a couple months ago i got out of a 2 year relationship with a woman of my dreams. found she was cheating, while also being extremely toxic towards me stemming from trauma she hasn't been able to get over since childhood. a lot of red flags I've kind of ignored over preference of her body type. i still love/loved her though. but cheating and constant toxicity is where i draw the linefast forward 2 months of being broken up ive started dating again. not gonna lie, theres times i catch myself thinking about her instead of who i have in front of me. i definitely feel like i lost "the one" due to shit out of my control, and i feel like im dating out of spite of losing that at this point.i also have a lot to do in regards to getting my finances in order. the person im dating isn't really "dream material" in terms of personality or otherwise. im turning 27 soon. should i just stop dating and focus on finances, or am i going to be fucked by the time im 30? should i keep dating in a relationship i dont really feel love in? shes nice and all but just really not my type. we've also fucked at this point, albeit only a couple of times.love is lost for me. i dont think ill end up getting it back anytime soon, despite my attempts at it.
>>31539414>a couple of months ago>2 yearsYou're not ready yet that's pretty obvious dude. You don't have to stop forever just until you get over your ex.
>>31539414According to some of the older anons on here, you should be married with kids already just like they were at 26. Or maybe 18
