be me>23m>black>working a typical 9-5>work with a 19f>latina>she loves to meow at me, pretend to grab at me, move my things, "scare me' and "be mean">asks if i workout>says she notices my arms everyday she comes in>asks if i speak spanish [un poco]>asks me how old i am again, in spanish>says she might ask me again but that she hasn't forgotten>hasn't directly told me how old she is but i learned it from a conversation she was having in spanish>says she thought she would've driven me away by now because of how hyper she is and how calm/serious i am>says that she likes that about me, then tells me to forget she said thati think it's quite obvious that she has a crush on me and i could say the feeling is mutual, as i do entertain her antics, but it could also be that i haven't felt the touch of a woman in 4 years. idk. i'm currently at a point in my life where i truly want to value my girlfriend/wife for the qualities she possesses, in addition to her beauty of course. i really value intelligence. the people who know me best respect me for my intellect and i make an effort to be intelligent/well spoken. i naturally have an inquisitive and introspective mind, so im constantly seeking out new knowledge or diving into ideas to great depths. this is my greatest concern with her, i know relatively nothing about her and vice versa but while working i am either visibly reading on my breaks or listening to an audiobook or lecture while working with my phone propped up in front of me. i haven't seen her engage in anything similar but these sort of behaviors is what i would expect from my s/o. im kind of stuck between a rock and a hard place. any adv?
anon you're black. 90%+ of women who flirt with you are fetishizing you. You're like an Asian woman at an anime convention in Wisconsin. Turn to Jesus Christ. resist the harlots.
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