Im still in contact with my ex - not as friends, but just sending messages sometimes. I dont care for her in that way anymore, and have zero delusions of being together. I still give her updates of my life from time to time however. Is this bad?
Why are you giving status updates to someone you say you aren’t even friends with? What do you want from the relationship?
>>31681697literally nothing. Im just a chatty person.
>>31681671Depends on how often you speak with them imo. I have maybe 1 text conversation with my exes a year, generally giving life updates.
>>31681729maybe a few mesages every 1-2 weeks
>>31681729>>31681697should i ask if she's interested in even being friends anymore?
>>31681671Maybe try making new friends instead
>>31681671i don't see why it would be bad.>>31681823if you ask her that question exactly as you've phrased it here, it's basically the same as telling her to never talk to you again.
>>31682393i mean we're still talking and catching up and shit.I dont have any expectations though. But if she wants to be FWB, why not. I dont care anymore. She's just some girl to me now.
bump
when I was with my ex, her previous ex would do this and she would respond in ostensible sincerity, but would tell me what a pathetic cuck she thought he was being for doing so.
>>31681671 she's leeching you to raise her ego, it's stupid I know, but that's women
>>31683767how? im just saying hi and shit
>>31685163you're giving her attention and updating her with news about you i.e. showing interest on her
>>31686863i do that to everyone thoughwtf? isnt that just normal people stuff?
>>31687915>isnt that just normal people stuff?no>i do that to everyone thoughyou should not
>>31687985its just normal stuff to message people now and then and ask how theyre doing no?
