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I met this girl on bumble yesterday. We started talking through DMs and this was our last exchange last night.
It’s Saturday now, we’re meeting up on Monday for the first time.

Should I just not message anything today, and double check confirmation tomorrow? (Sunday)
Or should I write anything else?
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>>31135920
>emoji
Pussy's dried up move on
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>>31135920
>>31135994
which one is OP? I don't phonefag enough.
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>>31136019
I’m blue she’s grey
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>>31135920
Yeah just don't say a thing until Monday when you can say something like "Hey, heading out to [place] in 15"
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>>31136023
Oh well in that case..

>emoji
Pussy's dried up move on.
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>>31136059
she even gave him a gold star for effort like a retard yeah its over
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>>31135920
>Should I just not message anything today, and double check confirmation tomorrow? (Sunday)
Don't treat it like you're checking, just be like "looking forward to seeing you tomorrow blah blah some comment about your day"
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>>31136124
Yeah, anon. A gold star is code for an arid desert. It's in the handbook.
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Arrange a meeting irl
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>>31136149
Yes that’s on monday
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>>31135920
Update 1/2
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>>31137150
2/2
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>>31137150
>>31137154
risky af

Are you cute or hot?

looks like she don't have anyone other that is talking with her
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>>31137162
She called me cute earlier so I hope so
Also in real life I do have quite big street cred within my uni/age group
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>>31137178
good then, nothing to worry
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>>31135920
>and double check confirmation
Only dumbasses do this. Don't say anything, just assume she will show up and if she doesn't, get pissed at her.
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>>31137178
Get off my board, zoomie faggot
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>>31135920
from my experience, when they call you cute, its over. >>31135994 is right.
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>>What to message next
send this
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>>31135920
lets get frosty
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>>31137154
>i hope your place is soundproof because we're going to test that theory [pick a day... sometime soon]
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Simple answer is probably just do what feels natural. If conversation is flowing easily then yeah keep it going. If you feel awkward or like there's any chance you'll ruins things, just "have plans" today that mean you can't look at your phone much.

It's really not that difficult once you stop overthinking everything.
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>>31135920
I would confirm Sunday evening, maybe chat for a few messages if you have something interesting to say or thought of a question, and tell her when you're leaving to come meet her in Monday.
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>>31137150
>>31137154
What is even the context of this
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>>31137150
wait dude great job!! This is bold but she's flirting back she likes you!
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>>31137851
>just bee urself bro it's so easy!
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>>31135920
>r should I write anything else?
No. Don't write anything until Monday.
And then just confirm the date / time / place.
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I've done more cringe shit in writing...
but this is really bad.
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if she doesn't reschedule the date then ghost you i will be shocked
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>>31138782
Yes, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't be trying to be your best self too.
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>>31140390
which is it normie? its also saturday shouldnt you be out partying and clubbing?
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>>31140872
I was at a party lol, she went clubbing and I was at a house party
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>>31137150
rofl you absolute retards fucking chat with girls? no wonder you’re all incels
holy fuck 1 sentence tops without asking for # what the fuck am i looking at. this kind of shit kills my ego im not that cool you’re all just fucking retarded its not even fun anymore
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>>31135920
Wha should I text this girl? I think she’s really hot.



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