simple as not keeping hand lotion in the bathroom has been a major help, although I think the next major step is just not using my phone when I’m in the bathroom or much more entirely. SR really is putting all my bad habits in check and amplifying my energy.

130+ days. Never gonna give up.

>>41868393
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0zXfPqbPVv4

>>41868536
Lmao fine alright

>>41865566
Nope
I seen why guys, introverted guys, who look good get hot girlfriend who are active and outgoing and extroverted and they invite them out to do stuff with them to the point that you would think of the guy as extroverted too
Or sometimes they just hangout with him and do introverted shit and happy about it too

>>41857280
Speak for yourself, I'm NEET and couldn't give a fuck about politics.

>>41868555
Dawg, chill out, I’m just tryna leave drank alone in peace over here, aight?

>>41868571
Man I don’t know. I am pissed and I am venting
I am to the point that even when I dream about women who I liked in real life , they are only “slightly” more interested than me, and even in my dreams I am left alone and lonely
Imagine, even my brain thinks that it’s over lol

>>41868338
>We are social animals
No, YOU fuck off retard. Parroting this NPC logic, what fucking trite. All this is, is just cope. Huge fucking cope that you can't stand to be alone, that you must be the center of attention. You never got attention, so you're now demanding it like a fucking toddler.

>>41868593
Dude I have NO FUCKING ISSUE with being alone. I lived DECADES alone by myself
If you look good, you LITERALLY can’t be alone, like you CANT!
You have to go out of your way to be alone.
Not me though. I have to go out of my way to not be alone, and I know damn well it is not genuine and soon I be back to dear old loneliness
Say yeah, I got used to be alone, but I never wanted my life to be this way, I got forced into it

It all gets better in time. I believe in all of you to be able to control your right (or left, ew) hand, your mind and eventually your life. Anyone who tells you otherwise doesn't want you to get better.

>>41868604
>Say yeah, I got used to be alone, but I never wanted my life to be this way, I got forced into it
"Whosoever is delighted in solitude, is either a wild beast or a god" - Aristotle

You are trying to look for fulfillment in others. Unfortunately they can't do that for you. Only you can.

>>41868604
sorry to hear that bro

A simple 3 part question for retainers that have been practicing for the last month:
How often have you dreamed without counting wet dreams?
What ratio would you say these were positive/negative?
Do they in- or decrease with the streak?

>>41868644
Aristotle didn't say that, I wish AI didn't make everyone into retards.

>>41868655
lol my brother, who I love dearly is actually opposite, looks good, and get attention
Like whenever he goes, he makes friends and female friends despite not being as talkative and “outgoing” as me
Sorta shyish even, but confidence
And good looks, like lol, the other day we are walking to our cars, and we usually past a high school that is close to our apartment and lmao these girls calling him/miring him
but I fear he follow my decision/pholopshey (which comes from me forced being alone) too much
Like very impressionable from me
Hopefully, if I keep my outgoing/party personality up (as a 30 year old dude) my younger brother emulate me too, steps up and actually find himself a beautiful woman
>>41868644
Yeah sure man Aristotle said that
And my dad works for Nintendo too
>you trying to look for fullfillment in others
Every MAN wants to feel sexually validated
EVERY.MAN
And that can only be found in others
Sure, I always wanted to have women around me and I always forced to live alone, but guess what? It’s not like I got succumb to lonelyness
I didn’t become a druggie or alcoholic
Hell I am not even a porn addict, sometimes I watch porn cause I wanna make sure my dick still got it
That’s it
So no, I can Survive either way

>>41868842
Nvm quote was true

>>41868338
>>41868393
the words of a loser
the mentality of a victim
the sniffle of a child

>>41868604
please go on a vacation before you shoot up a school or something. you are in very bad shape. get help.

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>>41866627
Incorrect. Most guys today are sexless because males aren't making as much money as they used to, most aren't hitting the bare minimum. And it's not just in the US, same in China as well and in nearly any place with central banking. In high school for every top chad in looks alone there were 5 or 10 rich boys, half of them with messed up phenotypes, getting into relationships if not straight up having casual sex. At work the pattern is even stronger, chad often gets pushed into some humiliation ritual while a rich boy / nepo person gets talked about. Women find most males unattractive, if a female likes you today solely on looks tomorrow she will think "meh", such is her depressed brain. What matters is really authority. Men are smarter, stronger, taller than ever, with bigger dicks on average as well, yet most are being left alone by the female crowd, clearly because he can't afford 2 cars, 2 houses, 2 kids, 2 vacations a year, he can't afford for to be a stay at home wife even. I built a youtube channel with a tall white friend, I was getting more pussy than him because I was more confident with money. Dude had everything to be a full chad, except chads are ignored today by society. If mommy and daddy don't share any meaningful amount of money, which was his case, it is game over romantically. Dude is now balding and going through identity crisis.

