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I have stopped porn easily enough, but I still masturbate. When I do, it's to imagining banging women which I know is infinitely better.

But I still feel like doing it robs me of the fullness of my potential. Like, when I abstain for awhile I am more outgoing, approach women and have better interactions, and perform better in bed.

I'm not an incel and can meet pretty women, and do a good job chatting them up. It feels like when I jerk off I empty my power, and I want to stop.

Have any of you stopped for good? How long? Any tips?
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>>31682083
pick up a hobby like drawing or music composition, steadily redirect thoughts of horniness to art stuff, itll be slow but eventually you will notice it less and less, continue to dive into and occasionally watch guide/tutorial vids and pick up bits of theory. its how Ive been cutting back on being a coomer. Ive reached a point where th dopamine of drawing and composing bad songs surpasses the one handed fun time.
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>>31682083
Why do you want to masturbate for evil?
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>>31682083
w-what's penis 2
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>>31682222
how long have you held off for and how long for the strongest urges to subside? what benefits have you noticed?
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>>31682263
>Why do you want to masturbate for evil?
i don't and i appreciate your framing of it as evil because it does feel sinister. i hate that i've gotten so used to it.
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>>31682357
visualization is a key gain from doing both, can think up tunes on the fly after only 3 months of it, can imagine cities and stories much easier with the acompanying mental images, my actual art skill amd composing skills still aint too good but everyone grows differently at these skills. as a plus when my more talented aquaintances strike up convos I can really connect bringing up getting into the hobby and asking for further advice. though the best benifit has been much more... focus I guess is a good way to put it, when I really get into my hobbies can go for hours. and on the main topic ive been the longest fap free at over a month now. it doesnt have to be art and musoc by the way, could always become a code monkey or a gym bro, or any number of fullfilling paths to fill in the time yad normally waste coomin. I dont promise super powers, just a better outlook on your limited time here, slightly better mental health, and fun.
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>>31682083
I'm a Christian and I believe that Jesus Christ is the son of God. I've been praying to him to take away this masturbation habit of mine.
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>>31682772
>I'm a Christian and I believe that Jesus Christ is the son of God.
Same here, brother.

>I've been praying to him to take away this masturbation habit of mine.
How has it been going?
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>>31682772
>>31682775
Watch this brothers.
https://youtube.com/watch?v=OOQxdpPd_PI&pp=ygUVU2VsZiBhYnVzZSBvcnRob2RveHkg
inspiring advice
https://youtube.com/watch?v=u_5ps265GcU&pp=ygUjT3J0aG9kb3h5IHBvcm4gYWRkaWN0aW9uIGFudGlvY2hpYW4%3D
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>>31683778
>Watch this brothers.
>https://youtube.com/watch?v=OOQxdpPd_PI&pp=ygUVU2VsZiBhYnVzZSBvcnRob2RveHkg [Embed]
>inspiring advice
>https://youtube.com/watch?v=u_5ps265GcU&pp=ygUjT3J0aG9kb3h5IHBvcm4gYWRkaWN0aW9uIGFudGlvY2hpYW4%3D [Embed]
God bless. I'll keep you in my prayers
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>>31685316
Same to you anon. May you be blessed.



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