How do i stop watching porn? Its getting too dark for me. I want to stop and be productive but when the urge hits i literally start to salivate and nothing else matters. Im into shit now that i would have never been into b4 its scary. Help please.
>>31687789How about you focus less on "not doing something" and more on "doing something"?Porn isn't as bad as some weirdos on here continuously claim.
>>31687804That doesnt really help me
>>31687816You want to be "productive", but you don't even have a vague concept of what you even want to do.Go clean your room, sort your shit, toss out old stuff, look for a job. All of that is literally more productive than continuing to ponder for hours and days how to stop yourself from spending 10 minutes to rub one out.You are asking yourself the wrong questions. You're not a loser because you jack off. You are a loser AND jack off.You failing to fix your shit is not caused by peeling off 10 minutes of your day to bust a nut in a tissue.
>>31687867Thats alot of assumptions there my guy. I literally cant function when the feeling hits me. Thats the problem. All common sense is gone.
>>31687789Pretty easy, you just stop. Go outside, touch grass, get some sun on your chest./endthread
>>31687892>Thats alot of assumptions there my guy.I didn't hear a "no, I actually have my shit together".>All common sense is gone.Then go jack off and then be productive.
The only time i actually feel like im safe from it is when i hand all my electronics over to a friend. No internet access. But even then i get wild night time emmissions.
>>31687900Are you you even reading my posts you fucking mong? I clearly say that common sense goes out the window. Why the fuck would i want to jack off if that happens. Im developing too many fucked up fetishes.
>>31687789I'd say masturbate until it becomes painful. I did that once, where my dick was all chaffed and shit and even bleeding at some parts.. I didn't feel like masturbating for a good long while.
>>31687916I dont do it that often. But when i do this does happen sometimes. Death grip i guess idk. It feels kinda good. Sometimes i want to slice it with a knife just so i cant touch it for a few weeks.
>>31687789Get off of the internet at least for a month because urges start from a video of a girl in bikkini on any social media then more and more and you'll end up on porn site. Just say no when you see the first trigger. spend time with your family that is really underrated fr. make your self busy with some nature activity just lay on the grass see the ant going to its nest smell the leaf. play you used to do as a kid just punch the air it will randomly make you laugh and thats pure joy. meditation and fixed sleep routine will help. Good Luckdon't listen to someone who says porn is good it isn't. if your religious see this at a sin and if your atheist just realize that you are the luckiest one alive 1 in 250million get the chace to see this world to breathe to feel the nature don't waste it on satisfying your genitals it will never be satisfied. focus on dream or something you like cause at the end you can say i really lived my life to 100% I don't regret any moment of my life. Good Luck Mate
>>31687906Then fucking chemically castrate yourself, I'm sure that'll turn you into an alpha chad.Or better yet: Wear one of those cuck cages. It literally stops you from masturbating, and I'm sure being blueballed will just magically solve your problems. Give the key to some hoe as well. You know: As an accountability partner ;)
>>31687972Your fucking wierd bro stop triggering me ill spend all day gooning again
>>31687892You clearly dont actually want help or to stop watching porn.
>>31687789Get a girlfriend I used to be a khhv incel you would fap to (extremely fucked up) porn at least 3-5 times every day for probably like 6 years. But as soon as I actually cuddled (not even sex) with a girl (not a prostitute) and felt real physical intimacy for the first time, all my desire for porn instantly disappeared.
>>31687789serious answer is get your ADD diagnosis and get on adderall and mental health guidance.Porn "addiction" is a symptom of having low executive function which generally occurs with people with ADD.though it does seem like you don't want to change and for that it's gotta come within, you must obviously like something about your current lifestyle, probably the comfort and the change will make you vulnerable. The only thing I gotta say to that is that you're vulnerable right now and it comes from the weakness you're cultivating.good luck bro
>>31687804Porn is awful for you. It like telling someone to just stop eating sugar. It's hard not to since porn hijacks a natural reward system within us. But reality is it's easy to drop porn since it smindset that keeps us hooked. Porn and masturbation as a combo only "feels good" if you're using it once every five days or under. Past that it feels like not much other than cumming.Reality is porn is terrible for our minds. Use your common sense, your brain is being tricked into thinking it's got more partners and seen more women naked than all of your ancestors put together. That can't be right for our brains.Masturbation is a different thing altogether and people often conflate it with porn. Masturbation isn't inherently bad and people have been doing it for a long time. It is mindless pleasure though so it's best to keep it to a minimum, but it's not harmful like porn.
>>31688700Got a peer reviewed study to back this up? Hard mode: no author with 'stein' in their name
I found this total smokeshow a few months ago. Like a good coomer I looked up her personal social medias. Turns out she is actually married to a porn guy. Wasn't hard to find either page because they tagged themselves. Guy does scenes with her and other guys. Guy has kids from previous marriage and on their personal pages their are family outings to disneyland, the zoo, birthday parties, and stuff like that. On one hand she isn't lying when she does stepmom videos because she is a stepmom. On the other hand what the hell are they doing to their family. Out of disgust I am a coomer no more. Good luck on your journey.
>>31688742It's called my life experience
>>31687804Fuck you kike
>>31688675I do have an add diagnoses but i dont take meds.
>>31689418You needs meds and guidance at the same time, if you just take the meds and you don't have real want to change you'll just spend all day masturbating still.It's *highly* unlikely you're gonna WILL POWER or DISCPLINE yourself out of this, your dopamine receptors are not normal and your reward system has a lotta conflicts with the modern world. Not that it can't be done but there's no reason to do it.When you get meds and guidance you'll be in an environment where you can cultivate that displine and will power that you want and eventually you'll be self sufficient without all that stuff.