>>41868279
>>41868338
>>41868393
real as fuck, for every shithead on the internet giving out "advice" as if its easy and every man who struggles must be some kind of unhygienic basement dweller who needs to "just work on themselves" there's an experience like this that usually goes unsaid. life isn't fair and sometimes there's no "easy" fix because what changes your exact situation into something better is so hyper individualized, the ideal action for you might seem completely retarded to anyone else until it actually works

also don't listen to these cunts (>>41868983, >>41868973) because there's nothing wrong with having strong emotions with this kind of shit, in fact being passive and terminally passe about it is probably worse when your time on earth is limited

>>41852312
I want some interpretation for a wet dream if anyone can spare. I've been clean for almost a month now, and I attribute this mostly to a prayer in which I asked to be delivered from this sin, and a woman that I met, but whom I'm separated from by distance at the moment.

In the dream, it was me in my childhood bed, masturbating and looking at porn. That's all, just like when I discovered all this. After the fact, I checked the hall to see if anyone was there, and my mom was walking up as if she knew I was up to no good. I changed quickly and hid the evidence. Then I woke up to realize I actually ejaculated.

I would've expected some kind of lustful fantasy encounter, or even a dream involving this girl, but it was just the most mundane, regular experience. Since then, I had another dream that did involve sex and was nearing a nocturnal emission, but I was somehow able to wake myself up before it progressed.

I think I'm on a good path, and I don't see myself going back, but what was this dream about?

>>41869023
>I think I'm on a good path, and I don't see myself going back, but what was this dream about?
idk I had one where I entered a big pool with some kind of nessy humanoid whale thing and I knew she was fertile and I just started spraying sperm into the water in attempt to impregnate
probably the worst wet dream I can remember
then I've had insanely hot sex dreams where I'm making passionate love to the most attractive women and wake up with dry sheets

>>41869001
bitch ass black pilled excuse

>>41869001
>its just looks
>its just income
>its just status
>etc
the value of all of these are heavily inflated in first world countries right now because its a low trust society with very little social cohesion and competition on a wider scale. things like rampant porn usage among men tip the scale even further towards women holding all the power, and learning to control our individual libidos more constructively only changes things on a micro level (and who can even say if that's enough to make a difference at all)?

>>41868973
>>41868983
>hurr durr you are a loser
>hurr durr you are a school shooter
Wanna throw me some more normiefag insults too? How about pedo?
lol
That’s all you do. When your just world fallacy of “you work on yourself, you win” falls apart, it’s not because world is inherently unjust and shit, it’s because I am doing something wrong.
That’s alright
Fundamentals of biology and attraction doesn’t changes by arguing here lol
>>41869001
Again I know and SEEN literal losers, no money, no power, no confidence guys attract attention of women, both women who got money and those who don’t, who accept him and want him, solely on basis of looks
>going throw identity crisis
Yeah sure, when a chad lose it’s looks he realize it’s truly over
He just realize what lots of other men have to live by day to day

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>>41869237
you should try throwing traditional advice to the wind because it failed you. say "fuck it" to it and the people who deluded you into believing it for so long, metaphorically flail around aimlessly until you find something that autistically sticks instead of listening to the same old generic shit from people who probably don't really know what they're talking about in the first place because they had better luck in some way that carried them

>>41869268
Guess why I 180 my personality around in my own? I was tired and I gonna do more stuff too
But I know it gonna fail, I just know it. (Que the law of attraction shit that it’s my fault cause I know it gonna fail)
Like I am at a point that when I talk to someone, I know I might never see her. If she gives me her number, i know she gonna flake
If she text me, I know this might be the last response
And so on and so forth
Imagine living life like this, anxiety in every interaction (and no, no one think I am an anxious mess like this, not even my family knows)
Why? Becaus it happened to me before
>2 hour talk with a girl in bar, who asks for my insta, which I refuse and then ask for my number only to flake me
>talk to a girl for 3 hours, she texted me first, flakes me
>talk to another, no flake, go out, she says it was AWESOME, flaked
How much can I even take? I am dying out here man
It hurts man.
Sometimes I stop, but stopping also hurts.

