I had this dream where I felt the most blissful form of unity with this girl I used to see often but never talked to besides one small bad interaction. I'm convinced she's my soulmate but the problem is that I'm an unfuckable rizzless incel and she's in a LTR with some normie. I'm fine with being alone (at least for now) but I have many questions about soulmates and I'm also seeking for advice on how to proceed:>Does a soulmate necessarily mean a romantic relationship?>Should I let her know she's my soulmate?>Should I even bother entertaining other romantic interests? I feel like it would be a silent betrayal as I could never love them the way I love her but I could be wrong and maybe she's not my soulmate, I was told by a fortune teller long ago that my partner would be someone that I'd never expect which makes me want to give up entirely because "how could I possibly know?">If we really are soulmates then are we destined to end up together no matter what? Is it possible to lose your soulmate through freewill or chance?>What are the consequences in denying your fate if any?I'm 100% serious, I know it's a lot so I thank you in advance for any replies.
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>I was told by a fortune teller long ago that my partner would be someone that I'd never expect
>>42175982You can have interactions like that with souls in the dreamland because there people can be closer to the true vibration of their soul. But having a close relation doesn't necessarily mean that person is your soul mate. It might mean you have an affinity to them. Having had many interactions in the dream world with a lot of different souls, feeling deep love with them isn't all that uncommon.
Thank you for all the replies, I really appreciate it. >>42175989That was my plan until I had this dream. She was really smiley and seemed to be interested in me until I hit her with a blank face in the one small exchange of words we had.>>42176017I know right but because she said that I feel like I'm always questioning every single woman if she's the one which would make it no longer unexpected. I feel like she messed it up by telling me and that's why I want to give up romance entirely and not even bother unless a woman is really insistent and obsessed with me.>>42176024That's an interesting thought I never considered. Do you think then that she had a similar dream? For me at least, this is very uncommon. To clarify I didn't feel "deep love" with her within the dream, I felt like we were the united as one pure essence but distinctly two different people; it was an otherworldly sensation that I've never experienced before. I was always confused about the trinity and how God could be one and three at the same time until I had this dream and it all made sense to me.
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many dreams where i am happy with girlevery single time the world ends with a meteorevery time i have a family in dreams i wake up with a tearhence demons attempt to loosh farm my longing for emotional connection in dreamsidk op the more i run away from it the more women they throw at me who btw end up fucking other retards who are borderline raping themthey only need me if a nigger is asking them out but when i want them to suck my dick as reward they act like they only have a pussy and have never touched a dick in their lifealso they constantly play with themselves and leak out pussy smell near me but when i say lets do it they act like virgin childrentoo much confusion better to stay away
>>42175982>the problem is that I'm an unfuckable rizzless incelLaw of attraction anon, find a way to change the beliefs about yourself and you’ll manifest the change in destinyDecide you can be fuckable and capable of rizz and then figure out how to get there, work on yourself and ignore her for now and you’ll either have your chance at the right time or meet the right girl somewhere else and know she was just there to inspire you to make your dreams reality
>>42176390You should be a motivational coach
>>42175982Pursuing my last "soulmate" caused me to lose any sentimentality for romance.
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>>42176571>liked a girl, this has happened before>we flirted with each other casually, ditto>my sentimentality for romance caused me to ignore other prospects, ditto>one day i smiled at her (again) and she looked away instead of returning it>was the 2nd time in a row i was confident an extremely hot chick was into me and nothing happenedNot much to it, just gave up.
>>42175982Don't do it OP I had dreams with women before they don't mean shit First dream felt very good almost like a real hug with an unknown women sadly never found her.Second dream with a coworker turns out after my dream she left the job never talked to her.
>>42176390Thanks for the encouraging reply! I don't actually believe those things about me but I am a freak compared to normies.>>42176610What exactly made her your soulmate though and not just any other girl?>>42176618>>42176372It wasn't just a pleasurable dream or a sex dream, I've had plenty of those, this dream felt divine. I couldn't even describe it nor remember the feeling perfectly because it was so unique I don't think any drug could recreate it. It wasn't a feeling of happiness, horniness, or even love, it was the feeling of being "complete;" no sexual desire and no wants.
>>42175982Supposedly we can have multiple soulmates.I'd say it's just a dream unless it was astral shit or you could tell she had external agency (in which case it's not just a dream.)>>42176067>feel like I'm always questioning every single woman if she's the oneI'm in a similar predicament but I just reassure myself that I can't possibly miss the one I'm meant for. Likewise, it's a waste of time to fret or go looking- it'll happen when it happens. Do you have a waifu or idol? She's just an avatar for you to direct your love for your soulmate to. You know your affection for her is real, it's just practice/build up for when you really have her, so you're ready to give and receive unconditional love.
