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How do I slide in her DM and write a message that she actually reads?
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>>31129247
>You both follow leomessi
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>>31129247
Oh wow an influencer, how daring and bold to think anything you say would captivate her rather than who you are as a person
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>>31129353
>1k
That is just a woman
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>>31129247
>1k followers
You don't.
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Niggerfaggot
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>>31129247
>Hey, did you see the Messi game last night
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>>31129353
1000 is just a chick bro.
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>>31129250
paul dano is looking burly
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>>31129368
>>31129489
Never said she was successful but judging by her PFP, she's most likely got the mindset
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>>31129247
i just DM'd a girl that i like. here is what i said lol:

Hi X, how are you? I followed you because you were in my recommended and you are very cute hahaa


is it gonna go anywhere? i dont fuckin know but at least i was polite and not a weirdo (?)

i think it at least has the chance to be charming if she thinks i look good...
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>>31129247
>New Instagram account
>0 posts
But somehow she still labels herself as a "Public figure"
Something tells me this is a scammer
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>>31129575
>is it gonna go anywhere?
No.

>how are you?
This is a dogshit opener. The most boring thing you could possibly say. She doesn't know you, she has no reason to share how she feels with you. And it's just a boring and shit thing to say in general. Completely void of any personality or interest.

>you are very cute
Never compliment a woman unless you are dating. All you're doing is puffing up her ego and immediately assuming a beta position by acting unworthy.

Your game is bad enough that even an uggo won't respond to that. There is absolutely no chance that she replies to this.
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>>31129628
i appreciate the feedback but at least give a better example then dickhead.

>never compliment a woman unless you are dating

that's the most retarded shit i've ever heard. it takes balls to express appreciation for a girl and not expect something from it one way or the other.

you sound cynical and i think you're full of shit and get no bitches. like i said, at least provide a stronger DM if you know better than i do
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>>31129628
since you've provided the criticism, are you also going to provide the correct response?
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>>31129646
Are you Indian? That was a very Indian post.
>>31129647
NTA but she has zero photos and the only things she has are her name and I'm assuming the om means she's Hindu? Why are you (or the OP if you're not him) hitting her up? What is the goal here?
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>>31129673
>Are you Indian? That was a very Indian post.
yes im Indian. now are you going to give a better example? probably not. because you're full of shit and get no bitches
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>>31129673
stop asking questions and give a better opener
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>>31129646
>it takes balls to express appreciation for a girl
No it doesn't. There are a billion thirsty simps in their DMs doing the same shit.

>>31129647
Yeah, you have to know something about her and share something in common, mutual friend, interest, etc. have an interesting reason to reach out.

You really need to lower your standards significantly until you've built up some skills and experience. Women like this have hundreds of suitors, it's just a waste of time unless you are a gigachad with perfect game or rich. Do you think she even has to look online for that? lol. All you are doing is setting yourself up for disappointment.

>you sound cynical and i think you're full of shit and get no bitches
After I learned to not send messages like yours, I slayed through my 20s and now I settled down. But I had to learn the hard way and so will you.
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>>31129701
you are such a liar dude. you keep mentioning "game" but haven't defined it. having an "interesting reason to reach out" isn't game.
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>>31129673
It's a fucking scammer you retards
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>>31129715
yea i should have known it was a troll. gave him the benefit of the doubt because he actually wasted his time writing up so much bullshit. forgot what fuckin website i was on
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>>31129680
Here's some advice
1. Find actual women and not fake profiles
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>it takes balls to express appreciation for a girl and not expect something from it one way or the other.
Do the exact opposite of this in order to attract women
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>>31129712
I can't tell you what's "interesting" because it depends on the girl and it depends on you. You've given us literally nothing to work with. If you think you've got it all figured and spurn legit advice then you're just going to suffer more until you learn. It's your loss.

Either way, thinking you can hit on random girls online that you don't know anything about, that are even remotely attractive is completely autistic and retarded as fuck. It's going nowhere.
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>>31129748
>thinking you can hit on random girls online that you don't know anything about, that are even remotely attractive is completely autistic and retarded as fuck.
isn't this exactly what Tinder was made for?
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>>31129742
act like they don't exist and expect them to like me for it?
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>>31129628
NTA but as a rusted playa I appreciate effortposting a system update like this because I been out the game for a moment.
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>>31129777
Act like you're doing her a favor by talking to her and not the other way around
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>>31129854
if it's my job to approach her and initiate conversation how am i supposed to do that without expressing interest in her? i'm not trying to bust balls i really want to know
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>>31129882
I assume she's in your area, otherwise what's the point if you're not physically close enough to get laid. So something like
>Hey I noticed you were in [your location] and [make up a reason you found her instagram]
You could do something like
>I'm doing [fun thing] this weekend, you interested?
>I'm going to be at [fun event in your area like a festival or something], you ever been?
Pick a story that makes sense in your head like you're off to go have fun with your friends, or you're new in town and you want someone to show you around, whatever makes you happy to think about. And then try to rub that happiness and excitement off on her
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Send her a message with a screenshot of this post and be like "woaaaah haha look at how weird this is some weirdo posted you on 4chan." Now you're in
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>>31129628
>>31129701
You all need to read what this dude said and carve it into your brains.
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>>31129946
Good post
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>>31129946
Btw the key to this mentality (and what you should be thinking as you slide in her DMs) is that even if she says no, you don't care because you're still going to have a great time. That's what I mean by "you're doing her a favor by talking to her"
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>there is another fake account using your pictures and making money, so just thought u should know!


Yes, even if she had no pictures say this.

Then after she replied "which one?" or "what"

Send her NASA profile, and say "you are really out of this world" some compliment like this
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>>31129250
>>31129247
And now I also follow diyaaa.p_
So lets see if I can talk to her before OP >:)
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>>31129575
>dis like Julian Casablancas without the fame
lol it was over before it started
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>>31130317
hey me too anon!
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>>31130305
Wdym send her NASA profile?
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>>31130478
If you're Indian you have to send a rocket to the moon just to be able to talk to a random girl on instagram with 1000 followers
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>>31130478
the nasa account my nigga
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>>31129598
>0 posts
>thousand followers
He sells porn. Yes, it's a He.
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>>31130305
>>31130968
Okay have you ever gotten a girl doing this
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>>31131146
literally most of time, 70% success rate.

just try on random girl for starter and see the reply
then tell me
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no
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>>31129250
pissi cuckitini
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>>31133051
Better than your favorite player
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>>31129247
how about you fuck off normalfag



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