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>Today I am celebrating DAY#100
I am seeing more synchronicities, drawing more eyes ("magnetism"), self confidence, I'm funnier but also laughing more. Getting more detached from my need for women and being in a relationship. A fuckton more energy, but I've also started supplements with D+, magnesium, zinc, copper, arctic root, K2, B12 and Iodine - but it is absolutely ridiculous completely outcompeting the amphetamines I was using for a while. Stronger and fitter, ofcourse, but also more hairgrowth and I got my first zit in the face for like 20 years.
>>41868657
>>41869023
>>41869130
Every other anon is jamming about his wet dreams, but we hardly ever get to hear about them... that would be sort of interesting. Personally I've managed to avoid them, but I've had one erotic dream that was a close call, that I find interesting. (And generally I am dreaming more, and more vividly).
>dream about reading a 1980's pornography pocketbook
>cheap grey paper
>little short stories sent in by readers
>full page black and white photo every few pages
>the photos are spread pics of milfs
>exactly like it was when I started consuming porn back then
>but instead of the sexy lingerie that was the style of the era they are all using catgirl accessories!
My interpretation is the obvious one: this was my subconscious saying goodbye to porn mixing elements from childhood & adolescence with modern pornography.

Congratulations anon. I'll be there soon enough. Very interesting dream, and similar to mine in the way of a pornographic medium making its way into the dream aswell as elements of childhood.

I like your interpretation.

>>41869391
You all know where to find me at this point, just no one's had the balls to show up.

>>41868279
I know how you feel. All these incels that care about sex so much are funny to me, because even just a woman being nice to me and genuinely showing me affection, even a tiny bit will literally make my whole week. Its not even that difficult lol... I feel ask for very little...? I'm not entitled either way, just saying I get by with way less, comparable to /r9k/ users

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>>41852312
I made it 57 days and then nutted twice cause the second flatline simply overpowered me and was feeling nihilistic. However, I don't feel backpedaled or fallen, I still feel like the positive momentum from the 57 days is still mostly intact, and the flatline chilled out after without causing a total relapse into old habits.

I think I'll just keep counting and brush it off, back on the horse, no stress.

>>41868657
>How often have you dreamed without counting wet dreams?
Since day 20-30~ onward I dream basically every night
>What ratio would you say these were positive/negative?
Honestly most of my dreams are "neutral" regardless of SR or not, but none really bad dreams, so I guess moreso positive, especially if it's a truly fascinating dream.
>Do they in- or decrease with the streak?
Definitely increase.

>>41870065
Also forgot to mention there haven't been any recent wet dreams on my current 47 day streak. A few with "attractive women" but it never went in that direction whatsoever.

>>41869314
maybe you just desire them too hard and it's fucking you up, being in environments like clubs and dancing and shit will do that since they're the main reason anyone goes to those places and does those things in the first place. nobody is freaking out over how women respond to them when they're fixated on like, autistically fixated on making the perfect sub sandwich or something

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You have relapsed and lost the streak or whatever as soon as you've popped a single boner or had a single sexual thought
You can not prove me wrong and have to reset the clock NOW

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This thread is dead. You can't find anyone talking about SR anywhere except reddit.
What happened to SRbros? Did everyone give up?.

>>41852312
>Be me
>Almost ten days of nofap
>Feeling good
>Later, hanging with some people. Playing video games (Spyro)
>All of a sudden start having an influx of sexual memories. Lots of regret about it, desire for it, regret. Looks like that, with extreme bodily sensations of heat, tremors (mild/lite). Generally like I'm having a panic attack and getting aroused at the same time.
>Feelings/urges subside
>11:00 PM hits
>Feeling strong urges again.
>Decline to watch movie with friends because I felt like I need sleep FAST or I'm gonna relapse.
>Go to bed.
>Feel like "ok if I just masturbate a little I'll be fine..."
>Relapse for two and a half days into EXTREME gooning and sexually dangerous activities. Ends with me jizzing at work like a fucking sociopath
What the fuck happened??? Why the fuck did I have an arousal-panic attack combo?

First the women ogling and wondering was nice. Now I'm just lonely and miserable, while at a high level.

>>41871842
I find there is less to talk about the more I get integrated into my streak. 130+ days and idk what else to say really.

