I used to be an atheist but I had so many paranormal events happening in my life I can't explain them and now I'm falling deeper into the rabbit hole of esotericism and metaphysics. The newest one which made me to create this thread because I'm in a similar situation is about a friend of mine who has a girlfriend that's deeply into magic and esotericism many calling her crazy, she cheated on my friend while on alcohol, my friend nicely got over it and found a new GF better looking and having even better connection with her, his former GF was devasted, he was living so good with his new GF and 1 month later I see him breaking up with his new gf just to get back to his ex gf but this time he was like obsessed as fuck with her to the point of crying and begging her something he would never do.Now for me I meet a girl, we were flirty, we done plenty of romantic stuff together, we were doing well but I feel like I messed up due of my fears from previous relations I haven't done anything wrong but it was all in my mind only negativity one day I just woke up with her wanting us just to be friends and nothing more despite us previously being satisfied with each other. I did found small answers from The Principle of Mentalism.How could I fix this situation and make her obsessed with me?
>>42329156>How can you make somebody obsessed with youstudy lacan and learn about the objet petit a and his four discoursesthis is literally the answer to your question. He was expelled from the academy where he taught because people thought he was just fucking with everyone and cultivating an air of enigma around himself for profit instead of being clear about what he meant. but, if you know you know, and lacan fucking knew his shit, and that's why he made is complicated on purpose to gatekeep nigger faggots like the ones that banned him
>>42329176Interesting, gonna look up by far all I've done the "living in the moment" things and trying SATS but by far I got small gains
>>42329315lacan's four discourses were mind blowing and very eye opening concepts for me, not because it was like, new information, but because hearing it coming from someone who was a foundational influencer of psychoanalysis.Concepts like the "master signifier" and the "split subject" and so forth. You begin to understand, there are only four kinds of converastions homo sapiens ever have, and he mapped them out in a really ruthless machiavellian way that pissed off the academy because it dehumanizes people
>>42329176hi man, where do i read/study this? is there a book, or a pdf?
>>42329156Try /loa/
