is it normal for women to start crying randomly? my gf does this sometimes and idk what that means, if I ask her she doesn't tell me anything is wrong she just says she wants to cry for a bit
Yeah it's fucking weird.
>>31677004it’s normal, especially before menses.
Normal in sad clown world.
>>31677004It’s normal for her yeah. Is it normal socially? Who cares. I’ve seen women who cry often multiple times a day, women who cry maybe once a week or month, and women who never cried in years. Of the three, the girl who cries the most is usually the most trustworthy. Because she regulates her emotions. Regulating =/= suppressing, it means using and managing. That’s what she does by crying, she lets it out.Tl;dr it’s no big deal and she is telling the truth. She prob cries at cute tiktoks or puppies or sad cat rescues lol
>>31677004foids are cute and should be protected at all costs :3
I do this as a guy.Obviously not around other people. It's weird if she does it publicly, but privately it's fine.I think everyone experiences anger/sadness/depression/etc. The majority of men vent it by fighting or yelling at people. The majority of women will cry.
>>31677153I honestly wish we could swap. I’m a man who hasn’t cried for several years and I always opt for moody ruminating or aggression. If my heart was an asshole then it’s been clogged up with constipated shit for a near decade. Must feel nice man, I’m jelly.
>>31677189same, i haven't cried since my first gf cheated on me back in highschool on my birthday
>>31677189>>31677267NTA, but why haven't y'all cried? Are y'all just constantly in the presence of someone else, or what?
>>31677288im >>31677267i just haven't. not when grandma died, not when i got cheated again, not when physical pain is real bad, not at the crushing despair of everyday life and nothing i want going right. i just can't. it would probably feel good but i just cant. only time tears happen is if im really really tired and yawn the right way or something, even then just a little. even when my parents die i probably won't. i'll feel bad but i cant cry anymore
>>31677288Crying is a reflex that men loseIt only has a useful function for women and childrenYou can feel/express/enjoy/hate/love/jerk off to any emotion under the sun with or without dry eyesHappy/sad/angry/masculine/depressed/lonely/young/old/successful/bitchmade/anxious/lame/retarded/cool men alike often never cry because of their physiology. The reflex is just gone in most men
>>31677288Fear, my friend. Constant state of fear and hypervigilance. I might look all stoic and unmoved, but for me at least it’s crystallized fear to the point it’s my default emotion. I’m numb even to that lol. So i dont even look scared outwardly. To me crying means being vulnerable emotionally, and the last time that happened was not a good time. A very bad time. So my mind cut the wires that connects my thinking from my feeling is all.
>>31677388Men cry about 2 times a month on average last I checked. Yes, only in a month. Crazy right?
>>31677596thats far too much. what do those pussies cry over?
>>31677620No clue, it was just the data from the survey. Men cry 2 a month, women 3.5 times a month, we’ll average it to 4. So yea women cry twice as much as men. But that part baffles me bro. 2 a month? Last time I cried was watching my mom die in front of me and that was years ago. They were bitter tears too. Like I was crying acid
> if I ask her she doesn't tell me anything is wrong she just says she wants to cry for a bitshe is crying because she realises she now has feelings for tyrone after he destroyed her rectum the night before and will be sad to lose you
>>31677596Where did you get your stats from? Big Tissue?I haven't cried since puberty probably. Just a guess, I don't even remember
>>31677693Medicalnewstoday. I’m not even convinced of it myself, i’m always sceptical of medical or psych blog sites
>>31677004Its probably just hormones, women get like that sometimes, sad out of nowhere and just need to cry. Take it as a complement she feels safe enough to cry around you honestly. Let her cry it out and ask if she wants anything after shes done for boyfreind points