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is it normal for women to start crying randomly? my gf does this sometimes and idk what that means, if I ask her she doesn't tell me anything is wrong she just says she wants to cry for a bit
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Yeah it's fucking weird.
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>>31677004
it’s normal, especially before menses.
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Normal in sad clown world.
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>>31677004
It’s normal for her yeah. Is it normal socially? Who cares. I’ve seen women who cry often multiple times a day, women who cry maybe once a week or month, and women who never cried in years. Of the three, the girl who cries the most is usually the most trustworthy. Because she regulates her emotions. Regulating =/= suppressing, it means using and managing. That’s what she does by crying, she lets it out.

Tl;dr it’s no big deal and she is telling the truth. She prob cries at cute tiktoks or puppies or sad cat rescues lol
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>>31677004
foids are cute and should be protected at all costs :3
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I do this as a guy.
Obviously not around other people. It's weird if she does it publicly, but privately it's fine.

I think everyone experiences anger/sadness/depression/etc.

The majority of men vent it by fighting or yelling at people. The majority of women will cry.
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>>31677153
I honestly wish we could swap. I’m a man who hasn’t cried for several years and I always opt for moody ruminating or aggression. If my heart was an asshole then it’s been clogged up with constipated shit for a near decade. Must feel nice man, I’m jelly.
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>>31677189
same, i haven't cried since my first gf cheated on me back in highschool on my birthday
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>>31677189
>>31677267
NTA, but why haven't y'all cried? Are y'all just constantly in the presence of someone else, or what?
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>>31677288
im >>31677267
i just haven't. not when grandma died, not when i got cheated again, not when physical pain is real bad, not at the crushing despair of everyday life and nothing i want going right. i just can't. it would probably feel good but i just cant. only time tears happen is if im really really tired and yawn the right way or something, even then just a little. even when my parents die i probably won't. i'll feel bad but i cant cry anymore
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>>31677288
Crying is a reflex that men lose
It only has a useful function for women and children
You can feel/express/enjoy/hate/love/jerk off to any emotion under the sun with or without dry eyes
Happy/sad/angry/masculine/depressed/lonely/young/old/successful/bitchmade/anxious/lame/retarded/cool men alike often never cry because of their physiology. The reflex is just gone in most men
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>>31677288
Fear, my friend. Constant state of fear and hypervigilance. I might look all stoic and unmoved, but for me at least it’s crystallized fear to the point it’s my default emotion. I’m numb even to that lol. So i dont even look scared outwardly. To me crying means being vulnerable emotionally, and the last time that happened was not a good time. A very bad time. So my mind cut the wires that connects my thinking from my feeling is all.
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>>31677388
Men cry about 2 times a month on average last I checked. Yes, only in a month. Crazy right?
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>>31677596
thats far too much. what do those pussies cry over?
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>>31677620
No clue, it was just the data from the survey. Men cry 2 a month, women 3.5 times a month, we’ll average it to 4. So yea women cry twice as much as men. But that part baffles me bro.

2 a month? Last time I cried was watching my mom die in front of me and that was years ago. They were bitter tears too. Like I was crying acid
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> if I ask her she doesn't tell me anything is wrong she just says she wants to cry for a bit

she is crying because she realises she now has feelings for tyrone after he destroyed her rectum the night before and will be sad to lose you
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>>31677596
Where did you get your stats from? Big Tissue?
I haven't cried since puberty probably. Just a guess, I don't even remember
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>>31677693
Medicalnewstoday. I’m not even convinced of it myself, i’m always sceptical of medical or psych blog sites
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>>31677004
Its probably just hormones, women get like that sometimes, sad out of nowhere and just need to cry. Take it as a complement she feels safe enough to cry around you honestly. Let her cry it out and ask if she wants anything after shes done for boyfreind points



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