was holding money me and friends pooled for a trip. i foolishly took a payday loan and moved the money to my main bank account to give to the loan people do my account wouldn’t go negative. out the money back before the trip so if i never told they’d never know. guilts eating at me. thinking ill pay them the amount i stole and apologize. i’m assuming this’ll end our friendship. when i apologize i want to tell them that they’ve been great friend that i’ve grown because of them and that it was nice knowing them. is that ok, or will come off as sympathy or pity seeking?
>>31679109If they never will know and your going to get it back before then just sit with it.But if this happens again theres gonna come a day you can’t pay it back. Your gonna fall short one day if it becomes a habit and that will truly be embarrassing.
>>31679109Also isn’t this literally what the bank does? If your friends use you as a bank you can do whatever tf u want. As long as they get it back at the agreed time.I wouldn’t tell anyone this because it would piss off people but its true.
>>31679109>i foolishly took a payday loan and moved the money to my main bank account to give to the loan people do my account wouldn’t go negativewhy though?
>>31679124yeah we’ve already been on the trip and everything, i still feel dirty i’ll definitely never do such a thing again, i violated their trust.
>>31679157i thought it was a bigger deal then it really was at the time not realizing ultimately it didn’t really matter.
>>31679157Maybe because> took a payday loan and moved the money to my main bank account to give to the loan people do my account wouldn’t go negativeIm not op but learn to read. You literally said the reason why in your response.
