I have a horrible time because I compare myself to others a lot. I went over a friends house and his 17 year old cousin was complaining about girlfriend problems and and how his girlfriend is being annoying and how had to dump the last girl because she was being annoying etc. I am 31 and never had a girlfriend. It drives me up the wall knowing that fucking teenagers have more experience dating and being in a relationship than I ever could have. I feel like not an adult because I haven't been in a relationship. This stresses me even more because my job wants me to be a supervisor of sorts and that would mean dudes who are like 40+ with families and shit and wives would be reporting to me, a person who has no children yet and no wife or family. I just feel wholly inadequate because I am lacking in that area of things. Like I am sure they are thinking "This guy can't even manage to get a girlfriend. How could he possibly manage people?" I hate to compare myself to others but my faults are so glaring.What can I do?
Expire.
If a 30 year old guy would be my supervisor I would be scared thinking he focuses more on work then family.
>>31530137I hadn't thought of it that way. I guess that is a legit concern to have because I have met workaholics for sure. I am not one though.