>>41852312
Relapsed, it didn't even feel good, felt like I came and didn't even orgasm. Granted it was only after 1 day of abstaining, but now I have this urge to "properly" fap and have a good orgasm. I think thats what always gets me, the post relapse "Giving in". its never that good anons, what a trick it plays

>>41871882
You have to relax the tension in your lower regions. A sign you did it right is an instant desire for a deep inhale. As tension builds up the libido comes back again, so you have to condition yourself to keep the lower region(and your whole body really) relaxed as much as possible. Then eventually you get the hang of it.

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>>41871882
>Feel like "ok if I just masturbate a little I'll be fine..."
yeah never let it come this far again, that was one of my main stumbling blocks that led to relapses. Do anything different, pushups, walking in your room, pick up a book or just as you tried go to sleep

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>>41871721
First is involuntary so nah

>>41871882
>All of a sudden start having an influx of sexual memories. Lots of regret about it, desire for it, regret. Looks like that, with extreme bodily sensations of heat, tremors (mild/lite). Generally like I'm having a panic attack and getting aroused at the same time.
Idk if you're a Christian or not but pray to God about this. This feeling is not of God and its meant to hold you back onto pat regrets and it caused exactly what happened to you on purpose. Pray to the Lord to free you from those shameful things so you can be cleansed of them and move on to better things. I had to do it too anon.

>>41852345
>The most important goal for porn’s male audience was and is the release of their semen.
I've recently tried to escape from porn consumption, I was successful for days and found I am less likely to masturbate entirely when there's nothing spurring the behavior on unnaturally. What did me in was still a demand on visual novelty, it had nothing to do with my pure sexual urges. I caved in to some swimsuit models even after I allowed the suggestion that "it doesn't matter because it's not hardcore porn" to creep in my subconscious.
Now that I've had a night's rest and can see clearly I see my errors. Softcore porn is still porn, and an obvious threshold into the pits of hardcore porn should someone make a habit of it. The danger is the habit. I hadn't even given up porn for a completed week yet and there it happened. Old habits die hard.
However, I think I am better fore-armed to take up the fight again after these events. Now I know that I must be wary of being around these images of women like a teetotaler treats alcohol. Simply looking at them is what consists of consumption.
A man happily ignorant of the habits of visual novelty in porn consumption might be just fine among these images, but my mind and intellect are dulled by them and they weigh heavily on me.

Without porn being ingrained in people to twist their sexual urges into an unholy symbiotic dependence on visual novelty, the intellect and clarity of mind of the average man would dwarf the average coomer today.

>>41852312
It would make sense that Samson was an allegorical story about Semen Retention, but in the story itself it mentions him sleeping with a prostitute and he still had his strength after that. It wasn't until Delilah cut his hair he lost his strength. I'm not really arguing against Semen Retention though but it does pose a question.

>>41871882
well shit dude, I had a good laugh

>>41872503
It is voluntary because it's a function of your sexual thoughts, but you're free to enjoy your stay in the coom cycle for the rest of your life

>>41872503
Regardless, we should strive for perfect chastity though.

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>>41853445
Either shill or coomer that never reached a long clean streak

>>41873560
suppose it is real to the degree you claim. lets suppose it is, how do you reconcile with the fact that once you have a wet dream you lose it? you know it's true. if you have a heavy wet dream and lose actual semen on not just precum, you lose that extra edge of benefits. how do you reconcile retard

>>41872898
you say that as if you aren't equally still within the cycle of life as well. abstaining from ejaculation doesn't somehow free you from the bounds of samsara you hmong. to unchain yourself from the cycles of life you have to renounce everything including semen retention and identifying with it you fucking jack

>>41871886
well that's how it goes. you're at a high level and see everyone peering over at you but you can't touch them. so what do you do about it? go online and complain? no i'm genuinely asking you. what is your end goal? if you're lonely and miserable then that means you still desire the companionship of a woman. perhaps you can find one who will understand your semen retention goals. it sounds complicated but really isn't if you can lay them out for them so they understand.

>>41873560
there are literally accounts in this very thread that destroy the "magnetism" meme (as far as its defined as, you just don't jack off and women put themselves in front of you with no other effort required on your part) because its pretty much just confirmation bias. the difference comes from actually desexualizing your brain, which brings much more subtle changes over time

>>41873624
well it's not a meme and i'm all for the middle way, meaning this is bullshit and you should just get a girlfriend. but with that said, retaining does bring an edge of benefits which women sense instantly. they can smell semen it's part of their retarded ape brain. but you see the issue i find with it is these retards all have wet dreams here and there so their benefits are going in and out. and if they fuck and dump their massive load inside of the woman then they're really screwed because bye bye to all of those edge benefits. the benefits are real but they are entirely unsustainable for any man who still has an inkling of sexual and/or companionship desire with women. that's the bottom line

>>41873665
If you can’t prevent/fight/cancel (in that order) wet dreams you haven’t retained long enough and don’t have faith in yourself and God.
t. Literally cancelled two of them tonight. The last one I played with fire and did it the last second. Cock so hard it was ready to burst.