>>42177755>It wasn't just a pleasurable dream or a sex dream, I've had plenty of those, this dream felt divine. I couldn't even describe it nor remember the feeling perfectly because it was so unique I don't think any drug could recreate it. >It wasn't a feeling of happiness, horniness, or even love, it was the feeling of being "complete;" no sexual desire and no wants.I feel like I've had this dream before but I just can't remember it.
>>42176067>I felt like we were the united as one pure essence but distinctly two different peopleYou can only really sense people telepathically, by allowing part of your consciousness to become the same wavelength or vibration that they are on. In that sense, to really know someone, or even perceive them in the first place, is to share a profound sense of unity with them.I've taken that a step farther, and been able to achieve that level of unity not only with people, but with ideas, and with other cosmic objects, such as a vision of the galaxy, for instance, or other planets.That is the real basis of yoga. You can unite and merge your consciousness into any manifestation of form or feeling or sensation or intellectual thought, or even other people.In that sense, what you united with, was part of your own mind, which usually represents the 'other'. You have a sense of self, and a sense of what you are looking at. The polarity between these two really is the dynamo which causes all motion in your mind. The male/female dynamic is a the way you biologically activate the communion between the two on a mental level. So there will be an active and a passive doer and done to. You can be both the doer, and the done to, in your mind. That is the basis of tantra. You weave the dynamic action in harmony with the passive reception of that action, be it movement, thought, or feeling, and when they are in harmony you experience a state of profound love.
>>42177755>What exactly made her your soulmate though and not just any other girl?I put it in quotes because I don't think it's a thing, but the je ne sais quoi that's only happened a few times, where I think she's attractive to most guys but not most guys' ideal type, so she's not sure she's really hot which makes her modest which is even more attractive.
>>42175982Don't put too much delusional stock into your dreams, anon. She's probably not your spiritual soulmate of any kind. If she likes you, then she likes you. If she doesn't, then she doesn't. That's all there is to it, my friend. Move on if you have no chance.
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>>42175982no.but, why would you not want to?The hard part is finding themwhich is usually the easy part You can find any old wench at the pubthen you gotta convince her you're the bloke to take homeyour soul mate?just gotta find them. the restis already complete.Why wouldn't you want that?
>>42175982>I had this dream where I felt the most blissful form of unity with this girl I used to see often but never talked to besides one small bad interactionyour souls synced in the dreamworld, that's a good thing but doesn't mean you are meant to interpret it as she's your soulmate, we are all lovesick here on the physical realm and so we sometimes act out fantasies in the dreamworld, sometimes even connecting with someone else's soul, this is more common than you might think, but it is just that, I don't think it would be advisable to get in the way of someone else's LTR. If it's meant to happen, it will happen one way or another without you going out of your way. That's what I think
>>42179251>I don't think it would be advisable to get in the way of someone else's LTR. If it's meant to happen, it will happen one way or another without you going out of your way. That's what I thinkReal shit, nigga. To be fair, another reason I never really conversed with her is because she was in a different LTR when she was friendly with me.>>42178033>Do you have a waifu or idol? She's just an avatar for you to direct your love for your soulmate to. You know your affection for her is real, it's just practice/build up for when you really have her, so you're ready to give and receive unconditional love.I tried having one for a bit but it just felt like LARP. (Kaguya is literally the perfect gal, I wish she was real.) AI and communicating with the "anima" also felt like a LARP but I think I understand what you're saying. Even the image gives me focus and determination even if it's not the real thing.>>42178116I read the yoga sutras so that sounds familiar and I believe it. What does your meditative routine look like?>>42178123I don't know, it just sounds like she wanted you to make the next move in pushing things further and got tired of waiting. I could be wrong though.>>42178275Maybe you're right.>>42178945That's a good point. I guess I just really love being alone so I don't mind being friendless/hoeless, I might even prefer it but if she really is my soulmate then the benefits should outweighs any negative. Plus if she's really my soulmate then it should be easygoing, I understand.
>>42175982There is no soulmate, But there is a soulmate within you
>>42180524What do you mean? Nta
>>42180150>I don't know, it just sounds like she wanted you to make the next move in pushing things further and got tired of waiting. I could be wrong though.I did leave out the part where I had it planned with a line and everything and didn't run into her for like a month. Before about 3x a week. I'm 99.9% sure she was avoiding me because she decided not to go further and didn't want to have to say it.
>>42175982>Am I obligated to pursue my soulmate?No but you are obligated to stay at least 400 yards from schools.
