Matched with a girl on tinder, mid to late June iirc, said she explicitly was only looking for friends, we hung out, smoked weed and drank together a few times.Have since moved slightly further away, but we still text from time to time, I've started to catch feelings for her, is it over before it started? Should I try playing the long game and getting closer? Should I just tell her upfront?Pic is a graph i made to stop myself overworrying, since I have a really bad issue with that when it comes to this sort of stuff.
>>31689894Also don't comment on my abysmal handwriting, I know it's bad, it's always been bad, and it takes an unreal amount of effort to make it half decent
>>31689899I like your graph. i actually genuinely suggest other people do this. it helps me conceptualize my problems and tasks i need to do and stuff. I don’t have any grill advice for you OP but keep up thinking rationally like this, it’s a sign of strength not to let your emotions consume you.
>>31689894I don't read app-addled threads.
>>31689906Thanks, maybe cringey but I got the idea after hearing Sam Hyde talk about outcome independence
>>31689949if it helps you fuck the cringecringe is a concept made up by internet nerds to feel better about themselves
>>31689894If you tell her and she's not interested will you really miss texting her? At this point all you are doing is texting. How often do you even text. She could easily be texting with you because she wants you to ask her. I say ask her because you have nothing to lose except some words on your phone.
>>31690129You’re probably right, but what to say, something like “I really like spending time with you, I just wanted to know if we can ever be more than friends?” Ill try and type something good, then slam a couple shots for confidence, hit send, then go to bed, good idea?
Bumping, next day, need a rough idea of what to say, or should i just wing it entirely?
it's tinder there is no long gameyou're applying ideas older than you to systems that have totally transformed to make those ideas obsoleteyou're asking the equivalent of like, how to degauss your OLED screen
>>31689894>is it over before it started?You were friend-zoned before you even met her. You know what you were signing up for.
UPDATE:"Never say never"She explicitly said she wants to meet me again next time in around, which should be around early August, so that gives me hope.
>>31693945also she said me and her should bully kids on roblox together sometime
>>31689894>said she explicitly was only looking for friendsSure that she didn't mean she was only looking for a new orbiter?Near as I can tell you're over and done before it even started...