>>41873665
>i'm all for the middle way, meaning this is bullshit and you should just get a girlfriend
not very easily done past college age when you're in a male dominated career with similarly skewed hobbies/interests. if opportunities are rare (generously saying, meeting a few new women per month, maybe) even with average luck & social standing a realistic rejection, already taken rate means years of dry spell without much you can really do about it but wait it out
>the benefits are real but they are entirely unsustainable for any man who still has an inkling of sexual and/or companionship desire with women. that's the bottom line
unfulfilled desire isn't a bad thing, that's why SR is a decent idea, you're cutting out the tranquilizer of masturbation and making yourself less satisfied with a lack of female warmth (which you naturally should be). it's the idea that people will respond differently to you because of an invisible, unnoticeable change that's a meme

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>>41873586
first, dont call me a retard you subhuman zoomer.

Second, in my experience you dont lose that much on a wet dream. After a few days you are back to 100%.

>>41873713
>Second, in my experience you dont lose that much on a wet dream.
That really depends on how you deal with the orgasm when it hits. You can fight it or let your accumulated seed perish like dogs.

>>41869130
>I had one where I entered a big pool with some kind of nessy humanoid whale thing and I knew she was fertile and I just started spraying sperm into the water in attempt to impregnate
>probably the worst wet dream I can remember

Probably the funniest I've ever read.

>>41872222
I have a lot of weird hangups with sex. Which have ultimately manifested as these really intense feelings of horror, compulsion for danger and Absolute Gooning.

I feel like if I were a normal person, just jerking off with no porn etc would be fine. But I've gotten so weird that I have formed a legitimate Sex Addiction. It's alot like shooting up or drinking. I almost never just jerk, I go through an intensely malevolent process. Which results in a really fucked up cycle of stress-> goon (panic attack & OCD happening during this) --> stress

Long story short, I think you're right about not letting it get this far. I've tried to do other things though...but the psychological pressure to "use" is so immense. It doesn't always happen either, but I'll occasionally develop legitimate "withdrawal" symptoms when I go cold turkey. They're normally similar to a flu.
>>41872092
This is a really interesting but of advice. It tracks with my general history of stress/trauma. I notice I have the easiest time not going back to my old habits when I'm relaxed.

How do I learn to relax? And, when I learn to relax, how do I keep myself from going back to looking for stress/tension?
>>41872527
Definitely will keep this in mind. Not Christian but I can see where the general schema of that applies to my life potentially.

>>41874079
Also, wet dreams for me aren't the same as for you guys. I figured I'd share since everyone else did...

My wet dreams are "wet night-terrors". They come in two flavors for me.
1. Fetish content mixed with emotional or physical distress.
2. Old people force feeding me meat. (Typically trying to trick me into eating it)

They always follow one of these formats. Fetish night terrors are normally slightly better but not by much. The old people dreams are always awful. I don't cum normally during either type of these night terrors. Instead I wake up with an erection and a panic attack. There's been a couple times I will wake up gasping, screaming and become horny. I'll feel compelled to jerk off.

>>41874139
By far the funniest post I've read this month. Bro, you need Jesus so bad. I don't even want to imagine what you've been through. (yes, I have sick and twisted humor)

>>41873560
>I've been seeing shills go after incels
>"there's no point in doing this it's just cope"
The funniest thing about this is the fact that if you do end up fapping/cooming like they want, those same people will still call you a pathetic incel etc.
>don't fap
>"JUST FAP YOU INCEL, YOU'RE COPING"
>fap
>"WOW YOU'RE A LOSER WHO CAN'T GET A GIRL"
There is literally no winning with these people, there is no satisfying them, no matter what option you choose with anything they will have the same reaction towards you regardless. The best thing you can do is stop giving a fuck what these people think completely and just focus on yourself, and help other people who are struggling. They are literal NPC anchors who are in the system to weigh you down and keep you in line. They've been tricked into serving the masters they believe themselves to hate without even knowing it.

>>41874229
Copypaste this and post it again next thread, please.

The Blue Whale's vagina is the next biggest pussy in the world behind you

New thread:

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