Things fell apart with a former group of friends. I don't really have a way to contact these people anymore, nor do I think it's feasible to make amends either... The relationship is pretty much completely dead.I need to get closure. It's been bothering me this past month.I want to know why things went down the shitter the way they went. Or at the very least, I need to sever these ties mentally and spiritually for good, so I can move on with my life...Any suggestions/help is greatly appreciated
>>42218283cut your dick off rusty cage style
>>42218283Why bother? Why use energy on people that didn't try to make it work? Anon, you're better than that. Fuck 'em.
>>42218308But we were thick as thieves for like fifteen years. At least me and one of them were, I'd like to believe. I don't understand what the fuck happened this last year that made things go down the drain so badly :(. I've tried talking things with them before, but I don't feel they were sincere.I just need to know the truth
>>42218362it's over, time to get new ones
>>42218362Maybe you just outgrew eachother, it happens. I wish you the best anon.
Feelsbad...Idk, it just feels really difficult to go out and meet new people nowadays, much less making meaningful connections with them. And then seeing the whole thing come crashing down like this...Kinda feels like becoming "homeless", in a way.
people grow up or grow apartif you can’t figure out what happened and were there, internet strangers won’t have a clue hesitate to say this part but, talk out the experience with AI. one of the few good things is can do is analysis, just keep in mind it will always pick your side and it’s psychology training materials are very lefty coded, so if the issue was you, it probably won’t tell you that. but it can probably ask more insightful questions than we can and will care (feign caring) more than we can. maybe the questions it asks will lead you to more clarity.
https://youtu.be/JknSO3VDkjs?si=wypc2m1lxwWRcjH7
>>42218283It's you who decided to distance yourself, and I understand given the circumstances, just go to the people you were closest with in the group, you know who, the 3, they will receive you back with open arms, go out with us and I'm sure we can kick back and return to those great moments we lived friend.
>>42218283This is happening for a lot of people. Stop caring about putting relationships through an autopsy because 99% friendships shouldn’t last forever. It was always meant to end and nothing went wrong.
Unironically read the picrel AA book chapter on the 9th step chapter as it has practical advice on how to appropriately right a wrong. 9. Made direct amends to such people wherever possible, except when to do so would injure them or others.
