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I'm not going to explain how but I have gotten a foot in the door to the local only fans community in my area. I had the offer to "co-star" once before, but I turned it down mostly because she was unattractive to me. However lately I have been considering it as a part time job, but I am worried of being outed, and also of potentially fucking up my perception of sex and physical/emotional connection etc etc.
does any anons have experience in that industry, or know people involved, or any thoughts on it really?
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>>31531751
https://m.imdb.com/title/tt0118749/
Definitely will fuck up your psyche.
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>any thoughts on it really?
If I may, I would like to take thirteen seconds of your time to view this:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qrgufzKdBi8

It's a take from an ex-actress who used to be in the industry.
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>>31531751
dance with the devil, take your chances, what could POSSIBLY go wrong?
To me, it seems like even more soulless and depraved than a ONS hookup.
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>>31531751
Sto making this thread. You keep making it even though you get plenty of advice and answers
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>>31531751
1.) There is always the chance you will get exposed as doing porn and you can NEVER 100% get rid of this. If you ever have any dreams of a normie friendly life like a nice job, well respected in your community, wife and kids, then this will fuck you up forever if it does get exposed. Take a good look at the people in this porn scene and ask yourself if these are people you really like and would like to spend the rest of your life with

2.) If you start having sex for money it will ruin sex and intimacy for you. Sex will stop being an emotional connection and an expression of that, but just a job. It will loose its thrill pretty early and you will feel a gray, foggy absent mindedness about sex. You will also start to view women as just pieces of meat to fuck and will be unable to connect with them. Again, if you want to eventually so much as have a normal girlfriend relationship, then this is fucked up by this.

People in porn are usually broken and damaged people who more than likely were molested or sexually abused and turn to hypersextualization of themselves as an ill-fated attempt to "gain control" of their unaddressed emotional issues surrounding sex. The moment you turn sex from an exhilarating expression of physical attraction into a "job" it will be ruined for you. You cant use sex as a tool like that and expect to remain sane.

Source: Made the mistake of dating strippers/onlyfans girls, being in some of their stuff, having three ways for the thrill of it because I grew up as a small town good boy and being with sluts was very enticing to me.
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>>31533537
I think this is the first time I made a thread about this, at least on /adv/, I think i mentioned it on /fit/ once.

>>31533639
you've pretty much said exactly what I am worried about with both points. I've met a lot of the types you're talking about, male and female performers, and I agree on your assessment of them. Nice but there is something damaged, or hypersexual to an odd degree. In my romanticized, nothing goes wrong imagination of this idea, I keep a healthy distance from being deeply apart of the scene/industry, stick to POV stuff or blur out my face heavily, and just be a cock on call for performers and make some cash. Of course it wouldn't be straight forward but I just saying what I think the best outcome would be if I went this way.
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>>31534148
>I keep a healthy distance from being deeply apart of the scene/industry, stick to POV stuff or blur out my face heavily, and just be a cock on call for performers and make some cash
Not the >>31533639 poster but I agree with everything he says.
Alot of things are a slippery slop. Before you know it, you could end up doing shit you vowed to never do.
Face or not, you are still showing your body and you are doing one of the most personal and emotional things to people can do and once something goes on the internet, its on there for good. There's always a way to download or archive something.
For the rest of your life, you will always remember the times you had sex with someone for money. If you'll regret it or not in the future, I don't know.



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