signs a girl likes you?>walking into walmart>milf walks outside and caught her looking at me>smiles and keeps looking straight forward while i semi stare at herive been feeling a lot more confident lately and also i've been looking better. What signs are there that a girl likes you? i'm 5'7 so women dont often show interest and i wanna make the most of it. I don't really consider myself to be ugly but maybe like a 5-6 but im out of college and getting older while having no female friends so everyday that goes by there's less and less chances to actually get with girls
>>31683151Ur the depressed guy whos on the sauce.
>>31684568i took sarms for a while but i stopped last year because my mental health was so bad and im not really depressed these days
>>31683151How old are you?
>>3168497224 which also sucks because im in a weird age bracket where im getting too old for college girls but too young for older girls
>>31683151if she passively gives you opportunities>being near you so you can approach>asking for help with shopping "can you reach this for me">talking to you then generally you're in like flint
>>31685053what do you do to be approachable with women? I feel like i have a very aggressive looking netural face
>>31685059my honest and most effective answers have been NoFap + talking to people. when you're in a talkative, social mood you'll naturally be approachable. if there's no one to talk to, imagine flirting with a woman while you're in your car on your way there (but pay attention to the road)i'm also somewhat tall and average looking or better
>>31685075i try nofap but the longest ive ever gone has been like 3 months. It could be height for me but i know guys who are like 5'4,5'5 and 5'6 with really good girlfriends so it cant be that. I think i just put off a vibe with me thats weird and women dont wanna be around it. Like i look like some pitbull then people hear me talk and realize im goofy and autistic
>>31685091>3 monthsthat's long enough, some of my best results have been after a few weeks. and yeah i generally have the pit bull look and it's only when i'm in a loose and goofy mood that people go "oh, he's cool"so it's all about the mood you walk around in. affirmations, visualization of good things happening, whatever you can do to get yourself in a loose and jolly mood: Think Ebenezer Scrooge when he wakes up on Christmas morning. you'll be approachable.
>>31684980Honestly you look older I thought you were late 20s or early 30s. But age really isn’t a factor to a lot of women. All the girls at my last job (retail) in serious relationship were early 20s but dating older men.
>>31685217would it be weird if i dated a 20 year old? i feel like im too old but im unsure
>>31685224Nope it all depends if the girl is willing to give you a chance or not, outside of twitter most are willing unless you are out of shape or balding or clearly pushing late 30s. Also are you a incel or just ona dry spell you look decent.
>>31685239i guess an incel? idk. I'm not a virgin but have never had a girlfriend. I struggled with depression and anxiety a lot throughout my life so it made having relationships hard but ive gotten a lot better recently
>>31685254How did you lose your virginity then dating app, club/bar? I’m a little older and finally starting to socialize more and work out so I’m improving too.
>>31685261a club. I've never had any luck on dating apps. I looked to cold approach women and i went on a bunch of dates last year. It works despite what people will tell you girls won't scream rape because you said they were cute and wanted their number the worst i've gotten was an tense "i have a boyfriend" and one girl pretended not to know english. This is what i looked like last year and i was pretty trunt up all the time so if every 2 girls out of 10 said yes i think other guys have a good chance
>>31685271Sarms? You went alone to the club or you had friends you could ask them if they could set you up with other women. I’ve seen much less attractive people get play on dating apps what pictures did you use?
>>31685286Yeah. Sarms kinda ruined my life so i stopped taking them. Like i lived a pretty rough life but if i didnt take sams at around 20 years old i would probably have had a really normal experience in my early 20s with women. The drugs just trunt me up like crazy like i was some psyco freak. >You went alone to the club or you had friends you could ask them if they could set you up with other womenI mean i went with friends and i just ended up getting lucky. It's just one of those things that happens like there was another time i almosted hooked up with this average maybe like 6/10 college white girl. We were at a club and she just started dancing near me then we started dancing together and she started twerking on me. I had to leave her to go find my drunk buddy i hadn't seen but its kinda like that you just look good and have a fun time and a girl kinda notices that and you get lucky
>>31684980>24 which also sucks dude if you can complain about being 24 you can complain about anything. you're in great shape, in the prime of your life, and at a perfect age to meet women. from what i've seen ITT the first problem is your mindset. i don't mean to come down hard on you but it's a bit frustrating to see someone with this much going for him and all he can think about is how bad things are
>>31685304Hmm seems you got it all together once you stay away from drugs/steroids bro. I’m still a incel but it’s because I don’t socialize and don’t really have any friends, but I’m working on it.
>>31685286dude i've tried like every dating app and i've never had any good results. I went out on a date with like this 8 maybe even 9/10 italian girl who looked like one of those gym ig models and had a great time and i met a girl on tinder and setup. She showed up way fatter than i could believe, peeked into the resturant to see me then left and hopped back in her car. So i got like stood up by a 2 from a dating app and had a great time with a 9 because i walked up in person
>>31685334Yeah, i mean i still smoke weed and im high rn typing all of this and i do other psychedelic drugs but they've helped me calm down so much. I have a good high paying career, a nice car and a generally good life but that's all pretty new to me i'd say the first 20 years on earth for me were just abuse, pain, suffering, depression and fear
>>31685334>because I don’t socialize and don’t really have any friendsDude i literally walk up and talk to people about whatever like i work at a dealership and just asked like almost every person i came across if they play elden ring and made like 5 friends its not hard yoou think about it and plan it out too much and once you do that you're dead
>>31685329how can i meet women though? i dont want a bop from some club
>>31685353Keep working at it bro, I’m working hard to get where you are at currently. Although I have started escortmaxxing lately and it’s kinda nice.
>>31685360I’m a weirdo bro, I can talk to my coworkers and stuff but they never reach out to me to go out or anything like that.
>>31685373i'm a weirdo too and people invite me out to things its gotta be something else about you. Like i had a guy at work almost harass me for being weird but he still wanted me to go to his birthday party and got really mad when i stopped talking to him. Like stop trying to not be weird that just makes it worse. just own the fact that you are autistic and some people will be attracted to that
>>31685365this is a google-able question. you're asking me to do homework for you. approach it like someone who gets shit done and keep at it, find what works for you. but complaining on 4chan is definitely going to lead to frustration and bewilderment
>>31685381I guess dude although since I’m been losing weight and lifting I have been treated a bit better by people.
>>31685396and they'll also continue to do so. The better you look the better people treat you. There's been studies about how attractive people are more likely to get a job
>>31685402yeah the halo effect is just an established scientific truth at this point. i don't know why it bums people out. why is it not motivating to get in great shape and look incredible?
