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How do you act around your girl? Should I just be myself? Sometimes i troll which i realised starts to get immature, i have a match on badoo with a dream girl, but i dont know how to initiate. Should i write Hi how was your day i saw you like traveling, where have you been so far?
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>>31675365
when i see her i feel like what brown girls feel like when they see white men running. maybe we just need seperate countries unironically.
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>>31675365
I had a sex dream about Kamala last night. I think I have to vote for her now...
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>>31675365
no, don't just be yourself and NEVER open up to your gf or get too comfortable.

I know this sounds harsh, but after a couple of experiences with women, i realized women don't like men that open up or get too comfortable.

Just try to make her laugh and have a good time and you're good.
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>>31675378
>i feel like what brown girls feel like when they see white men running.
What?
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>>31676025
I have come to this conclusion as well.
I dont think it played a central role in the demise of our relationship but like a dork chud that I am, I talked too much about hitler and the inequality of men which caused a ton of unnecessary arguments which could have been energy saved.
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>>31677498
like im being controlled and ruled by forces that are at best indifferent to me or using me for their agenda. at best.
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>>31675365
If you can’t be yourself around a girl she’s not worth keeping
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>>31675365
There's like no one you should be able to be more yourself around.. if not for the fact it would be exhausting not to be for the amount of time you spend around that person.
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>>31675365
>Should I just be myself?
No, never.
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>>31675378
Just don’t be a chud and Madame President won’t punish you :)
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>>31675365
>Should I just be myself?
if you got a gf by being yourself, you should keep being yourself.
>i have a match on [not real life]
she's not your dream girl and you don't actually know anything about each other.
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>>31678516
she was put forth as a candidate by the same jewish establishment that put forth biden. i don't know how you could feel differently about either of them.
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>>31676025
>no, don't just be yourself and NEVER open up to your gf or get too comfortable.
you have really bad advice dude
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>>31678980
the jews used to use people that look like me as a puppet. my how things have changed.
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>>31675365
I act pretty relaxed and natural. Been together 10 years now. We joke around but both pretty mature too. Both emotionally available, open to each other
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>>31676025
as a femanon i second this, if you start pouring out your life story on week 1 she's gonna be weirded out and think you're trying to guilt trip her into staying, save that stuff for further on down the line. don't mention stuff girls hate like porn or hitler or any fringe chud ideology (dont let her bring politics up either, trust me itll be better that way). and whatever you do DONT be the guy who talks for 10 minutes while she nod-mhms, she's gonna get extremely bored of you. make sure the conversation is going back and forth. a hug at the end of the date is appropriate but only go for a kiss if shes leaning in a lot.
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>>31675365
>Hi how was your day i saw you like traveling
Hey I saw you like traveling. I'd love to go with you because if the plane crash, you being the last person I see would make me die happy
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>>31675365
Picrel had so much cringe cock in her mouth.
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>>31681559
and she'll still beat drumpf
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>>31681609
"It's time for us to roll up our sleeves and get to work". I heard her say this on and I felt really comfortable in Trump's victory. She literally speaks like HR. I don't even think she's bad I just want Trump to win at this point cause identity politics basically.
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>>31675365
This is an amazingly broad question. What you are asking and how you phrase it shows that you have about 0 experience, so let me explain.
Are yu 16 and dating another teen for the Summer with nothing in the future but adulthood?
Are you having a college fling where a ONS turned into 3 weeks?
Are you both devoutly religious and only dating to find a spouse?
These are all 'first time dating' scenarios with RADICALLY DIFFERENT ways to "live them out".
If you are just a young naïve virgin asking 'wut do?' then the answer is "it depends upon damn near everything else in your life"
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You already lost if you're already thinking about a woman you don't even know as "perfect".

A good negotiator's determined by his willingness to walk away at any moment.

You don't even know what the other person's selling, what price, what condition, and you want to buy already.

I'm myself when I'm with my woman. I hold some things in, like intrusive thoughts about other women's butts, why I feel sad, depressed, insecure, these are things that you keep in.

Being retarded, racist, homophobic, I don't keep that in or my overall mental state, tired, sad, angry. That's who I am.

Is it fine to be yourself? Sure. But don't go full retarded about it unless that's your thing. When you meet someone new you don't want to scare them away. Be cordial, act normal and hide your power level, but let them know what you're really like (again, in a subtle way, i.e you're an anime junky, don't say you jerk off to hentai, are a weaboo, and have a waifu, say you like anime and watch it regularly) Once you're in a relationship you can be more autistic, but generally don't lie about who you are to people you're interested in romantically.

You're selling yourself, don't say things that make you look bad.

You're probably going to get rejected a shitton of times before you find someone. Get used to it. Online dating is a game where all the odds are against you.
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>>31681609
Nobody believes this. What is that called, the psyop that sets the stage for bullshit by making it seem like it was going to happen in the first place? It’s late July and she’s never been anything but stupid.
>>31675365
Ignore her.



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